A very frightening experience indeed!! My heart was in my mouth all through the read! Truck driving is supposed to be enjoyable and filled with adventure but in Nigeria it's filled with trauma! Keep safe and godspeed...
Many comments here shows our level of development! Science is about finding out things and investigating how things are and what makes them the way they are and how humans can benefit from it! Most minds here never wonder how the phone in their palms came to exist, they just bought it, and typing insult to the same science that brought the phone to them! Our minds are still far behind
CockPit: Consent ke. I should have done the vasectomy 4 years earlier.
Na waaaaa ooooohhh! For me, it's not the labor pains, just that emotional input surrounding bringing up children! People overlook it but it's a very serious matter! If not balanced, one can go mad! I was praying for two, but when I had the first I told myself it's ok...but you know women!
CockPit: Yes. I was in the labor room once and I went for vasectomy afterwards.
No more kids for me.
Did you get her consent before vasectomy? Women are flick o, she fit begin worry you for baby...and blame you for doing what you did! She go tell you say na you dey do the labor?
It's better than the shameful acts most of them perpetuate! Their palaces became office of royal 419! Someone tells you they have a project and the chief is in possession of the project drawings...soon enough you're taken to the palace and you meet him, soon enough you're told traditional rites have to be met and money and other stuff are involved...that's when the milking starts!
emmanuefidegnon: Fake Hair, Makeup, Fake extension, etc...Why pastor dnt tell is wrong ?
God has told us clearly how to remain moderate in our attires in the Bible, anyone likes let her or him wear banana leaves to church and justify it by quoting hundreds of passages from scripture, still the final just judgement will not be from man but from God our maker....
Elzazzi: I will try and make this brief and please ignore the errors.
I was with my close friend yesterday evening. While we were chilling together, a call came in on his phone. it was his cousin that called telling what had happened and also seeking his advice. Now this is what happened, this his cousin has been dating this lady for about a year I think and he has already proposed to her and even took her to his parents and siblings. He also visited the lady family and did some introduction. Now April this year has been chosen for the wedding ceremony proper and a date has been fixed. This is where trouble started.
My friend cousin created a WhatsApp group for his wedding ceremony, he added all his friends and some of his classmates to this group so they can join hands and make his wedding day memorable. He posted his wedding IV to the group and some pictures of him and the lady, one of his old time classmate recognized her and immediately called him for a private meeting for urgent discussions.
He visited him the next day and this guy told him everything about his fiancée. How she used to be a stripper in Lagos clubs years back and how he and his friends had wild 3some with her. She used to base in Lagos as a call girl but relocated to Abuja and that’s where she met my friend cousin. After all these revelation this guy was in deep pain as he had already gone far with the weeding preparations. Of course his old time classmate advised him not to marry her, but this guy loves her so much and he is in a big dilemma of what to do next. As he thinking of leaving the country and go start life with her elsewhere.
Can such past truly be overlooked?
After my friend explained everything to me, I was just short of words but of course I advised he shouldn’t marry her. What advice would you give him in such a situation my fellow Nlanders ?
People vary in their ability to absorb some tough life's shots. The ball is in his court, if he goes ahead with the wedding fine, but I'll advise he does medical checks to determine her fertility and other statuses If also he can bear the name calling, the peer and parental pressure and get real repentance and dedication from the girl, few years hence no one will find time to talk about it again. Cooperation from the lady is key. I once mentioned that in every town or village there's always the girl that every guy sleeps with, even strangers take turns on her, well, I know two of these kind, and I can tell you they married from the village and their husbands were adamant even when everyone was against the marriage! This was about 27 years ago today if anyone asks , no one can even bother...life has taken all the negative comments away!!
DMerciful: Do you know the massive cost of maintaining an airport to standard esp when its not generating revenue?
Who would travel there in 5yrs time?
Still, I believe the government of the state can and should liase with other states around to patronize them and that should cushion some maintenance costs!
Probably was looking to the future. If well maintained, who knows, 5-10 years hence they'll appreciate it was built so "cheap" and the benefits are now numerous!
WantsandMore: yeah I understand but sometimes circumstances beyond taking advantage of a tenant may arise & the landlord may need the space, are they compensated?
You have a point! It's happened to a friend of mine before. He took time to really Behind up the one bedroom apartment, landlord was stunned! Not so long after he began to reject rent from my friend and asked him to leave. When my friend left, landlord son jumped in! Later we learned he had made his father push my friend out cos of aesthetic! No compensation for all the good things fixed o!
Senator Dino Melaye has reacted to a video where residents of Ikota Housing estate in Ajah, Lagos state, converged for prayers over the faulty transformer in their area.
Sharing the video on his social media page, Melaye wrote:
Dino asking as though he's not among those who destroyed Nigeria!! He can put up the developmental projects he left behind in his constituency side by side with the video let's see
I'm guessing someone is trying to play on the collective sympathy of Nigerians and cash out... Please it must be thoroughly investigated. The victim has a phone, makes videos, takes pictures, shows his "bullet riddled car" with a foot in boots close to it yet he says he doesn't know where he is! How did he find his way back to the car? He's shoeless yet someone wearing shoes stands by his abandoned car...he has no one to call but can upload the video and pictures! Please we are already stressed with the situation, let it not be a means to an end o!
lordnkem000: When they complain 1st please wait and listen to the other side of the story because e get way👇
I Didn't Trick Adaobi to Umuahia, I Gave Her N40k After Hook-up but She Demanded for N150k - Orjiako Emmanuel Finally Speaks up😳
Adaobi Ebere has deactivated her account after making the huge accusations against Orjiako Emmanuel . I have tried to call her and she refused to take it.
From my findings it was a hookup which she was aiming for 150k , the young man said he woke her up in the morning when he was to leave for an appointment and gave her 40k , she now requested for 150k because of her rent. He asked her to go with what he gave her they will sort the rest over the 📱.
This is her phone number 0810 275 4825 All efforts to reach her so that I will hear from her directly and ask her a few questions was not successful as she has kept declining the calls.
Boy! Your mom will be proud of you! Laying babes and paying 2 times the minimum wage for few hours of fun! Had you spared your mum that money to add more seasoning to her soup, I'm sure she would have blessed you mighty! Anyway, what do I know??
Odingo1: Even when I have proven everything, it didn’t start of a sudden but immediately after marriage, if I go out is a problem and always suspecting, she said she cannot trust anyone. Should I stop my contract business because of her.
Women love dramatics! If you're quiet they rile you, if you're trouble, they complain, you do, they shout, you don't do, they still worry, for me, I don't worry about proving anything anymore....I focus on training my children
If he had access to internet and could post on YouTube then he's not lost! How did he get the picture of the car? There's a boot showing in the picture of the car yet he's in the bush shoeless.... Let's stop playing with issues like this so it doesn't become a joke to others when it really happens!!
Kobicove: In the first instance why would a reasonable adult seek advise from a mere 20 year old... don't care if he has supernatural powers
What does he even know about life at that age?
It's shocking indeed! How can a woman who probably can birth him be soooooo foolish as to believe he can "solve" her problems? Women!! Bible said it and that's why they're not permitted to lead in Church, that they were first to be deceived! They're yet to still learn their lesson, and I'm wondering if they ever will!! Sad!!