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taylor89:
I'm happy Burna Boy Lost




Burna is a fellow Rivers Man but you'll never see him come out straight to boast or be proud of his state of origin


He will never win a Grammy

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

Matrimonous:
Shame on the girl who went spreading her legs for the man that doesn't want to marry her and devil is the man that sleeps with a girl he has no intention of marrying.

anibi9674:
hmmm, nonsense. Let them read it in their story book. Who preserve dragon and dinosors for me.

GideonIdaboh:
My sister. I cried in those days I spent on the cell. My prayer after the case was for God to expose the real culprit. I couldn't believe it was years after I'd forgotten bout the whole incident that my roommate would confess to stealing it. Ever since then, I've had this feeling bout her. I wish she never confessed. I'm more tortured now than when the incident even occurred.

GideonIdaboh:
I remember during my 200l days, I was accused of stealing my neighbor's phone. All suspicions traced to me as i was the last person to touch the phone. He didn't take it lightly. He had me arrested. The phone then was one cheap kpalasa like that. (Flip up- Bird). That's the first time ever I would sleep in a cell. I was disappointed in my parents having to find out so I didn't inform them on time. After 5days, I had no choice than to tell my roommate to inform my parents. My father didn't even show up. Only my mom did. She swore heaven and earth that her child would never engage in such act. Eventually, the case ended after my mom bought my neighbor a new phone and all that.

10 years later, my roommate confessed to stealing the phone, my money and several foodstuffs. I just weak.

DAntivirus:
Drop your account number and like!
I'm giving 15 people N2k each...
Just 15 people o!
Good luck!

visijo:
are you the one?

visijo:
If she doesn't have fingerprints, a password or pattern on her phone, don't even waste time! Marry her�

francis5051:
Reducing her phone brightness to zero then told her that her fone screen was bad will be needing 20k to fix it..

Innobee99:
Thanks so much. I appreciate this little piece from u. My mum was on phone with her mum and was asking her mum while my babe will do such thing to me. Booom, next was ur mum is saying rubbish and my mum heard her from behind.

Sanchez01:
The best option right now is the legal route. Advise your dad to get a lawyer and also involve the police. Let the police invite the three of them, first make them sign an undertaking that they'd be responsible for whatever happens to your dad based on the threats.

Then have the lawyer serve a quit notice to them, possibly before the police. Of course, the eviction wouldn't be immediately but knowing that they have been legally asked to leave will render them incapacitated and plant fear in their hearts.

Whatever you do, DO NOT go the customary way because its approach towards something as this is not really efficient. The so-called Umunnas might be doing the bidding of your uncles.

With the ongoing trend, your cousins might be warming up to 'inherit' those rooms seeing your uncles have unconsciously laid claims to them. Advise dad to get a lawyer before visiting a station. I'd prefer a police command in your state. They are more effective at addressing issues as this one.

tillaman:
The only award that seperates men from the children, If it’s not Messi then who will it be?? It has to be Messi, the MessiLESS!!!
The Original Ogufe!!
Max Respect

Ronaldo fans this is for y’all

justice212:
In the first night who go collect first who will take last.

FreemanTJ:
After we settled our fight I told her I was traveling home to see my parents but the truth is my wife was about to put to bed. While I was away, she noticed i stopped communicating and we had another major argument, I lied I was really busy since I hadn't seen my parents in 2 yrs. So we stopped communicating for a while till I was away from my wife again. She insisted I was hiding something but I shoved the thought away.
After some weeks we got back together again, this time she said she had a dream I was lecturing/training people and was earning half a million fro the job. I told her I had a passion for training so I decided to do proposal for training, so i asked her if this would fly at her workplace and she agreed she'll do her best.
So she talked to her boss about the proposal and he asked that i see him the next day, he was going to introduce me to the head of training which he did. Her boss introduced me as his brother and even told people around her workplace that that's her fiance. At this time I was confused, she was embarrassed, she didnt expect her boss to tell everyone about her relationship especially now that we're not stable. I appreciated her effort but could bring myself to tell her now that half of her colleagues think we are dating.

The training department promised to get back to us and it was all looking positive. For the first time she asked to sleepover on a Friday and get back home the next day which I agreed and this time we decided we weren't having any sexual relationship since we've had an argument that the relationship was all about sex. The next day she woke and insisted she had a dream about a pregnant woman who came around to take her things from my place. Before she told me her dream she said she knows I'd hiss. In my mind I knew she was right but I insisted it wasn't true. Unfortunately she got a message on WhatsApp to deliver a mail from her workplace so she asked to borrow my system to quickly get the work done.

While she was trying to login google had saved my wife's email on gmail, so she said she couldn't log in but she'd rather use yahoo. When I checked the email I saw my wife's mail and I was only hoping she doesn't try to find who owned the mail. I was shocked she didnt ask, she just finished sending out the mail and left.

Around 10pm that day she already knew I was married, she sent several messages insisting I was married with a daughter yet I could lie to her even knowing that she has a policy against dating married men.

donstan18:
You got a lady pregnant, you married her.
Next thing, you connected with another lady while playing chess.
What next? You've started discussing orgasms with her after you both went to see a movie.
Now a short black lady has been chasing her in her dreams



TBH, Never in my life have I seen a BOY as so confused, wayward, deceitful, irresponsible and promiscuous as this OP.


Thanks.

Officialgarri:
For those who are not interested in lengthy read, here are the few key points to note.

That Nkechi Blessing :

1. Is a souvenir in Nollywood industry, department of Hotel and relaxation matters. A known farm tool.
If you want to dig, ask for a hoe.

2. Nkechi and her mum used to share only one penis until luck shined on her and they had access to different joysticks. Joy is all that matters

3. That Nkechi was usually molested by area boys and she also dropped out of school on the allegation of lesbianism.

4. She was a souvenir for the Lion of Bourdillon -Chief Tinubu- but local man couldn't get close to her cos she TACHA alot..... Local man can't die before Buhari cos of body odour

5. That local Tinubu man had to excuse himself from being TACHAD with #500k

6. That Notorious BDC fraudster, Mompha, paid only #50k to gain full undisturbed access to the souvenir

7. That aunty also served Niyi Johnson hot hot while that slim fool was married to another idiot

Hoodbilonia:
Abegi. I have met her type severally, from ventura things to jericho mall things,all up the way to market square by sapele rd. Just have a fully equipped ac car. U go bang them tire.

Ibrahim505:
You write-up is educative though, the last sentence is enough to prove that you are in early stage of depression.

Vulcanheph:
do You really need to ask What lala feeds his daughter?.... We all know it will be a very special kind of Meat

OlawaleBammie:
Why?? Av got another question for Dat as well, but before den..

any alternative to ur claim??