IjeBos: I'm going to spend some time in Lagos the next few months. I was thinking of bringing one of my bikes for exercise. Are there any bike groups/clubs that ride regularly? How do you deal with the traffic? Also are there any bike trails/paths that are safe if I bring a gravel/mountain bike instead?
No trails I know off, just bring a road bike. There are some clubs I believe.
sholay4star: With no visible house on sight, the bee will just fly around then land a deadly sting, we've chased them from 2 hives so far, any idea of what can be done? Sadly, I'm always their target.
Farthing02: I’m on the verge of proposing marriage to my girlfriend whom have been dating for 2years now, but the issue is the frequent quarrels we do have over everything.
She disrespects me a lot and this sometimes lead physical confrontations .
This is making me contemplate to secretly call her dad to inquire why he’s separated from my girlfriend's mother, because she was raised by her mother alone alongside two other sisters and the man is happily remarried with other grown up kids.
I really would love to inquire why he left her because they are really bitter against him due to the fact that he neglected them according to what the mother once told me.
Bros you see this thing wey I embolden. Very important in marriage ooooo. If you feel disrespected at this point and the are physical confrontations at this point then there are potential big problems in future. Reason this marriage matter well oooo. It is for the rest of your life and things will likely get worse.
As for secretly speaking to her Dad, like someone said earlier already, pay a personal visit to the man rather than make a phone call.
Kirchoffs: I stay alone in a room and parlor self contain here in Lagos , although we have constant light, I have been in this area for less than 2year and light is at least 23-24 hrs per day.
I use 7000 naira to buy Nepa units on the 28th June and it’s finished already today being 12th of July, note that I don’t use anything that draws power in my house .
UPDATE!!!!
So I went to Nepa office today and I was told that there is a debt of 65k on the prepaid meter, each time I recharge Nepa takes off 60% from me for the debt settlement.
Now my question is, am I supposed to be paying a debt I don’t owe or is this the duty of the landlord.
Na landlord get Gbese adn he should have informed you of the debt on the meter. even if he did not you also should have asked. notwithstanding the Debt is the responsibility of your landlord but many of them are stubborn and wicked.
kunkelhanspeter: Good morning NL How is it possible for more than two months after giving someone employment letter no date to resume work? Is it a scam? In Construction company
I worked with this company for over 3 years. The company kept deducting pension and taxes every month without remitting. I have left the company for close to a year now and still no remittance.
Please is there any body I can report this to directly? Or I have to approach a court?
It’s annoying because mine ran into a million and this company is doing this to all the staff.
Please I need advice on how to approach the matter.
you can report directly to PENCOM (for pensions) and the state inland revenue service (for taxes) or take them to court.
Senkasa: I planted this giant Malaysian plantain suckling (4) 2 weeks ago in my backyard but it is yet to start growing. The other grown plantain tree has around 15 suckling clearly sprouting out but at a slow rate. I once dug hole near the roots and used fertilizer seeds on it but didn't see any result.
On the other hand, my banana sucklings are growing slowly unlike my neighbor's that are growing very fast with the leaves all over the fence.
I heard fowl or pig dump can work wonders but the former is scarce in my area. I am now planning on using pig dump
I need your suggestions pls..
The soil looks like it is low in organic content (meaning it may also be low in nutrients) and it looks very compacted (poorly drained) not much can be done about soil drainage now, so best option is to apply fertilizer or manure. I would recommend manure that has been allowed to age about 2 weeks. apply the manure to the base of the plants. fresh manure has the potential to harm the plants.
small time, if you never marry, he will say you must date his family member and not from the neighborhood.
DatNaijaGuy: You want are looking for an apartment and the landlord gives you this rules and regulations, will you still rent that apartment? Can you cope with this rules as a tenant?
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Majorbankz007: I have been having very heated arguments with my ex girlfriend. One time while having an argument, I got really mad and threw a glass cup to the wall.
Our argument and differences has gotten really bad and we broke up 2 days back. Yesterday, she called me and asked If I was at home, but I wasn’t. She came to my work place to get the keys to my apartment, claiming she forgot her stuffs at my place.
I gave her my keys and after 35 mins she came back to my work to return the keys, I did not suspect anything.
This morning Before going to work, I decided to use my eye drops. I opened it and it slipped of my hands and fell off, I picked it up. When trying to use it, I noticed the liquids immediately glued to my finger.
Someone emptied my eye drops and fill it up with super glue, I don’t know who to suspect other than my ex girlfriend.
I don’t know what to do, please advice. Mature minds only.
Should I report this to the police or discuss it with her family ?
Call her and tell her you used Ur eye drops and your eyes can't open, that you dailled her using Google assistant /siri and she is the only one u could call like that and ask for help to see her reaction
Ozzyk: Hi guy, so about 3 months ago I met this lady we got talking and enter relationship. She was all sweet and lovely until we had misunderstanding and I yelled at her (WhatsApp chats) tbvh I was at fault maybe I should've been more patient with her but i verbally abused her... I apologized over and over again although she accepted my apologies but it's been over a month now and she's never thesame sweet girl I used to know she's been salty and cold since then. In desperation to bring back the good old times I bought her gifts and stuffs but nothing changed. Every time I talked about us how to make us go back to the way we used to but she'll emotionally blackmail me, she's been very very manipulative since then, she doesn't even call, doesn't text I felt like I'm loosing my self esteem and masculinity trying to get us back. Everytime I apologize again she'll tag me insecured, obsessive and pretender and say all sorts of manipulative statements. PS: this is the first time we ever had issues in our relationship So I'm thinking about just giving her space, and focus on more important things I need to regain my pride and ego pls advise me
Cromagnon: Yes it did You are the one leading your life badly They are achieving their goals You better get your shit together instead of looking for who to blame for your decisions in life
Cromagnon: Oya no pay tax na may we see whether na option No fix the highway may we see who go buy extra brake and tire and repair accidents and who .pikin go die Ontoo bad road or who go burn extra fuel inside go slow It ain't the politicians. And you go still pay the complete tax like it or not
I'm just saying it as it is
We can either pay 2 times and suffer(tax and above mentioned expenses) Or weu can pay twice and enjoy (tax and self help) our choice which twice we want but we will pay twice by force
Tycyborg: Why are you like this nah... Did I hear you say president is the one to fix a state road or local government road? Or will you say you don't know they all have jurisdiction... ? Hold your LGA, house of rep, councillors and state government responsible for whatever is going on in your state... This is just another problem for Nigerians... They always call the wrong people.
Oga read am well, all the people u said we should hold I mentioned in my statement. There are federal roads in the east and other regions that are also terrible hence presidio mention. But abeg read Wetin I talk again.
when i see roads like this and those that are worse my heart breaks. there is wickedness in the hearts of our leaders cos many have passed and ignored the road. from councilors to LGA Chairmen, to State house of assembly members, to House of rep members, to Senators, to Governors, all the way up to presido. between all these people no one deemed it fit to fix the road. same plays out in many communities, there are communities without power or some that have not seen power in years adn they have all these leaders coming from or responsible for them.
lots of guys sleep with Prostitutes but what worries me about your case is that you are keeping the score........like why?!!
even tracking protection and non protection.
Maybe you need therapy.
on the flip side what about them has you hooked?
Pussykills: I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.
The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.
In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.
This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.
What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.
Yes it is. Marriage is not a game. To succeed it is important that all parties are open about the baggage they carry. Surprises mid-way can be disastrous.
Difficult conversations must be had before marriage and there will be many more during marriage.
There must be accountability too. a partner who is not accountable, not ready to be open and cannot have difficult but necessary conversations is a disaster waiting to happen.
BeStroNG: Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.
I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.
What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?
Although they are not spiders but from the scorpion family. unlike scorpions they are not poisonous however due to the strength of their jaws they can deliver a painful bite.
Give400: I dunno which section to post this type of a thing but I think I just escaped a very dangerous thing happening to this morning .
So I used concentrated sniper in my room yesterday and for the first I woke up to something crawling on my neck. I flung it away only to check and found this strange creature crawling on my bed. I killed it immediately right there and it spilled out some dark substance in its belly on my bed. Very dark that I will have to wash bedsheet.
Worst part is I don't even know its name but I believe it must belong to a specie of spiders. I have never seen it before.
So guys does anyone know what this creature is. And how posinous is it?. Lemme know what I just escaped. What if it but me? Omo
Mods kindly push to the front page for more input. Cos this is my first time seeing this one.
voiceofpaul: Okay, in the bigger sense of it, I wrote the article to shed the light on the overdependence of Nigeria on foreign made goods. It's total rubbish.
You also need to understand that having the full ownership of the entire manufacturing and sales processes for the Jerseys should be domiciled that will keep on recycling the economic values created along the entire supply chain.
I get you. The issue is that o Nigerian sports line can offer the kind of money that a Nike or Addidas would offer.
Local production is great but we can't compete in all sectors all the time. We must look at our comparative advantage and compete there.
Agric is one such sector, we need to stop exporting agro produce directly. We must do some processing and value addition before exporting.
Ever country imports some things, but should we be importing potato chips when we are said to be one of the largest producers or sweet potato or chocolate when we have(or had) a massive cocoa sector
Godyke: Both Good Friday, Easter, and the myth of not eating meat are not in the Bible. Therefore all of the mentioned practices are unbiblical and does not make it Christianly according to you.
Oose joor, our people no wan dey read their Bible. They want to be spoon fed
if you value your peace of mine. you either demand to be introduced to the Man as who you are or you should just walk away. my inner mind says walk away sha