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Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie And His Second Wife, Judy Austin (Photos) by NoToPile: 8:28am On Apr 28, 2022
How people don't see anything wrong in this is terrible, wife found out he went to pay bride price on Monday and bride price was paid Saturday. If people like can't see how wrong it is then it is finished.



This is painful.
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Unveils His Second Wife And Son by NoToPile: 6:37am On Apr 28, 2022
ehay:
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When your old you'll understand there's a limit to what money can do for you. That's when you'll understand the meaning of having loved ones. My dad was no where close to broke, all he lacked was love and care from his wives, even his favorite wife disappointed him. Only people that grew up in a monogamous home in igboland think polygamy is fun and a man's birth right.
This is what people that are from monogamous families will never understand, a high percentage of people from polygamous homes will never recommend polygamy for any one.

Once you marry a 2nd wife and above it is every woman for her own children only. The man is OYO, Na our own not my own, there's a difference oo. When the papa now dies nko, yam pepper scatter scatter, some even scatter before the man dies. The money sef can fail him.
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's First Wife, May, Reacts To His Second Marriage & New Baby by NoToPile: 9:39pm On Apr 27, 2022
maasoap:
I don't think he's gonna come your house looking for who will save or rescue him. Emotions flying everywhere
Abeg let the emotions fly, This dude was disturbing social media up and down with story of his wife of his youth bleh bleh bleh how he married early,how it's good to start early how his son is like his brother. You still now came to announce 2nd wife you married after she born pikin wey don grow small and you are saying emotions shouldn't fly.

Anyway it still doesn't change the fact that polygamy is a game changer shikena. His papa never married 2 wives upon all his strong opinions on women matters E get why.
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's First Wife, May, Reacts To His Second Marriage & New Baby by NoToPile: 9:19pm On Apr 27, 2022
Nezzjnr:
This our double standard is nauseating.

We all bashed Mercy Aigbe for snatching a married man... But now in the case of Yul... He's entitled to more than 1 wife and it's not against the law.

Cmon you guys can do better.

I just hope he has enough strength to handle both wives because trust me... It won't be funny.

Go and ask children that came out from a polygamous family.


I wish him well
I also wish him well, polygamous family is never a joke. I hope he understands what he got himself into.

Besides it doesn't make economic sense to run 2 families these days.

Ile olorogun ogba were.
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's First Wife, May, Reacts To His Second Marriage & New Baby by NoToPile: 9:08pm On Apr 27, 2022
It's like people are forgetting the fact that he had impregnated this side chick, she has given birth pikin sef don grow small ( they said his wife was not aware) before he now quickly went to pay dowry last Saturday.

So basically he's been cheating she got pregnant, they had a baby, he now went to pay bride price.

Dude even had the effontery to announce on SM, Nawa oothis betrayal is another level sha.

That one sef was dating married man and she was now calling the name of Jesus on IG, Nawa.


It's not even about marrying 2 wives that's not even the issue here after all people marry two wives but they do it honorably at least.

I hope he knows polygamy is a game changer.
Family › Re: I Feel Like Giving Up, I Have Failed My Children by NoToPile: 3:35pm On Apr 27, 2022
Image123:
The minimum wage in Nigeria is 30,000. There are many private organisations that pay much less. There are many families being owed salaries for months both by government and private companies. Some of these families are more than 3 in number and they have not died. OF COURSE i know and agree that it is not enough but it is the reality of the condition. You should not spend or borrow above your limits.
This is financial wisdom 101. Even people who earn more don't have debts of 700k, this is definitely trying to live above your means.
She can cut down house rent and school fees by changing accomodation and school. No one's destiny is tied to a particular house or school.
Tough times don't last but tough people do. She has to be tough and disciplined on feeding too. Unfortunately, they can't eat the same things they were eating before. Either find cheaper or less for the mean time.
I do understand your point sha but the economy is just so messed up, money has little value these days. 2 years ago the 52k would have more value.


The major thing that keeps coming to my mind while reading the post is food food food and feeding money, especially with little children. 2adults can decide to spend less than 2 children, even fruits is expensive. For children to eat healthy meals these days you need some change in your hands.

Sighs!
Family › Re: I Feel Like Giving Up, I Have Failed My Children by NoToPile:
Image123:
You're obviously spending beyond your means, that's the chief pressure here. Cut down on spendings. Live and survive on 52k per month, it is possible. Live joyfully and take that weight off your shoulders.
Well 52k with 2 kids - feeding, paying houserent, school fees and all other things is not a joke, it's not enough simple. She will barely get by.

Just food stuff for the kids will gulp a substantial amount of that money. Food is astronomically expensive now. So what should she cut down, food for the family, house rent or school fees?

Just saying anyway, I hope OP gets help.

Anyway OP it's expected your MIL will think you are the one not allowing their son to live up to his responsibilities to them, if you ask me that's least of your worries, that's how some I laws are. if you explain to her and she doesn't listen just ignore her when she starts.

Your major aim now is to ensure you and your children get by and a bit comfortable at least till your husband's feet is stable enough to send chop money.
Properties › Re: Nigerians Warned Against Renting A House In Iyana Oworo, Lagos by NoToPile: 4:23pm On Apr 25, 2022
pocohantas:
As in, I am seeing this congested dark house and say it is not my portion? I had a list of RED FLAGS saved in my notes. I whip it out and start checking. If I see just one red flag kpere, nothing you fit tell me.

There was this fine apartment they took me to then. As I put one leg, I saw these boys with slippers and socks. I looked one side and saw their Lexus. Naso I turn back immediately. Ojuwa oni ribi o!
Amin grin grin

Laughing so hard,

The signs were always there so my question is why did they pay. There are crazy houses it's our duty not to fall into the trap.
Properties › Re: Nigerians Warned Against Renting A House In Iyana Oworo, Lagos by NoToPile: 12:42pm On Apr 25, 2022
Properties › Re: Nigerians Warned Against Renting A House In Iyana Oworo, Lagos by NoToPile:
There is a reason why you inspect a house and ask questions from people on the street and even Co tenants before paying.


Its not that difficult to get that information in a place like Oworo, and yes there are people that seem untouchable like him even govt officials and police will not like his wahala maybe now its on Twitter the state go will look into it.

Besides people will still rent the house sef Some Lagosian's can live anywhere with their hard earned money.

Modified: aproko don carry me go Twitter, it's like half of Lagos has lived in that house, only one guy said he discovered landlords mumu button. grin grin
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu: Lagos Blue Line Rail Project Is Currently At 90% Completion by NoToPile: 10:39am On Apr 25, 2022
DesChyko:
Oh.. Okay.

Omo, this road this rainy season again
Really headache, they have even blocked the middle lane from okoko down to Iyana Iba all motorists have to pass through the service lane when going towards okoko- Iyana Iba, before some of us shunt at iyanaera - Ilogbo - Ajangbadi to okoko but now they are constructing that bridge at abule so everybody coming from agbara has to come straight except you want to pass Alaba international which seems like a war zone of traffic during working hours.

If going to the igando route I just shunt at Iyana ishashi and come out at Iba, they have blocked the turning at igboelerin. I don't have the strength for that one way traffic to igboelerin junction.

Even when coming back to agbara side, there's always traffic between afro and church because of those passing one way to link igboelerin.

Point is going towards Iyana Iba straight now is a big headache, till they finish that bridge and link the fast lane and now the rains have started....
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu: Lagos Blue Line Rail Project Is Currently At 90% Completion by NoToPile: 7:21am On Apr 25, 2022
DesChyko:
So this project that provisions were made for and still being made for along Lagos-Badagry expressway will terminate at Mile 2??

Wonderful!

Three months don reach finish sha.
It's the first phase that terminates at Mile 2, maybe when this one is finished they will start the rail tracks from mile 2 - okoko. I believe the mile 2 - okoko will help Lagosians more. At least the 10lane road is terminating at okoko for now.

We have been on this Badagry road matter since2008- 2009, it is well.

Maybe if Ambode had done something about it for 4 years, it would have been faster sha.
Romance › Re: Best Man Steals Bride From Groom After Confessing Love In His Wedding Speech by NoToPile: 6:45am On Apr 24, 2022
grin grin


This type of exact scenerio can't really happen in Naija.

The closest to this kind of story I know is
V was dating guy A for about 5 years, we all knew him, they met while we were on IT when we were in school years back.

B (female) was getting married to C and V was the chief bridesmade, D was C s closest friend and the MC of the day.

A even came to the wedding as per my finances friend is getting married, all of us we were there ooo.This wedding took place in January.

By October we saw pre wedding pictures of V and D shuuu, I shock I looked at the picture and was like this is not the guy I know she was dating naa, and the guy in the picture looked familiar.

Long story short V met D at the wedding and they sha got married few months later, it was that time we got to know that V and A had been having issues serious issues since. We were even still talking about the proposal oo,when I saw her with an engagement ring while we were in the room and the bride was dressing up.

You now know the Irony B and Cs marriage broke down about one and half years later and V and D are still waxing strong.

I think the breakdown of the marriage evn affected B and Cs friendship, because their husband's too were closest friends.
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Kemi Adetiba And Oscar Heman Ackah Wedding by NoToPile: 10:15pm On Apr 23, 2022
pocohantas:
She made such a beautiful bride.

The problem now is…How Nairaland redpillers go take sleep this night?

Rare picture of a redpiller asking their leader why evening newspapers are getting married despite their campaign. cheesy
Lovely wedding pictures this week. Kemis gele in another outfit was really skentele.

Orishirishi fashion styles to see.


You and these redpillar people ehn, You sha like looking for their trouble. grin
Agriculture › Re: My Mom's Pineapple Plantation And Harvest (Pictures) by NoToPile: 8:08pm On Apr 23, 2022
Our real queens pineapple not that imported cotonu sugarsugar one they sell up and down.
Family › Re: Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by NoToPile: 2:26pm On Apr 23, 2022
Nice one, good you talked about it jare, ignore the bad comments now you both can work on it.

God bless you.
Health › Re: What Is Your Genotype??? by NoToPile: 2:01pm On Apr 23, 2022
Adjovi:
As
Ab- rearrest blood type in the world
I have a cousin who is AB - Truely rare.
Family › Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by NoToPile: 12:08am On Apr 23, 2022
[quote author=DoctorOlasDesk post=112181342]Nigerians can be very biased and very unbalanced in their judgements with their stereotypical prejudiced misinterpretations.

Eleven pages of people judging a woman who speaks up about her situationship. If it were a case where one committed suicide out of depression, the same people would say why did she or him not speak up.. The comments of 95% of people on this thread is sick and troubling and imagine the set of humans condemning another.
[/quote]Same thing running through my mind.

She needs someone to talk to about what she sees as a problem, is that supposed to be a bad thing?
Celebrities › Re: Caroline Danjuma: Linda Ikeji Was Part Of The Reasons My Marriage Failed by NoToPile: 9:54pm On Apr 22, 2022
Nawa so much emotions. How on earth will you write things like that's without verification.

Linda really hurt people oo.

Nawa ooo.

People should try and watch the video abeg.
Family › Re: Men, Can You Do This When Your Wife Is Not Around? [pictured] by NoToPile: 12:02pm On Apr 22, 2022
Babies of nowadays they know it's not their mum joor. You can't deceive these children.
Family › Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by NoToPile: 11:58am On Apr 22, 2022
allcomage:
No culture is 100% perfect but in Igboland, if innoson gifts his plastic factory to his daughter and his daughter marries an ogbomosho man .That factory in enugu automatically belongs to segun if she dies without a will even if she bore children for segun and segun can come from ogbomosho ,sell the factory 2b and pocket the money without any disturbances.
As a gift maybe but as an inheritance the bolded doesn't sound right oo.

It should be for the children fa.
Family › Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by NoToPile: 11:46am On Apr 22, 2022
wirinet:
No mind them, Nigeria has many Peter Nwachukwus ready to exploit and abuse women.
So if Paris Hilton should marry today, all the Hilton estates will belong to the husband.
Very valid question ooo.

Nawa oo.
Family › Re: Wives And Mothers, I Need Your Input by NoToPile: 11:11am On Apr 22, 2022
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.

Most times our instincts is always right.
Celebrities › Re: Rita Dominic's Newly Wedded Husband, Anosike, Called Out For Alleged #700k Debt by NoToPile: 9:16pm On Apr 20, 2022
Nawa for people oo.

So he couldn't call him out since abi Nawa.
Celebrities › Re: More Photos From Rita Dominic's Traditional Wedding by NoToPile: 9:11pm On Apr 20, 2022
Phew, this nude net sha, must everybody sew with it. grin
E too dey reign abeg.

Lovely ladies, nice dresses, is that not Lillian Bach wearing sunshades?

Joke sylva slaying as usual.


At least chochocho people will rest
Family › Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by NoToPile: 5:01pm On Apr 20, 2022
Acidosis:
You don't want to use beating or religion?? So what do you want to use? Is lying a crime? What if he lies for a "good" reason? Buhari lied about his education and he's today a president. Leave the boy to lie in peace. It's no crime.
Haba grin

If you lie you will steal oo, at least that's what our parents told us. It's good for one to tell the truth, honesty is one of the virtues that should be instilled in children nau.
Celebrities › Re: Full Video Of Rita Dominic Traditional Wedding Yesterday by NoToPile: 11:32am On Apr 20, 2022
Chochocho people will still not rest, Kai.

Congrats one of nollywoods finest. grin
Food › Re: How Much Is Golden Penny Spaghetti In Your Area by NoToPile: 11:01pm On Apr 19, 2022
Last time ai bought it was around 350 carton price oo.

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