₦airaland Forum

@ImaIma1
I don't think it was this much of an issue when men were cheating hopelessly and being proud of it.

Now that women have followed the same path, we will not heard word on the matter.


@me
Don't mind them. Hypocritical male. I'm now a supporter of the daughters of Eve. I have been converted.

Come oooo. What is cheating? What do they do in that place called cheating? Who can teach me? Will I be paid after learning? More??

@greenie77
They are "balancing" the equation!


@me
You no go Church today? I'm asking because of the time you typed. Happy Sunday!!

@InTheCloudySky

Nope, it's not. One-year mark is actually a good time to move on. Most men don't even wait that long, so you've tried. Give this guy a chance. Good luck.



@me
Yes she can move on. Why are you comparing us with women? We are not the same.

The marketing is too much. Ladies beware!!!

@Ishilove

Choi! Nigerian men.


@me
Wetin come happen. It's the power of Nigerian man gbola that made her to abandon her husband and be using her money to enjoy Nigerian gbola.

Nigeria no good Nigeria no good..... oyibo woman wan die here because of gbola.

Except she gets divorced from the American husband quickly, the husband can sue her.

Anyway the power of black gbola. Oyibo self they use her NGO dey do small Yahoo.

Very very wrong. I have pending case now involving burial. Wife is a deaconess in rccg, husband is a member of one okonkwo & okonkwo church. Husband has died. The burial scheduled for 24th in South East.

Okonkwo & okonkwo church refuses to conduct the funeral. Wife and children are stranded. Rccg says that they can't conduct burial service for a non-member. Service of songs on 23rd - Monday. Of course it's dangerous to go to South East because of IPOB. I have offered to make the sacrifice of traveling after service tomorrow with a view of staying till Monday evening to conduct the service of songs. The higher authorities have overruled me.

So no service of songs. I have been pleading for mercy so that we can conduct the burial. This is not the first case.

For spiritual purposes the man should be the bishop of the house. The family should pray and study under one doctrine.

When there are issues, they are easier to resolve because the report comes to one shepherd. Both respect him.

If a woman takes her husband's money, can it under any guise be called stealing?

@Hathor5

If you think that baby mama brings no drama you are in it for a BIG surprise.

And before you ask which is better for the man, ask which is better for the children.

If you don't ask this question first, you are not fit to be a father.


@me
God bless you for this wonderful comment. I will add that when he gets involved in any major sickness, challenge and old age, that's when he will understand that baby mama nobi marriage.

All these boys lost in fornication will come here and give negative advice. If they use fornication and lust lay the foundation of their marriage and the marriage start having problems it's still pastors that the matter will be brought to.

I don't think that op is truthful in what he is saying. I'm in one of the largest Pentecostal churches. It's a rule that we should not match make. You can't even bring names to me to help you seek the face of God whether he or she is your husband/wife. Even if God speaks to me I will not tell you but I can help you ask God to lead you.

Marriage is a personal decision between the intending couple. The church where there is good doctrine will only guide you so that you are not lead by flesh because scripturally there is no second chance.

I think that this is the situation in Deeper Life.
A lot of you don't know what pastors go through trying to quench the fire in a lot of marriages (even the ones that the couples are very educated and comfortable) because the foundation of the marriages were badly laid. You hear all manner of things that are dirty. This is what the church is trying to avoid.

The church know that happy home, happy church.

@ImaIma1

Mistake as in...he slipped on a banana peel and his pinis fell out of his teousers and he landed on a woman who had her legs open and pants off?



@me
Hahahaha.... mistake na mistake. Anyhow it happened e don happen. Women are generally too possessive.

Any young man that says that he cannot get married because of marriage list is actually not serious and ready.

You have been bleeping her for free and you want to take someone's daughter with handkerchief money as a wife.

Anything not paid for is not valued. When I become president I will make bleeping outside marriage a capital offence.

All these ocho free boys eeh. I pity girls sha.

@saphiere

what has this gender not done to women?
Any woman who is against feminism needs her brain checked.


@me
Remember what chidinma did to us. It's worse.

Your obituary is ready. Try it.

@ahnie

Shes such añ idiot.
Dem no dey follow Nigerian man suffer.



@me
Hahahaha....so you hate us reach like this?

@greenie77

If the story is true, I am very certain the girlfriend's family is not aware of the kidney donation because she deserves to be disowned.


@me
She deserves to be disowned. Hahahaha.

@BirtherOfKing

The only issue is dat he will have a curse on his head because I will report him to my God.

@me
Hahahaha

@Ladylawyer
Restitution is very good but please know that certain things are better left in secret. If it will break hearts and cause more trouble, please pray to God and change your ways without having to voice out your offences especially to the offended. I have warned you.


@me
Very correct. The ordinary meaning of restitution is to bring back to the original position. Zacheaus' statement was the clearest in the new testament.

Scripturally you don't have proceeds of sin, enjoying them and you say that you have repented. If you forsake sin you must forsake it's proceeds.

In demonology (study of demons), you can't cast out demons and you still retain what they gave you. Those things will attract them back. In fact the vocal demons will challenge you openly.

Caveat: some restitutions are either impossible, unnecessary and/or should be handled with care. Counseling by an experience pastor will be required.

Example: someone was a cultist before. Killed the only child of a couple that cannot have another one. Upon repentance and being a born again, you then go to the couple to restitute.

@chiommy123

I feel ashamed of myself.

@me
Not necessary. He sees your heart. If you have more time get involved in some activities. You are indirectly giving your offering.

@Monogamy
If the basic reason of more churches in the country is about tithe, why no stay put for your house if you don't have money for the tithe. Such person won't be included in those that the pastor would pray for

Man shall not live with bread alone - Nigeria pastor


@me
Read what others that didn't have but were still going to church for one year wrote. There is no church that will stop you from attending because you don't have offering.

There is no pastor that will be comfortable with a 300 seater auditorium and on a Sunday only 5 members that pay tithe of #10,000,000 attended service and the rest of the seats are empty.

I don't know what you guys problem with tithe is even when you don't pay.

@saphiere
Facts.

I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners.

Indeed women are blessings.


@me
Hahahaha.... it's not because of the wify. Life is a mystery. What worked now may not work later. What worked for Andrew may not work for James.

There are instances where people were doing well before they got married and as soon as they got married they went down.

Are you encouraging the broke boys to get married?

The only solution is to cling to God. He will direct your path in storm and out of storm.

@Candidlady
Could the world truly be coming to an end



I don't wanna die a Virgin


@me
The world will indeed come to an end someday. Be prepared. Eternity is real. Feminist without Christ will not make it.

@Uchek
The piece is beyond your intellectual capacity. Keep living in self-deception. The worst slave is a house slave who thinks he is different the field slave.


@me
Intellectual capacity kwa? Show me what is intellectual in the piece please. Anyway everyone has level.

@Candidlady
Which is sane or better


Old men marrying young ladies


Or



Old women marrying young boys


@me
Old men marrying young ladies. They can still do the do. If you are 61 can you allow a 24 year-old to do the do with you? That's suicide.

hansomb
All I read above are just fantasy. Buhari contested and lost three times until Jagaban arrived. Who's fooling who ? The so called cabal what has they achieve for the North ? What has Ojukwu achieve for the East ? What has Good luck achieve for the South South ? What has Obj , Tinubu achieve for the West ? In most cases people most most Nigerian president have benefited people of other region than there own. Buhari has done more to the Southerners than He did to the Northerner. Likewise Good luck did more to the Northerner than he did in the southern part even though all are nothing to write home about.


@me
Buhari has done more to the southerners than he did to the northerners? Did you type this in error? I supported him when he was coming but I know realise that I misplaced my support.

I have never seen an unrepentant, classless and visionless tribal bigot as a leader like him.

I can tell you that the North's cup is full. It's hurting every southerner. It's either this structure is changed or this nation brakes.

It's a lie. He spoke the inner mind of Bubu. The reaction from the presidency is just a cover up.

Cheating cheating cheating...the story never ends. What is cheating?

Leave this ogulewe. No single integrity. Don't trust anything he says. I met him one on one in his living room some years back.

The lies that followed after that meeting was out of this world. He has no relevance. Jumped after being a minister under Obasanjo from pdp to apc.

He must be old now. This one can't talk where fashola is talking talk more of jagaban.

@Kobojunkie
Even though Jesus Christ made it clear that marriages are not of His Kingdom, but of this world, they continue to install themselves as marriage counselors in the name of God.

Marriage was in place before the curse showed up so equality in marriage is not against God but as God created it to be.

After the curse came in however, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God.

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God.


@me
This man and his comments on Christian issues. Believers beware!!!

Hahahaha..... IPOB has become family business. We warned our people that this guy man that has no investment and has never employed anybody in the South East is a scam.

He doesn't want Ibo elites to come closer because he will not have his way. Look at the South West, professors and their elites are involved.

I'm and an igboman. Kanu can't rule me.