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Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

See don't try it.
Besides you are single mum. That secure your child's future o. Some men are just there to drain you and take what belongs to you under the guise of love.

True.
I got a job in Abj in 2020 January as a programs officer. I asked my employer for job description and my offer letter.
Which is the normal thing to do. Only for her to turn an arch enemy because of this.
No time to waste. I took my baggage.

JackDaAlienz:
When i was dating her I meet someone who is gifted spiritually
This person said that the girl is my soulmate and my coming to Russia to study was not a conincedence
That she was my love in another lifetime
And me coming to Russia was a divine way of reuniting with my soulmate "Yulia"
I never believed all this soulmate stuff
But thinking back, I can see why I can't get her off my mind.

Find her now before it's too late. Open a new fb account and add her. Get a new line and call her. Just look for how to get her. Forever is too long to regret o.
My piece

heartbraker:
Dis baba ijesha case luk like a setup to me cus d story no add up at all. dont judge tins wit emotions bro life no be like dat alway analyse tins carefully. 1. If u read d story very well d cctv didnt captured anything, according to d story d woman set a camera in d sitting room but said she left d house and come back to meet dem aving sex in d kitchen. 2. Wetin be d relationship wey dem get wey make ham leave her pikin with a man 4 her house? Remember d man no be lesson teacher ooo 3. And how him go dey have sex wit a 7 years old girl till she reach 14 and him parent no knw? Remember a 7 year girl still suppose dey follow her mama go anywhere she dey go, how she kon dey manage sneak out to have sex for 7years baffles me. All i see here is a woman desperately wanna deal with a guy 4 a reason best knw to her.

Wow this might really be another angle to the story o. His have mercy

Aburada:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

2 cold bottles of beer for you for not being a pussy ass niggarr

This is the same thing I did to one single mother that year. I don't want anything to distract me from my daily hustle because there's no love in the street

I only derive joy from my weed not from any woman

Smoke up
Drink up
Bomb Chinese websites

WeChat/Alipay/courier/Consignment



You had to check the moniker if it's

slawormiir

Ah ahh haha. Idiot. Yes I did

He's a national cake na.
What do you expect?

Ah.
What is happening in this country for heaven's sakes, when are we going to hear good news.
No high way, no city, nowhere is safe in this country.

No be me go talk am say this country don finish.

Only God is our rest.


Lord pls have mercy.

bujebudanu1:
April 5th, I missed my flight to abuja from lagos
Left my home at ajah by 1pm to catch a 3.10pm flight. Missed that flight ,after paying 9600 for bolt.

Shattered a private car to abuja that night for 100k.,cos I had a us visa interview by 7.30am d next day.

Got to abuja by 9.40something, went straight to the embassy, my visa was denied sha.

I'm try again with a nice plan and never going miss my flight this time

Lost my composure because of my journey to abuja

Wow. Chai. After spending such a fortune and going through such stress.

May the Lord recompense you.

Yemmysworld91:
I got an invite for the role of a bank teller interview with UConnect. Please I need advice oh. How legit is the company? Should I go or not?. How much is their pay? And which banks do they enroll for?

Then o. In 2012. I know they do for UBA. U connect is legit o. Their office is on the island.

GeneralPula:
Once loyalty is involved, their will be special respect, attention, submission & appreciation ma'am..

Loyalty is heavy and that’s why it’s hard to find..

Gift is more of a compliment and compliment encourages...

I hear o. English man. I was only spelling things out. Thanks

SaintAlbert53:
smiles. Thanks dude!

I'm a lady o. Biko.

All the same. Thanks you are welcome

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

Congratulations.....love science



I can bet my balls....na that one with 1.4kg go later mature and big pass

Dude keep your balls intact in your pants, life can be funny atimes. Nothing is predictable anymore.
Shits happen.

GeneralPula:
Stop asking stupid question..

Nature already put everyone for hin position..

Man is the head/king of a woman/family..

I agree with your opinion.

But I disagree with this your attachment. Men want many things also in a relationship/marriage.
Or are you saying as a man you don't want :

RESPECT
ATTENTION
COMMENDATION/APPRECIATION
GIFTS
SUBMISSION
.....

Prove me wrong!

SaintAlbert53:
lol I already cried my cry alone.. I just want a normal life back again, I want to know how to love back again.

Don't worry, don't force it. It will come naturally when you meet the right person.

But open your eyes be sure its mutual.

JidennaJason:
This oppression has made death curb one of their very own (Abba Kyari) and more will surely go down with him if they continue this way.

Chai

JidennaJason:
Whatever happens in the North, let it remain in the North.


We're not joining them to participate in this one... Our fowl dey okay for here.

But they will still use your money to curb whatsoever in the north.

ictjobber:
There are no Jobs in the country...
There are no jobs in the country...
There are no jobs in the country...

People have mouths to feed.

Southern youths chose Yahoo

Assuming Northern youths were as smart as Southern youths they too would have gone for yahoo.. But they aren't thats way they picked up arms and embraced kidnapping and banditry..

I'm against Yahoo but I'm also a realist. You can't steal the future of the youths, make starting and running business hard AF and expect the youths to just lie down and take it. If anything the government should see this as a cry for Help.

You really made sense

RedPanthar:
It's the reigning thing.

Ladies act up all dolly before they are married. Once they get in, alongside her family they start to consult all sorts of covern to have the man killed and then transfer the man's wealth to her family. Mothers control and use their daughters and the ladies make themselves available.


Men do not open up too much to your wives before 7 years into a relationship


Or have your systems put in place that you don't get the Duncan Mighty treatment

Marry a woman with the fear of God and the one that truly loves you and your soul will be at peace.

So many sad memories and picture stories. I have to dive out. I almost shed a tear. Damn

No matter what she does don't ever hit her. To avoid generational curses starting from you.
Just try as much as possible to always avoid her at all cost, and when ever she hits you and you can't bear it just pause, walk out of her sight and clear your head.
Avoid all interactions with her except extremely mandatory. She will get the message, you will be surprised she may even change. And when you have the means give her space.

colors ;Dofrainbow:
If this is true,it's no way cool at all from Umahi but if your sister freely open puna,wetin come consign us??

Chai. You no well at all.

Silence indeed is golden. Wow! what a loss.

SmartPolician:
He cannot marry her; he knows that.
I have been there, done that.
The guy said she has a good heart.
Average-looking and ugly girls have the best characters.
Beautiful girls have the worst characters.

Says who. Character is based on individuals not on looks.

DuBLINGreenb:
Tammy Abraham and Mobolaji Johnson

Wait Toyin Abraham Fat pass Mercy Johnson wawu who would have guessed

Yoruba women dey fat sha oh, if dem wan fat like this ehn hmm nothing fit stop dem.

When a slim woman adds weight, she adds everywhere. Big ass and yansh equals fat.

Ahmed0336:
Amen. don't you think it is high time you start visiting 5 or 7 stars hotels to have a clue on intercontinental cuisines

Will you take us there sir. Yes us. Ahahahaha because me too hen that leaf confuse me.

Lexusgs430:
That somebody is thinking/considering joining the yahoo gang, but is scared of eventually dancing naked, through the market.........

Ahahahhahahahahahhahahahahha exactly my thoughts.

rentAcock:
He's a scammer. Why didn't he tell you the account was frozen before you sent the money? Get a policeman and put the fear of God in him.

Chai

Lordapson23:
Ensure not to be alone at any time cause u might end up committing suicide..

Jesus is Lord