Dey play. The first officers and leaders of the Biafran Army, were from the Nigerian Army, trained by the Nigerian Army. If anything. It is a testament to the effectiveness of that training that the war lasted that long.
Jeweltz: Ned Nwoko is the type of man 97% of Nigerian men can’t be. Not because he’s rich and influential but because he’s caring and a good man overall. Tbh, one of my greatest fear in life is marrying a poor man. I pray everyday to God never to bring them my way. I deserve good things I know this. I deserve Ned Nwoko too
Dey play. Everybody dey look people on social media dey reason say dem Sabi dem!! Are you a woman that deserves such a man se
shebi na preach dem dey preach, nothing dey there . listen and move on or dont listen........abi the preaching dey touch u..................
DamianDd: I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?
Na you no shine your eyes when the thing dey start.
Nigaraw: Met this girl online last year January, after exchanging numbers we started vibing and the whole talking stage thing. Started dating a month later . Things were so good thought I have found myself a lovely soul. She was good but much more concerned about aesthetics, snap for the glam , do some weird things for Twitter likes. Her role models are always relationship people . Gave her some advice to go back to school because she was a drop out she didn’t heed.
Okay gave her money to start some business she spent on uselsss things . She just want all that lovely dovy Instagram lifestyle and relationship glamour . Couldn’t deal broke up with her . Ever since then it’s been one hell of a ride . Everyday subbing my ass on Twitter . I don’t block people never blocked any of my exes .
She’d upload guys pictures and all.I really don’t care now I noticed her freinds writing some shit and even have the guts to tag me . Like is it even up to that Like why can’t some people just deal with break up . You teaming up to sub your ex is the new cool now.?
I have been blocking some of her friends but they still keep opening burner accounts and tagging me . I run a business with my account anybody with a good suggestion??
document your grievances to the manager as they arise. do not document emotions document facts and occurences that are contrary to rules and the norm. this documentation will speak later. document via whatsapp and email.
Onpoint1010: I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.
As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.
I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.
Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.
Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.
Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.
I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?
Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.
tunddy: Any person or farmer here who can advice a close relative on how profitable will sardine fish farming in Nigeria be and what are the things to take into consideration, like how much will it cost to start at small scale and the likes, Thanks
Sardine is a marine fish (saltwater) except you are close to the ocean and have a lot of funds, i will advise against
timstone: I have a neighbor close to me she is about 60years old without a child She lives in bayelsa state . She want to adopt but don't know the process. Which state or orphanage home can she get a female child 1 to 2years old. I really need your help
Speak to a lawyer. It requires an application approved by a judge to adopt legally
deeptesting: It is no longer news to hear about couples going their separate ways today,immediately after separation or divorce most father`s cut off all ties with their ex including the children, it really beats my imagination why most men also divorce their children.
Most men quickly move into another relationship abandoning the children for the woman, they don`t call, visit or even write letters to the children. We have witnessed few cases here on Nairaland where the children now grown ups put up pictures of their fathers taken 30yrs ago in search of the man who gave birth to them..
id4sho: Even Chad, it's nothing new. France are the best maker of alpha jets and the french don't abandon their colonies do. IBB grounded our airforce for fear of coup. Thanks to buharis for heavy military expenditure
Do you realise that the ousted president was a close ally to France? so even France is in a pickle at the moment. The Niger airforce is nothing to write home about and ours is better by a few miles. notwithstanding this i do not support a military intervention by Nigeria, not out of fear but because ewe have our own fish to fry and that country is just too large. I was tackling you on the basis of your assertion that their air force is better than ours
I absolutely agree with you. just that Niger on its own has no airforce worthy of note to challenge Nigeria. We should not do anything militarily except to reinforce our border. If Ecowas chooses to intervene other members should provide troops we can provide a staging area.
maestroferddi: There is a theory that France is in the mix...
Nigeria cannot do a military campaign as at now...
Na humiliation dem go collect...
Besides, Niger is a very vast country in terms of land area so a ground-based invasion will prove catastrophic...
I don't support military intervention but what do you say when African politicians cannot be responsible for once?
slimfit1: Don't you try it Niger, that has better jet fighter than us. Imagine they have F16 we don't even have F1. If Tinubu don't want their airforce to level Aso Rock just ignore them.
While I don't support an invasion , Pls do your research again. Niger has better what? Post one link to support your assertion.
cybertruss: It's very funny that buharization of court order continues in Tinubu's rule. What sort of country are we in. Since the executive arm of government has made the court powerless, the court should be shut down. Judges and lawyers should look for another job. Let us not waste our money paying staff of a powerless courts that cannot tackle the executive arm of government. I don't know if this man is guilty or not but disregard to court order is not good.
A time is coming when a valid armed robber that is found guilty by the court will pour his spit on the judge and walk away and nothing will happen.
Fellow Nigeria, is that the type of nation you want to build for your children.
When a court grants bail, it does not amount to immediate release. The accused must first fulfil the conditions of bail then he would be released. This typically takes a few days. So the accused is taken back into custody pending the fulfilment of the bail conditions.
If he fulfils the conditions of the bail and he is not released, then you can premise your statement on those facts
PatEinstEin: Most Nigerians especially Igbos see the idea of moving back to their hometown as a defeat. If the City (for instance Lagos) becomes very difficult, I don't see anything wrong in relocating. There are people there afterall.
IjeBos: Ahh.. No trails. Surprising. The road bike was my first thought. But a friend cautioned that it was really unsafe (he lives on the island). How do they clubs navigate the traffic?
Typically they have a car driving behind them that serves as a barrier.
I used to cycle as a workout at a point, used to head out at past 6 and get back in by past 7 in the morning. Idea was to be off the road before traffic got crazy and that was weekends only.
IjeBos: I'm going to spend some time in Lagos the next few months. I was thinking of bringing one of my bikes for exercise. Are there any bike groups/clubs that ride regularly? How do you deal with the traffic? Also are there any bike trails/paths that are safe if I bring a gravel/mountain bike instead?
No trails I know off, just bring a road bike. There are some clubs I believe.
sholay4star: With no visible house on sight, the bee will just fly around then land a deadly sting, we've chased them from 2 hives so far, any idea of what can be done? Sadly, I'm always their target.
Farthing02: I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.
She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .
This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.
I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.
Bros you see this thing wey I embolden. Very important in marriage ooooo. If you feel disrespected at this point and the are physical confrontations at this point then there are potential big problems in future. Reason this marriage matter well oooo. It is for the rest of your life and things will likely get worse.
As for secretly speaking to her Dad, like someone said earlier already, pay a personal visit to the man rather than make a phone call.
Kirchoffs: I stay alone in a room and parlor self contain here in Lagos , although we have constant light, I have been in this area for less than 2year and light is at least 23-24 hrs per day.
I use 7000 naira to buy Nepa units on the 28th June and it’s finished already today being 12th of July, note that I don’t use anything that draws power in my house .
UPDATE!!!!
So I went to Nepa office today and I was told that there is a debt of 65k on the prepaid meter, each time I recharge Nepa takes off 60% from me for the debt settlement.
Now my question is, am I supposed to be paying a debt I don’t owe or is this the duty of the landlord.
Na landlord get Gbese adn he should have informed you of the debt on the meter. even if he did not you also should have asked. notwithstanding the Debt is the responsibility of your landlord but many of them are stubborn and wicked.
kunkelhanspeter: Good morning NL How is it possible for more than two months after giving someone employment letter no date to resume work? Is it a scam? In Construction company
I worked with this company for over 3 years. The company kept deducting pension and taxes every month without remitting. I have left the company for close to a year now and still no remittance.
Please is there any body I can report this to directly? Or I have to approach a court?
It’s annoying because mine ran into a million and this company is doing this to all the staff.
Please I need advice on how to approach the matter.
you can report directly to PENCOM (for pensions) and the state inland revenue service (for taxes) or take them to court.
Senkasa: I planted this giant Malaysian plantain suckling (4) 2 weeks ago in my backyard but it is yet to start growing. The other grown plantain tree has around 15 suckling clearly sprouting out but at a slow rate. I once dug hole near the roots and used fertilizer seeds on it but didn't see any result.
On the other hand, my banana sucklings are growing slowly unlike my neighbor's that are growing very fast with the leaves all over the fence.
I heard fowl or pig dump can work wonders but the former is scarce in my area. I am now planning on using pig dump
I need your suggestions pls..
The soil looks like it is low in organic content (meaning it may also be low in nutrients) and it looks very compacted (poorly drained) not much can be done about soil drainage now, so best option is to apply fertilizer or manure. I would recommend manure that has been allowed to age about 2 weeks. apply the manure to the base of the plants. fresh manure has the potential to harm the plants.
small time, if you never marry, he will say you must date his family member and not from the neighborhood.
DatNaijaGuy: You want are looking for an apartment and the landlord gives you this rules and regulations, will you still rent that apartment? Can you cope with this rules as a tenant?