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Gisting!

I have a feeling. . .


A deep feeling. . .

That those who go about. . .

Looking for evil must have been carrying some. . .


, In their very hearts.

It is a law in psychology. Let apply it!

I don't know. I am meeting her for the first time.

What is special about Tope?

Debosky,
quite an age. I misses you like I miss oxygen, Hope she is taking care of you plenty plenty?

Osisi,
you are too harsh in your post. I believe you were joking.

Isoko wadooo! One Nation!

What is special? Why not grab the opportunity and collect free daily recharge cards from them?

Just to wish you many more years of prosperity and wisdom ahead.

May the lord spare you and make you one of the shinning star of your generation.

Hey, get over me!

Did you just say unresearched stupidity? Dead end sir!

My law is not absolule and the one above did not assume that only women are single parents. At least, I did not say that. It is a figmement of your imagination.

Now to my comment. When a responsible man sleep with a LovePeddler, he is either foolish or irresponsible to let the lady have child for him. That he didn't use protection, outline his foolishness for he know the lady is lose and could well had HIV.

When a man sleep with a responsible lady and it result in pregnancy, it is again either foolishness or irresponsibility that would make him deny paternity.

Now, on the third category. When a man and woman are married and for some reasons, the relationship break up, irreparably, only foolish and irresponsible men would abandon their children just like that. Even at law court, the man would be told to visit the child take part in his upbringing,

Now, Mr. Fault Finder, I need you to comment on the above. If you want to talk about male single parent, the door is open. Just reverse the above and put male in female.

@poster,
KILL HER CHILD AND MARRY HER AFRESH!

@topic,
For every single parent you find, you will count at least a foolish, irresponsible, runaway man.

That is the law of single parenthood as postulated by OLANAJIM.

Well Mr poster, the issue were really well presented. You made a good point, daprince. But that point is being turned to sympathy party for you. I am afraid, the silient issues had to be iron out or else your post might look as though you are courting sympathy.

The underlying messages are:

CAN KIDS FROM BROKEN HOMES MAKE A GOOD FAMILY MAN?

ARE KIDS FROM BROKEN HOME DIFFERENCE FROM OTHER KIDS?

WHAT REALLY DOES A BROKEN HOME IMPLIES?

The answers to the questions, if I must be honest with you are YES and NO!

It may sound harsh, but the truth is that it is very possible for children from broken homes to repeat the sins of their parents. It is also possible for them to do better than their so-called nornal kids. There is no perfect kid.

From my experiences, studies and observations, kids from broken homes and failed marriages are prone to many social vices. We must rather touch on why it happen and how to prevent it carry over than throw try to cover up.

The biggest problem we have around is our tendency to overcome a defficiency only to act as if it were never there.

Do you really need advise?

If yes, then go for "personal development course". You will thank your star.

Hmmm

Break? Hahaha that is exageration!

A year older,
still counting,
in health, wealth and wisdom,
unto thee be greatness.

Happy birthday, jk!

If you don't want to know iice, why are you here?

Seriously, I don't like the idea of testing one partner. It is sometimes, stupid act borne out of insecurity and lack of faith in the other person. On few occations, I have been tested by ladies. Though I passed the tests, I never take the girls serious again! In fact, I didn't go further in the relationships.

I am a natural a natural psychologist, I read through their minds faster than they could imagine. Once, I detect any dangerous motive, I would register my complaint if the insecurity persist, I would disengage before the relationship advance. Only one lady survived that.

Testing your partner is good but you must be VERY, VERY careful to avoid future kickback. You can know your partner in many honest ways than test him. The kind of test to choose, if you must test, must be something that won't lead to bad blood in future.

A lady tested me, I passed her test. Then, months later, I quietly gave her the same test, and she went berserk! Never give what you can't accept!

Instead of testing, know you guy very well. But if you insist on testing, I would give you more ideas.

@poster,
since you are a christain, I would advise you to find answer to your questions in the bible.

Sometimes, God bless us through things we dislike. Just to overide our selfish interest.

When children of Isreal ask for king, God gave then an unknown sheperd. They don't like that choice, but that choice played a great role in their progress. Again, the choice of David as the person to confront Goliat is also not what the people like. Today, history had shown God to be wise.

What if your pastor had asked you to marry a cripple or a blind man? Would have gone ahead?

If your pastor is NOT a fake, you are fortunate! But if he is just acting on his intuition and not God words, then God help ya!

@poster,
I like this your question. I will give you one or two clues but, it depend on you and fiance.

1. Tell him you have HIV virus and watch his reaction. Do so after, you have heard him say something like, without you, he can't live.

2. If he use yahoo mail, toast him as a strange lady using new yahoo ID. Then watch his reaction. If you are good, you will see what you look for!

@poster,
what do you mean by unbeliever? Is he a pagan or sango worshiper?

well done laydees, keep it rolling

the her to quyit now before she run mad!

lol

I was actualy busy in some way, it has nothing to do with "owo soap". I am yet to have a taste anyway,

I still want to try it,

how are you guys doing?

that is great, to be out of ths country,

IU saw your mail, I would communicvate with you. meanwhile, check the available websites and see if you can get an idea or two.

i agree with majamaje on the reason why peopl may not patronise the school but something can be done to make them patronise it,

@poster, do you mind sending me an email on the baove subject? I have done extensive research on it for sometime, and i can tell you that I know something about it workability,


oracle_nj@yahoo.com I would tell you more

Who is afraid of almondjoy? She can't hurt a fly!

Aj,
yes more questions coming. But remember to check your YIM as soon as you can. My messages had been waiting for you.

So back to naija issue. Are you saying you are one of few naija that ir not afflicted with the social vices you listed above? Or that the whole nation is afflicted except you? Or that only a few bad eggs abounds? I want a modification of your words. I agree that the nation is "sick". I refused to accept blanket condemnation of the whole nation! I just can't swallow that!

Nairaland used to be interesting. But it is undergoing recession. The moderator solution is just an attempt to give it life. I remember that guy telling us that no one can do it better than him! But for people like you, I would have gone since. I hope iice, mukina and co are allowed to do their best. Nairaland king is still a dictator.

So, what next? Ban!

What is all the fuse about moderators? The important thing is not who is there but doing the right. Anyway goodluck.

Aj,
what had Nigerians done you that you tagged them 419? Have you been a victim before?

Gosh, pele!

Words of wisdom from iice.

Ify,
I am going to try the owo soup! Next weekend. It is good for my kind. I love emergency soups.

Liftedone,
That circumcision myth had better remains a myth. It would be bad news for ladies.

Ufo?

Ify,
I am going to try the owo soup! Next weekend. It is good for my kind. I love emergency soups.

Liftedone,
That circumcision myth had better remains a myth. It would be bad news for ladies.

Ufo?