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NairaMaster1:
Bad parenting. If you fear your parents you won't misbehave. There are many who are not in school but are well cultured.

crackhaus:
For a child to taunt another child for not having a washing machine or a dish washer at home, it's clear that his parents have failed.

Behaviour like that can only be learned from the adults in a child's life.

ablejesus26:
It's good to plan ahead of this things, because they are the ills that will always be in a social enclave.
The moment my boy turned 6 I enrolled him for martial arts and boxing training.
Plus I have already inputed the ideology that loosing the fight is not the big loss,but rather not fighting at all.

This is what we find ourselves in as parents so let's make sure they are mentally and physically equipped to at least survive in the cruel world we brought them into.

I would spank my son if he comes home to tell me someone is bullying him,with a 5years martial arts and boxing experience,
I know how much I dey pay for him boxing classes alone,where I come from we don't waste money, so if He doesn't fights off his bully and send a good don't try this with me signal he has wasted my money ☹️

Nuttella:
The mother said so. He spent first term in the school, came home and was acting so scared.

Nuttella:
The parents were very careless, they didnt listen to him when he told them to change his school, very careless parents. Now they have lost their only child and son. You noticed a change in the behaviour of your child for bad, how lean he got and you didnt do anything, how unusually quiet he has become. Parents of these days think their only responsibility is to provide money for their children. They dont take care of their psychological and emotional needs. I am an Educationist, have also taught in a school and I know what I am saying.

I feel so angry about this.

ivolt:
They press release is out there and nowhere did the school state the cause of the boys death as it is currently unknown.
They stated the injuries he reported to the school's doctor..



You seems to be a straw man expert, making up argument as you please.
When someone challenges your view, it is not the end of the world. The right approach
is limit the discussion to what was actually said.
Nothing said so far incriminate the school or anyone else.



Nope, most parents who have issues with school never go to the press.
They report erring students and teachers to the school first and if the issue involves violence,
they make police report.
There are at least 5 persons in the hospital with that kid, it is impossible they are all too busy to make a report.


What is better competence in treating an injury supposedly sustained during a football match?
Did you expect them to conduct X-rays, MRI and the rest over a trivial leg injury as reported?
FYI, that is not how medicine is done. You work from the simple to complex treatment as a case progresses.


What kind of better treatment did they give your kid?
Did they conduct X-ray, MRI or CT scan to determine if he has internal injuries?
Nope. They treated him based on what he reported just like Dowen did.


So what did you do after getting a call?
Hire an ambulance?


Are you sure you are even following the story?
Since Dowen did treated the kid when he reported, I don't see any point here.
Dowen is also not a mind reader to have known what led to it. They work with what they were told.
They obviously won't go around asking every student whether the boy really played football!

Again, not all injuries involve visible cuts, bruises and large blood loss. Some are well hidden even
to the patient and only starts to shows worrisome symptoms few days after the event.

For a similar story not involving a school, read this one.
https://dailypost.ng/2021/03/18/14-year-old-schoolgirl-beaten-to-death-by-male-classmates-in-abeokuta/
Yes, the parents failed to read their daughters mind and she died!



Lynch mob isn't justice, it is perversion of justice.

Buffalo2:
That's has been always my take on unruly students Expel them ASAP b4 they wreck havoc buh our money making owners of schools will never do that instead they cook stories against the victim
After closing the Dowen school for life the owner should be prosecuted and if found guilty, should be executed to serve as deterrent to others gullible school owners.

Kaybae:
I learnt same set of students were once reported for something related to this and the so called principal kept quiet..... Even if they are being flew from the earth to another planet, the anger of God Almighty will locate them and their entire family.

sisisioge:


Werey girl....70yrs old no be supre papito o....na confirm grandfather. Hian! Oyinbos no dey disturb themselves dey work into their 70yrs fa....baba go don retire teyteyand e no go without it up sef . So talk another one.

If your aim is to score a supre papito....look for a 50yrs old that looked like that slain Ataga. The guy was baby boy

Ladycewhy:
I bought mine from filling station, 424 per liter to avoid stories that touch.Its like water. But you are right ,I have seen the type you are talking about in the market ,I first mistook it for groundnut oil one time . That one is cheaper.

crackhaus:
All thief na thief abeg...

The main issue is that he remains accused, not guilty.

As for the bad boys you remember, are they still "bad" boys today?
Did their bad boy image in secondary school affect them or their parents/guardians today?

crackhaus:
Oh please, don't be willfully patronizing to her... No one is twisting her words.

She is gloating, plain and simple... It's as obvious as the white on rice.

She's talking about being "worried" about the image of a boy in a boarding school that he will eventually graduate from and probably never see anyone from there again, a boy that hasn't even been proven guilty...

Like seriously, what image can anyone have in primary/secondary school that will follow them for life?
It's a non-issue as far as the trajectory of a person's life is concerned.

Such faux concern for his image is bullshít because he is but just a boy, not an adult. You don't write-off a child you love, and this is how I know for a fact that she doesn't like him.

Would she type in that manner if the boy were her own son, or perhaps she's one of those people who will scream "my son can never be involved in something like this".

Let's try to be reasonable, shall we?

A lot of you (if not all of you) stole little things here and there when you were kids, don't even deny it.... Yet it seems y'all still turned out okay.

Hayee:
you can now see that Nigerian men hate good women
Please please and please can can make out few minutes to send the link of the thread abeg I have not been in Nairaland for long

BRATISLAVA:
Another emotionally charged headline.

Dig deep enough and you will find out that the man is not saying it as it truly is. Another strungup79.

We need to hear from this wife. You will be shocked at the truths she will reveal.

jornwhite:
Thats peculiar with yoruba tribe naw, the groom's family tend to contribute no matter how little, even the dowry collected some would even take few notes n return the balance.
Buh with other tribe its quite different, its more of a tribal issue, if i am an igbo man i won't take assistance from my inlaw