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Na wa.
After reading your other posts on this topic, the mother should just let the daughter do what she wants, that is not the kind of girl you will be fighting for, omo ti ko wu yan lori. Very ungrateful desperate child.
She definitely takes after her papa. Silly girl, she thinks marriage is just for a day.

YES. CAPITAL YES
I don't plan on raising insecure female children.
My female children are definitely equal if not better than any random male they meet during their life's journey.
Do you think female bosses think they are inferior (or whatever the opposite of equal) to their male subordinates
Just raise your kids to have respect for everyone not just their male counterpart. Please don't train those poor kids to think they can be stepped on by any man. A husband + wife relationship is totally different

See advice, the lady is not happy and yet some are telling her to keep quiet to "save" her marriage. Is she not part of the marriage! I seriously wonder what some people think is a definition of this "marriage".
Even more interesting is some are "advising" her to not say anything so she does not push the man outside. Na wa for advice/opinion/double standards
Poster, think it through and act accordingly as you seem fit. Just don't believe all this nonsense that all men cheats and then accept it as a way of life. Pele dear. It is well.

Rest in perfect peace.

Happy Birthday Pa Adeboye

If your wife has the schedule Hbabe says she has, from 5am and not getting back home till around 9pm and you still expect her to cook for you that late at night, you are a very wicked man. Haba, that is just plain cruelty. Even if she "insists" on cooking your efo riro and pounded yam for you, you should say No. That is what a sensible man will do. Hbabe, good that you have spoken to your husband and he has offered some sort of help. However, as one baba ijebu said on this thread, don't go and help chinko buy his house cash down. Invest in plastic frozen containers, during the weekend, make the soup in bulk and freeze. This tip will be helpful when you have kids, you can't be feeding your kids on takeaway everyday, you will eventually go bankrupt. You are the only one that knows how to "woo" your husband, make him more involved in the housework. EVERYONE can cook, all this I can't cook blabla does not wash with me, the taste might be "unique"lol but atleast he makes the effort, coo and coo some more when he cooks, let him think He has done the greatest thing in the world, let his head swell, with time he will be boasting to you about the efo he made last week. At this point, you can't fight fire with fire, as someone said maybe jokingly but you should have watched him well well before you got married to him but now you have to train him and as I said before you are the only one that knows how to make his head swell. One last thing, don't kill yourself o. 5am to 9pm ko easy at all. Be vocal, if you are exhausted, let him know. Don't suffer and smile in silence. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed.

Bobby Brown should go and siddon for corner. Who cares how he feels. If they tell you to move 100 times so what? Foolish man.

Trust them to play I will always love you. Gosh, I am crying not to talk off her Family. God please keep that daughter of her.

God has indeed spoken. RIP Whitney Houston.

Lmao. Funny thread. Superwoman plenty for Nigeria o.

It is absolutely impossible for a "career woman" do to ALL the chores around the house, cook etc and not resentful towards her other half. After a while, regardless of how "superwomaing" you are, you start to feel cheated and then that is where the problem starts

Imagine, so we both leave the house at 7am, come back home at 8pm and you still expect me to do ALL the chores, cooking while you do what exactly?? and you will use your mouth to eat the food I slaved over while you were watching TV or doing whatever you were doing.

I think the problem here, is most men think they did women a favour by marrying them. When a man think he did you a favour by marrying you that is when he will start misbehaving.

Single ladies, carry yourself with dignity, don't let anyman think he did you a favour by marrying you. Just pray when you are looking for a hubby that God should please give you a good, responsible man but most importantly someone that is your best friend and has a conscience

I never could understand  why anybody would care what I (vanitty) do with MY money
Tithe is a very personal thing.
Do you, let me do me.

@r231
Can I kindly have the paypal details
Many thanks

Awwwwww

God bless everyone that contributed and helped the young girl and her baby one way or the other. Great thread. xoxo

^ great answer
Absolutely nothing. I will just walk away

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Don't people get it that the poster need a figure , how much did you spend on your own wedding is what the guy is trying to know , Nairalanders na wa oo well I am not married yet but i will advise you not to spend more than 2mil at most on a wedding ok because you know want your wife to dey drink garri after wedding or start paying back debts after wedding but it all depends on who and who is going to attend the wedding cause my uncle spent 5mil total and he recovered the money because people who came there are extremely rich they gave out 2 cars , 1 plot of land and lovely gifts , if na low life human being go attend there my broda those people go chop and give u wall clock as gift know spend too much plus life after marriage matter most plus your 2 years marriage ceremony that time una go don born you can even spend much more


Buhahahahaha

Sincerely hope in the "real world", people don't have this warped sense of thinking. Olorun lo ma gba wa sha.

Buhahahahahahahahahahahha
Lmao
Lol
Even the topic of the thread almost brought tears to my eyes, then came the narration of . . . . how will your mother, how will you sister e.t.c
Funny thread

Wow, just got goosebumps all over
A massive cry for help
Hmm what a shame.
RIP

It is well in Jesus name
Merry Christmas and have a blessed new year with good news all along the way
Come 2013, you shall celebrate the new year with your baby/babies
Stay positive and remain blessed
Amen

Well, I will still think Denzel Washington is the most gorgeous man alive ,were he be dirt poor, closely followed by Johnny Depp

Keep sleeping dear

Na wa for taunting, insult and comebacks.  Hilarious thread

Olorun lo ma gba ilu Nigeria yi sha

RIP O Ojukwu

Here we go again

Na wa o
LOL see overreaction on a massive scale.
So what do "we - aggravated internet people " reckon the poster should do?!return the girl to a mother that can barely take care of her abi what exactly is the issue here, me i don't see it.

You too stop calling her suegbe. Suegbe is too strong a word, if you want to (bawi) can't for the life of me remember the English of that word at the moment, just say don't be silly. are you silly, you must be silly etc

Anyway jokes apart,Poster please listen here, if you are truly doing all you typed for the girl kudos to you jare.
Poster please do the best you can for her, God blesses those who shows mercy to others. You are NOT her mother, you can NEVER take the position of her mother, you also clarified you don't wish to be her mother, so please be the best aunty you can be. No ones knows the future

@ ISUOMO response

Have not heard the "omo ako ti ile ta" in a long while

Perfect response for this topic

I honestly could care less about this sort of issue, they should even seal it and give all 6 and the absentee father british passport make una go kill unaself , congratulations to the lady. I bet the 5 babies are so cute awww.

And I bet that will cost thousands of pounds

Ok. It is very nice to donate to charity. Good for you

@ topic

At 30 year old, she should be ready to settle down now
Good for her.
I reckon they will probably do a reality show on that

Na wa o
He didn't try at all
Lmao, some nigerians are just destined to be with the ugliest of whites

I reckon you must surely have started planning now.
Good luck.
The preparation that leads to that "one day " can be very stressful
Good luck

@ Suxes 2005
I could care less if their wedding last two seconds or forever
Just think it is in very bad taste to be predicting doom for people that is all
About my username - Denise Katrina Williams should explain it all, I think I saw her preaching or something before I joined this website. Her story is very moving



Good for you though I really wasn't talking about your [i]used [/i]clothes but good for you hun.