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[size=18pt]What happened to "Rejoice with them that Rejoice", she's achieved it she's happy, deal with it!!! If it's not an achievement to you, then buzz off!!!   [/size]

IMO:
Without necessarily enforcing morality, I believe if a girl's first boy friend sleeps with her and he doesn't marry her, I don't expect any sane girl to open her laps to any other guy again before she gets married.

Any lady that has slept with more than 1 man before marriage is not LOOSE, she's actually ASHEWO

It's wrong on every level is it's in naija
Hey dear -> I be your mate?, from the Hey clause
Missing you-> Statement too close to the preceeding suggestive one

From the day she found out that you smoked, you're already on your way out of her life

NO "homely" girl will marry a known smoker!!

It's good you've quit the stuff, hope you've found someone that appreciates your decision

IMO every babe that has opened her leg before wedlock is an ashewo and of very low quality

^^^ not really, the thought that another guy(s) has been through the laps of your babe will always haunt you no matter what

Considering the fact that you actually want to prove yourself

The first thing is not to work for daddy, at least you've got something to fall back on if others seem to fail

First hussle, apply for jobs like every other person, do what your mates are doing, People are getting jobs without long leg and I guess if you know your onions well, you should.

When you prove yourself outside his company, returning to his company would earn you greater respect

on the alternative, start somewhere down the ladder in his company and merit your way up

I have said it before "The only thing the Past knows how to do is to Catch up with the present". You only need to come out clear ahead of your past

[size=32pt]I will kindly return the slap, make it no be like say I no sabi appreciate back  [/size]

[size=30pt]I will kindly return the slap [/size]

[size=18pt]Fire the thing [/size]

Please where is the question, I might as well copy the answer

^^ My Elder sister married at 27 as a virgin and a very successful medical doctor. Beat that.
(, and don't even come up with that "lack of opportunity" crap).

I don't think i wanna try it again, I was badly burnt the last time

[size=13pt]if you told me "God says", then you must give me evidence of other accurate things God has said to you at various points in time besides, God directs people to choices, the last person God chose for was Adam.

going back to the story:
For me, this situation summaries to the statement "The Grass is greener on the other side"[/size]

RITUALIST ON THE LOOSE!!

only if women will start learning to close their laps, this sounds like one ashewo to me.

Ekpoma1:
I would definitely go ahead with the marriage. After all i love her and she cheated before the marriage. But if she ever tried that after our wedding, damn i gonna chase her out with cutlass.

Are you for real?!!! I will definitely cancel the wedding or wakeup from that bad dream  mschew ashewo!!!

To marry someone who has done it before sef de hard me not to talk of the night before marriage

true, once married one has no choice but I see things like this similar to showing up with a child after marriage. (that you were never told about)

It's all deceit in different sizes it will surely affect trust for awhile if not for a long time

Ask her to go jump off 3rd mainland bridge.

I will announce it to enable people know that not everyone lacks self control despite having it all around you.

I have walked out on a lady who asked for sex (she was more than half naked) and I have broken out of relationships because of sex. (so don't even talk about lack of opportunity here). I only value dignity.

@fm7070: I quite agree

She ought to have said: Guy, I have had s+ex before but I no longer want to sleep with anyone till my wedding night.

I guess the guy's mind would be prepared for that than being told I am a virgin and meet a big fat lie on the wedding night.

[size=18pt]I REALLY DON'T CARE HOW THIS IS DONE?!!! all we want is stable power!!! so critics should just shut their eyes to whether it's GEJ or Okonjo initiative,  All we want is result[/size]