₦airaland Forum

moscobabs:
Exactly, my car blocked this woman around GRA Ibadan years ago, if u see the way this woman was shouting as if dog bites her, I wanted to open door and shout at her back that was when I discover its Sola

She is using her temperament to make money, what are you using yours for.

seunmohmoh:
My sister works with her on set. The same way she shouts in movie is the same in real life.

We like her like that

Eze2000:
When they say Nigerian youths are useless, rude and can't read, the same Nigerian youths think we mature adults are insulting them. Just look at these two talking trash to me when they don't have all the information about my family or me. Mynd44 how can people ever be expected to answer a question honestly with dedicated trolls like these running wild on this website?





When you are greatly offended in life you have 2 choices.

1. Fight for yourself or
2. Let God fight for you.

In fighting for yourslef you can do so physically or with the aid of evil powers i.e witches and native doctors. I chose number 2 above and that means waiting for God to deal with him. And hey, before you start trolling me about waiting in vain let me inform you that the multi-millionaire of yesterday is now finding money difficult today, has already shut down 3 business and sold one of his 3 cars in Nigeria.

God may be slow in action but never fails. I chose him.





My father was a young captain in the Biafran war. He fought in war fronts until Canada started helping Biafra by supplying it food and so translators of French to Igbo were needed. That was how my dad, an Igbo man who spoke French fluently, got promoted to Captain and given an administrative job. After the war, one of the white men he worked with took him to Canada. My dad was in Canada when his only brother was jailed for rape in the village in Nigeria and no one among the illiterate villagers could help because it was a policeman's daughter he allegedly raped and the guy jailed him even while the case was yet to get to court. My father returned to carry that case so his brother would not go to jail and damage his life. Unfortunately, in his haste, he came back without the right papers and could not return.
My father made huge sacrifices that turned his only brother from a primary school dropout selling acara in an Igbo village to a highly qualified secondary school teacher. Some of those sacrifices world have sent my dad to jail if caught. For example, when this same secondary school teacher got a chance to go to America he could not pass the English exam. Guess who took it for him? Before that guess who forged his papers with govt stamp so he could go to Teachers Training College after failing the exam?

My dad was a man who did not build houses or buy cars in his main years but spent all he had on his brother first, then his own kids later in life. The family agreement was my Uncle would train me in the USA and I train my younger ones. My dad fell seriously ill just after I left secondary school and it lasted for 15 years. His brother did one of the most famous vanishing acts you will ever see till my dad died five years ago. During this time, i was told to get ready to go to the USA for studies 3 times only for it to be called off.

After my dad died without seeing his brother, I blocked the man in my heart for life. I've turned down more pacifying gifts in dollars within the last five years than both of you trolls will ever see in your life. My rejection carried spiritual consequences due to the circumstance and so my uncle, in desperation offered one of his cash gifts to a struggling younger brother of mine. He accepted and that was how he found the huge capital needed to become a money exchanger and bitcoin trader. He's a millionaire now and doesn't bother with Nairaland again where he learnt the trade.

So how about me. I'm a self-taught writer and author waiting to answer my calling as a man of God in an international church. I have to answer that calling because not answering it since it first came 20 years ago has affected my life in a way you cannot understand. It has also preserved it. Yes, I did not mention that my uncle is diabolical... a user of native charms who has to return to Nigeria to renew his evil power yearly. People die in our house every 4 years now and a lot of destinies have been tied down. He has poisoned me via food 2 times and tried to drive me mad 3 times - God stopped all five attempts. I can't feel my toes well till today from the first attempt in 1998. Check my profile you will see me pleading for advice from doctors in the health section just 2 moths back to save a woman's life. That was my stepmother, she is dead now from a simple leg injury that worsened and spread incredibly fast.

@Enculer my attempts to survive have been superhuman spiritually and physically, something 10 of you can never do. I'm neither poor nor lazy. I earn well above minimum wage in a job no one taught me to do or helped. I own 3 houses all to myself in Lagos and Imo state. I battle demons to a standstill, eat poison and live, render the powers of some of the most powerful prophets you know useless because God is my power. The only area you can taunt me is being unmarried at 39 due to the fact that I have not found a godly woman I like in a society so rotten.



Please, please go away both of you and let me mourn in peace.

Your story touched me, may God see you through.

wilsonchilboy:
Y are judges ND magistrates so rude

It's their court.

Congratulations to the new VC.

anigbajumo:
Government is continum bro,Ogun state has bad road in whole of South West.Amosun started some dualization of some roads even building bride and he was unable to complete it b4 he left office, why can't he continue?If governance is done that way no major road project will be completed.

My point was, a governor who could come out of his office honeymoon in 5 months to start making impact deserves encouragement, not put-downs, his mates did nothing for a full year

Well done Governor Abiodun

anigbajumo:
All the major road network started by his predecessor has abandoned by him.Worst governor in South West at the moment....

His predecessor should have finished his own project, or do you want him to allocate new set of funds for for an incomplete project? He is making his own mark, in a few months after swearing in, let him do his bit, and you, do your own part and be a useful Nigerian.

Chimookigwe:
The man is the major problem?
Is she an OAP?
Hear yourself.

You don't know anything about them or the matter at hand, you just want to jump in, defend the woman and blame the man.

She is not defending the woman, she was just pointing out a fact that the woman is defending her husband.

pocohantas:
Why is his wife covering up for him?
What does she do? Because it looks like the man is the major problem, but the wife has a name to protect. Is she an OAP or something?

There is a very long list of Nigerian women who cover up for their husbands' misdeeds. She won't be the first.

I see the black turtleneck

Elizabeth Holmes loading

Fuckthamods:
Securities should be alert o.. This one fit turn to nuclear weapon and nuke the entire country.
Hell has no fury like a woman.

Hell has no fury like a woman SCORNED

You forgot the scorned

Geminita1:
Black guys also love all our features except our afro hair but they would never give us compliments for them because they don't want us to be confident. So they play on our psych by telling us we are the ugliest. And like magic, it is working on some black girls. If we have low self esteem we would never aim high, we would think they are all we have. That is their aim, but many of us can't see it.

On the other hand white men have no fear, if you are beautiful they would make you feel beautiful, desired and appreciated. As it stands,i can't take a lesser treatment from any man whether black or white. I love men who are confident, men who put women down are mentally weak and would never have me.

I am so happy for you. As long as he is a good man, you are safe. Stay happy

That has been my goal for a while now. Happiness

BYE BYE to rada rada.............


At least she didn't blow herself up in an attempt to create an epic walkaway

ola33t:









For Tacha, her fashion finally outshined her body odour.
For once, I was able to focus on the message and not the messenger.

For Mercy, it's such a beautiful fashion on her. Combination of creative arts and fashion at it's peak. It must have required Paula Scher to carve-out the shape on her dress, and Michael Jackson's personal tailor to add the shoulder padding.
She killed it no doubt.

As for aunty portable multipurpose-beech; in this instance, it would be an insult comparing her to the former two. She resembles ngbeke feeling funky, with her satin dress looking like a China-made tarpaulin. I think she should have been presented to the winners, because she now looks like the Headies award herself.

Chai

uzohrome:
Mercy my baby at all times. Voted her with almost 100k and thank God she won.

Where is your return on investment bros

Teacher1776:
we struggle to live our lives.
we buy fuel to power our generators.
we pay bogus estimated electricity bills for darkness.
even those who receive salaries, inflation and increase prices of goods have rendered them hopeless.
Every time now they will just sleep and wake up and introduce a new tax.
Kuku kee us.

Very depressing post. Spread happiness instead, that's what we need

Cute little car, awesome bodywork, nice interior too. Good luck to the seller.

I hope it's not someone else's face. This is a very serious matter.

johnad3:
so nah now boys are irresponsible abi? If nah you girls, you will be saying guys are not caring, are not this or that. The shit girls are throwing at guys, so no girls can accepts one percent of it, na wa ooo. Thats a food for thought hmmmm. i don learn something today

Go back and read the lady's post. Anyone who has a child should provide for them. A boy who collects money from his baby mama and goes about lying on her, and hides behind his mother's apron is a shoddy character who has a wicked woman for a mother. I repeat, he's nothing but pain. Anyone who refuses to clear up his/her own mess will have all sorts of insults thrown at them, male or female.

3mmyz:
Quick question for you.

If this were to be a Lady would you term her Irresponsible ? Be honest

The simple rule is - don't have kids you can't pay for.
Now, sometimes, shit happens, yet, a responsible person will rise up to the occasion and clean up his/her own mess.
In this case, this guy is an immature person who doesn't deserve a minute of that lady's time

anuofGod:
Lol, OP this is still fair. I did more for my baby's dad. Fed him, clothed him, housed him and paid all his bills (to the extent of ordinary biscuit and haircut)&he always threatened me his mum is gonna marry a wife for him. Even during my pregnancy till i gave birth. I never knew he and his mum were lying around that he paid the rent and gave me 20k weekly for upkeep. After i gave birth, his dad found out that they've been lying(they live in different states). My baby's dad and his mum ganged up and started threatning me and plotting against me, he moved for months and came begging to let him in again, that his mum is a brute he can't tolerate. I chased him away. He got mad and went to his mum and they started spreading lies about me. I was not bothered. My daughter is a year and a week old now and my baby's father and his mum doesnt have a dime on her, not even #50 pampers. Even though i go hungry most times and couldn't afford buying anything for myself, my daugther is healthy and never lacks. I thank God.

So sorry darling, I'm so sorry to hear this. Please stay strong for your little princess, and please keep those irresponsible boys far from your life because they are nothing but pain.

Zhuhilat:
Thanks all. No i am not a Muslim.
Couples will always have misunderstandings, we are 2 different people with different upbringing so we will always have mis understanding even siblings do.

I just get tired of all the leave my house and stuff.
How do I commit to a marriage financially (although, i do) and emotionally when i can be kicked out any day?

Also isn't the house s ours?
Secondly, how do I protect my child from all this?

Also I believe that every time he apologizes, i tell myself that maybe it was my fault and then i just let it go and go out of my way to please him again. I do not give him space to work on it too in other words,enabling this to continue.

Either ways thanks guys.

The name on the certificate of ownership of the house determines who owns the house, there is nothing like whatever belongs to your husband also belongs to you.

oyinda1599:
She can't breastfeed while pregnant with another child, it might affect the health of the four months old baby.

Where did you get that information from?
Is it scientifically proven or just a myth?

Cogjumo:
Please are you speaking for yourself or your male friends?

Change your mentality please. Being successful than your spouse should bring about healthy competition. If the Lord is blessing your spouse regardless of the gender, celebrate them as the same God is still in the neighbourhood.

Why should I slow down the pace of my hard work just because of a man? WHY?

So much to say, so little time.
Only a few Nigerian men are not intimidated by their wives' successes.
Women who are supposed to be back ups in hard times, they will insist they get low paying jobs so that they can be the king of the home. I have seen men walk away from their marriage because the woman was making progress, some families got into trouble when the husband lost his high paying job, the wife was teaching.
So many different cases, it still boils down to the same thing.

It's interesting to see a lot of people insulting someone who has achieved more than they will ever achieve in their lifetime

revolt:
I dont know which sex depraved rock you grew up in....in my naija, if you tell me you raped someone, I will definitely not let it slide. I hve sisters and a mother, (happily married ).

Good for you

Bitcoin:
Many people saw the young man bleeding and none of them wanted to help. As frustrating as it may seem, this happens all the time. The main reason why they didn't help is because they don't want to be attacked by the thugs who slashed this guy's neck. Its really sad, he had a better chance applying pressure to the site to stop the bleeding than running around exhausting himself and making matters worse.

RIP

Neck stabs are mostly fatal, there was nothing most people could have done for him. So sad.

Insulting individuals who obviously disagree with your reasoning shows your level of emotional intelligence. I won't even bother shaking my head for anyone. It simply shows that I have one less individual to bother with.

This case will teach Nigerian students in diaspora to respect the laws of whichever country they find themselves

Martinez39:
Don't be a fool. Stop talking Z when I am talking A. I have never blamed any victim. Beside, it's illogical to think that blaming the victim means I am hailing the rapists. Olodo. So if I blame victims of prosperity preachers, does it mean I am hailing the fraudulent prosperity preachers?

As I have said, rape is not celebrated in Nigeria and no rapist has been given a hero's treatment in Nigeria. If you think I am wrong, give me an exception.

Boys have never hailed each other for raping a girl. They only celebrate when their game(winning a girl's heart and sleeping with her) is successful. Unwanted sex indeed. Good day.

Your opinion of my intelligence and resulting academic performance is irrelevant, because you are insignificant.

Martinez39:
This is a very big lie. Rape is not celebrated in Nigeria. It's nobody's fault that you have decided to have a victim mentality. Remind me, which rapist in Nigeria has been hailed as a hero by anyone?

When you blame the victim, you are indirectly hailing the perpetrator.
During locker room talk, be honest, is it not common for Nigerian males to hail their friends who 'score' unwanted sex from females? Is that not a form of education?

delishpot:
He should just come home. I am sure 90% of the men in Nigeria will throw a red carpet welcome party for him. He did them proud. In Nigeria its legal to rape any woman that enters your room. Men are designed to rape girls are designed to always watch their backs in Naija.

Unfortunately, you nailed it, at least his family that trained him to be a rapist will be busy bringing him food in jail