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Since last week,this question have bothered me. I even tried calln my granny on sunday and her phone was off. Infact,i will try again today
Luckily for me,my two grannes are still alive. One is 86 and the other is 88. They are both namesakes. They bear bernice as their first names.

May God keep them for me so that i can pamper them

chidyhels: Vivalavida pls we need your input at this stage, what's d next stage like and what area should we focus our reading on. There is love in sharing bro.

Send me a pm
Better if u are on whatsapp

Kay 17: Is every woman supposed to bow to every date and man?! The OP is as tasteless as the advice. The potential suitor ought to have the charm that ATTRACTS and form the nucleus for the relationship. Not bowing before every man that walks past and shows interest. That is not enough.

The biblical women you mentioned were seen as objects. Rebekah fell for a man she had never seen!

You are as stupid as they come. What do u mean by the Op is as tasteless as da advice? Why are u attacking my personality? didnt u see da link where i got da article from? Did i claim to be da writer?

slowpoke

Exits thread

In 2012 ,I was invited to be a member of a panel at a Christian singles conference. After speaking about living a purposeful life, and remaining pure in singleness, the topic of marriage invariably came up. A woman stood up and started pouring out her heart about how she desired a husband. How she was in her late thirties and did not want to be alone anymore. She said that she was on the verge of ‘settling’!
In an attempt to comfort her, an older woman whom we will call Sarah stood up and proclaimed that she was single at 60 AND had never married. Sarah started to encourage the younger lady. She said,look at me, I am 60 and not married but I will not settle. I want what God wants for me and will not settle for less. I have had many counterfeit men come into my life. Sarah then went ahead and started to rattle off about the men that had been potential suitorsand what was wrong with them. As she spoke, somethings that seemingly escaped her started to become clear to those of us on the panel. She was to blame for being single at 60.
Here are some of the things we realized about Sarah that kept her single
Sarah wanted Jesus…not a disciple of Jesus…but Jesus Himself
Many women, like Sarah are looking for the perfect mate. They want someone who is going to complete them and be their everything! If this is you, then my question to you is this: If a man completes you and becomes your everything, then what position is Jesus taking in your life? Jesus is the one that completes you and is meant to be your everything. So, to look for completeness in a man is to make that man an idol in your life, it is to have put man above God! This will only lead to ruin because no man is perfect! Try as he might, he will disappoint you! So stop looking for someone who will not disappoint you over the lifetime you wish to be married…you will not find it. Even you, yes you…have and still disappoint many people…whether you realize it or not…whether you meant it or not.Instead of looking for perfection, look for someone who is striving towards perfection. This is a person that loves God and does not want to be conformed to the world but whose life’s purpose is to be transformed into the image of Jesus.
As my mom says, if you meet a person who is perfect, run away, for you will make imperfect whatever is making that person seem perfect.
Sarah saw herself as a princess, but she did not care to prince her man
There are many women who see themselves as awesome and incredible royalty. Many women say, I want to be treated like a princess! The issue is that they do not want their man to be a prince. They do not want to share any power or give up any control. Instead, they want their partners to take the position of a slave while treating them like a princess. The reason many women cannot let go of control is because of fear – perhaps due to not dealing with the hurts of past relationships. The moment the man does not give her the power she craves, she takes it as he not treating her like a princess and so searches for greener pastures. Conversely, many men see that while they are giving all they have, the woman is not following suit! Many women think that this is part of being pursued; many men simply see it as being disrespectful.
As a princess, you have to make sure you prince your man. Compliment him and let him know that you appreciate that he is being led by the King. Let go of the control. Taking a chance at love means you take a chance with your heart. This is because only the heart can feel love, not your head.
Sarah liked being pursued but did not want to be caught
In the bible, the servant of Abraham went to a land far away in pursuit of a wife for Isaac. When he got there, it was Rebekah that came to the well. When he approached, she did not play games and dilly-dally. No, she said that she would not wait as her family had requested but would follow Eliezer immediately back to Isaac. When Boaz pursued Ruth, Ruth decided to show her interest by laying at his feet. See, both Rebekah and Ruth showed interest. They did not play games or play hard to get.
Ladies, if a prince has found you, then admit it and go forward as long as you have God’s blessing. I am not saying be easy, but at the same time, do not be hard to get. Just as you are a gift to him, he is also a gift to you! If a man is pursing you, do not run him away with games.
Continue ------ http://diaryofasuperchamp./2014/04/28/5-reasons-why-many-christian-girls-remain-single/

Vivalavida99: See how Nigerians keep showing themselves for all the wrong reason, after you guys will be complaining how the world is against you.

So my wife have finally joined nairaland ehh
The vivalavidas are here to rock your world

Help a brother out. Send to neptunes211@gmail.com

Please,how does a Hp and a toshiba laptop battery go for?

The recruitment is on now. Ma aunty with rivers state command just intimated me and ma cousins via sms now. She said it is 10 cadets per state. So start calln ur contacts

idumuose: You have started beating your empty chest again and when Aregbe is defeated you will go underground in shame.

I hope you people will not throw another e-bomb on nairaland again after Aregbe's defeat

Na flat breast she dey beat

House,i call for an adjournement. This is almost midnight. Let everyone ceasefire and go to bed. Someone should second me.

[quote author=Gov Wahala]I can see u are a real tout, the garage is where u actually belong. We talking stella u talking nonsense. Am very sure u are leaving below poverty, and u are here typing trash in support of a thief who does'nt give a hoot about ur pathetic existence. Ode. Ise okuko.[/quote]Your name Gov wahala says everyfin abt u. Go on,shw everybody how troublesome you are. Knock yourself out while we watch you delude yourself. And when you are done,crawl into your red rusted zinc house somewhere in Molete in your rag-tag clothes and sleep.

[quote author=Gov Wahala]Look at this rogue, so u pride urself as a clown that cause online brouhaha? U r pathetic, u deserve to be looked in the zoo, cos that's ur real home. And I see u've only been in online battle with weak one's, cos with me I will so frustrate ur sick life that mods will have nothing to do than hand bans out. Ode.[/quote]Mumu it is locked. Not looked. Ode nie

Rudedough,u have fought like a lion. U deserve a championship medal. Am not in tha real mood for online brouhaha today. But i have enjoyed watchn you battle those clowns. Another warrior who i saw but i guess he wasnt really fired up today was manny4life. I and manny have fought a tribal battle before. Kudos to u bro. U rock

[quote author=Gov Wahala]U'r a bloody tribalist, is stella a minister for the igbo's or for Nigerians? Why show ur foolishness out in public. Everyday we cry for a better nation free of corruption, and all u could type was she did wrong but we igbo's will support our daughter. My God u'r a disgrace, it simply show's if given the opportunity u will do worse. Anoufia.[/quote]Which bush did this one jump out from? I can perceive your body odour and mouth offensive smell via ya comments. Park one side. Why didnt an ele eran like u shout like this when Tinubu was ruling gidi with his toronto certificate

Chai!!! This stella don give yoruba people nightmares ooo. Make una pele

All this because she upgraded Enugu airport to an international airport. You all want the south east to be the only zone without an intl airport abi? Una plan don fail. No need for igbo boiz who have no bizness in lasgidi to drop there again. Na to dey fly home direct.
Make una dey hate ooo

pembisco: ...now i knw why an igbo will never rule this nation. *shameless woman i tell ya* i dnt evn knw what's d hype abt foreign Bsc, Msc nd Phd holders awarded high positions in dis country, d likes of ngozi iweala, sls nd co. I guess its inferiority complex cos if we value our indeginous certs, no fu..cker wl claim bein an ABU graduate for instance wen he/she is nt. Metcheew!

While calling her shameless woman,hope u remember one Hon Patricia Etteh?

ololo12: Saboteur? Because I am not playing the tribalism card? I'd rather be a saboteur, than a tribalistic bigot, Mr La Vida

See Saint obi

ololo12: Dalu.. Chineke gozie gi..

Saboteur

ISpiksDaTroof: What sense does this make?

To a dim-wit it makes no sense

Originalsly: The accusation is that she did not receive a BSC from St Paul College. Why not post a picture of the certificate to prove the report false? This CV supports what was reported....that she claimed she graduated from the college....it in no way shows she actually did. Now I would want to believe fhe report is true.

Drop your hose address. Her aides will post it to u via nipost

shymexx: At least Yoruba's aren't scared of them.

And they don't single them out for decimation like the primitive people from the East of the Niger River.

See coward talking. Even in your own land in lagos,they deal with you. How many yorubas are in nothern nigeria? Can you equate that with the hordes of igbo's in the north? Do your people ever move out from your zone? Have u got any adventure in you? Dude stop talking.

Rudedough and alfa seltzer, i doobaale for una.
The igbo's are proud of u two great warriors

superstar1: PPP answer my germane questions.

Your damage control method Clearly shows her PR team lacks tact. They are as clueless as the govt they work for.

Nna check the like his comments are getting and urs. U are trying too hard men. Bounce

hope this shuts fani kayode and his tribal pple up


https://www.nairaland.com/1586070/stella-oduahs-cv-released-senate

[quote author=babe_online]19 degree Celsius is not cold. At least not the way STEALER is talking about it

I check the weather report every blessed day and I know what 19 degree Celsius feels like!!

19 degree Celsius should not even be cold to someone from sub Saharan Africa.[/quote]There is no where in sub-saharan Africa that has 19 degree temperature @ anytime. No where no matter how cold it is in sub-saharan africa. Anyone who has done and read his geography very well can attest to this. Even maiduguri that is in the pact of sahara desert havent had 19 degrees during harmattan. For the coldest AC's in Nigeria,the temp is mostly @ 18 degrees. Sleep under it and tell me u wont have a pneumonia by dawn

[quote author=babe_online]You are the dull illiterate here!!

I dont mean her azz is open like literally.

I mean she has been exposed.

DO YOU GET MY POINT NOW?!?!

I dont care about Ibo women and please dont bring them into my argument again!!!!![/quote]Tribalist. Why would u care

[quote author=babe_online]Apparently, in your princess' dictionary, hot means cold. Shior!!!!![/quote]You are in Nigeria and 19'c is summer to you. I bet u watch only osbc and ogtv where they write weather report on card-board paper

[quote author=babe_online]How about you try to close STEALER oduah's yansh as best as you can so she can stop feeling cold in Brazil's summer weather instead of talking about tribe??[/quote]Sso when u feel cold,it comes from your anal cavity,your rectum,your cloaca? Incase you dont know,all refer to your posterior vena cava i.e ya booty. Igbo girls dont get cold from their please.
And stop using that word stealer. It reeks of gross and acute illiteracy

The truth is that Stella Oduah did wrong and deserves to be punished.Rather,Nigerians of other ethnic descents especially the south-westerners are intent on ridiculing her. The igbo's know their daughter didnt do right but still we wont sit with our arms folded and watch u ridicule and ride rough-shod over our daughter.

[quote author=babe_online]Hahahahahahahahaha.

You are a big clown!

19 degree Celsius is summer.[/quote]Ur heads needs to be examined thoroughly @ yabaleft