₦airaland Forum

tundebj: dia seem to b some frustration some where. Ar u sur all is well? It wl help if u just let go. U realy deserve a beter life

Akalia: Another point is that some of such ladies act miss independent,they don't need a man.some of them ve bent sexual oreintation....Asikwana na asim!!!

The question is: Who is running away from who?
Are guys running away from "independent"(relative term by the way) women OR the so-called independent women
are the ones running away from guys.

With the harsh economic reality of Nigeria, everyone is on gold-digging expedition..men and women.
A financially secure woman is looking for a man who can complement her effort. A successful man is looking for
his better half. Independent and successful are like two captains in a ship. Something is going to give.

So successful men look for decent women who can zip their mouth . The usually pompous and arrogant
independent women turn around and blame men for their predicament when their biological clock's battery
is at critical level.

Honestly, I have not met any financially independent woman in Nigeria. Don't let those flashy cars fool you.
The closer you get, the more they want to siphon what is left in your account. May be to their mates, they
are financially independent because they have house, car(s), business. But if you look close enough, you will
see that they are leeching off of some man somewhere. Do you really believe that Linda Ikeji, et al. are financially
independent in the real sense of it? Come on!

By the way, I still think marriage for a typical Nigerian woman is mostly an ego thing.

GeneralShepherd: My idea of romantic love...

My idea of love is to be with a woman I can call my friend!
A woman I can trust and swear for.
A woman that can never betray the trust I have for her.
A woman I can have misunderstandings with now and laugh the next minute with.
A woman I can play FIFA14 or FIFA whatever year with!
A woman that I look forward to seeing after a hard day's job.
A woman I can stay up all night just to watch her sleep.
A woman I can wake up with kisses everyday for the rest of my life and she would still be excited about it 50 years from now
A woman I can show my weaknesses to without fear of being ridiculed!

A woman I can call my Ada Ada,

A woman I can cook with,the angelic mother of my unborn kids

I could go on and on but the truth is that love is an illusion!!

I tried it and I was completely shattered when the girl that inspired love in me slept with my best friend without remorse.

Now I can never believe in love,I just respect women now not love them!

Kairoseki77: Take it from someone that spends a lot of time America, racism is back with a VENGEANCE!

They don't try to hide it at all anymore. People in public will give you mean looks, call your children n*ggers in school, they call the President disgusting names. Every online news article is filled with comments from open, unashamed racists. And the society no longer cares.

BTW - Nigerians are the most educated immigrant group in the US! Higher academic achievement than Britons, Germans, Chinese, etc, etc. EVEN MORE EDUCATED THAN THE AMERICAN WHITES!

"According to 2006 census data, 37 percent of Nigerians in the U.S. had bachelor's degrees, 17 percent held master's degrees and 4 percent had doctorates. In contrast, the same census data showed only 19 percent of white Americans had bachelor’s degrees, 8 percent held master’s degrees and only 1 percent held doctorates, the paper reports."

I don't want to include the source for fear of the anti spam bot.

stillwater: The point is such a man should not feel embarrassed when the wife comes looking for him, since he has thrown all decorum out of the window.

bluerange: lt depends on the prevailing circumstance but that Psalm 109, l pray l may not be pushed to use it again because the prevlous end result was very nasty. None of the three people it was used to fight against their fraudulent activities is allve TODAY!

Vladm: Psalm 109, i use it mostly in d nite

Babe2sure: Whao! I have learnt something from this thread- The powerful effect of psalm 109.
I will start using it for prayers,most especially in the night.Cos,I need them to be killed too!

stillwater: So the governor was not embarrassed when he basked in the ambiance of small girls, it was until the wife turned up, he got embarrassed? And Chime would call himself a christian, rotflmao!

cKaiser: Even a whole Nwafor dey do this kain "business". Na God go save us for Lagos ooo

mansys91: one of the finest actors in nigeria( i mean professionally): Not physically?


, the first nigerian woman to appear on opera Winfreys show. OK, Oprah you mean.,

done good international movies, examples?

one of the first actors to get a solid endorsement(lux) so?,

the question is what is special about u? Don't insult God!

tpacalipse: I believed in it and I paid before. Then I stopped believing in it and refused to pay. Guess what? I have never seen any changes in anything. I progress gradually just as it used to be when I was paying. Though I still pay some kinds of money in church these days, even sometimes if what I pay is 10 percent of my income, I will never call it tithe.

As for the motive? Look at it this way; I attend my church every time I have to be there and these are the things I enjoy:
1. The church runs on generator for power all the times, and this cost money.
2. It costs money to get the church premises cleaned all the time.
3. It costs money to maintain a lot of gadgets in the church
4. It costs money to pay salaries to those who work at the church, e.g. the guy who plays the keyboard and the priests.
5. It costs money to do a little charity work.

These are my motives for paying some money at church.

Now, I do not see my God as a money doubler!

rudedough: Scientific Logic: is the wall wet? (Yes/No)
Man goes to wall, touch it, says yes the wall is wet.

Religious Logic: Who is God?
Omini-present, Omini-potent, awesome, forgiving, strong, mighty, blah blah bhla.

Where is he? In heaven

Where is heaven? Far up

Scientists went as far as Mars, no sign of God.

So where the hell is God? You'll see him when you die.

Dead people don't talk, so who's to confirm his existence?

Never mind, just pay your tithes and offering and you'll have a place in his kingdom.

I wonder how Christians buy these $hits

mekaboy: They can't do anything. They r insignificant, they are of no use, no vision, no mission. They are living in fantasy hoping that they will have a biafran nation where they will become governors, commisioners, ministers etc because they fought for it. And the whole igbos will be paying monthly tax to them. If they are being killed by soldiers, uwazurike should be the one to blame for deceiving them. He shld tell them to go and contributing positively to the society.

I know they r hoping that one day they will be recognized and granted amnesty. While they r waiting more of them will die. So uwazurike shld be bold enough to tell them the war is over. They shld stop living in the past.

greatgod2012: But how were they able to adjourn the case whey they had ran away for their lives? Is it after the hoodlums left or what?

chineloSA: China is ahead of Australia and Canada in terms of GDP.
But Australia and Canada are ahead of China in terms of HDI ( Human development Index ).

People in Australia and Canada live a better life, and different standard of living as compared to people in China regardless of the size of the economy oo .

The Economy may have increased in size, but there may have been slight change or no change in HDI

SO ITS POSSIBLE PEOPLE. Be optimistic for once.