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fineboynl:
I know of that feeling. some people are like that. they are possessed. when you are far away chasing your future dream they comes in to distract you and it's the davil, but when you became available they lose interest. another thing it might be because of money. she sense that you don't have money or you are not as cute she once thought.

That part you said about money is what I suspected. That day we met after I got back, I wanted to be romantic and take a walk with her but I guess she wanted more than a romantic stroll, because after the stroll, I noticed a change in her responses but I just brushed it off.
She was 17 then but obviously very mature body-wise, with so many well-to-do guys always hovering around her and showering her with gifts.

Lawrencestix:
na to make stew na n enjoy ur parboiled rice

if only. But trust me, it wasn't cool one bit. She even noticed I started avoiding her.

Mixedfruit:
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non
Existence.....

Italian Army:

Fiscus105:
Women can't love two or more people at ago unlike man, also they can't pretend to love like man too, immediately man's love fades in their hearts they show it without think twice.

This one happened so fast. Just less than a day after seeing me for the first time in many months. I swear, I didn't see that coming.
After few years, I realized she probably did it on purpose to size my manliness and I fell for it by begging her even when she was the one clearly at fault. That was a "see finish" move, and that's how most females behave. A good guy or simp will fall for it but 'bad guys' won't GAF

During NYSC, she redeployed to the state I was serving. She had a good shape when I first saw her in her khaki. When she came to visit me, she wore a tight fitting gown that was supposed to reveal her sexy shape but I saw a 'Johnny Bravo' kind of shape. I am sure you guys know what Johnny Bravo looks like. I lost interest immediately.

Another had saggy boobs when she took off her bra. I was like, why didn't I see this coming. I can tell if a girl's boobs are decorated or fallen soldiers but I don't know why I missed hers.

Another had this BO like parboiled rice. As in, if she enters my room, you'd think I'm cooking rice. Bloody turnoff, I tell ya

Besties?! #scoffs. Yeah, right!. Make cat and fish be best friend for this planet earth.

I knew a girl who had a "male bestie", and the male bestie has a gf. The girl kept denying that she has nothing to do with the guy, yet the guy spends many sleep over nights at your place. One early morning, I entered her room to collect something, na so I see used gold circle condoms for one corner of bed with the guy still snoring. Her roommate still confirmed it that another night that the guy came over, she saw condom in the toilet.

I have told my girl several times, you see this bestie stuff, It doesn't sit well with me unless if the guy 100% gay, not 99.9% because I don't even trust that 0.1%

They both messed up. Since the guy invited her, she should be responsible for the bill. On the other hand I think the lady ordered a little too much of what was expected of the guy. Most see it as an opportunity to chop belleful.

Next time, ask the guy to order for you, and if he insists, then you can go ahead but be sensible about it. But make sure your debit card is in your pocket

Yeah, sure. No big deal. But I love it when we do laundry together though.
The gisting and laughing makes it all fun but most times, I do it as a favour if she's very busy. Latest washing machine sef get 3-in-1, so na just put detergent, on the machine, shikena, no stress.

Cutehector:
as in eh.. E dey vex me. Imagine he no dey shame dey yarn say he dey give girl 20 missed calls..i am sure the op is within 18-20years

He's above 20 in age but not in experience. It's obvious the guy has had no relationship experience that is why his world is about to crash.

20 missed calls??!! This level of insecurity and desperation is from planet Mars. Get into relationship early and learn how to get heart broken early so you would know how to handle situations like this when you come of age.

Aaaaarghmed:
guy na wa for you o,you too meek o,why wud you call a woman 20missed calls.i call my babe highest 2 missed calls.i love myself so much because I always act sendless,for instance if me and my babe dey talk for phone and she gets angry and cut my call,I dont get angry or vex and call back.i simply dont call till the next day ,I never ever apologize when am not at fault. I am in charge and she knows it.i have being this way right from time,I dont even read all these red pill books or things but as a man I know how to be a king in my own lane,and I cannot take nonsense from a woman

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@the bolded. You see this right here, is what I love most about your comment. That's my fave quote/ belief "Never apologise when you know you are not at fault". Most females intentionally do this to take a measure of our manliness and most guys fall for it.

Be in charge of your one world. Na correct man you be, bro

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Sometimes I wonder if people read signs or just intentionally ignore them. You sef, you sabi disturb. If she keeps giving these excuses then stop bothering yourself, bro. I'm 70% sure she's with another man, ask those guys in Olosho beer parlour thread, I'm very sure one or two of them don dey smash am as you dey call your babe.

As for me, I don't call more than twice, thrice if it is serious.....10 times or more if it is a life or desth, money emergency. As a man that you are, it is even annoying as you keep blowing up her phone. Give her her space and goan explore other babes that are willing to be explored like Dora, since you are already rich. 'nuff said

We started dating immediately I got admission in a Tertiary institution. My school was miles away from home. She was constantly hitting me with calls and messages on 2go that she misses me and can't wait to see me again. Na so mumu me just dey hurry up make semester end. If i had a way of slap the semester and tell it to hurry up eh. Funny thing was that I had a course mate seriously crushing on me but I was busy forming Mr. faithful man.

Finally, I came home, called babe that I'm back, she was so excited. We took a walk round the neighbourhood holding hands, with me showing her off. After that day, babe changed totally. Stopped replying my 2go chat, picked my call when she feels like and making the conversation short. Till date I don't know what I said or did that made her switch off just like that.

Few days before I was to go back to school, I told her I wanted us to see again before leaving, so we agreed to meet in church. After service, babe said she was very tired and wants to go home. I was like, I hope you know this is the last time you may see me in months to come. Her response was like "yeah, whatever". I was mad but kept my cool, next thing her phone rang and a female voice at the other end told her something, she screamed with happiness and told me she has to leave. I was like, I thought you said you are tired and wanna go home. She just dismissed what i said and told her if she leaves me here she won't like what comes next, she called my bluff and left me alone.

Ladies and gentlemen, na me still go beg am make she no vex sey I threaten am. Babe told me not to ever call her phone again. It was like a movie to me. Imagine someone telling you how bad she's missed you, then you show up, then of a sudden, she can't stand you.

I have literally laughed my a$$ out tonight. Funny stories mehn.

I don't want to sound rude but I have noticed most females see going out on a date as a time to eat free food or 'chop' the guy's money
I thought the primary aim was to get to know each other.

A female friend told me about a date where from start to finish, the guy didn't let her talk. He kept talking and bragging about having contacts of notable money bags in that city, how much his phone is worth, his car, how much he used to furnish his apartment.

Another told me how the guy just told her straight up that after the date, they should go to his apartment to fvck. Before that, he showed her pictures of him and his 'goons'. Bunch of weed-smoking-marlian-wannabe-junkies
Funny thing is that they met in church. I couldn't hold my laughter that day

A lady who hates cooking

A lady who hates cooking doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't know how to cook.

I am a decent cook myself, so, that's no problem for me. If I'm too tired, I place an order.

Loveknitting:
"Good looking and proud" wow.

Yeah. That's what I said. Don't over think it. What I mean is stated in between the bracket right there.

She was going through that "hoe phase" thing, and I knew her time with me was up. I went on ghost mode.
She called to know why I suddenly stopped calling and texting. I told her that, I understand you are in that phase of life that you just want to explore and I have nothing against you. But who are we kidding, this will never work between us.

She's very pretty and full of herself, and me, I'm good looking and proud ( I never apologise if I'm not wrong).

This topic made me realise that I haven't opened my mouth to ask a girl out in more than 10 years now. Last girl I asked out, told me she was scared and would be happy if we remained friends. Three months later she said yes, and why? She just couldn't deny the fact that she was in love with me.

Ever since, I haven't really asked a girl out; I just let the feelings grow, then I tell her I like her very much, and I'm always looking forward to being with her any at given chance. Small time babe has started doing the gf duties.

Serene123:
Have u hacked someone WhatsApp chat b4?


If u haven't, then keep calm bro.
Whenever she is online, I get notified and read everything she is typing

I am yet to see any evidence between her and that guy.

I just saw this. Sorry, but I hate to break it to you, she may know you hacked her WhatsApp or she's playing it really really safe.
Let me tell you something:
When I was dating one of my exes, I was also boinking another chick who knew about my girl but we both decided to keep it between us; our WhatsApp chat is just the boring "hello, hi, wassup", so as not to raise any suspicion. She stays in the neighbouring state, so whenever she's coming over for the D, she'd call me and we'd plan out meet up through 'harmless' phone calls. My ex never suspected a damn thing. Even after the sex, we just kiss and go back to our normal lives, like nothing ever happened. No text or whatsoever, till we meet again.

What I'm saying is, her chat may be harmless but it is still not a guarantee it is harmless, they both may be playing it really really safe via texting. For the fact she refused to give you her phone means she's definitely hiding something big. Please, don't allow love blind you into making one of the worst decision ever. Marriage is an institution you never graduate from.

Just like a close friend of mine, he likes to put everything on social media. If his woman takes him out on a date, he'd upload like 5 pictures with different pose, if he goes to see his 'guys' who I believe are into some shady dealings, he'd upload, chicken and drinks at the bar, if he gets a new pair of jordan kicks, upload straight. Omo, I kukuma mute the guy status for whatsapp.
It's like he's trying so hard to impress, even living above his means. Nothing beats a low key lifestyle abeg. Who wan dey keep tabs on my life and spending ni?

To me, if the chemistry isn't there then there's no need to shalaye abeg. Once I chat a girl up or she chats me up, the first 20 minutes of our conversation determines if I'll kick you to the curb, but then again it depends. I have a female friend who likes me a lot but our WhatsApp convo is different from our one-on-one meeting. We can gist, goof around and flirt for hours but when it comes to WhatsApp messaging, it is boring AF.

Another instance is my boss' daughter; during my youth service, this girl can be so so sweet and interesting on phone, even in person, she knows how to keep the convo rolling but when it comes to WhatsApp, na so so ' lol, nope, kinda' you go just dey see.

I know how to keep a girl on her toes with my witty chats, well thanks to iLegend too (he gave me some pointers with his PDFs), but most girls I have a one-on-one convo or chat with hardly decipher how I coin my words, few don't have good sense of humour, some tend see a little flirting as an act of rape (chat-rape) sef. In the end, na the chemistry sure pass

21cents:
First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

Bro, no offense but either your sexuality is not really in check or you're confused. A girl who likes you won't make things difficult for you. She's attracted to you in every way and you believe she's cheap because she willingly gave herself to you.
Do you know how many guys are at her feet begging her, yet she chose you and you see her as cheap.
I'm sure you'd say married women are cheap if they they initiate sex with their husband.
Change your mindset, bro

We were having dinner when I asked her if she'd be cool if I went into yahoo yahoo (internet fraud), and she said as long as it doesn't involve blood, she's cool with it. I lost my appetite that night.
We were doing more of quarreling than making love or goofing around. Every visit or phone call ends with arguments

The day she started withholding sex; This is someone who didn't care how tired I was, she'd always mount me every damn morning. Even begged me for sex when I was having mild malaria. Thank God I still had a FWB in the neighbouring state to help my situation.
She has this ugly character - because she's got this killer figure with a pretty face. So many guys were literally at her feet begging for a chance. She was shocked the day I told her I'm over and out.

Another chick said she'd kill me if she caught me cheating on her. It was funny for like 20 seconds. I ended it when I called her one day after I travelled to another state, I immediately called her when I arrived, and this was like few minutes past 9pm. Babe told me she was tired while I was talking and hung up. I called her back scolded her like a little kid, while she was apologizing I hung up. She called back like 3 more times, I didn't pick. The following days, she blasted my phone with calls but I refused to pick. She got the message and stopped. That was how the relationship died. Till date, we haven't spoken.

Another chick or should I say bimbo I dated was a BS relationship. It started and ended with nothing but sex (I enjoyed it to the last, I gotta admit). We can't have a meaningful conversation without sex involved. She once posted in her WhatsApp status "No money for me, no sex for you".
It ended when I visited her, was going through her when I saw a message where her ex told her he missed the sex, her reply was " hmmm". The following replies from her felt like it was gonna happen, and she's a sex freak too, so yeah.

Iyocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

And you believed her? The men wey promise her marriages have logged in and passed her on to you the last guy on the queue and she is trying to emotionally blackmail you now to win a way into your heart.
You'll be the biggest f00ll on earth if you take that young lady back..
Give yourself some regards mahn.

Don't get me wrong, brah, I am not trying to defend her but I knew about her bestie's break up issue while we were still dating. Trust me, marriage is the last thing on her mind right now.
I just asked what's his view on it, I never said I wanted to accept her back. We have both moved since then.

NarnieAceTech:
What you guys see as cheap may mean something different to the females. There are females who just want to sleep with you but will use something flimsy in order to get down with you.

You guys make it look like a big achievement when you get into a girl's panties. Truth is, you guys are also cheap as well. I just don't understand some Nairaland guys.

You are so right, brah. These guys make it look they did something spectacular before the girls decided to have séx with them. I mean, c'mon. A girl who wants to sleep with you will not have trouble in doing that. There are guys who will chase a girl for months or years, yet they won't get even a peck on the cheeks but another guy with good sex appeal can get laid within a day.

uchenageme:
Oga, they are advising you now but you dont want to understand. Let me break it down for you.
1. She broke up with you because she found another guy who she believed was richer or better than you in bed.
2. They had a sexual relationship for the 8 months period she was out of your life.
3. The guy, probably a playboy, got tired of her and moved on with another lady.
4. She is presently feeling sad about loosing the guy but needs someone to fall back on, and she remembered you.
5. She can never stay permanently with you because you do not meet everything she needs in a man. So if another man with better qualities comes around, you are toast again.

Now put all of this in your mind, if you want to continue with your ex.

Bro, I guess the dude never let her go and she knows how play the game. You may be right.

Hope you don't mind that I wanna share similar a experience with you:
Back then just after I graduated, while waiting for service, my girl started acting strange, I saw the signs and ended the relationship. The funny thing was, she kept calling and texting, asking about welfare, while I was busy trying to act tough by not giving a damn about her (trying so hard to forget her). We moved on, into different relationships, but after about 6months, she called and was crying, begging me to forgive her that she still loved me.

I asked why was she telling me this now. She opened up to me that she actually wanted me to break up with her because she was scared of that life after school. She believed I was going to dump her since I was going for youth service and definitely other girls will snatch me from her. Her best friend experienced same thing when her boyfriend went for service, so she's scared it would happen to her too.

I asked her if she was seeing another guy before we broke up, she swore she wasn't but started dating another dude two months after we broke up.

I'm telling you this to get your own view of things. What would you have done in such situation?

Petro-Chemical Engineer but shoot mehn, I sucked at Chemistry, like really really sucked, I still do. I ditched it totally for something I didn't know I'd end up loving.

I fall under the category of "Eh, whatever. Lemme just spoil myself a little after the day's work"...And by spoil, I mean, spend the whole day in front of my computer or console playing game with loud music till I pass out. Not even minding if I got a deadline to meet.

This year, I totally ignored my birthday, it was friends, exes and families that reminded me. I don't see it as a biggie any more....may be because I am yet to hit that "mark"

IAmSkinny:
Everything

Can you give me the contact or details of the seller. Thanks

IAmSkinny:
Everything

Can you give me the contact or details of the seller. Thanks

IAmSkinny:
Look at this criminal. I de buy ps3 slim from Alaba for 30k and you are here looking for who to scam.

Lmao. Where in Alaba? Is it just the console or it comes with installed games, HDMI, and controller pads?