₦airaland Forum

Diesel and Kerosine have been deregulated a long time ago. Hence their prices always fluctuate.

When Dangote's refinery is full functional we really don't know what prices will be cos that depends on the price of crude itself.

If crude goes up everything goes up, if it comes down then everything should come down.

Diesel and Kerosine did not go up cos they are not being subsidised. Only PMS is subsidised.

All of us for this country join dey greedy and self destructive. Na only personal gain we dey find and e dey kill us

Has it ever been about competence

Majorbankz007:
I have been having very heated arguments with my ex girlfriend. One time while having an argument, I got really mad and threw a glass cup to the wall.



Our argument and differences has gotten really bad and we broke up 2 days back. Yesterday, she called me and asked If I was at home, but I wasn’t. She came to my work place to get the keys to my apartment, claiming she forgot her stuffs at my place.


I gave her my keys and after 35 mins she came back to my work to return the keys, I did not suspect anything.

This morning Before going to work, I decided to use my eye drops. I opened it and it slipped of my hands and fell off, I picked it up. When trying to use it, I noticed the liquids immediately glued to my finger.

Someone emptied my eye drops and fill it up with super glue, I don’t know who to suspect other than my ex girlfriend.


I don’t know what to do, please advice. Mature minds only.

Should I report this to the police or discuss it with her family ?

Call her and tell her you used Ur eye drops and your eyes can't open, that you dailled her using Google assistant /siri and she is the only one u could call like that and ask for help to see her reaction

Wahala. Rush russh for what?! She probably dodged a bullet. There is more to this than the length of the list.make pastor talk true abeg

Ozzyk:
Hi guy, so about 3 months ago I met this lady we got talking and enter relationship. She was all sweet and lovely until we had misunderstanding and I yelled at her (WhatsApp chats) tbvh I was at fault maybe I should've been more patient with her but i verbally abused her... I apologized over and over again although she accepted my apologies but it's been over a month now and she's never thesame sweet girl I used to know she's been salty and cold since then.
In desperation to bring back the good old times I bought her gifts and stuffs but nothing changed.
Every time I talked about us how to make us go back to the way we used to but she'll emotionally blackmail me, she's been very very manipulative since then, she doesn't even call, doesn't text
I felt like I'm loosing my self esteem and masculinity trying to get us back.
Everytime I apologize again she'll tag me insecured, obsessive and pretender and say all sorts of manipulative statements.
PS: this is the first time we ever had issues in our relationship
So I'm thinking about just giving her space, and focus on more important things I need to regain my pride and ego pls advise me

Walk away

Cromagnon:
Yes it did
You are the one leading your life badly
They are achieving their goals
You better get your shit together instead of looking for who to blame for your decisions in life

Sorry ehn. It is well

Cromagnon:
Oya no pay tax na may we see whether na option
No fix the highway may we see who go buy extra brake and tire and repair accidents and who .pikin go die Ontoo bad road or who go burn extra fuel inside go slow
It ain't the politicians. And you go still pay the complete tax like it or not

I'm just saying it as it is

We can either pay 2 times and suffer(tax and above mentioned expenses)
Or weu can pay twice and enjoy (tax and self help)
our choice which twice we want but we will pay twice by force

Does that negate from the point I Initially made?

PTSD from bad leadership

lexy2014:
Why do you think the story is true?

Why do you think it is not?

Tycyborg:
Why are you like this nah... Did I hear you say president is the one to fix a state road or local government road?
Or will you say you don't know they all have jurisdiction... ? Hold your LGA, house of rep, councillors and state government responsible for whatever is going on in your state... This is just another problem for Nigerians... They always call the wrong people.

Oga read am well, all the people u said we should hold I mentioned in my statement. There are federal roads in the east and other regions that are also terrible hence presidio mention.
But abeg read Wetin I talk again.

Cromagnon:
how many have you tried to fix
But no wickedness or in the heart of the citizens abi
The politicians feel from heaven ko?

No be by crocodile tears o

Bros, did you read the last sentence in my statement.

After I don pay tax, make I still fix highway, at least when community project arise I dey out hand, put money

superCleanworks:
Exactly first thing that came to my mind. Just like an item from a serial killer journal.

Wahala!!!

when i see roads like this and those that are worse my heart breaks. there is wickedness in the hearts of our leaders cos many have passed and ignored the road. from councilors to LGA Chairmen, to State house of assembly members, to House of rep members, to Senators, to Governors, all the way up to presido. between all these people no one deemed it fit to fix the road. same plays out in many communities, there are communities without power or some that have not seen power in years adn they have all these leaders coming from or responsible for them.

walahi we are a wicked bunch.

lots of guys sleep with Prostitutes but what worries me about your case is that you are keeping the score........like why?!!

even tracking protection and non protection.

Maybe you need therapy.

on the flip side what about them has you hooked?

Pussykills:
I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.

The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.

Yes it is. Marriage is not a game. To succeed it is important that all parties are open about the baggage they carry. Surprises mid-way can be disastrous.

Difficult conversations must be had before marriage and there will be many more during marriage.

There must be accountability too. a partner who is not accountable, not ready to be open and cannot have difficult but necessary conversations is a disaster waiting to happen.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Sun spider aka camel spider.

Although they are not spiders but from the scorpion family. unlike scorpions they are not poisonous however due to the strength of their jaws they can deliver a painful bite.

Give400:
I dunno which section to post this type of a thing but I think I just escaped a very dangerous thing happening to this morning .

So I used concentrated sniper in my room yesterday and for the first I woke up to something crawling on my neck. I flung it away only to check and found this strange creature crawling on my bed. I killed it immediately right there and it spilled out some dark substance in its belly on my bed. Very dark that I will have to wash bedsheet.

Worst part is I don't even know its name but I believe it must belong to a specie of spiders. I have never seen it before.

So guys does anyone know what this creature is. And how posinous is it?. Lemme know what I just escaped. What if it but me? Omo


Mods kindly push to the front page for more input. Cos this is my first time seeing this one.

voiceofpaul:
Okay, in the bigger sense of it, I wrote the article to shed the light on the overdependence of Nigeria on foreign made goods. It's total rubbish.

You also need to understand that having the full ownership of the entire manufacturing and sales processes for the Jerseys should be domiciled that will keep on recycling the economic values created along the entire supply chain.

I get you. The issue is that o Nigerian sports line can offer the kind of money that a Nike or Addidas would offer.

Local production is great but we can't compete in all sectors all the time. We must look at our comparative advantage and compete there.

Agric is one such sector, we need to stop exporting agro produce directly. We must do some processing and value addition before exporting.

Ever country imports some things, but should we be importing potato chips when we are said to be one of the largest producers or sweet potato or chocolate when we have(or had) a massive cocoa sector

Godyke:
Both Good Friday, Easter, and the myth of not eating meat are not in the Bible. Therefore all of the mentioned practices are unbiblical and does not make it Christianly according to you.

Oose joor, our people no wan dey read their Bible. They want to be spoon fed

voiceofpaul:
Okay even with sponsorship, why can't we have a Nigerian brand that will have a partnership with out own football club?

There partnerships between Nigerian brands and Nigerian clubs and the super eagles also.

Some of the local clubs have jersey sponsors now

it is a sponsorship deal not a payment deal. we get the benefits they get publicity and jersey sales to populace

if you value your peace of mine. you either demand to be introduced to the Man as who you are or you should just walk away.
my inner mind says walk away sha

ask yourself whether UN has ever deployed in a country without a UN resolution and an announcement. Show us where there is an announcement of deployment in Nigeria.

Abi UN don dey hide do things?

Alarmists everywhere

wahala be like wetin again..........................................??!!

scanner1000:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday..

Please I have something bothering me for a long time now. It's about my girlfriend not accepting to have intimacy with me, saying we should marry first.. I'm a young man trying to stand firm before thinking about marriage.. But she do pressure me on marriage since I'm always disturbing her for sex. Although she is a virgin which I have confirm.. She is a hardworking gal and independent. She hardly ask me for money and even whn I get money I hardly give her base on sex issues.. I have been celibate for about two years now and I'm not d type dat Bleep around.. She visited me dis January we only romance and I almost force myself inside her.. So I'm planning to visit her but she said no romance or sex and we are on a distance relationship. I base in Edo state while she base in Ondo state . So I feel transportation to visit her is a waste because no fun.. Just talking talking with high transportation too..

Pls I need advice and don't mind my grammatical errors.

You guys are clearly not on the same page. So much so that your individual points of view may. E enough to to cloud judgment.

You guys .UST sit-down, talk and decide of this is really worth it.

Flawless18:
I don’t argue and I hardly post on this forum. But what I’m sure of 💯, I can argue it like kilodeee 😂😂😂 Pls visit your uncle in the village to ask questions and see things. Alligator is called áwón/awònrìnwòn/áñtá in Yoruba. Crocodile is called óní in Yoruba.

Even Tigers have a name in Yourba and Tigers are not found naturally occuring in Africa.

See these links
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alligator
https://www.totalreptile.com/are-there-alligators-in-africa/

I challenge u to show me via a Google search that alligators occur in Africa

Mrvictorwrite:
This looks like Alligator. Alligators are amphibians tho.

Crocodile actually, alligators are found in North America mainly. None in Africa

telling him to shut up was wrong .for the average Naija man thats a lot to swallow. However, that does not justify the slap and his reaction seems over the top.

its either there are other things you are not telling us, or he is not telling you.

something is off.

Wifey123:
I’m a black American, living in Nigeria with my husband, who is Nigerian. Today, we had a misunderstanding. I was trying to explain something that happened with the POS decline when I bought something. I was trying to explain and he was getting angry with me because he felt that I was not explaining well. He kept harping on it even though I repeated the amount at least 3 times. I’d also bought him a meat pie and I was tired of him being mad over me not explaining properly because I couldn’t figure out how I could have been more clear. I said:

“Just shut up and eat the meat pie.”

I immediately regretted that I said something so disrespectful to my husband and I apologized. He threw the meat pie out of the window and started yelling at me while we were in the call. Called me names and who am I, that I would never disrespect him again. That I’m a stupid and useless mother. I apologized again and started to cry. He told me to “Shut the F*** up.” He threatened to punch me and then he slapped me in the face. He said that this is Nigeria, not America and he could “break my head and nothing was going to happen.” He told me “Fu** me a million times. He said that the marriage is over and that I won’t see him again.

We got home he said that this was the third time that I told him to shut up and that this was how it starts. He’s right, I did say it twice before over the past year but in my defense, I said it while he was yelling at me, calling me names and saying that I was useless. I never called him names or raised my voice or had any insults. He admitted that he gets angry and before promised that he will not insult me or tell me “F*** you” again.

He was packing a bag in our room. I apologized profusely and cried and begged him not to leave. I said that I was so sorry and I’d never disrespect him again. He said that I should leave too. He threw two bank cards at me and said that I could use those until I decide to leave our house. I took this as him telling me to go back home to America as I have no where to go here.

I started sobbing then. I followed him to the car and begged him not to leave. That I didn’t want to end our marriage. He told me that he will not tolerate disrespect and that we needed a break. That I talk to him like a child? I don’t know what he’s referring to and he had never said that before. I always do whatever he asks, whenever he asks and I never intended to disrespect him. Then he told me to get out of the car. He drove away.

Now that he’s gone and my face is still sore from being slapped, I’m thinking hard about this. I messed up by being disrespectful. However the anger that he showed was next level. I have never been hit before, he never even threatened to hit me before he even threatened to punch me. This man who loved me just this morning. This man who said he wanted to thank my mother for giving him such an amazing wife. Now essentially acted as if he hates me. Violence is usually progressive. A slap, then a punch, then it goes on from there. I don’t know what to do. Should I go home. My family will tell me to leave. I can’t believe that this happened. I lost my marriage within 15 minutes? Should I leave and go to an Airbnb? What if he turns off the cards? How will I even get cash? I don’t know what to do so I’m asking strangers.

Questions that people will likely have: My husband and I have known each other for 7 years, mostly as friends long distance. Married for under 2 years. This is not an age gap relationship or anything. We are the same age. We never filed for him to come to America or anything and that wasn’t in our plans.

is the BOnsai on the tale real? if so what specie?

HeartlessMan:
I was just chilling alone since there's no water in my crib to wash off cum if I invite any olosho over. Next thing the sky became overcast & dark. It was about to rain or so I thought. A strong Southern wind blew my curtains to form this curious sight.

At first I first ignored it but then it blew stronger to that shape again this time with a lightning bolt that I had no choice but to jump up and scream Blood of Jesus! like a newly-commissioned Chosen MOPOL.

I went to tie my curtain like UyaiIncomparabl's destiny this time but the wind untied it like and blew it again to form this image. Then I used all my commando muscles and held my curtains down but again the wind flung me away like a used condom and reformed the shape again.

I've sustained serious injuries.

Please what does this sign mean?

Pay the new rent, or you move. Those are your option. The landlord is within his rights to increase rent.

My friend once order the 9pro and it came. That was about 2 years back or so

After using school fees to impress babe, he deserves the tears.

ahnie:
Ok sir.
My freezer is empty.
Hopefully I m fighting it.

Reduce by 1 bottle this week, 2 weeks time try and reduce by another one bottle. When u get to once a day, start skipping days.

Easier said than done but u can do it if determined

ahnie:
I m addicted to carbonated drinks and it's beginning to sound weird and I can hardly do without taking like 3 a day in every meal I take.

It's like there's a force propelling me to always take carbonated drinks.

Pls how do I get rid of such unhealthy habits?

Na small small I solve this problem in my life, gradual reduction till I could go weeks without. E no easy na discipline. No dey buy keep for house oooooo