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cococandy:
I never said it was false. I’m not Muslim so you can’t make me defensive by attacking their religion. It’s not personal to me.
I’m telling you this phenomenon of women being viewed as less-than is not exclusive to Islam.
So if you’re Christian or something else, address the misogyny in your culture and religion as well before acting like it’s a Muslim-only problem.

Don't try to twist is to all religion's problem.
Whether it is a muslim only problem or not does not concern me.
Islam views women as less or equal to slave, is a fact.

cococandy:
you said women are slaves in Islam. As if other religions don’t mistreat women too. The degree to which they do it may be different or look different based on optics

Women are slaves in Islam, true or false? This is it, no whataboutism.
See how you are confused at bold

cococandy:
My point is that mistreating women isn’t only peculiar to Islam. I don’t know what else you’re on about

Your point is pointless, I didn't say only Islam.

Keep yourselves in the Loving arms of the Lord Jesus, don't be carried away with diverse doctrines both secular or religious only hold to what is of Jesus.
Jesus is saviour.

Holiness is the nature of God.
What separates a believer form others is Holiness,

Of old God called out the Israelite from among the heathen to be a holy nation to himself.

In the new testament God called us Christians to be a holy nation to him.

1 Peter 2:9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:

The opposite of holiness is unholiness, it is a character, lifestyle and mindset set in things like fornication, adultery,murder, hatred, variance, love of pleasure more than God, despisers of those that are good, witchcraft/ spiritism, heretics( unbiblical, or twisted bible teachings), idolaters, emulation, strife, disobedience to parents, Covenant breakers, and all such like.
Galatians 5:21

These are unholiness, which characterizes the people of the world.
Holiness means being separate from all the above totally hating and rejecting it but instead embrace peace, gentleness, love, humility, righteousness,patience, long-suffering, Meekness, temperance etc

Unholy people are like dogs, dogs cannot inherit the kingdom of God, they remain outside in the lake of fire.

Revelation 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.

Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.

Thank God, he has saved us freely from all of these but we should continue to abide in him, him his love.

John 15:9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.

Jude 1:21 Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.

Amen.

Acesexcell:
what do you mean by women are slave in Islam??please let's be guided not to drag religion into everything, Where in the write up did shehu sani mentioned the religion of the man, or do you mean to say it's only Muslim that reside in kaduna state??

It is there in your Koran.

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SmartPolician:
There is no religion that says man and woman are equal. Women are even slaves to men in Christianity too. However, most Christians are pro-West, so what happens in the US somehow tends to affect the entire Christendom.

you are ignorant, the west was influenced and built by Christianity not the other way round.

cococandy:
You think it’s only a Muslim man that will do such a thing? You have too much faith if that’s the case.
Just do a small survey of men of other religious leanings and see if they won’t do the same.
Additionally they might even add blame on the wife for “allowing” herself to be raped. Because apparently it’s better for them that she dies than for someone else to have intimate knowledge of her.
Don’t be shocked

Perhaps you are too faithless to know that not all religion treat women badly.
The western system that relatively promotes democracy,equity and fairness has its foundation on Christianity.

As for your story on rape, one of the most gruesome murder was carried out by an atheist by name Stalin.
Or is it the feminists that murder millions of babies every year in the name of prochoice?

If a religion treat another woman badly because she is a woman then that religion cannot be from the true God, who is the creator of both male and female.

The same people gave you phones, cars internet etc

Probably has 3 extra wives and will soon marry more to fill the vacuum.

Women are slaves in Islam.

You are talking about racism how about the wickedness between Africans and Africans?

Wickedness has no race or gender! All are equally guilty

Feminism has ruined many women. The eyes of women abroad has started to open to see this scam called Feminism.

The truth is that age matters! Not that it is impossible but it becomes more difficult.
A wise woman would not wait until it becomes difficult.
Life is not Disney!

What op is spewing out is getting alot of women into trouble.
Nigeria is even good, Abroad it is worse!

Don't listen to motivational talks, reality those do not do motivational talk.
Me I can hype you more than anybody but to what aim?
As we grow older we come to realize the truth, and some of the things people have come to realise
1. Be honest
2. face reality, everything you do should be in reality not imagination.
3. Run away from ideologies that only tells you sweet things not what is real.
4. Take advice from parents, elders, experience people
5. Time is important don't waste it pursing shadows.
6. Obeying God's word following his principles is better than prayers and fasting.

Women has their time when they pass their time it becomes difficult.
Don't wait until it becomes difficult, it is better you start now.
The advantages are numerous, now you are younger you will date with clear head not under pressure.
When most women are getring to 30 and above they date with pressure and accept anything and will not have enough time to check the kind of men properly.
Men are more inclined to choose younger women, you may not understand now, as you grow older fewer men will develop interest on you.
I know of many girls who married while in school, they were very smart while the ones who wanted to chase carrier ended getting difficult to settle down.
Education, career is important yes but so is marriage, so why would a sensible woman push marriage away because of career.

Most women will not tell you the truth only what you want to hear but listen to your mother she is wise and she cares for you.

Election is drawing near

The answer is Lust and unsactisfaction.


Proverbs 5:19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

5:20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

A man or woman that commits adultery clearly speaks that their husband or wife is not sufficient for them.

It is what he has learnt from his mentors.
Islam teaches men to rape victims of jihad or war.

Men cheat with women both the adulterer and the adultress are all guilty.

Atheism exercises blind faith, because atheism believes something can come out of nothing without evidence.

thesolutions:
Knowledge is power. It can set you free or keep you in bondage.

The old testament was for the Israelites. If you are not an Israelite, it is better you profess atheism than deny Jesus through whom you have access to this old testament God unless your idea of God is something Ridgid that heeds to a sound or enchantment, as in, a program.

stop replying those people focus on your thread.
The old testament was to lead the jews to Jesus christ. The old testament where symbols of what is to come.

thesolutions:
You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; You have put off my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness.
[color=#9907A0]Psalm 30:11[/color]

My friend, you are favored and accepted by God today because of His unmerited favor. Even if your life is a mess, He can take your mess and make it into something beautiful. Come to Him just as you are.

Years ago, one of my church members suddenly stopped coming to church for a long time. I met up with him to find out how he was doing and to see if everything was alright. He was very honest with me and told me that he was going through a lot of problems in his marriage and that he was now addicted to alcohol. Then, he said this: "Let me get my life right, then I will come back to church.”

I smiled and asked him, “Do you clean yourself before you take a bath?” I could tell from his expression that he was taken aback by my question, so I told him, “Come as you are to the Lord. He is the bath. He will cleanse you. He will get your life in order for you and He will cause every addiction to lose its hold on you. You don’t have to use your own efforts to clean yourself before you take a bath!”

I am glad to share that this precious brother soon returned to church and Jesus turned his life around. Today, he is happily married, blessed with a beautiful family, and is one of my trusted, key leaders. That is what the Lord does when you come to Him as you are and allow Him to love you into wholeness. He will make all things beautiful in your life.

There are many people today who are like this brother. They want to get their lives together by themselves before they come to Jesus. They are under the impression that they need to make themselves holy before they can step into God’s holy presence. They feel like they are being hypocrites if they don't sort out their lives first before coming to church.

Nothing could be further from the truth. You will never be able to make yourself holy enough to qualify for God’s blessings. You are made holy, righteous, and clean by the blood of Jesus Christ, and it is His righteous standing that qualifies you—nothing more and nothing less.

So stop trying to clean yourself before you go to the Lord. Come to Jesus with all your mess, all your addictions, all your weaknesses, and all your failures. God loves you just as you are.

However, He also loves you too much to let you stay the same. My friend, when you come to Jesus, He becomes your “bath.” He will wash you clean, whiter than snow! Jump into the bath today and allow Jesus to make you perfect, righteous, and holy in God’s eyes!

beautiful! Many people make the mistake of bettering themselves before coming to Jesus forgetting Jesus came for the sinners, the unrighteous those who are poor and has no one to help them, those who are confused about life, those the world has rejected, beaten, disqualified and written off etc Jesus came for such people, give them life and that life is eternal.

Rossikk:
Notice all the ads and signs showing a hand with palm outstretched, with stuff written on the palm?

Predictive programming of mankind underway.

You are right! Movies, cartoons,music, advertisement, the news media etc are all used as medium to program humanity.

Adegaberiel:
I just discovered i am a bastard. Apparently my mom commited adultery and fled. This explains why i was hated and spat and called a BASTARD by the man i thought was my dad its a shocking distressin revelation. My major fear is that i am a bastard in the eyes of God? Am i under the bastars curse because of the nature of my conception?

I often try to live in denial by pretending its old testament scripture that has no place in today's world but then i look around, at my present condition, the childhood trauma, the rejection, my over insensitivity and emotional immaturity, my inability to keep friends or have a long relationship. My mental health. Even though i am the first i have always been denied favour. Right now my two younger siblings are married while i self sabotaged and lost forever the only girl that will ever agree to marry me.

I am not regarded as anything..unless i send money. Now they happily married with good paying jobs while i am not. Theve travelled to South Africa on vacation, have family get togethers while i am homeless. Everyday is a mental and physical battle. There is more but for the sake of time. The series of rejection, arrested development, bad luck, suffering is not just random. To gain acceptance i became a people pleaser still didn't work. My biggest fear is that rhe BASTARD curse is real and my lifes experience is as a result of rhe bastard curse. I searched the scriptures and was horrified to see what happens to children of adultery. Ive tried denying ut but just cant anymore.

Is there hope for illegitimate children to someday habe a better life? or are we doomed to a life of suffering and rejection and pain. The suffering is just too much. Is the bastard curse real? Is there a way out? Im at the lowest point of my life. I cannot escape. If i take my life i will be on a first class ticket to hell. Is the bastard curse the source of my suffering?

You are loved by God and among the people christ died for.
Don't allow the sin of your mother and father drag you back.
Let me tell you every human are under a curse because of sin but Jesus took the curse so that anyone who receive him will be free.

sandra50:
No thanks..I can't write all that he did here..

ok

It is difficult for a voluminous book to burn.

She has no right to do that! Wisdom is profitable to direct.
If it is her personal land no problem but the land belongs to the whole family.

@op, you know the problem and you know what to do, if you truly love that lady stop flirting with other women. As for carrying her abroad with this character you might land in trouble.

@ op atleast there is a man showing interest, you a Christian? If you are, commit your worries into God's hands, tell him to reveal if this man will be good for you. Don't push him away!

Michelle55:
All I'm saying is that no one can decide another's specs and age has got nothing to do with this.
Nobody needs all these pressures and I think it's time we stop giving out all these negative vibes all in the name of advice for

age play a huge role, naturally women has a age limit after which childbirth become difficult even the bible recognize that.
That is not misogyny nor a man's opinion it is nature.
The truth is that alot of females are not smart maritally! One of the reasons is because women are told marriage is not important they short pursue education, careers and money and ignore marriage, later when the get to above 30, they realise they need to settle down but unfortunately men don't think the way women think. While a woman want a man that has status in terms of education money etc for men those things take backstage. The first point of attraction for men is a young, beautiful woman, then then her agreeabless towards him men hardly consider money, a fairly educated woman is enough for some men.
Women project their desires on men and are shocked that men do not consider important what they consider important.