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even if I have everything money can buy and the means thereof,  my wife MUST STILL WORK

A working partner surely helps to have a blend of sensible intellectual communication within the home and this would be essential for other decision making process, when any partner ceases to work, I believe their ability to reason properly tends towards dumbness

190_@:
^You tiny thing with your tiny boga fish legs and plum [i]bre[/i]asts

Ive been away from nigeria for the[size=13pt] last 3 years[/size] - isnt that enough time for me to loose touch with these damn nigerian mentality

I thought he will even say 10 years, so wetin you wan make others talk?

The man should be
1. Tied in a square at the centre of an open dessert, a stampede of grazing herd should be allowed to run him over
2. He should shot on the left foot and a new blade be used to scrape off his manhood layer by layer.
3. His body parts should be amputated, each for 1 consecutive day of the month.
4. If he's still alive after all this, he should live with it for the rest of his life

I hate this type of man with passion, does he know what women go through every month not to talk of all the associated issues of having children . I don't know either, that's why I cherish women

omega25red:
if i'm getting to know you i wont spill my guts to you. I need some time to figure if i can tell you things that you wont come back and use it against me.
Besides no matter how long you are with someone even if you get married there are still something you wont share.

The relationship is already over even before it started. I am outta here. I remember firing a babe even for lying about her past.

^^ your comment lacks every sense of correlation

nikkykay:
How can it be proved that a guy is a virgin?
Women are really suffering

Women are not suffering, it's called dignity!

I actually used to think that it didn't matter until i entered relationships in which the babes had slept with almost everyone that said "hi" to her.

The thought of the fact that someone if it's even only one had been with my "wife-to-be" kept haunting me and I knew I couldn't really live with it. , I better seek out someone who had never been with any guy.

I laugh when ladies consider "a look only" as not having guts to approach the babe, mschew, what load of crap


Some guys feel you look good or "lookable" from afar but nothing more, so?!! get a life

I am one, I know many including guys

I broke up with my g.f last year because of sex, (i didn't want but she wanted), now she's pregnant for someone else, I really pity her and I pity the sanity of this generation

my final answer is: YES it is Decent, what are phones for?

This issue is officially overrated

1. TITHE is NOT your MONEY!
2. Your Tithe Can't finance a University! How much do people pay Sef!!!! Nawa. Do you know how much overhead it is to run a university so

jennykadry:
Seriously. What kind of other side to a story are they looking for? who will come here to give them the second side?"

Your head is correct.

Rule number 1: If she's got an ex that she was intimate with, I won't marry her. Old flames don't die!

Rule number 2: [/b]If she double dates while we were together, I won't marry her. She will do it in marriage.

[b]Rule number 3: If she's got "her friends" and I've got "mine" and we don't have a larger pool of "joint friends". I am outta the relationship,

but guess non of this applies to you now.

Solution: Given the type of background your wife has, there are probably things she's beginning to appreciate in the people she left  to marry you or probably the fire is no longer in your relationship, you need to go back to what made her look up to you or find you adorable, she's most like getting bored.

Walala:
My problem here is how is 210k naira a high paying job?  That like $1300 a month which is what someone working as a security guard in USA makes a month.  Our country is DEAD if 210k is a high - paying job in an MNC.  I am planning to relocate end of the year and I already make equivalent of a 1million Naira per month here in the states, so i was dreaming hoping to make at least 750,000 naira a month to at least justify my move.

Why are professionals so underpaid in Nigeria?

Anyway per post, since everybody dey talk say there are battalions on the streets looking for jobs everyday, I will advise that you don't quit your job and keep saving and try and strategize what your next move is.  DO NOT QUIT without having a plan.

You can't compare wages on any level, USA is different from Nigeria, the economic situation and expenditure is very different.
If you earn £1000 in uk for example you would just be living either on average or less than average but in Nigeria you would live a very comfortable life so just make your reference to strictly nigeria don't compare wages across the international scene.

I believe every inch of this story without verification considering how he walked off the stage at show I was in U.K and the kind of insult he came to parade. mschew, Kelly UGLY

The point is where did the issue of structure of words in wedding ceremony originate from? As far as i am concerned whatever structure we use today is not entirely based on the bible, we only adopt it as we found it reasonable

The most important part of joining is for the two concerned individuals to consent to it and that's why they say "Do you,  take,[your name here]  as your lawfully wedded,[spouse] bla bla bla ",  Every other thing is AJASA.

If it is hosted on joomla the table prefix is always in the default jos_, it's easy to hack with mysql injection, I have suffered that kind of attack from 2 of my sites.

It would be too crappy if results are hosted online

What should happen is for online result to be the mirror version of a locally hosted backup database.

No cause for alarm

It's hosted on joomla and basically since the table prefix is always in the default jos_, it's easy to hack with mysql injection, I have suffered that kind of attack from 2 of my sites.

It would be too crappy if results are hosted online

What should happen is for online result to be the mirror version of a locally hosted backup database.

No cause for alarm

Naaaaahhh: I don't do BB babes.

Jaidey-one:
If we're not married you're not my responsibility. I only pay for the movie tickets and meals when i take a gurl out. I'm not her daddy i don't send credit. I don't pay for hair-dos and i don't give money to any gurl except i'm owing her. If i'm visiting her i can go with small gifts of drinks, assorted buscuits or chocolates. My gf doesn't come visiting empty handed either. A relationship should be mutual. One party shouldn't be a leech to another.

oh dear!!! you just spoke my mind.

I am not father christmas and I wasn't born on an ATM machine neither do I have credit card hanging from my neck 

when we decide to get married, since there wouldn't be any form of intimacy prior to that

you are looking at one, and I don't see it as a minus infact I start a relationship by stating that there wouldn't be any sex and that I haven't had it before,
with that settled, it's easier to sift the sand.

pro01:
I wonder why some people are so quick to say 'forgive her', 'no big deal' when matters like this come up (especially these deceitful women). Why did she have to lie in the first place? If the man insisted on marrying a virgin, she should have taken her second hand goods elsewhere - fortunately most men are indifferent about virginity when it comes to choosing a wife.
Why trick him into marrying her with the obnoxious belief that 'after all, he must forgive me because it is no big deal'.

If I decide to marry a woman strictly because her hymen is still intact, it is my legitimate right/choice for God's sake (regardless of the pros and cons); if I later discover that some slimy biittch cheated me out of that choice by claiming to be a virgin in order to make me marry her, then there can be no forgiveness there - she'd be dead if she does't vacate my house immediately. She can't have her cake and eat it by successfully fooling me, and forcing me to 'deal with it' and live with her deception - my ego is too big to surrender to such brazen, audacious and in-your-face deceit. Forgiving her would mean that you've played into her hands, and that her deceit worked after all. A man shouldn't sacrifice his happiness and peace of mind in order to stay married to such a snake that so wickedly outsmarted him; marriage na by force? Forgiveness my a'r'se.

your head is so correct, couldn't have been said any better

Unfortunately the past doesn't stay buried, better to share it than hear it outside

It's not by force that the partner has to be able to live with it.

^^ my thoughts exactly

just like one girl I wanted to start a relationship with and she was already hinting about divorce as not been a big deal in future, I fire am sharp sharp

I see no reason for divorce here, infact it's so far from it and so uncalled for,  c'mon a man has refused to get/got no job ?!!!

The earnings of either of the two spouses belongs to the family but no one should be made to carry the burden alone,

Seat him down and talk gently to him how you feel about the whole financial situation , But if he still feels too relaxed, Take a radical step to jump start him to reality, take away every allowance you've been wiring into his account for his "feel good" status.

@Just rereading now, I think lastpage did good justice to this discussion

I believe parents are responsible for guiding their children in the right way to go.

Blessed is the parent whose child lives by the guidance s/he has received.

I believe many parents have failed in this dimension believing that the children have a free choice to decide to hold on to chastity or not and would rather make no effort.

As the wedding ring on the hand of "some" men pricks their conscience in having extramarital affairs so would a chastity ring probably do to the girl.

When I was 26, I once decided as a guy that I would start wearing one to just symbolize my continued commitment to chastity but I really don't need it anymore because my whole life is sold out to being an example and doing the right thing.