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Modern ranching is accepted.
The Dutch are one of the best when it comes to ranching.
If they want to come and invest no problem, it's a private business , they purchase their lands, they bring their breeds of cows we get milk we get meat. It may even put the fulani herdsmen out of business.

There are some small scale cattle ranches in the country (maybe not so modernized)

Except there is something I am not understanding? Will the Dutch build their ranches and handover to the Fulani?

Or does FG want to sponsor the building of the ranches and hand over to the herdsmen?

I wonder why nobody saw that it was a scholarship he got, not going to hustle.

Why is he calling ogun to kill nature, order and giving

Lool and lool.

CharlesNneji1:
This Meghan lady go worry. LOL.

She had her her shirt open. Duchesses don't do that. O guess she is bringing in the american flavour. She is tired of the dresses .

Lool

I thought I was the only one who noticed

I have laughed a lot at the comments.

Well repetition is for emphasis, if you and your husband want to write your name as joint owners of a property (especially) or asset.

Format is Mr Ciroma chukwuma Adekunle and Mrs Hauwa Nkechi Adekunle please not Mr and Mrs Adekunle. So that it will be clear. It doesn't mean your husband is not trustworthy it's also to save you as a female from evil inlaws as they can manufacture another Mrs.

Joint investments can bear Mr and Mrs Adekunle as title e no matter, ot just name of account . what matters is your individual names on the forms and the mandate (I wonder why people don't take this serious)

If your hubby or wifey has spending issues pls choose the both to sign option. One will check mate the other

If trust is total and non of you is a spendthrift or a glutton and you have same values you can choose the either to sign option. At least you are almost certain he/she won't spend away your family investments.

But then your husband can always dash you a whole property(in your own name) it's allowed

What a sane write up, it's been a while I read something this refreshing on NL.

Off to the entrepreneurship threads

iamkeyz:
Why should he build his own house?
Can't men live in a house built by women?

This table you are shaking ehn

You want a Nigerian man to live in a house built by a Nigerian woman in Nigeria and you are asking the opinion of Nigerian man on nairaland. Issorait

Okay so they both made profit from a business

Hubby used his share for his parents, wifey used her share to buy a Land for the family( in her name).
Now husband and wife built the house TOGETHER.
Hubby threatens wifey to pack out, wifey says the property is in her name.
Hubby gets angry, moves out tells his family about what wifey does
Hubby wants wifey to change the document in his name
Wifey suggests both of their names
Hubby wants his name alone for the house that the land was bought with her own proceeds of the business and they contributed to build together.

Well that's the summary of the whole story.


He will chase you out of that house once you change the documents to his. He might not do it in 5years time but he will surely do it and this one he has informed his relatives too you are now the 'bad wife' may God help you.


It's because of men like these some woman contribute nothing to Land issues of their husband's they will just be looking at you from far. Even advice they won't give, supervise they won't do.

LaudableXX:
Chai! See as the hospital clean and fresh. If na for our side now....



Guy, yes we have many public and private hospitals in Nigeria. But there is no public hospital that is as clean, neat and airy here in Naija, like the one these Thai boys are being hospitalised. Mother and child hospital in Akure does not look like this at all. Quote me anywhere.....

Not entirely

Well the one I saw was clean,neat but not as airy it was cramped up so does not qualify.

But the NNU unit at alimosho general hospital maternal care centre is clean neat and airy maybe because it's newborns that are there sha.

Daeylar:
It seems like Hypocrisy, but to me they are still doing the same thing they have always done.

They're only working according to their end goal, which has always been bashing women, and trying to convince women that a man is the ultimate no matter what, so therefore pleasing such men, (or men in general) even at the expense of your self worth, your happiness, your peace of mind, should always be a woman's goal

That's why when the topic revolves around something like "men don't like women who marry for money" these same set come and bash women and tell then they shouldn't marry men for money, after all that's not what men want, And you know. A man is always right.

But in this topic where she is considering not marrying the man for money and considering her happiness and peace of mind, and ultimately her mental health. They can't have it. The man is the ultimate. Happiness and peace of mind for the woman be Damned. A woman should always do what a man wants. That's why you have that same set come out and tell her to manage and change herself for the man.

They don't care if it takes hypocrisy to achieve their end goal As long as the woman now knows that the man is always right no matter what nonsense he says or asks for, they are happy.

This site is a disgrace with the way the posters here support misogyny.

It sickens me.

nice points, never even looked at it from that perspective.

itsmeurLady:
Op for your own good, marry a man that you have to seek God to find him because from what u are saying, u are modest and he is not. He is an extrovert and you are the opposite. Lately, some Men are starting to go for ladies like you because they feel they want a homely girl and not slay queens, someone reserved but the bitter truth is most of them (men) are not ready to be reserved. I have seen men that buys extravagant things for their wives just because they want her to look like a slayer but end up going outside their matrimonial home to meet the real slayers just because their wives can't meet up with the kind of lifestyle. So my advice save yourself the trauma of praying against small girls with big god and define what u want in your man. Sit him down and talk to him about your personality and study him thereafter. Marriage no be child's play, if you are having doubts about him that means there is a probability that he is not the one for you. Forget that he is from a rich home, in fact ignore all the flashy things and ask yourself wat u want. Money is not everything! Think, pray, fast if you have to, get clear directions from God before you enter marriage with that young Man.

Quite true @bolded and innocent ladies walk right into it sometimes.

tamethem:
Why must ppl worship money so tey that at the mention of money their reasoning faculty starts malfunctioning

For Gods sake Money is not the only source of happiness, so if this lady can't cope let her leave the guy. Heaven won't fall and she might still end up marrying a guy as rich or even richer.


Heaven won't fall

That's naija for you once we hear money like this our antenna will rise

I just don't seem to understand nairalanders. wait first is the money supposed to make them compatible?

Abi is it not marriage again?

ObaFemy:
I NEVER sat her on my laps at any time, she did by herself.

It's all Grammar, she sat on laps, you sat her on laps. The koko is not to sit on your laps. Shey you get?

ObaFemy:
My mind's clean, but I understand and welcome your advice though, thanks.

You are welcome.

ObaFemy:
C'mon bro, she does that all the time, even in the church, and right before her parents. I'm supposed to be the big Uncle.

Oga this day and age is not the time to place a girl child on your laps, even if you are just the big uncle people will read meaning to it.
Infact parents are telling their children not to sit on any uncles laps, not to allow any uncle touch them anywhere.

I grew up (till 9) years among university age peeps and my cousins had loads of male friends, as the youngest in the house all of them was my big brother whenever they come around they all took me as their little sister, uncle x, uncle y, uncle z but that was then oo Now I won't allow anyone so close to my children in form of uncle despite the fact that I was never molested.

Times have change, rate of molestation is high now please.

The essence of my long story is 'stop allowing her to sit on your lap' simple

As for if your friend is molesting his daughter well you can decide to find out.

Acidosis:
You're certainly going to regret this union.

Better don't allow the poor-man-mentality comments on this thread confuse you. Being a reserved and conservative person has nothing to do with wealth

[b] His actions are a result of his personality (not his money) [b][/b]Take away that wealth today, he'll still borrow to impress people, na so extroverted money miss road people dey do.

Don't force it, no one should force you to do what you wouldn't do on your own discretion. Love with your head and be calculative. Love should not make you go to the extreme. Listen to the comments on this thread at your own peril.

I was wondering at the comments, so because he is rich she should force herself to do what she doesn't like doing?

She's reserved he's not
He wants her to look professionally made up always, she wants to be able to do just foundation powder and lipstick sometimes.
He likes partying, she doesnt
He wants her to wear heavy jewelry she wants the simple ones
He wants to luxurious show off life, she wants the simple life.

People break up with ladies simply because they are the clubbing and slay types , the man in not that type and the ladies don't want to change.


OP try to let him see reason with your lifestyle, you should reach a middle ground. Nothing wrong with looking glam and we'll made up every other time but everytime is quite a burden to quite a lot of ladies.

There's a reason he came for you, dated and proposed he saw the other regular club girls didn't he. Since every other thing seems okay you guys should sit and talk about this if there's no compromise and you know you can't cope please walk, simple. It doesn't mean he's a bad person, it's just that compatibility is important in marriage.


I can't believe the same nairalanders who are say ladies marry for money are saying she's missing an opportunity simply because the guy has money. Hypocrites.

Dismantling is a wrong choice of word I was thinking it was vibrating, cracking or something else besides I am almost certain that it's Nigerians that remove the roof at night.

Same thing that happened to the streetlights along Lasu iyanaba road between iba express- bridge and obadore they even sawed one off simply because that side is always lonely no homes around there.


Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria o jare.

Lool if you are unlucky and you jam iyanaishashi hold up, iyana Era hold up,iyana iba volks barracks, alakija holdup in one single day then you can spend up to 8hours.



That road is a nightmare.

LewsTherin:
Did someone use that line on you?







Just kidding.

But seriously, was it used on you?

@topic - you don't want the pregnancy to lead to marriage then avoid the sex that will lead to pregnancy so that no one will say that to you. Life is very simple.

My mind went to the Oluwo of Iwo immediately I saw the topic and I was not disappointed. It can't be any other Yoruba king saying this it has to be him.

I am just wondering how those boys passed through that sharp U bend when going deep inside the cave, even under dry conditions it looks risky.

Let them recover first, then they should be disciplined I think but then the stress to swim out is enough discipline, next time they won't go near that place again.

Thank God this thread was opened.

That road is now an eyesore abegii chai.

From Iyana ishashi to market bustop when going towards agabara side, alraine bustop after iyanaera when going towards okoko ( Ferma came to pour coal tar on the other side of the bustop going towards agbara some weeks back). Iyana Era bustop towards Agbara, FRSC bustop before Iyanaera, customs check point after Agbara bridge, some parts of ojuoolowo.

These places have collapsed patapata to even think it's an international road.

That Iyana ishashi is the worst if rain falls na wahala, the terrible part of it all is when there's traffic at Iyana Ishashi, it's ripple effect is felt everywhere even down to IYANA Era because the buses will shunt passing through okoko-alaba-ilogbo or Afromedia and all come out at Iyanaera, it's always chaotic.

I always pray never to get involved in iyanaishai hold up. They should also chase all those trucks at Iyanaishashi, they also contribute to the traffic.

Some days back people came back home 3am from Alakija side holdup.
Let Ferma come and patch this road abeg and LASG should do quick with the construction, road that they started since 2008 at orile side.

We are already used to volks barracks traffic which reduced greatly over the years, it's like everything is back to status quo.

I only pity those who work on the Island and live here.

dominique:
Return it to where you got it from

Hello ma'am

I was banned by antispam bot in family section for trying to post on a thread I don't know how this banning thing works, pressed the submit button and gbam I was banned for 1 hour since yesterday evening, till now can't post there.

Edakun e epp me. Thanks.

Cultism haunts till death.

Very recently a school held a convocation and A Dad went to celebrate with his son, nobody knew he was a cult member that attended that same university. The boy is about 20years now, one of his people back then saw him and told him it's better he leaves that scene as soon as possible because it will be disastrous if others associate his son with him. The man quickly dropped cash for his son and sped off. The mother was shaking, she never even knew the husband was a cultist, they met abroad ni oo.

I was like for more than 20 years it's still haunting them, na real wa.

Growing up around a university that was renowned for cultism helped shaped my thought about them. Last Last you will pay.

newoffer:
Hmmmm. As a married man I still get good advances from female staff. My ex of ten years came back n request we continue. I cannot afford that kind of lifestyle because it will crash the day

Some women are possessed. Only a wicked soul will want to come between a couple. Self discipline is the key. Don't go where your life n personality will get puncture. Women are not fools.

[/b]The first chance they give you is called testing. after that u get to pay heavily. [/b]

Bros no vex but I just had to quote you for emphasis sake

Apart from the moral and religious part of it, cheating is very expensive ke. I don't know how men reason sha.

All these palava on top sex

One can get tempted yeah especially by what you see but allowing the thoughts to linger that you even start considering the temptation to the extent it becomes a pressure (abi I am not getting what pressure means again?) is what I find alarming

The most annoying statement I have read and still read on nairaland is the 'Men are polygamous by nature' statement. Wait first who even started brandishing that lie up and down around here.

Temptation is temptation it can happen to any man.
Pressure is on another level entirely abeg meaning you are constantly being moved to cheat on your wife.

Ka ma ri ooo

Lool

The most annoying part now is that their marketers are now professional debt collectors

We don't have steady light somewhere around ojo area too and the terrible part is that just streets away we have those who are connected to the so called federal abi it's Agbara line, they have light almost everytime and they even bill us more than them (my parents home are on that line). They said our own is state line

When it gets to between 13th -20th they supply electricity steady, if there's a fault you won't see the marketer around, for like 2weeks there may not be light but they will ensure they repair it towards that their bill payment week. The man willl now come with his bald head and big Tommy and be going house to house for payment after they bring the light for 2days.

If you say you have not paid he will tell you to bring the money and the bill, the dude will go to the office pay it and return the bill back If you say you don't have now he will ask you when you will pay and it's certain you will see him knock if you have not paid by that time they are that desperate to meet their target.

The question still remains why should I pay for what I am not using at least those on the federal line are using the electricity, we don't have supply up to half of what they get so why should I pay an exorbitant bill. Meter they didn't supply. Na real wa.

I believe competition happened

Lots of China made brands and then hayat kimlas molfix spoilt market for them.

By the way most(if not all) made in Naija pampers are of low quality. That molfix is an eyesore

Mariangeles:
This is what I call GRAND ENTRANCE ...you're welcome to the most sanest section on nairaland

Thank you

ibkayee:
Yum

Real Yum

First food post alert, have always been a salivator

I hope it uploads this time

Akara
Dodo and beans porridge

This thread still dey

Nigerian women are actually very hardworking and resilient. EOD

Ehen Elder001 I saw you type stuff about female inheritance bill at the national assembly. Whether they pass or not it's left for the cultures involved to modify their culture to accommodate females or else the bill if passed might be a waste of time.

BTW where I come from females inherit already, as a female you can inherit from your father, your mother (if she has personal properties) and then your husband . No special preference to the male child. Head to head sharing formular or sharing by group if you are from polygamous home i.e children from mother A are given X and they sort it out among them selves etc.