₦airaland Forum

Blurpy:
I think the behaviour of Nigerians in diaspora needs to be curtailed or rather we need to caution them often as they are bringing more problems to us. I don't get how some people will be lucky to get visa to a more developed country and go there to constitute nuisance and commit crime to earn a living, some of them even plan before hand to go and overstay their tourist or visit visa and become illegal immigrants.

This is all shades of wrong, we are doing more harm to ourselves as a nation, we should stop that. Some parts of Europe, Nigeria is synonymous with prostitution, while India, South Africa, Thailand etc, a Nigerian is being looked at as a potential drug dealer, other countries like Turkey, Ghana,UAE etc, the scammers there have done a very good job in giving us a bad name.

Recently, some Nigerians in Dubai engaged in cult clash taking human lives in the process which ended up getting a direct employment visa ban on Nigeria.

Ghana, on the other hand has visa free access to Singapore, Dubai, South Africa just to mention a few, while a Nigerian passport holder will have to go through a lot of cash and stress just to visit these places.

I know the country is bad and most people are looking to leave, we should not go to another country to commit crimes, we are only making this harder for ourselves, we will all be stuck here with nowhere to go.

There's no reasonable place a Nigerian passport can take you without visa, even amongst the visa free countries and visa on arrival countries, there's still a high chance of being sent back at the port of entry.

Imagine Nigerians having to wait for four to five months just to get a response from South African embassy here, same Africa oh, just response, not that it'll be approved oh.

Please we should be good ambassadors of our country, there are a lot of Nigerians doing fantastically well in various sectors as medical doctors, nurses , in academia as lecturers, engineers etc, let us not allow the bad deeds overshadow the good deeds.

You'll hardly hear of a Kenyan, a Senegalese etc being caught in a crime outside of their country. The pressure to make it big and fast then come back home to pepper others is a contributing factor! We can do other legitimate business and still make money.

Stop going to Ghana, Kenya, South Africa, Malaysia, Thailand, Turkey etc all in the name of collecting UPDATE to make it!. Please!

AroleOduduwa2:
I won’t be surprised if those awards were bought. He seem like a good cop, but I will like to know why he is yet to arrest any one from the north where banditry and terrorism has ravaged. Why only the southern most of which they kill extrajudicially. We don’t even know if they are guilty or not.

saintade01:
Buhari meets British Prime Minister, Boris Johnson, discuss insecurity in Nigeria

Published on July 29, 2021By Ochogwu Sunday



https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2021/07/29/buhari-meets-british-prime-minister-boris-johnson-discuss-insecurity-in-nigeria/%3famp=1

PCG001:
тнoѕe polιce are ғιgнтιng ғor тнeιr pocĸeтѕ
тнey wanna geт coмpenѕaтed вy тнe ѕιnger

вυт ιғ na we norмal cιтιzen тнeм roв
oмo, na dιғғerenт тнιng enтιrely
тнoѕe polιce won'т even do aѕ ιғ тнeм dey dυтy тнaт day

KratosCorp:
British government should explain why they issued a replacement passport to a British citizen? Oh lawd.

Just imagine how depraved and animalistic Nigeria has turned you despite your education. You now defend government criminality and lawlessness with shameless vigor.

This is how you lots defended Buhari for breaking into the judges' homes at night, forcing a CJN out of office illegally to install his stooge. Now what have happened to any of those judges after the media trial?

Did you see how you conveniently left out the fact Buhari sent criminal soldiers to kill Nnamdi KANU extra-udicially - in which process they killed 28 armless young men in cold blood for choosing to stand by their leader.

Danchibez:
U lacked knowledge of international law, so keep quiet. The Nigerian govt u r supporting fail woefully on this. No judge in the world will ever allow the trial of NK without sorting out the circumstances surrounding his kidnap from Kenya to Nigeria which is a breach of international protocol. Try to kn the meaning/process of 'repatriation', it is good for ur health

SeeThisLoser:
https://punchng.com/britain-firm-seek-kanus-consent-to-take-over-case/

SenecaTheYonger:
They're intolerant like the North hence the xenophobia against every other countrymen living there. Burning of properties during endSARS was done by politically sponsored thugs.

SenecaTheYonger:
I’m convinced now that South Africans are indeed like Northern Nigeria especially their men. The country is only civilized and prosperous because of the presence of White men. I didn’t believe this before, but it’s starting to make sense.

South Africa could not have become what it is if it was solely Blacks.

I can say that Nigeria is really trying because we’re solely Blacks with the north constant pulling is backwards but we still the strongest economy in Africa

SavageResponse:
With propeller driven World War1 era aircraft?

TUANKU:
Nice one.
But can't Nigeria afford an F16 at least?

naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p4E45vFfPU

Nemere2020:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-nlc-suspends-mass-action-in-kaduna

oshozondii:
https://dailytrust.com/just-in-kaduna-crisis-gradually-degenerating-into-anarchy-nulge

family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

Omihanifa:
https://punchng.com/well-keep-baba-ijesha-until-jusun-resumes-police-tell-protesters/

Maxymilliano:
https://www.reubenabati.com.ng/index.php/component/k2/item/29396-people-misquoted-me-i-didn-t-mean-to-mock-adeboye-over-son-s-death-sunday-igboho/post

Racoon:
Whao! What a time to be alive seeing the so called unknown BH terrorists and their sponsors, well wishers and supporters overtly revealing themselves for all to see

Imagine these people advocating for a well known and hardened terrorists to become the president.They have given Nigeria a terrorist supporter as president anyway.Daily Trust have joined the league.

RuudVanNisteroy:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/abuja-kano-road-pdp-calls-for-review-of-n212bn-per-kilometre-cost/

thatsleepboy1:
Wow wow wow!!! Their secrets are gradually coming out to the public.

Gjrich:
We Have Killed Captured Fulani Bandits’ Leader, Mohammed Isa, We Don’t Spare Terrorists— IPOB



http://saharareporters.com/2021/03/11/we-have-killed-captured-fulani-bandits%E2%80%99-leader-mohammed-isa-we-don%E2%80%99t-spare-terrorists%E2%80%94

ivolt:
The appointment letter is authentic. They are just shocked that it leaked out.

expressglory:
Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/02/fg-has-frozen-my-bank-accounts-sunday-igboho-raises-the-alarm/amp/

mastermaestro:
You are being delusional! Which Nigerian court are you talking about? The courts presided over by judges whose homes are sometimes invaded by the same FG-enabled DSS?

Today Twitter guarantees you justice more than any court in Nigeria!

envoymedia:
US-based Nigerian professor and Political columnist, Okey Ndibe was allegedly detained by the DSS before being allowed to board his flight yesterday January 20, IgbereTV reports.

Tge disclosure was made on Twitter by Nigerian-born former Chief of Staff to the Board of Montgomery County Public Schools in Rockville, Maryland, (MCPS) USA, Ikhide Roland Ikheloa.

Ikhide tweeted;


https://twitter.com/ikhide/status/1352009876906668036?s=19

He later made an updated on the tweet. He wrote;


https://twitter.com/ikhide/status/1352016174956089345?s=19[/quote]Nothing untoward here in my own opinion.

People get pulled over all the time at airports across the world.

As long as he wasn't whisked away to an underground cell somewhere afterwards, I think we are making a mountain out of a molehill.

The DSS and other security agencies should be allowed to do their jobs. If anyone feels their rights have been infringed, take it up with the law.

Twitter isn't a court.

Pmpm:
https://punchng.com/pigeons-released-by-buhari-refuse-to-fly-at-armed-forces-remembrance/?amp=1

Hillard:
I Foresee Nigeria’s Break Up, Coup If… – Prophet Olagunju



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/new-year-prediction-i-foresee-nigerias-break-up-coup-if-prophet-olagunju/