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Mikagrace:
who do you go to when you need to vent about Marital issues and communication with spouse is not there? Because keeping everything in will only lead to more frustration. Most men will leave the house, start keeping late nights and they will give you silent treatment.

You're right.
Men love conversation with one who will return interesting answers and not view each comment with suspicion and jaundice.
Once that starts, surely anyone will go to the listening ear, even the wife would, that's why it's easy for trap a woman whose husband doesn't have time for her, or man keep away from wife once she comments negatively on his statements...

EriMma1:
Some men don't have shame.

So now, he'll open this his big old body before this small girl and be having fun?? Some things shouldn't just be at all.

I dey shame for am.

In fact, I'm still tryna understand o!
One gal of 23 has been trying to gain my attention since last year I've been imagining her age difference with my 20 year old son, I just told her even if I want to cheat no be with small girl .
.not to come marry 21 year old!! Too bad ..

Ilamina:
what's the best way to commit suicide

Have you ever thought about those who are less privileged than even you? What kept them going? Have you tried giving a few naira notes to someone who hasn't had anything for days?
Watch AA. CLOWN'S videos on Facebook maybe you will understand life's good when you give even the least! Think again

DWJOBScom:
Let them get it now o
It is for the people not themselves
They must work and not start defecting up and down

This is the greatest problem with the party members, Obi has a strong desire for the good of the nation but those who are riding on his moment of Fame, are they also of same mind?? Could they just be riding on his wings to win then not toe the same mind as Obi?
Then also we know politicians and defection, Soon you will hear and see the same who are drumming for him will defect to another party! Even to the so called evil party and they will not care!

Klass99:
Don't let the past ruin your chances for a good thing. There's a chance for;

1. A new chapter of your life with an older man (I like older men sha, most tend to be mature and well grounded) what you fear may not happen, dwell on this thought instead.

2. Your children to have a male friend and mentor (hopefully a great one too) as well as new friends in their step siblings.

3. Sweet companionship between you and him. Children will grow and leave the nest one day or even sooner like when they are in boarding school. Your life shouldn't be all about your children, you are worthy of good things and you deserve good things too.

4. A nicely blended family, your kids may all get along well and you may get on well with him too. That's not to say there won't be challenges but nothing so bad or terrible that you both can't handle as mature/responsible adults.

Take a chance and see where it all leads to, you might be pleasantly surprised. Don't let negative thoughts or past hurts rule you. You guys can work out a living arrangement where you live close to each other (as a married couple) but in separate cribs with your kids, spending as much time as you can together......that may help reduce feelings of overwhelm and slowly blend both families.

Good advice!

marlow1962:
Belike the bus carry full family problem

Including village people problem this bus carry all...

Ade3131:
Naija na another planet on its own.

It even looks like it's in another galaxy fa!

ChizzyBuna:
I have been crushing on a girl in my school. Today after classes we went to ShopRite and got something to eat.
She bought meatpies and ice cream
While eating the meatpies
She invited me to join her in her ice cream then handed me the same spoon she was using to lick the ice cream.
I used her spoon and my saliva touched it but she didn't wipe it, she put it straight into her mouth and continued using the spoon.

I haven't kissed her or had sex with her
So please what does it mean when girl shares the same spoon with a guy.

Does it mean she don't mind kissing him or getting intimate with him.
Cuz I feel like using same spoon with someone is very intimate like kissing. Am I wrong?

Before we talk about spoon and saliva, I want to know if you took her out with your own hard earned cash or with what your parents gave you as pocket money.
Your answer will help me answer your question.

Adeywaityouranswer

Hope traffic has moved and you're on your way boss ... Safe trips

Steelarmy01:
Your moniker sef make me trust your judgement.

The guy moniker fit mean say him na road prodigy!! He "composes" roads!

Seriously! Anyone caught in this kind of movement will have to reschedule lots of programmes! What a mess!
Where are the mods, front page abeg make people see what's happening on our roads!
By the way, is that Vine Gas truck empty? Caught in a gridlock like this isn't nice o...

chinwong:
I laugh in Swahili 🤣🤣

Add a dash of xhosa !!

Nasige:
Is this actually biblical or just western practices

Of course it's man's doctrine not God given command. Bible says a Bishop must be HUSBAND of one wife... So...

Rubyjade:
How do you know All these?

Do you really want to know?
Then answer this question:are you married?
How old are you?
How long have you dated/been married?

saintopus:
Most mums felt that their husbands are not giving them much helping hand. Some even resort to cheating

They thought the grass are greener somewhere else.

Sometimes I feel that marriages should have an open ended clause aside from divorce where spouses can be exchanged for sometime for everyone to learn a lesson and to know that the grass are not always greener somewhere else.

Tend to agree with you. Moms feel entitled once hubby helps too often. You begin to hear "honey help me wash, my hands are paining me" excuses just because hubby is helping!
Others feel pissed off once hubby is the really cool type that doesn't socialize much!
Moms tend to be attracted to the inattentive hubby, seeking to beg his attention and crave his companionship... A quiet and helpful spouse usually get the sharp end of moms tongue!

daygee12:
The passage of the Bible that tithing is explicitly analyzed is DEUTERONOMY 14:22-29 , I'm 100% sure ur Pastors won't read it to u.

Of course they won't!
Also they will never tell you it was ONLY commanded to the Jews.
It was NEVER money rather only farm produces and animals owned by a Jew.
It was paid ONLY in Jerusalem! So, no matter where you lived as a Jew you MUST take it all to Jerusalem and pay it there.
It was meant ONLY to the Levites!. Because God specifically chose them to run and operate the temple in Jerusalem.
Tithe had 3 categories and was never paid monthly, it was paid yearly, and one category was every 3rd year and another was every 7th year.
If you failed to pay this year's tithe you had to pay a penalty for default. Etc etc

All of the above will never be told to you and since most christians don't want to study by themselves they remain slaves to these merchants that sell half truths to them while sucking them dry!
Finally, the death of Christ did away with the all that was ordinances against us and established a new testament...

I was just supporting your statement sir

Prevention is better than cure!

funkmrflexx:
There's a lady in my street that's always talking about how her husband is always buying her new hair and new things (I actually think she wants to make my wife jealous) so yesterday both of them were gisting and my wife got an sms alert (from mtn), she saw the text and said "wow baby u sent me money, thanks so much" the lady was like "God when, see love"

I remembered she always tries to intimidate my wife with her story of her husband buying this and that, a lot of women will probably tell her she's lucky and wish it was them but not my wife

Good thing your wife did to shut the friend up!
Caution her though to limit her interaction with that woman because now your wife has scored a point that lady will become more aggressive by planning how to "even" scores despite it's not a competition on your wife's side. But be sure schemes will begin to form in that woman's head and some may not be pleasant... Na so that KYN woman way de be o... Good luck

Advice I can give is simple. She should watch AA, CLOWN or UNTOUCHABLE COMEDIES, and see how people's lives are being touched by small amounts of money, she can see how Adura is happy to help poor folks...
She should then spare 1million naira from all her endorsements and do the same.... Then she will understand what life is all about.
Sitting by the mirror applying makeup and taking semi naked selfies become a bore after a while.

Live life at the basics and feel the joy!!

One man's mother is another man's peppersoup condiment!

virginprincess:
,i'm very such this lady has something valuable that attracted this man,it won't be more than money,she better watch her back because men can't be trusted,true love ko,true love ni .

Bro, the lady has nothing! Just physically challenged but with a large heart and smile...
Strange that recently the guy has been doing a GoFundMe for her to build a small house for her in her village where she lives in abject poverty!
Something attracted the guy... It's between the two of them.... Sometimes we just understand the way of a man and a maid...

His name is no longer Oat but Oaf!! Haba!!!

Sepviour:
But I thought it's Samoa that is always the first to enter the new year

Kiribati usually are first, even before new Zealand....

Xcelinteriors:
Never help an Ingrate

Problem is, you won't know until you experience it!

omonnakoda:
Many of you live life on TV

That is the Nigerian reality especially in the rural areas
That is our culture and has been for ever

I realize that bro, thanks for jolting my memory! I was actually comparing the guy to my self as for me it's a no no to date someone half my age!

Zonefree:
A 22-year-old dating a man of 49 years

Nigerian girls no just get fear for body.

Had to go back and check the ages well well! How small gal go dey feel to date someone as old as her dad! Kaaiii...

iHateFraudsters:
This one a pure psychedelic.

No wonder these bandits behave like animals.

They behave like animals or.... THEY ARE ANIMALS!!!!

Iamfrank:
The issue is getting married to the right person... I think people change when they get married that is causing the increase in divorce

I even thought that being a comedian life around him will be fun! It goes to show that marriage needs more than laughter, love, money and property!!

DarkJeddi:
And yet she jumps into the marriage..

Beats my imagination.

Sukersoc:
You're clearly talking from experience.

You need to watch this kinda analysis on DSTV , last week it was R Kelly they featured....

Pootle:
CIA body analysis

It's like I'll go and learn from the CIA true true!! Thanks

Bethanybethel:
You are right my dad is paying the price for abandoning us with our sick mother. He have some health issues I have decided not to help him, he will suffer until his last breath on earth..

Be at peace sir, forgive him and let him understand that life isn't about how he lived it! His "punishment" will be him receiving what he deliberately refused to give you all... Seeing you giving it to him so effortlessly.... Try it bro... I was a victim...