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Schoolshooter:
Multiple expenses for the husband


He go day regret y he knack him wife



No born if you no get money

If you say this they will say you don't want their progress!

id4sho:
Now, listen and listen good!!!
Secretly have all photocopies of all landed assets of your father. This woman will run with everything. We experienced this in my family, I had to fight from 2016 till now to recover some. Most step mothers are evil and after wealth. It's few men that know their tactics. Act fast

Great advice!!

UYEMDO35:
I go deal with her mercilessly...... She dey look for all means to born for my father so that she can claim entitlement.

Let nature do the dealing with, you're out of the house already so move on with your life! Develop yourself and let Nature show you to the world! Leave revenge for God.

mariahAngel:
It's not totally your fault.
Your mother manipulated you into doing it, which wasn't right.
You're her child, and your happiness should've mattered to her the most.

Unfortunately "mother's love" won the day! The mother loved him so much she manipulated him into a life long condition!
Too bad!

Eastcoastboy:
Your eyes are sharp.

thanks boss.
The thing follow me from childhood

Eastcoastboy:
Whenever I discuss with someone that their English is bad, I tend to make blunders.

But if I meet someone that speaks so well, I tend to speak so well too.

Funny that in my case I see typos/spelling mistakes long before I start reading a sentence!

I don't enjoy being made to sit at weddings or gatherings I'll always find my way out, feels like I'm restricted. If not for wifey, I'll rather just show my face to celebrant and make sure I'm seen, then I vanish!

Lance008:
Many Na hot temper
Been provoked

True! It's happened to me in 2015! Will tell the story soon...16 hours of emotional and physical torment...no part 2

Candidlady:
Men and their stupid entitleMENt MENtality

Ihave seen people build houses or even leave the country without their parents knowing


Yaro you are just a friend!! Get that into your shallow brain

So you fed him... Must we know.. Ubanka


Atleast he invited you.. You should be grateful..

Well done madam!! If you're wife to OP, I'm pretty sure you will tell him not to attend the opening of the house! That's women for you, once it doesn't affect you, you're a great adviser! Once it touches you then you're bitter!!

madone:
Don't follow the words of the first guy that commented oo. It's never true nd the conditions differs. A woman can open up to you because she just needs to air her mind, she needs someone to talk to and she wants to sample opinions. Or she dont want to talk to her blood relations so she sees you as a closer person who will not judge her.
I have them as friends and I am talking from experience. Be the good man she knows. Show her that the world still have hope woth good men like you.
Forget attraction and treat her like a sister

Great advice, but let me say, women are very easily drawn to comfort, affection and easily give in to se.x before you know it!
Kindly distance yourself from her QUICK, else when bubble burst you will find your standing in motion and she will blame you and tell the world you toasted her!
People will say you took advantage of her, no one will believe you except your ancestors!
If you go ahead, and at any time you want to break, she will show you deep colors you'll never believe existed! Stay far from married woman!!

Exceed15:
The reverse may be the case... The man must have told her severally to pack out but stubbornly remain to frustrate him. Did u read how held on to the key?NO MAN LEAVES A PEACEFUL WOMAN.

That's another angle...you may be right!!

You see the woman? Tomorrow, not next tomorrow, she will open legs for that man, get pregnant and while suffering she will smile and say, "he will change, he loves me, I don't want to leave because of the children"
So, neighbours can separate them tonight, she's going back by morning... cycle continues!

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Though she might have a silly reason cos of her career, i would like you to hear this.
It is not the number of children that matter but your emotional, ethical and finanancial capacity... and if you're already rich then consider your emotional and ethical capacity.
Now the kids are young they're cute and cuddly, once they're of teenage years know that you're going to be challenged with their upbringing and things that go with it.
It's a herculean task I assure you as life is full of challenges irrespective of your financial standing...
Be wise, maintain the 2 you have and give them the best of yourself especially! Cheers

Nice2023:
The writer has not seen anything at all.

He has been looking at his feet since he was born... he has not seen anything at all yet...

DavidEsq:
Build a spare parts box at home.

You just gave me idea o!! Thanks!!

I'm grateful now for being curious when I was very young and had started driving. I asked questions and got intimate with car engines, though it was the days of Peugeot 504 but I understood alot and whenever the car has issues I stay with the mechanic and learned the names of all parts of the engine.
Now, no matter what happens, I've a bit of idea even if the mechanic finalizes his diagnosis. Car owners should try to learn a bir about some faults... you may not fix it yourself but you might contribute to diminish most guesswork of these roadside mechanics! At least, to an extent.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Change location, take a weekend trip with her out of your station... run on the beach lie carelessly on the sand scream at the sea and punch the air go to a club and dance freely... just let your body move freely...

pyyxxaro:
LIME would soon become expensive, I thought it was CREST normally 🙄

Hehehe... shows your age, in the mid 80s to early 90s Krest was the "contraceptive"!!!

Kevinjap:
Haaaa people get mind o

I'm shocked as to how someone can unalive him or herself! Human being o! Chooiii

We4all:
You can use the salary to marry 2 wives.

And have 22 children ... 2 soccer teams!

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Chat on 08071782910 thanks

God1000:
I just feel like this POPE is not representing Christians well, but only God can judge us

Check the bible well, is there anyone titled POPE?
He reps himself and his sheep not Christianity of the bible!

Axis313:
Lol
If by any chance she fall on him,it will be like killing an insect with sledge hammer

Squashing or even squishing and ant! Killing sounds merciful!

Axis313:
She should be arrested for not having any iota of pity on the innocent ladder..
Ha!with that weight.

Oh my days! Did you consider the man holding up the ladder??

bigiyaro:
.....see how terriosts are looking forward to the ceasefire like the reward of thier 77 virgins in aljannah.

To think that they said martydom was like life to the Israeli! The said for them death is as desired as life is desired by Israeli! How can a human think like that??

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

When I was going for my wife, I was prepared to say "yes it's true" if they had said the sky is usually green color....
Doesn't mean I don't know the reality.
One occasion I was meeting her grandmother for the first time I was offered water to drink, even though I had just drank a river from the hotel, I had to find space to drink hers!
You should have collected even if it were a slice!

GloriousGbola:
Sorry it's an oversight - babe.

Fixed it for you.

Farfalla has a long number of years before she transitions to matron

Ok babe, gotcha!

Farfalla:
My moniker clearly indicates "f".
I was referred to as "bro" the other day and now I am a "Sir"?
In the name of Jesus, I bind that spirit that makes people see me as a man when everything about me screams "woman".

I'm sorry it's an oversight, sister/ma'am/lady...

Farfalla:
I'm glad this is coming from a man. Let more women learn that men hate it when they're loved deeply by women. That's why "wife materials" are the most despised lot of women.

Sir, I think the wife material isn't more about love but in terms of ability to care and build up with a man, dexterity in using her head and communication. Take takes about 60% while love takes the rest!

Royaltyy:
He's a fool. What if he needs them in future, maybe for political office or an opportunity overseas or even that same handwork he's talking about, cos thaere are some handwork that are big contracts and it's only your certificate that can earn you such contracts...

He might regret his actions later

Don't mind him, he didn't think it through before the act. The thought of becoming popular on the net beclouded his proper thinking!
I graduated 23 years ago, I'm not even bothered about looking for job because I can fit into doing any skill... I still haven't even looked at my certificates since 2001.

I thought he was going to eat akpu with ofe nsala as the first thing he did, like the kogi guy who made a beeline for garri!

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone, I've been driving for over a year now and I've noticed we don't know how to use headlights in this country even my friend that visited from the US complained same thing.
I don't know if it's selfishness or what but how will someone be on very high beam even when opposite an incoming vehicle, I almost entered a ditch because an SUV beamed on my small Corolla to the point I couldn't even see properly, are there rules set for all these in this country?
God's willing if I don't leave this country within the next 2 years I'm getting a bigger vehicle and I will purposely install massive led lights I will be counter beaming people till they notice their mistake.

The art of teaching driving is no longer as it used to be
Now anyone jumps into the driving seat takes off and when night falls he uses the lights that are bright enough to see not knowing that there are ethics to the use of lights!
Even driving behind another person you should dip your lights until you over take and is driving on a freeway without traffic coming on the other side! Once another car is approaching the ethic is to again dip your lights until he passes!
Many drive with the full lights to oppress the opposite driver, others don't even know why it's there!
Unless the ethos are brought back the trend will surely continue!