₦airaland Forum

luizpippo:
I am currently trying to settle down but looking at married couples in the city is not an encouraging endeavour, married people in this city are just having affairs everywhere and i am tempted to ask the following questions:

# Why would a single guy be sleeping with a married woman, does he not fear the consequences you guys always despise here?

# Why would a single girl be sleeping with married men, meanwhile there is hardly any threat of *future or destiny in trouble* like you guys do as in the case above.
Does this mean married men cheating is safe while that of married women is dangerous?

# Why are married men sleeping with other men's wife, and there seem to be no blow back?

This whole ish is made to look like the single guys are the only ones with future/destiny worth saving.

Is there any point getting hitched if sex is this free everywhere?

hmmmmm

@OP talk true, I sincerely doubt if the reason you are ‘afraid’ of getting married is because, married men or women are having an affair or because single girls are having affairs with married men.

Still deny confess, because the truth is, I don’t see how the two don’t relate, your current girl friend could also be having an affair, do you stop dating because of that?

Cars get accident every day, even the most careful drivers get hits, killed or injured by the careless ones every single day, do you because of that say you will never ride in a car or owe one?

People get knock down just by crossing the street, do you now stay in door all day to be ‘safe’?

People go into business and loss than life savings, do you as a result don’t venture into business enterprise?

All am saying is, change your mindset; re-orient yourself that ‘shit happens in life’ be prepare for it, so when it happens to will be better suited to handle it.

There is no perfect world or person or work or place or marriage or girl…..even yourself, you are not perfect. You might be pious and Holly today, but things could happen tomorrow and you find yourself cheating like those men.

Slow, take life in bits….stop imagining what will and will not happen tomorrow; that mindset will rob you off enjoying today, and the truth is, we are only sure of today…no one is sure of that tomorrow that is robbing you from enjoying today or from having a peace of mind today.

….believe me, tomorrow will always take care of itself, ensure that you take care of today.

Look in the mirror, you are the cause of the problem.

Stop electing bad leaders and the rest will take care of itself. If you truly concern and want to redeem the situation, get involve in politics, don’t take politician bribes.

Organize with other youths in your neighborhood and convince not to take bribe, and instead to drive out bad leaders.

If you can convince you fellow Nigerian you can see and reason with to do the right thing in not collecting bribe from politicians and to elect good leaders, you internet ranting will not move any Nigerian in diaspora who are 1000s of mile away and you can’t see. Charity begins at home.

All4good:
"overtake humans in every aspect" Hell No. Never.

AI will never have a soul. Just like humans whom have abandoned their creator and think we could be greater than God, Robots might at some point in their evolution also think they can overtake man but it won't happen. Man is limited, so what man creates will be even more limited.

AI is at the level where it's being designed to learn and as such make its own decisions/actions that were not pre-programmed. Now, that decision could be very very wrong because it depends on data gather. So "garbage in garbage out" would still be a problem for AI despite the advancement in machine learning. So basically Man's intervention will always be required.

Can AI pro-create (AI make AI)? Like based on ML it decides its going to create a Robot with ability to also learn and do whatever it decides?

Biological Cloning of humans is what has the potential for "overtaking man in EVERY ASPECT " but it has come under some heavy regulation plus results have been far from perfect. If it had been at least we would have seen a growth in its adoption for Animal production. Same heavy regulation would soon apply in AI.

I greatly disagree….AI have the potentials to out pace it’s creator because of the far greater processing power and speed that humans don’t have.

I agree with the question of souls, our soul makes us to be morals, AIs would lack morals because they lack soul but they will be more efficient and more perfect and more effective than humans and they have started doing that.

As far as ‘garbage in garbage out’ big data algorithms takes cares of that and there are daily continual fine tuning to make it near perfect.

As for AI reproducing themselves that is very possible in the very near future. 3D printing is catching on and that is a good example of machines producing machines or 3D structures.

Yes, there are heavy regulations, but the truth is regulations will not stop these advancements, it is only slow it down. There are heavy regulations and sanctions today against producing nuclear weapons, but that have not stopped it, so it impossible for regulation to stop it.

In Software Defined Networking today, we have Network orchestrations that self-build network devices on-demand e.g. new vFirewalls, new vRouters, new vLoad balancer, new vSwitches, etc… these Networks use big data to ‘sense’ demands and self-build new network entities of their kinds to handle the increase traffic….when demand is low, they automatically take down the excess resources.

Pierocash:
Mtcheeew! Staged work. Does she look like someone working,or someone posing for a photoshoot.

Who snapped her? People always want to trend with cooked up fables.

Even if, it is fables and cooked stories.....believe me, there are some 9ja trending babes that would never allow you to take their pictures while they are holding a spade or wheelbarrow....., they believe it is beneath them.

I truly commend her for showing up and even pick up the shovel, something all a guy needs to see is the willingness and attitudinal response/reaction toward suggestions to do something like this that does not trend well with today's feminist crowd.

talk2hb1:
Read The Headline, and nowhere was it mentioned in the post that it was accumulated sum

An excerpt from the post states….

“ According to Police sources, the audit by the supermarket showed money was always missing after sales and the management decided to investigate. The management reviewed their CCTV and it was discovered the sales lady, Chioma, has been hiding the money in her private parts.”

The bolden portions above clearly indicated that, it was not a one time incident, but that she did it several times over a period of time.

talk2hb1:
290,000 or 1million?
So she hide 10 of 100,000 Bail in her Vagina or what, Ayam Corn-Fused Even More A-Maized

Read the article, it was done over a period of time.

Beancounter94:
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Well, the main issue I suspect is that the trial would be on the second highlighted. Does he have proof of that assertion. If he does not, then the case is going to go against him....the youtuber.

Oga go siddon!

The only proof the Youtuber has that, it is fake is on the video that the church provided....The MOG categorically stated, the Angels of God will deposit money into their accounts and they will receive alerts from the Angels...

Guess what, in one of the videos shown supposedly for an alert from an 'Angel'...it clearly states that, 'NIP FRM NELSON DAMIAN MM'....and not something like 'NIP FRM ANGEL GABRIEL', and the Court will clearly understand that NELSON DAMIAN is not an angel...they can even get info and BIO.

It is not defamation if the allegation is true and I truly doubt if this will make it to any court as the MOG will be ridiculed out of court.

HafsaUmar:
boys grow to be fine men but not always the case for us.

Not true, the big difference is money….it happens to ladies too, if they have money…look at Kim Kardashian, Oprah Winfrey, etc they look radiant and ageless all the time.

You self, try hold small make you see as oil go dey comot for your skin, body & face every day….the tin go surprise you self!

Rinolex:
Tokyo Olympics: Facts About The Puma Contract and Its Aftermath By Chibuike Anyanwu

Yesterday, the media was awash with news about the termination of kits supply contract by Puma to Team Nigeria. The deal signed in 2019 before the appointment of the current Minister of Youth and Sports Development, Sunday Dare was supposed to lapse in 2022. The contract signed by the then leadership of the Athletics Federation of Nigeria (AFN), Ibrahim Gusau had a Non-Disclosure Agreement without the supervision of the Ministry, in total disregard for due process.

Mr Dare on assumption of office discovered that funds for the Puma kits contract was paid into personal accounts and the then Gusau-led AFN signed a confidentiality clause in the contract with PUMA which prevented them from revealing details of the contract to the supervising body,the Ministry of Youth and Sports Development. This is the bone of contention which is antithetical to transparency and accountability mantra of the Buhari administration.

The contract has led to an ongoing legal battle between the sports ministry and Gusau. In addition, Gusau, alongside Sunday Adeleye, technical director of the body, were dragged to court by the Nigeria Police Force (NPF) for alleged diversion of over $75,000.

Therefore, it becomes pertinent that the Ministry protects Nigerian athletes by refusing to allow them adorn the Puma branded apparel at the on-going Tokyo Olympics because because it is a subject of criminal investigation.

While there has since been a legitimate AFN leadership led by Tonobock Okowa elected by over two-thirds of members since June 2021, the Gusau has continued his campaign of calumny against the Ministry and Nigeria's interest by wilfully sabotaging preparations for the Olympics and expending a whooping N2.7bn to sponsor negative stories in the media. He was responsible for refusing to release details of testing to athletes to ensure that Nigeria fails, and the Minister is disgraced, just because their criminal diversion was stopped in its tracks.

It is quite incongruous that some publications claimed that the Department of State Security (DSS) cleared Gusau of any wrongdoing. That is quite laughable because the DSS is in charge of State Security. Its purview does not extend to investigating criminal matters or corruption allegations. As at today, Gusau has been charged to court by the Police and a "Prima facie" case has been established against him for misapplication of funds and criminal diversion.

It really stands logic on its head that Sunday Dare, a lawyer and seasoned administrator who had served meritoriously as a National Commissioner in Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) amongst other roles in public and private sector would be negligent in his handling of preparations for the Olympics or wilfully bring Nigeria to disrepute in any form.

The crime of the Minister is that he refused to bend the rules and join in the bazaar of sharing the loot, hence Gusau vowed to bring him down, after the emergence of a new board of the Athletics Federation led to his ouster.

Now that the contract has been terminated, let's see how Gusau will refund the $2.7m. Nemesis is catching up sooner than later!

The dust-up is a suspect!

How was there a diversion of monies for the PUMA contract into private accounts, when PUMA stated its contracts were at zero cost, plus they have award monies to athletes….it does not make sense.

And stop with putting Buhari & Transparency or Buhari & Anticorruption in one statement….they are polar opposites.

Na English fresher course you need…..it reads ‘Best before….’

And note ‘Worse after….’

In English, before Best, there is Better and before better, there is Good, which means, though it is not best to eat it after that date, but it is still better and obviously still good.

I smell lies and made up stories.

You were Ashi until age caught up with and slept with about 9 men a day, sometimes more….but only slept with about 500 men?

500 divide by 9, is less than two months….that is the body count of the very new very green Ashi.

Lattop:
See what our VP has been reduced to... O ma se oo

VP is a ceremonial position, it lacks any constitutional powers.

Assistant Senior Prefect for secondary school get power pass VP.

ruggedtimi:
The driver no try Sha.... report to bolt app that "client didn't pay" simple...it can be frustrating though on the driver side, all the stress and few mins of being someone else's driver yet no payment. Bolt job ain't easy.

Bolt go pay the driver? The worst that Bolt will do is to suspend the rider, she will go right back and sign up with another name, email address and phone number.

Yes, the driver might not get his money by posting it online, but he must have done it out of anger to expose her….plus, posting it online might publicly shame the lady and she may want to pay the driver, so he can take the video down or make a follow up statement online that they have amicably resolve their dispute.

DoggoneDogg:
Asides Stadium road, where else?
How many are they?

Just because you saw a few doesn't mean all deaf & mutes are educated with hand signs.

If Nigeria's literacy level for the able bodied is 60% then I put disabled people at 20% at most.

You don’t have to be literate to be able to communicate and literacy level statistics don’t count people who can communicate as being literate.

All mammals at the lest, communicate with their kind or a subset of their kind; dogs, fishes, birds, humans, etc. They communicate by gestures, facial expressions, signs, body movements, utterances, signals, eye movements, noise, even silence in certain situation is a mode of communication. …You may not understand them, but it is irrelevant as long as their intended party understands, they have communicated.

teabully:
infact FBI doesn't need pin, passcode or anytin, pple wey go start ur lappy without ur password

Agree, but not true in all cases….if you have an iPhone, they will need your PIN or cooperation from Apple, otherwise their efforts to use brute force to access your device will permanently damage the data before they get to it.

iPhone started encrypting your phone data long time ago and your phone PIN or finger printer or facial biometric, depending on how you set up your access also serve to decrypt that data….I don’t know if Android have started it.

There are strong pressure from FBI and law enforcement in the US to force phone vendors to provide a back door to law enforcement, but Apple and many other manufacturers have been pushing back.

Felabrity:
Like they tracked the whole thing or they had access to hushpuppi phone?

Part of Hushpuppi plead agreement is for him to cooperate fully with the FBI.

Hence they charged him just with conspiracies and not the actual offense, plus he will serve his time in federal prison….federal prisons in the US are like vacation homes, the only bad news is he will be out of the public domain while he serve his sentence….in other areas he will fare better than most working class Nigerians given the level of care he will be getting in federal prison.

So, Hushpuppi must have been signing like a nightingale and giving the FBI all passwords, PINs, etc to peruse whatever they want.

festacman:
Extradition is not as straightforward as it sounds. It will involve the court up to the Supreme Court to determine if the offence is worth the suspect, as a citizen of Nigeria, being extradited to face criminal trial in another country.

In Abba Kyari case, I am sure he will, as last resort, argue that crimes of agreeing to receive bribe money for his team and the arising criminal breach of trust were committed in Nigeria. In addition, he will argue that none of the amounts were paid into his personal accounts. I am sure his numerous wealthy friends would be brainstorming by now on choice of SAN or SANS to engage to handle his case.

Long way ahead but whatever happens, Abba Kyari is already down and in tatters. Smh

It shouldn’t necessarily go up to the Supreme Court unless Kyari have something to hide.

Kyari can voluntarily honor the invitation with zero Court involvement, after all he has told us that his hands are clean.

So, if his hands are clean; nothing to worry…FBI just want to ask him one or two questions and he should not unnecessarily drag the matter all the way to the Supreme Court.

The FBI is not saying he is guilty, it is just questioning and if they are not satisfied, he will have his day in Court and can hire the best SANs from Nigeria and abroad to defend him.

PDPGuy:
You’re partially right: pre-nups cannot waive child support, but can waive spousal-support.
So, if a pre-nup stipulates that, in the event of a divorce the spouse who has custody of the kids won’t receive any child support payments, a court will rule that such a clause is unenforceable.

Prenup is not a shield from spousal support, because a Judge will review the prenup, determine the circumstance under which it was entered into…the Judge will consider the following before upholding the prenup:

1. Was it entered into willingly.
2. Were the parties give adequate time to review the agreement.
3. Is the agreement fair i.e. Did it adequately compensate both parties, such that one will not be left in hardship and the other in affluence?

If the answer to any one of the above three questions is No, the prenup is unenforceable and the Judge wil toss it in to trash.

Hence I stated that, it is not a shield, because it will still be reviewed and could be discarded, especially in contentious divorces when one party is attacking the prenup.

So, if you want your prenup to withstand scrutiny, pay close attention to the above three items and also be generous.

Kelly Clarkson & Blackstock had a prenup, it was tossed…though the spousal support awarded in their case will be just for two years, about half of the time they were married.

panpan:
What does HSE mean?

Hopeless & Senseless Endeavor!

ishadfurnitures:
She only has 1.2m followers on her IG where she get 10m from ? Attention seeker

Which means, there are secret & hypocritical client who patronize her products under the cover of darkness but do not want to be publicly linked to her.

The same goes with Babalawo customers/client, many of them not only publicly dissociate from the Babalawo but can swear by the gods of thunder and fire that they have not once consulted a Babalawo.

Albertone:
I don't think they did prenups!

https://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/kiss/t4899.gif

They had a prenup, prenup don’t shield you from child & spousal support if your ex truly want to go after you.

Prenup only protect assets, child & spousal support is about your income vi-sa-vi the income of your ex.

gtrust:
Prenuptial things

Kelly Clarkson & Blackstock had a prenup.

Prenup, is contract between two on how to share/not share pre-marital assets, marital assets, etc.

By law in most states; child & spousal supports change with circumstances and define by changing laws and follows the best interest rules as such they cannot be pre-determined via a prenup.

The prenup they signed protected and secured Kelly assets, but since she earn a higher income she will have to pay a percentage of her income (not assets) as spousal support, which will not exceed 7 years, since they were only married for 7 years and also her pro-rated income as child support, since they are sharing custody.

Jamaica1503:
Not exactly true cos I wacthed barrister ifeanyi ejiofo MNK lawyer this morning on arise news he said the UK are not sincere about offering his client consular service

He was offered consular assistance, but it is not obvious if DSS allowed him to sign the document.

The last time his lawyers spoke on this issue, they said DSS refused them giving the papers to him to sign, they DSS took the papers and returned it back to his lawyers unsigned by Kanu.

Consular Assistance does not mean invading Nigeria or circumventing Nigeria sovereignty or legal system, it simply means they will offer him legal counsel and wherewithal in his ongoing trial, which might include representation at certain stage if needed or required

Grandmasteer:
I saw this update this evening I was shocked
we really need to upgrade our CCTV camera.. before the fire escalate the computerize CCTV camera would have fire alarm system to warn of a fire outbreak.. but in this country the only work a CCTV camera can do is to capture evidence, and majority of stores that use CCTV camera don't employ people that stays on it because of stinginess, see now.. even if the owner of the shop uses the girl for money ritual, it's not even enough to bring out even 50million naire.. how the parent wan do em'. I know it can happen to any parent and we don't pray for such but
this Gbese choke oo

Common smoke detectors on every aisle would have detected the fire, no need to upgrade CCTV camera to start detecting fires.

MSRA:
Too bad...lie on da ground, what kind of punishment is that?

Oh boy oooo....just watched the video. That engine is totalled fa. How do u even handle this kain mata? Jailing him doesn't bring d car back. But maybe he will learn after eating watery beans in Prison.

By d way do they still feed prisoners with beans? Thats currently the most expensive food stuffs in Naija.

Jail kai, it is not a criminal matter na….na civil matter.

Hopefully he have good insurance, na there the matter go end.

mployer:
20 working days

Ok, I don even forget say regular people dey go work Monday to Friday.

post=104075206:
#1500 on transportation everyday?
For real?
That is around #30,000 out of the money already , just on transportation alone!


Are you kidding us by asking such question OP

Bros, how you do the calculations? It’s 45k for transportation, if he spend on average N500 on lunch, that is another 15k, for a net of 60k.

Aidejay:
what he said is facts.

Modified: at least read and understand before you start insulting him or me.

It’s also fact too that millions of graduates are roaming the street in Nigeria with zero Jobs, at least the ones abroad are ‘jump from job to job’ according to him.

It’s also a fact that the million jobless graduates in Nigeria are not creating jobs either.

My guy, you have made your mistakes and have paid and are still paying for it, don’t allow anyone to push you into marriage.

I will advise, you organize one or two of your elderly relatives and go see her family ASAP. Let them see your face, ignore all their glamor for marriage or threats to ostracize you from the baby in the future.

Be supportive to her and provide for her and the baby when she puts to bed. Visit her and the baby when she put to bed.

Please & please do a dna test; consult a DNA clinic, they will give you a swap and take it codely with you each you visit, all you need is a few swap inside the baby’s mouth when you are holding him/her when no one is looking, return the swap and yours and you will get the results.

You have enough pressure already, please let no one pressure you into marriage, when it come to it….both of you enjoyed the fvcking and it is not only your sperm that made the baby, if she didn’t release eggs that period, you guys wouldn’t be in this situation…..my point is, it is 50-50, so don’t allow anyone to push you or put pressure on you.

LadyRosa:
Your number 1 explanation didn't buy me much, I feel there's more... Her story may be more pathetic than yours. Like who no go support him mama? Even me will see more reason with my mom.


The second is, why get her pregnant after 7 years? If you no want this woman why knock her up again? This attitude of birthing and living without marriage sorry to say I noticed it more with delta folks...

I can't tell you what to do, my advice if I were you is to reconcile and give her steps and reconciliation path to achieve a home with her. There's still room for all parties to forgive and reconcile, and move on. She too get where e dey pain her say you 4ck up as well!

Your own mother failed by allowing you make this mistake so far...

I don’t know, why you felt that….the OP ‘….got Janet pregnant’ as if, Janet was forced or blindsided into getting pregnant. If there is a ‘fault’ in getting pregnant, I think they both share it 50-50 and are both equally responsible.

And, I don’t care if a relationship lady for 1 day or 30 years, you ladies should realize that; unless a guy explicitly tell you that, the relationship will be moving to the permanent site, please don’t assume it will be.

Boyfriend and Girlfriend relationship, is a relationship ‘at will’ each party have the right to terminate it anytime they choose, Janet should have terminated the relationship herself, if she didn’t see any value in it despite no marriage promises….but she choose not to….unless OP promised to marry her or acted in someway to make her believe they will get marry, I don’t see any fault from OP.

Even if the OP promised her marriage, and situations on ground no longer warrants that outcome, he should not be obligated to get into marriage.

@Ladies, please when you get into any relationship, don’t assume anything….define what is ‘valuable’ to you….ask questions…if the relationship no longer presents any value to you, please bounce!

And don’t get pregnant for any guy in the hope of ‘hooking’ him to marry you; it is not beyond reason to assume that Janet felt that, with the birth of two boys, OP will have no choice than to marry her….but, here we are now, the choice is not 50-50 to marry Janet but 3-to-1, like 33%.

OP, whatever you do, don’t get into marriage out of pity or out of obligation or out of remorse or out of sacrifice! Life is too short!

Go for Cynthia, you already know her weaknesses! Please, need just four things in life, which are: sex, progress, good food, and peace; Cynthia is giving all three.

Janet is bad news you will get no peace and will meet your untimely death. I understand your needs to be close to your two boys. The truth is, you wouldn’t be able to offer them any value because Janet will ensure you are miserable and peaceless.

Queen is the perfect example of ‘not all that glitters is gold’. She has not explore life, she is still a mystery yet unraveled. Once unraveled, you might be in for a shock or something average or specular, but at close to 40 years old, any shock might send you to your untimely grave. Plus, she is not yet in the Univeristy even, by the time she has spent five years on campus plus ASUU strike plus NYSC, bros she would have opened her eyes and might start questioning what bewitched her to fall in ‘love’ with an almost 50 yrs old man, as you will be close to 50 yrs by the time she finish serving….let Queen go!

Cynthia Is the real deal, there are no perfect women or men out there……even if you are able to find the perfect one, you will be too imperfect for them!