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@ChiefSosa
The Bible encourages us to seek knowledge, why do you detest knowledge? Is it because of Chauvinism? Knowledge to you is like sunlight to a vampire. If everything is in vain, why then do pastors acquire so many things? They won't take it along with them when they die doesn't mean their offsprings won't use them or reminisce about them. You didn't inherit anything from your people doesn't mean you should spoil things for others. No problem in being a Christian; I'm one myself but, I'm NOT a dumb one. I'm willing to seek knowledge as much as possible and from anyone or anywhere. You're making Christians look like unintelligent people that only follow what they're told and can't think for themselves. Hahaha you went to change from "in voke" to "in vogue" after correction.

@me
"All these are vanity" does not mean that all things are not useful. What it means is that they should not be the only reason for our existence. While we need and desire those things they should not become idols to us. They should not take us away from God. God desires that we should have them. After all silver and gold belong to him.

Nothing should take the place of eternity because they are not worth anything compared to what we get at eternity.

They should been taken within the context of what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 6:12 "All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any"

This is bad and very unfair.

Flirtyjane

We are not suppose to share personal details on Nairaland.

The mod like lalasticala, mynd44 and Dominique can ban person.

My username should give you a clue about my name ;



@me
Ok I can make it out. You can pm me. I hope that you will not make shakara.

@Flirtyjane


That is username, not name. Seun want us to use username on nairaland,,,

@me
I know but what is your real name? I know that you will be happy that I'm toasting you.

I didn't know that this type of oil is on your head. I'll sure include your name on my list for consideration.

But this your name though.

Odd man odd question. See his name: Pregnant man.

You opened your vmobile for him for two good years. You later discovered that his pay was peanut.

Lady your vmobile is peanut. Period!!

Patience wat? Waste of time ko. Must every meeting result to sex. Ladies where una dey see this type of boys?

Abortion ke? Shebi you are investor? You have invested well. Wait for the dividend.

The day that you will mess up she will put you in guardroom until your village people will come and bail you.

Their bosses bleep them like shege. That's why you will hardly see a military marrying a military. They are seriously on the lookout for civilian suitors.

@doggedfighter
The strong urge to see a new girlfriend can make one do this. ;


@me
Really..... haha... maybe from experience.

Why unah dey put fear for this guy body particularly @deborah. The man dey fear to go test himself.

Hahahaha....wages of sin....

@Sterope
Are all his family members and friends dead?



@me
Good question my fine lady. One chilled Pepsi for you.

To please woman has always destroyed man since the days of Samson.

@martyns303
the writer said the idea of people “checking out” is not new, and mentioned a 80s advert, if the idea of leaving is not new, why criticize the pastor for saying something everyone else already knows?

The writer said, the pastor is having a privileged mentality, at the same time, he said even unprivileged people are either leaving or plan on leaving if u should check Twitter.

At the end of the day, let everybody do what works for them.


@me
I fully support the writer. If Pst Adefarasin belonged to another vocation other than pastor I will not have issues with his plan B advice. But he is a pastor. A man that people run to when they are hopeless.

As a notable pastor his words are weighty. A single word that comes out of his mouth can make someone you had planned suicide to drop it.

By the grace of God I'm a pastor in one of the large churches around. At the heat of the pandemic in 2020 we were warned that our messages should be focused on hope and salvation.

Recently the Holy Spirit has been directing me along the same line because of the despair in the land. I'm presently running a series on GOD KNOWS - when, how, why, don't quit.

This is what is expected of us. Of course what will you expect from a feel-good pastor.

The problem is two ends. You have not been in relationship for a long time. Therefore you have lost touch of how to grow a relationship.

On the part of the man, he's just coming out of a bad experience(divorce) therefore every woman is a suspect.

All the efforts he put through to come and see you clearly shows that he is interested in you.

Try and reconnect with him and the present short comings from the two ends will help build the relationship. Good luck.

If he wants to marry you no wahala.

@bestabigaelever
I will look like that if I wear Bumshort and white tee


@me
It's a lie. I have checked your legs, hip, mango and backside.

All of you that are painting marriage as evil are you ready to reject the juice in marriage?

Marriage na scam. Marriage na that. You bleep more than those that are married. You love the juice in marriage but you hate the stone in it.

Government should make fornication a capital offence and there will an upsurge in wedding economy or no economy.

@Nuttella
One of my male colleagues have been stylishly proposing to me. I will pay no heed to such cause I know it will end in premium unadulterated tears.

@me
It works. It worked for me. Particularly if it's between boss and subordinate. I dated her for some years(I will not mention how long).

I can go out with enough confidence that someone is covering my back. She had the keys to my office and safe.

There are some basic rules. The man must be strong and be in charge. When it comes to work deal with her as if there is no relationship.

I improved her academically, professionally. I even assisted her to control her personal finance. A very tall beautiful lady. Still in touch with me but no intimacy for a long time.

I was always confident that I had good cover behind me. Well behaved lady though. She will forever remember me.

@cococandy

The same Bible that curses you if you don’t provide? That’s the one you want to use and justify making your wife your slave to go labor for you and provide the money to you? God has suffered.
What happens after she submits the money to you? You give her stipend from it?
Or she comes to you to beg for some of her money when she needs new underwear and perfume?

If there’s no equitable sharing, I’m not interested.
From the beginning of time na wayo people all of una be.

The man must submit his money if he expects his wife to. What I recommend is joint account. Completely accessible by both partners as equal owners of the money. No his money her money but our money. If you don’t like it, bye. Or we keep separate accounts and the man doesn’t ask the wife to submit hers. See nonsense



@me
All these long grammar is because of few of you that earn little change. The greater majority of you only submit your Vmobile. Majority of men have been submitting their all by footing all bills since the days of father Abraham without making noise.

Women are really stingy.

The guy na naija man jor. You wey oyibo dey shak be careful.

cococandy
Are you going to be submitting yours as well?



@me
If he submits his own it means there are two equal masters. But this is not the case. The lower will have to submit to the higher master. After all the Bible enjoined wives to submit to their husbands.

@debbydams
lol..I can't trust any man nd if I'll trust any man den something would v happened..if he worth it why won't I...I remembered telling my ex the exact amount I v in my acct he drained everything before he left...I'm still nursing the pains it cost till date..so as we have useless ladies so we have stupid nd useless men just that we might not know the good ones.


@me
I can see that you are a good lady. Well I am a good man too. Trust me and submit your pay and I will not disappoint you.

@Grace001
How will they explain this to his family, killed by yansh


@me
Point of correction. Killed under yansh.

@Amuochicha
I Hate Men


@me
Do you hate me?

@folabayo
1000 ways to die...
I like them big, i like them big , i like them big bold and beautiful while you are an average size , the outcome can be outrageous.


@me
Something must kill a man either back or front. Unfortunately for this man backside killed him. Anyway biggie is always sweet.

See two big sherry mangoes.

What did you do. Don't tell us half story.

@doggedfighter
All these Jss 3 boys with their borrowed phones,sef :


@me
Your mouth can induce murder.