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This is what sell in today's society.

@pocohantas
The problem is not that you are shy, the problem is that you are getting old and you are not rich. So you have realized “men age like wine” is only applicable to men with money.

Shebi 4 years ago you were doing a minute silence for single ladies HERE?

Four years later you are not buoyant enough to hook smallies because advanced bachelors without money would be used to play pingpong by 200L girls till they have sense and just like you, they will start patronizing women in their 30s.

That is why you created this thread ”Girls above 30 years are good in relationships”. Smallies done show you shege, you come dey find evening newspaper wey go retire with you.

You are not shy anything. Na money you no get.

Better go through your phonebook and call one of your old girlfriends or neighbours. Make una continue for where una stop. Toor!



@me
I can't stop laughing..... hahahaha. See finishing. These ladies are giving us back hot hot.

@ahnie
A. rumpled evening newspaper.



@me
Hahahaha..... you, you and your mouth eeh.

Beat? With which heart? Wickedness or correct?

Wickedness - no
Correction. - yes

But the case you stated here is that of wickedness. Very wrong very wrong!!

@greenie77
Don't you ever dare it, go your separate ways. Why was the issue of genotype not brought up during the early days of the relationship?[



@me
Fully concur with you. There's no option. We have cancelled several that were attending marriage course in the church when this was discovered.

There is no faith thing in this.

How you dey?..... remembered you yesterday. The lady that fought me.

Serious female gossip going on here.

@ahnie
Sweet in the middle
It's best adviced to throw away soup that has lasted for 2days and cook fresh sweet soup.

Imagine eating soup cooked with ajino Moto when you would actually enjoy soup cooked with correct knorr maggi

only those wey get sense go understand my post.


@me
Haha.... I no get sense..... I no understand your post. Come ooh....this your mouth can kill.

@Chiffy

Congratulations in rendering your free, educated and exposed service to RCCG. Please while you are rendering to RCCG, also consider rendering to the growth of Nigeria. Afterall, how will RCCG conquer the world for Christ when rhe country of its headquarters is dilapidated spiritually, economically, socially, technologically, and so on.



@me
The church is a major contributor to the economy of this nation. Thousands are employed directly by the church. Several others earn their living indirectly from the church. How was the mowe, sagamu, ibafon, ota axis before the church. How are they now? What brought development to those axis? There was a day I had need to get a hotel accommodation at ikeja. I went round and I couldn't get any. What was the problem? Christ Embassy had a program. All hotels in ikeja and down to opebi were fully booked. Is that not economic impact?

Anytime any of the major churches has a major program there will always be an influx of foreigners and diaspora citizens. Will they not spend money in the economy? An average room and parlour apartment in mowe and sagamu goes for #150,000 for 5 days letting anytime RCCG has a major program. I can cite schools, hospitals, roads and ancillary services etc that the churches contribute to the economy.


You guys should hold your wicked and greedy political leaders responsible. They are the ones that manage what belong to all of us. No one forces anyone to belong to any church. Incidentally it's the outsiders and those that have no contribution to the church that make so much noise.

@Iyaebe
Of course it's the women, men will always loose focus due to their tendencies of cheating.Any marriage you see waxing strong is mostly the effort of the woman.



@me
This Iya somebody....who told you this? In any marriage that is working one of the partners must be paying more price. It could be either.

Op this is a tough one. 8 good years and the joy of marrying a medical doctor. If Chioma loose this .......hmmm

You are in it. You are in it. Marry her. Empower her and ask her to strictly take care of her self and siblings from there.

Matter finish

@cococandy
Funny when poor people don’t want to marry other poor people.
Abeg who will marry us if our fellow poor folks think they are too good for us?



@me
One directional taste can be soar. A good mix is better. If two people are in a pit who will lift up each other.

@AutoChick4U
So why can't they deliver her? Don't fall prey to fake pastors.




@me
You guys can't see that this guy was just joking. Look at his Monika. No normal person will think this.

Madam you are an extremely good woman. You truly love your husband. Unfortunately you are not helping his nature. He is a proud, notice me and show off person. These things come first to him than the image of his family and the peace of his children.

When you have this type of person, you should play your part to save your children and the image of your family but you should never have exposed your finances to him. He feels that you can never allow shame to come to the family. So he cares less about planning.

Big mistake....big mistake. You should never have given him your mum's money. I don't want to say things that I suspect as they will get you very angry.

Move very fast. Get a trusted church leader, relation or friend that he respects and insist on retrieving your mum's money. You can invest it in your business and manage and pay rent from their. Your husband can't do well in business. Don't give him any one naira again.

From now on be discrete about your finances. I feel sad as a man. God will help you because of your good heart.

@Chiffy
Colonization mentality. Adeboye is beginning to sense that he might be loose key members. So he has to preach propaganda to install fear into their hearts to make his key pastors think that they cannot succeed on thier own.
Church na just business/economics.



@me
You guys just say things you don't know. Several big pastors today that are GOs were former pastors of RCCG. The tunde bakare, oyedepos etc. Several still leave today. Once you tell the church that you want to leave he will pray for you and release you.

RCCG is bigger than any human. The administration is being refined everyday to conquer the world for Christ. It's a church where the best well trained persons come in to render their service to God FREE and even bring in their money and resources. I'm one of them.

Certainly there must be something special about this God and this church. A lot of people that write trash are not one tenth as educated and exposed as an average pastor that happily render FREE service in RCCG to God.

@saphiere
Guys to be honest I have never entered plane before. I need someone to make this dream of mine come true for me.

Thanks.




@me
I don't believe this from the leader of feminism gang. Picture please!!!

Problem no dey finish. Others dey worry about more serious things this one dey worry about height when you are not a dwarf.

Nadaken
This is the only Northern Muslim cum Fulani that i can be rest assured would be liberal as president

He is not a jihadist, he is liberal, he is educated, he is well diversified etc

We forever miss your leadership of NASS


@me
Trash. He and his father ran sgb bank aground. Depositor's money gone. He and his father looted Kwara dry. As Senate President did he use his position to effect the changes? When pdp was in power he was a key figure. Did he effect any change?

When they are out of government they speak like this. Na dem.

Winners and RCCG for example will do blessing of marriage. It will be in pastor's office. Questions will be asked whether the man has done the needful.

Reps of both families will be present. No wedding gown and formal service. The pastors will pray for them and bless their marriage. No church wedding certificate will be given but they will be encouraged to get statutory certificate from the government.

The proper doctrine is the biblical bed-undified. If you eat your yam before, it's blessing of marriage you will get.

@fyneguy

This is a salient question. This precedent will make it excusable for people to receive the mark, to enable them "preach the gospel", among other things.


@me
Go and study end time eschatology. There are events preceding the mark of the beast. You can't be raptured and be part of it. You better repent now and focus on eternity to avoid the pains.

Every ignorant person is just talking. Anyway it's a market place.

@GodisFirst
At this point, I disagree with Pastor Adeboye. It also simply means as some one pointed out here that if I am to take the mark of the beast (666) in order to preach, I shouldn't hesitate.
For me I fell he should allow other preachers there do the job, while he supports them financially. He can even preach remotely or virtually with the technology we have now.

Is he saying that we should accept any condition for the sake of gospel? I disagree.
At a time like this, Shadrach, Michael and Abadinago comes to mind.



@me
Who has told you that it's the mark of the beast? Can you cite where he said so? All these biblical ignoramus, events preceding the mark of the beast has it taken place? Mtcheeee.

@aviara
A lady I am trying to preach the gospel to doesn't want to listen. She is requesting I have sex with her before accepting Jesus as Lord and saviour. Can I grant her request for the sake of the gospel?


@me
This your logic don't flow. The Bible encourages you to obey your leaders so long as their instructions are not heretic. There is no where in the that it is written that taking medical vaccine is against the word of God.

If you sleep with the lady you are citing above you have committed adultery/fornication which the Bible says that you should flee from.

If you take the vaccine which sin have you committed according to the Bible?

@Mrsoft3


I have seen your comments on this post today and I am amazed at your level of ignorance.

Your choice of words as regards to the things of God shows you don't know Christ. You think you know addiction? You think you have understanding of spiritual forces at work? You just come out and spew thrash because you feel your opinion that is proportional to your level of exposure is superior?

Mr there is more to this things you are seeing than coming to argue with people who have results.


@me
Avoid wasting your time with this guy's comments on Christian and religious issues. He is a confused person. Since I noticed him and we had one or two exchanges I ignore him.

Issues of Christianity can only be understood when you have an encounter with Christ. Not only reading the Bible. Anyone can read the Bible but only those that had true encounter with Christ will understand the revelations in it.

@OmovuduTheBeast

Religious fraudsters everywhere.


@me
This is not any prophet. He is just a fraudster. Fraudsters can use anything to deceive people. They use what you desire to buy your conscience.

@heykim
I listened to him on the station this morning, the guy is super intelligent.[/quote]@me
He's one of the finest brains that we have. I don't know why he used that nonsense to cover his head.

This is a wrong assertion. For the woman do you know how many men that wanted her hand. How her parents and friends advised her against accepting your proposal.

How if you misbehave as you are most likely to do, she can't go back to them to complain.

The name-calling for the op here is too much na. Remember that she is a pregnant woman. She needs peace of mind. It can happen to anyone.

First she said that they knew each other before, lost contact and reconnected. The man was insincere with her. When she got to know she had fallen deeply in love with him. I'm assuming that this lady is a soft-hearted person. The foolish man exploited it.

Don't get the wife or relations involved. Inform him that you will keep the baby. I just hope that you have a good source of income incase he disappoints you.

Brace up. You can never know what the baby will become in future and the foolish man will like to come around and lay paternity claim. That will be the time you will show him the negative side of yourself.

It's life lesson. You have learnt it the hard way.

@AmazonTopaz
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged ;



@me
Is it too much for me to demand that I should have the exclusive usage of what I paid for?

@JovialJune

This apology thing is a deceit, it has no power anything, I notice that people say it frequently these days not cos they mean it, they just want the hurt, problem, or whatever they caused to be forgotten at that moment, this doesn't mean they won't repeat same wrong again thereby taking one for a fool, so lately I have refused to accept that deceitful words, instead one's actions going forward in changing the wrong is what I have decided to forgive.


@me
So if I mistakenly slap you, I should not bother to apologize.

@saphiere

IMO; Pregnancy should be considered as one of the most risky work on Earth. And the carrier should be placed on salary with nothing less that $5000 a week.



@me
Hahahaha.....who will pay the salary? Is the woman going to refund when she starts going for omugwo? Will she start to refund when she starts harvesting from the children?

Women, women, women

Very mad judges everywhere. Mtcheeee

@ImaIma1

It's understandable that women need men. But it's also the other way round. Men also get lonely in their old age. So let's not make it gender based.

What about a woman who has stayed with a man and had a terrible experience and had to run for her life. Won't such a woman prefer to be alone and safe than to be married and in bondage?

Also, a woman who loses her husband when she's 50/60 and goes on to live alone till about 80. Will you ask her to remarry because she needs a man?

Having a man is great but I don't think it is the only way. Let's learn to respect the decisions of those that choose not to have for whatever reasons best known to them.

I have a family, doesn't mean I'll look down on those who don't. Everyone has their issues and are managing their lives.


@me
You are right in your assertion. I'm not singling out women. My comment was based on the fact that the topic focused on female.

The same is applicable to the male. All those that want baby mama now and no wife at old age they will need one.

Some ladies I know passed through terrible experiences in the hands of men. So they get scared anytime any male comes near them.

However everyone is free to live his/her life. No condemnation.