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With all his philanthropy and soccer talent! Mane the man!!
Best wishes.
One of his last gasp goals made me jump and scream for joy one warm night in 2017!
My neighbors thought I had gone mad!!

Legend!! Player who developed football and gave meaning to technically good football!! What a loss!!

LUGBE:
Unnecessary

Says you?
They're welcoming an "industrialist, employer of labour and insurer/security of my life"!
If you understand my point....

[quote author=Stevenbright post=127796747]Better safe than sorry!

Stevenbright:
Yea, very true but I think he was too bland towards the lady to the extend of unsettling her.

You may be right! Anyway it's better he's bland than being exciting...it's saved him some suspicious looks and possible vawulence!

Stevenbright:
She might not mean "flirt" in the real sense of the word.

She probably meant appreciating her presence and work and once in a while having a few honest chatter with her that shows you recognize her importance in the house.

The same she who would have loved the idea will be the same who's going to say the idea was yours and you're planning to sleep with her!

Nebes:
I'll keep it short.

We've had series of useless and lazy househelps. They are a necessary evil for us given our busy schedules, kids and big house. Last year we got lucky to get Rukky, a beautiful and hardworking young woman. Rukky has just informed my wife that she is not returning after the Xmas holidays and my wife is now blaming me. Her reason is shocking to me and I need the opinion of married women and ladies in general.

My wife said that Rukky left because I made no attempts to flirt with her after 9 months. It was obvious Rukky liked me but I always acted like she was not there. How do I flirt with another woman under the same roof with my wife and kids? My wife believes that if I had given Rukky a little attention she would have stayed longer. She is just missing the girl's hardworking nature.

I truly don't understand this.

Lemme advice you like an experienced man I am.
Never allow women's blaming you for anything affect you. Had you attempted to smile at the maid even once, you would have taken enough flak to down you! Women's emotional turbulence isn't what you want to even begin to analyze.
Leave her to sweat out the work!

Antihypocrite:
Guys, what is the fun in clubbing abeg? Few days ago I went to a club. Here is what I observed

1. Some girls hustling to get hook up gigs.
2. Some guys trying so hard to out spend each other.
3. A new job industry has been created for hype men. Whatever that means.
4. How can the smoking of shi sha be legal?
5. You cannot have a good time in a club. It's too noisy
6. I will never go there again.



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Funny that I went for the first time in my late 30s on invitation...the noise, the smoke, the skimpy bikini dresses the showoffs and all that didn't impress me anyway because I was already used to those at teen parties!
Then I'm now living a quiet life, boring at a point....now in my early 50s I'm planning to go clubbing soon!
I'll find one for more mature people though... but once a while will go and have fun, but not getting dirty!

robosky02:
If you ask me
I will say no Nigerian number 10 has lived up to his potential


1. Erin Esin was a star that never shines because of youthful exuberance and women.


Even the late Stephen Keshi, also had this to say about him: “We had Etim Esin and relied so much on him. The team was built around him because he had so much skill and had so much to offer. So we said this is our “Diego Maradona” in Nigeria because he can do anything with the ball. It was like he was born with the ball.”

A player that was first and only to be compared to Maradona in Africa.
Even Ghanaian Abedi Pele was scared of him

But he never made it



2. Okocha too played so much to the gallery and never took the world by storm as he should and so was Never recognize as he should.
Ask Ronaldinho ., he feels Okocha problem was going to play in small clubs when the world was waiting.
Till date Ronaldinho a Balondor winners still adores Okocha, who did not even win one CAF best


3. Mikel Obi was another that was supposed to take the world by storm

When he started he was at same level with Messi sharing the podium.
Man United and Chelsea were fighting for his signature.
At the U20 he shines like a million Stars

But one career move turned him to just making back pass throughout his playing days. Hmmm

The world should have seen a trilogy of Messi Ronaldo and Mikel

Very good analysis! Most times Nigerian fans express more emotional support instead of correct comparison especially with established world-class players! So I agree with you

Schoolshooter:
Multiple expenses for the husband


He go day regret y he knack him wife



No born if you no get money

If you say this they will say you don't want their progress!

id4sho:
Now, listen and listen good!!!
Secretly have all photocopies of all landed assets of your father. This woman will run with everything. We experienced this in my family, I had to fight from 2016 till now to recover some. Most step mothers are evil and after wealth. It's few men that know their tactics. Act fast

Great advice!!

UYEMDO35:
I go deal with her mercilessly...... She dey look for all means to born for my father so that she can claim entitlement.

Let nature do the dealing with, you're out of the house already so move on with your life! Develop yourself and let Nature show you to the world! Leave revenge for God.

mariahAngel:
It's not totally your fault.
Your mother manipulated you into doing it, which wasn't right.
You're her child, and your happiness should've mattered to her the most.

Unfortunately "mother's love" won the day! The mother loved him so much she manipulated him into a life long condition!
Too bad!

Eastcoastboy:
Your eyes are sharp.

thanks boss.
The thing follow me from childhood

Eastcoastboy:
Whenever I discuss with someone that their English is bad, I tend to make blunders.

But if I meet someone that speaks so well, I tend to speak so well too.

Funny that in my case I see typos/spelling mistakes long before I start reading a sentence!

I don't enjoy being made to sit at weddings or gatherings I'll always find my way out, feels like I'm restricted. If not for wifey, I'll rather just show my face to celebrant and make sure I'm seen, then I vanish!

Lance008:
Many Na hot temper
Been provoked

True! It's happened to me in 2015! Will tell the story soon...16 hours of emotional and physical torment...no part 2

Candidlady:
Men and their stupid entitleMENt MENtality

Ihave seen people build houses or even leave the country without their parents knowing


Yaro you are just a friend!! Get that into your shallow brain

So you fed him... Must we know.. Ubanka


Atleast he invited you.. You should be grateful..

Well done madam!! If you're wife to OP, I'm pretty sure you will tell him not to attend the opening of the house! That's women for you, once it doesn't affect you, you're a great adviser! Once it touches you then you're bitter!!

madone:
Don't follow the words of the first guy that commented oo. It's never true nd the conditions differs. A woman can open up to you because she just needs to air her mind, she needs someone to talk to and she wants to sample opinions. Or she dont want to talk to her blood relations so she sees you as a closer person who will not judge her.
I have them as friends and I am talking from experience. Be the good man she knows. Show her that the world still have hope woth good men like you.
Forget attraction and treat her like a sister

Great advice, but let me say, women are very easily drawn to comfort, affection and easily give in to se.x before you know it!
Kindly distance yourself from her QUICK, else when bubble burst you will find your standing in motion and she will blame you and tell the world you toasted her!
People will say you took advantage of her, no one will believe you except your ancestors!
If you go ahead, and at any time you want to break, she will show you deep colors you'll never believe existed! Stay far from married woman!!

Exceed15:
The reverse may be the case... The man must have told her severally to pack out but stubbornly remain to frustrate him. Did u read how held on to the key?NO MAN LEAVES A PEACEFUL WOMAN.

That's another angle...you may be right!!

You see the woman? Tomorrow, not next tomorrow, she will open legs for that man, get pregnant and while suffering she will smile and say, "he will change, he loves me, I don't want to leave because of the children"
So, neighbours can separate them tonight, she's going back by morning... cycle continues!

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Though she might have a silly reason cos of her career, i would like you to hear this.
It is not the number of children that matter but your emotional, ethical and finanancial capacity... and if you're already rich then consider your emotional and ethical capacity.
Now the kids are young they're cute and cuddly, once they're of teenage years know that you're going to be challenged with their upbringing and things that go with it.
It's a herculean task I assure you as life is full of challenges irrespective of your financial standing...
Be wise, maintain the 2 you have and give them the best of yourself especially! Cheers

Nice2023:
The writer has not seen anything at all.

He has been looking at his feet since he was born... he has not seen anything at all yet...

DavidEsq:
Build a spare parts box at home.

You just gave me idea o!! Thanks!!

I'm grateful now for being curious when I was very young and had started driving. I asked questions and got intimate with car engines, though it was the days of Peugeot 504 but I understood alot and whenever the car has issues I stay with the mechanic and learned the names of all parts of the engine.
Now, no matter what happens, I've a bit of idea even if the mechanic finalizes his diagnosis. Car owners should try to learn a bir about some faults... you may not fix it yourself but you might contribute to diminish most guesswork of these roadside mechanics! At least, to an extent.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Change location, take a weekend trip with her out of your station... run on the beach lie carelessly on the sand scream at the sea and punch the air go to a club and dance freely... just let your body move freely...

pyyxxaro:
LIME would soon become expensive, I thought it was CREST normally 🙄

Hehehe... shows your age, in the mid 80s to early 90s Krest was the "contraceptive"!!!

Kevinjap:
Haaaa people get mind o

I'm shocked as to how someone can unalive him or herself! Human being o! Chooiii

We4all:
You can use the salary to marry 2 wives.

And have 22 children ... 2 soccer teams!

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God1000:
I just feel like this POPE is not representing Christians well, but only God can judge us

Check the bible well, is there anyone titled POPE?
He reps himself and his sheep not Christianity of the bible!

Axis313:
Lol
If by any chance she fall on him,it will be like killing an insect with sledge hammer

Squashing or even squishing and ant! Killing sounds merciful!