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UnfairLife7:
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin


This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years

I live with my aunt who's a widow. I saw my aunt stressed out yesterday and worried and i was wondering what could be the problem. She was the one who told me about the woman predicament. My aunt has emptied her little foodstuffs because of this woman and her children. My aunt is just a poor widow who's managing herself and kids but she can't stand the sight of this woman and her children hungry.

My aunt told me the woman's friend advice her to inject the pregnancy through abortion. She's six months gone and according to those her friends even nine months pregnancy can be aborted provided she has the money and her state of mind is willing to not forceful

According to her friends, they felt that's the best decision she could consider due to her condition. She cannot even feed the ones on ground, they are not going to school and she's still carry twin right in her womb. She hasn't gotten any baby things. It was my aunt that took her for antenatal when the pregnancy was in 4 months stage. She has been so confused on what to do. My aunt wasn't in support of it though, same time she doesn't have money to support her and her children.

Nigeria isn't saner climes where government support the less privileges. She will be having 8 children in total if she chose not to abort it. What will become the fate of these innocent children? How will she survive with these children in Nigeria? She fainted yesterday and was rushed to the hospital. It was confirmed that she has been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.

Her family and that of the husband had been so helpful according to her and it has really taken a toll on them. She even lost one of her uncle who has been supportive. This woman is sad, she's broken and shattered into pieces. I'm even scared of her life because she's not getting good medical attention for her condition. She doesn't eat well for herself and the foetus. I'm even bothered about her life, I sincerely hope all what she's going through wouldn't tell on her on the day of delivery.

Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

Face your own affairs. You are a busy body.

Man U is on fire!

One of the voices of the antichrist. He is gradually showing himself.

The coward cannot even accept what he did.

sholatech:
First, this is not targeted at Nigerians at all. It had been announced for over three years now that all Non -Citizen must have the card. Britons, Americans, Ivorian Nationals etc all must pass thru that process. It's a law passed many years back and many counties have similar policies. Nigeria made our own NIN easy and cheap for foreigners

Thank you. When I did mine in 2019 during my stay there, I paid for myself and family. All foreigners (not just Nigerians) are required to pay for the card at the National Identification Authority headquarters. The staff were very professional and friendly.

I don't know what people gain by spreading lies.

Nigerian girls...una dey hear am?

You try this BS you keep doing with a Chinese, you will get your life membership cancelled.

Searchingvictor:
Boss, pardon me for the mention. Please, can you help me with any amount sir. I want to use it to stock my shop. Help please. I was scammed last month, and its affecting my business

I don't know whether some of you were brought up at home with any kind of decency. How do you think it is ok to just pop up from out of the blue and make such a request from someone you do not know?

Sunny Ojeagbase of blessed memory was the one who spoke of Alhaji Raheem Adejumo, saying that the latter was first his mentor before he became his benefactor.

This is something totally lost on today's youths. Why would you just come from nowhere to be begging for money to stock your shop? Don't you have family?

He is no pastor. He is a worker of iniquity. Such did the bible call false prophets who have come among the brethren in sheep clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves (Matthew 7 verse 15).

segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

Mr man,

Your reasons for avoiding court marriage are not tenable. If you marry in church, you still have to register the marriage certificate with the local government authorities. Same with court. Unless you have some ulterior motives.

If you cannot trust that the woman you are getting married to will be the same when you relocate, then do not commit to the union. As simple as that.

MirrorD:
This thread is crap.

It's obvious you copied this from British military.

Nigerian Air Force only has 4 types of beret which is White, maroon, black and greyish blue.

You are right.

The only tribe I am familiar with in Taraba state is Kuteb. I do not know of others, even though I hear Taraba also houses Tivs and Fulanis.

Sweetplum:
This is a pastor with balls. This is what I taught Osinbajo ll stand for. He can't even resign and exit from sinners. He just stayed there enjoying with them. Christians are meant to be light in darkness. Maybe it's time the church speak as one voice in politics and stand to make firm decisions. If we can organise national crusades, we should v national political will to determine out fate.

Osinbajo is a compromised pastor, just like all the prophets in the time of Ahab that prophesied a resounding victory for him when in fact, that battle was his appointed day of death.

efembaba:
There is no where in the Bible that mandates a couple not to have sex when fasting! In fact there is no where in the New Covenant that mandates even fasting itself or ANYTHING for that matter.

The only thing mandated for everyone is our faith in Christ for salvation and our growth in the knowledge of Christ.

Moreover, This is not to state that we are not expected to fast (Understand the difference between "mandate" and "expected".

Mandating married couples to not have sex, (or mandating anything at all such as tithing, etc) particularly if that is not coming from their heart is RELIGIOUS. And Christianity is no religion.

For you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law - Gal 5: 18;
that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. Rom 8: 4;

A pastor may "encourage", an action but HE CAN'T MANDATE or BLACKMAIL people into doing anything.

If they do it merely because they are being religiously harassed to do it, and it's not coming from their heart, it has no spiritual value and it is going to be fighting against the GRACE of God.

If a couple decides to have sex during a fast, NOTHING will happen.

Let's not reduce The Faith to mere self-imposed religion!!!

NEVER LET ANYONE DENY YOU OF YOUR PRIZE IN CHRIST (NOT EVEN YOU PASTOR)!!!!

Colossians 2:18 (WNT) Let no one defraud you of your prize, priding himself on his humility and on his worship of the angels, and taking his stand on the visions he has seen, and idly puffed up with his unspiritual thoughts.

The reason why modern day Christians function without power is because they argue everything and always come up with excuses not to do the very things that empowered the first church in Acts of the Apostles. Prayerless, powerless and unfocussed Christians everywhere.

Fasting requires abstinence from all bodily pleasures such as food and sex. There is nothing abnormal and it does not have to take Pastor Ibiyeomie to tell his followers who should know what fasting entails what to do.

Christians who want to fast should know what it entails. How can you be fasting and having sex?

Sweetplum:
What's the cash price for this seasons NPFL?
It reach N100m?

It is N100m for the winner.

This woman seems to forget the common parlance among the military and police..

ALL DIE NA DIE.

No matter your position in life, you will still die and be thrown into the ground, while your spirit leaves to meet your Maker for judgement on how you lived your life on earth.

[quote author=Nigerfine3 post=119787463][/quote]they are all thriving. Not a single issue.

nurey:
I work in a rubber plantation. I may find time for a thread on it seems rubber tree is Alien to most farmers in Nigeria

During the era of the Rubber Board of Benin (yes, they also had a football club that they funded), rubber was the gold for Bendelites. Cartel-like wars and killings were occurring over rubber plantations. That's how much it was sought after. Back then in the 70s and 80s, Michelin and other companies producing tires were in Nigeria so the demand was out of this world.

I lost touch with the market and stopped tracking it, so I don't know much about it. I think the 7-year gestation period turns people off.
But when you consider that time flies fast, you may not feel it. I planted supergene palms during the pandemic. They have started fruiting. Three years have gone already!

VeryWickedSimp:
Shut up!

You're an idiot!

VeryWickedSimp:
Eto'o himself would have failed his own test.

Eto'o played from the age of 16 to the age of 38 and had one of the longest careers of any AFRICAN footballer. His longevity is proof that he was not an age cheat. So he has a moral standing on which to take such actions.

Karen2024:
Two days before Christmas I called my bf and demanded he give me money to make hair for Christmas, he sent me 20k.

On new year's eve I called him and after exchange of pleasantries I asked what he's preparing for me as I would be coming over on the 1st, he angrily responded that he's preparing shits for me and he went further to call me a 'gold digger.'

Since then he has not been picking my calls neither did he reply my text messages. Should I keep trying or I should move on?

So what did you give your bf for Christmas?

Divaan:
He should confirm it is not an hiv PEP(prophylaxis) drug before reaching his conclusion. LTD-M is mostly given as a PEP drug

So what if it is a PrEP or a PEP? Is it an anti-retroviral drug? Yes or No?

Keshi5:
Please I have a little challenge.
I noticed that the few bags of feeds I stored although haven't expired have weevils in them, I have sun dried the feeds and close to 95% of the weevils have gone off please feeding my birds with such feeds does it have any effects on their growth/development?

Free food for your birds.

SaturnNick:
Because "religion is the opium of the masses"

Carl Marxx

His name was Karl Marx and this famous quote has been misquoted over time. To get the full quote, please read the full piece in the Contribution to the Critique of Wilhelm Frederick Hegel's Philosophy of Right. I have the book itself. Sociologists in the house would know better.

Eriokanmi:
How is it a fraud? Can you explain? The story didn't end there. They eventually married and formalised it but not immediately. The lady was never married but had a child for her bf.

At the time of applying for a green card, where they married? The answer is no. They concocted a charade with a fraudulent lawyer and obtained the papers fraudulently by misrepresenting the facts. That is outright fraud.

Listen: LET ANYONE WHO NAMES THE NAME OF THE LORD DEPART FROM INIQUITY.

It is little things that we do and think are ok that are sins and will disqualify many from heaven. Your friend got the papers fraudulently and before God, he has committed a sin. I don't care how you decide to sugar coat it. A sin is a sin!

See as the mumu ASP just siddon like rat wey rain don beat. Im body don cool now.
Let him enjoy his last moments on earth because the system will make a very cool example of him.

dahmie2013:
Nothing was wrong with the last comment. The child was simply angry and did not want to pick his call. The child even did well to want to return the call.

Those kind of calls don't end well. Sometimes it's best not to answer when tensions are high.

Eriokanmi:
The more you drop prayers, the more opportunities elude you. Many prayed, even went to mountains and spent for days before God before their visas could be approved. Since you knew you'd not need God for everything when you get there, why go to the mountain to pray for your visa to be approved in the first place? My friend was a prayer warrior before he left for America back in the days. In fact, while on the plane, he didn't eat the meal served. He was always on fasting throughout the flight whicb lasted almost 20 hours for God's favour in a new soil.

On getting to America he never got duacouraged. He continued. In less than 4 years, he got his green card, 10 years validity. He approached this lady who said he'd assist her in his adjustment of status. She had one kid from his boy friend. Its very rate to get a good woman who would want to go to that extent with a foreigner who had no papers. If you finally get one, its either she's served jail terms before or have engaged in one crime or the other. [b]My friend got a lawyer to perfect the contract marriage.[/b]He never had any intimacy with the lady. They lived apart only meeting at a chosed venue each time they wanted to attend interview for preparation. The lawyer said they should keep same account and file tax returns promptly as part of the requirements . She had her own boyfriend. On the day of 2nd interview, he was panicky but I told him to keep praying and ensured he fasted which he did. He was invited for interview twice. The first one, they gave him a temp. 2nd time, his green card was mailed to him 2 weeks later.

Whereas, there were a lot of Nigerians who left Nigeria over 15 years earlier than he did. Till not, they have no simple paper. I shared a story of one of my uncles here on a couple of times in the past. He never joked with prayers even affer entering America. He saw himself climbing a pole in the dream, an accountant for that matter. He never had engineering background. The dream kept coming repeatedly. One day, he went to a Mexican vendor to read papers as he always did on his way home. The information about xantrex engineering he saw in one of the newspapers changed his life forever and he's multi billionaire today serving the Nigerian corporate entitles and oil and gas sector. He was a key sponsor of one of the current governors in the southwest in his first term in office. They're from same town.

Prayer is a short cut to reaching your destiny.

I don't understand how your "so-called prayer and fasting warrior" friend decided to commit immigration fraud rather than rely on the God He was supposedly praying to.

You see how our people think?

Abroad, time is directly proportional to money. Too many bills, which require you must be up and running to meet your financial obligations.
Also, you will realize that too many things we pray about in Nigeria, are already in place abroad.

2 Peter 1 v 3: [b]His divine power has given us everything we need [/b]for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.

Abroad is where this scripture is come to light. You will realize that God has already done it all for us. Our relationship with Him should actually be on a spiritual level, and not on the basis of prayer to have basic things of life to be provided or answered.

In Nigeria, sometimes I have to pray to God for my freelance business not to be grounded by scarcity of fuel and lack of electricity, making me miss jobs, miss deadlines and risk losing clients.

When I got to Barbados, I found out that these things were all in place. I got a house that had superfast Wifi, 24/7 electricity supply (which is available the whole island), treated water straight from the water board, with a functional solar-powered water heater. Five minutes walk from the beach. Efficient transportation system. ATMs that pay 24/7 with no downtimes whatsoever. Of course, where will you see generator that is blasting fumes and noise your way? The only time I ever saw a police officer was at the COVID testing centres. Not on the roads and definitely not carrying an AK-47 and demanding for bribe. There are countries and there are shithole countries.

Even God must be tired of those always asking him for the basic things He has already put in place for us to harness. He seeks those who come worshipping in spirit and truth, those seeking a relationship and not those seeking his blessings alone.

Pells1:
Who?
He ain't known
How will this affect the present economy of Nigeria

Just say you never watched him.

Sir Kay was very popular.

All these people saying they stopped attending church for all kinds of reasons are just jokers.

Do you quit your profession or your job because of "pretences" or because you have a bad co-worker or boss? Many people are still working under toxic environments because they need the money.

I am not in church because of a pastor or someone. So it will take a monumental reason to stop me from attending church. I am yet to see such reason. After, some stopped listening or following Jesus because they were offended at Him.