₦airaland Forum

I'm disappointed no one mentioned Roots by The Cavemen.

I understand though, not surprised.

theFilmtric:
I noticed that Nigerian comedians marry the most beautiful women

theFilmtricsay

Funny guys generally get the pretty ladies

Haha

So many hilarious replies.

I'll just say that when you and your partner love each other and are committed to each other heart, body and soul, it's most likely gonna be a lifetime of joy and happiness through the ups and downs of it all.

If you plan on getting married please make sure you and your partner are equally committed to the relationship.

Also, men, please treat your girl right and she will be submissive. Don't go around being an asshòle to her and expect love.

Life is GIGO.

Garbage in, Garbage out.

Were there any clear criteria for selecting these four borders out of the many legal borders?

What are the gains of the closed border since it was tested for a few years?

Fûcked up country.

In time it will become clear what this unholy romance with Niger republic is all about!

Now we are building a railway line to same country where Buhari's father migrated from.

I weep for those that still cannot see the handwriting on the wall!

Everyone posting what they found.

Now question is, you yourself that did the checking, was your hand clean at the time?

I leave you to ponder over this.

jansonn:
Oga!! Don't try to marry any girl oo!! My eldest brother got married before moving to UK and 10 years later, he's still saying if he had known he wouldn't have married!! My immediate elder brother just moved to Europe last year, but he had a fiancee before moving, now he's seriously regretting and looking for ways to settle her. I on the other hand have been single for over 25 years of my life now cause I no want make one naija babe spoil my children dual citizenship. Baba, no try am ooo, I've adviced you like my own brother... It's up to you now

Why is you immediate elder brother regretting?

vickydankal:
According to me yes, i stand to be corrected though

That argument is so flawed in many ways that I don't have strength to begin to type here.

Take care.

vickydankal:
Why forbid what is not possible for me? As a man think he become. Do you see your self having cancer in the future ?
You are even diverting from the topic is discuss

You can't add one plus one can you?

And to answer your question, anybody can have cancer.

It's a part of life today.

vickydankal:
Westernization and trying to be politically correct has made people claim self inflicted curses and hard lucks.


For goodness sakes this is Africa,
Here marriage and children are great achievements, especially when you have the wisdom and grace to train them and to give them the best of life you can afford.

Most people here are sounding like marriage and children are liabilities. Never take a word of my fellow woman who missed her time chasing community chief pocket instead of, education, personal development and possibly pursuing career and eventually settles with a man who now becomes her backbone to help her balance career and family.

After the blessings of Gen 1:28 the next visible and tangible blessing in the scriptures is the blessings of family.

Most people especially my fellow ladies are afraid of responsibility and the burden of submitting to a man who will ask they whereabouts, how do you get that ? Who call?

Continue with your marriage and children are not success by 55 -60 your language will change
.

That’s how one of my aunty anytime she sends for us if we didn’t go on time she will start crying is it because she didn’t marry and have kids.

Time will tell.

So by inference, if one doesn't get married or have kids they have failed in the marriage aspect of life?

vickydankal:
I thought we were talking about our lives?
For Otedola are you one of his children?

Our lives

When cancer hits you then you'll know how much the country sucks.

Your next line would be "God forbid", the usual Nigerian BS yarn.

vickydankal:
My dear I could be leaving your fantasy you know lol leaving Nigeria is not the answer your problem.

Yea, everyone can claim shiit on Obasanjo's internet.

I guess your (imaginary) father is richer than Otedola whose children live abroad and mostly just visit Nigeria.

Kmt.

Gerrard59:
While you have made good points, you should also understand that children cannot continue to stay with their parents for the rest of their lives esp as many young Nigerians plan to or desire to japa. Many parents in Nigeria would have a considerable number of their children residing abroad implying they would be left with their partners. Also, with the distance people give extended families due to one reason or the other, how do future parents cope? Now, what about those who divorced? Or are we implying no marriage will experience divorce/separation?

I ask these questions because you seem to hinge the aspect of marriage on having children who would be available to cater for their parents during old age and assuming all marriages will continue forever.

The inherent selfishness in all their explanations.

So dumb man.

So people who had kids and lost them?

People whose kids are grown and far from the parents?

In Africa, people give birth as a form of insurance and with the mentality that their kids must take care of them in latter stages of life.

In developed countries it's the other way round.

Parents have kid and try to ensure they are set up for life.

We need to move with the rest of the world, all these archaic thinking hasn't done anyone any good.

vickydankal:
Westernization and trying to be politically correct has made people claim self inflicted curses and hard lucks.


For goodness sakes this is Africa,
Here marriage and children are great achievements, especially when you have the wisdom and grace to train them and to give them the best of life you can afford.

Most people here are sounding like marriage and children are liabilities. Never take a word of my fellow woman who missed her time chasing community chief pocket instead of, education, personal development and possibly pursuing career and eventually settles with a man who now becomes her backbone to help her balance career and family.

After the blessings of Gen 1:28 the next visible and tangible blessing in the scriptures is the blessings of family.

Most people especially my fellow ladies are afraid of responsibility and the burden of submitting to a man who will ask they whereabouts, how do you get that ? Who call?

Continue with your marriage and children are not success by 55 -60 your language will change
.

That’s how one of my aunty anytime she sends for us if we didn’t go on time she will start crying is it because she didn’t marry and have kids.

Time will tell.

So I guess you hope to live in this shithole forever then?

The world is now a global village and has left you behind in your awkward thinking.

May any prayers you have to leave Nigeria for any developed country never be answered.

Amen?

internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

Total BS.

Life is personal.

Success is personal

Fulfillment is personal.

Stop projecting your idea of achievement on other people.

You Africans and your unending hypocrisy and ignorance.

Bleh!

Seun:
If the president’s tribe matters, which it should not, I think it would clearly be the turn of an Igbo or other south-eastern person to hold the position in 2023. The north would have held power for 11 years, and the south west for 8 years. If we group GEJ with the South East, it would still be their turn since he ruled for only 5 years.

If we can get a very good Igbo president in 2023, their yearning for separation will gradually fade away. Hopefully the Igbo president will not make the same mistakes that Zik, Nzeogwu and Ironsi made in the early days. Mistakes that set the country on a dark path.

Lmao.

What mistakes are you yapping about?

You're just ignorant like most Nigerians.

LastProphet:
Africans are taught at home, in church and mosque that they were born in order to give birth to more people. So don't be surprised even a dying African must still marry and born because that is our destiny. We can't solve any major problem of the world like finding cure for corona, inventing any technology etc, because we are focused on just giving birth to beautiful kids. If you graduate from university as a chemical engr here, even your parents will not ask you how many chemicals you have engineered after graduation, the only thing they will ask you is when you will marry. The same crap preached in churches, same crap in nollywood movies, so my brother don't be surprised to find failures around everywhere who have only 1 single contribution to humanity which is child bearing

This comment got me crying and laughing at the same time.

I absolutely do not subscribe to that part of our culture and any time I talk about this too much focus on childbirth and continuing the lineage, people look at me like an alien.

All the great men and women who have impacted the world, especially in the last three centuries, nobody remembers them for being married, gay, single, childless, had ten kids, etc.

What they are forever revered for is the impact they made in the world.

We Africans still have a long way to go.

GavelSlam:
He knows most of his supporters lack critical reasoning.

A country in which every single item in the home, office and playground is imported would be first to lament the exchange rate.

Too many blockheads in Nigeria I swear.

Who do you blame for the almost moribund manufacturing sector?

Do you know how many manufacturing coys have closed shop in the last few years owing to just government policy flip flop?

And yes, we have every right to lament about the exchange rate as it does affect everything from price of PMS to phones et al.

9jayes:
Something wey ordinary lemon plus... will do he's gonna spend millions of naira. This boy no wise at all

Lemon plus what?

NGpatriot:
NURTW is the largest trade association in Nigeria and they've been around for decades and we are yet to see the chaos or whatever doom and gloom you are talking about.

This association regardless of education is better managed than many organizations in Nigeria, even better than government agencies.

There are school dropouts billionaires all over the world so I don't get your point.

Talking about career growth, MC was their treasurer just a few years ago, now he's the chairman in Lago so obviously they have their own formula that works for them.

Lol.

NURTW exists in other states in Nigeria but they are strictly regulated by government.

In Lagos it is actually a free for all.

We lagosians know the truth about MC Oluomo and his ilk no matter how you try to whitewash them

This time there's no question like "where are the bodies".

Nigeria nawaa

Who get streaming link abeg

LaReinaa:
I am not impressed, the place looks boring.. we have better resorts in Lagos

Okay.

Resorts like?

This December gats detty o.

Oizatobad:
OKORO GUYS GOT HIDDEN PROBLEM THAT ALLOW THEM THINK THAT EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE TO MAKE
MONEY i remember Dubai incident

Mugu, more serious and forward thinking countries have legalised the use of marijuana for medical purposes as well as recreational.

Not to even talk of the immense economic benefits to countries that key in on time.

Keep enjoying your suffering and poor quality of life in the shit hole.

Dapcity007:
Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.

One question for you.

Are African countries better in any way because they rejected these leftist ideologies?

Is Nigeria better off any way after the passage of the bill that criminalises being gay?

You keep fighting for God but look all around you, look at your fellow countrymen.

What we even practise in this country is hypocrisy wrapped with extremism and blatant fuckery.

Wake up and smell the coffee, it's the 21st century and the world has moved on from all that.

nairavsdollars:
Little wonder that lawmaker said most of our youths are high on drugs

Accidents happen all over the world.

Grow up.

Queseda:
The kind of people we tend to support goes a long way in revealing our true personalities. No wonder the same people who call for war when things don't go their way in Nigeria, are the die-hard Trump supporters. Truly, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree...like Trump, like his supporters.

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I'm sure they opened his files and threatened him to retract his tweets.

When your hands are soiled your mouth should remain closed.

Will she get justice?

The answer is an emphatic NO.

That's Nigeria for you.

Nigeria will literally kill you.

Can't wait to leave this place tbh.

That G guard is even more exhilarating to see in real life.

Mad ride!

9gerian:
@bold. The Yorubas are far much more in the US and UK than other Nigerian tribes because opportunities abound, but are not much in the SE because there are not much opportunities in the SE like there are in their own SW domain. This is why Yorubas do not troop to SE as much.

If there are professional opportunities anywhere, you can rest, assured that Yorubas would be the majority in such climes!

Yes I know there are not much professional opportunities asides from Rivers, Abuja and Lagos.

What of educational?

What of business?

If you're objective you'll agree that the average Yoruba man of this generation is not too willing to leave their comfort zone.

Even the US and UK you mentioned were mostly the older generation that mostly moved there for education and settled there.

It's a complex matter and there's a lot of factors I can't explain here due to time constraints.