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Men have very few exes. Most of the people you call ex didn't even know you were dating. Most of you were dating yourselves. Having sex with someone doesn't necessarily translate to dating.

Some people think that when they marry they'll have endless sex. They now realise that marrying for sex can't curb their randy nature.

They start looking for a mistress or patronising prostitutes. They realise that it costs so much money and there is the headache of getting a place, not to talk of avoiding being caught and the stress of hiding.

Cheating as a married person is twice as difficult than cheating as a single especially if you're not rich. My advice is to stick to your spouse.

Looking back, I respect my parents for raising us right, it's very difficult raising kids right, most especially now, when everything has gone to the dogs in this modern world.

How to help your children avoid becoming gay and trans, avoid mingling with fraudsters and hôës is a herculean task.

She didn't do enough. She should have crippled him. Shameless dog. Even if you'd cheat, take your shit far away from home, never disrespect your wife in such manner.

Enrol your children in a cheap primary school while you build shelter and wealth. It will not affect them in any way.

Primary and secondary school is where the focus should be. Get your kids to good primary and secondary schools to build a solid foundation. That will prevent them from saying " i doesn’t know'.

Too many graduates with weak foundation are roaming around without jobs, because a lot are unemployable not necessarily because of the unavailability of jobs.

He needs 17 to tie Yekini and 18 to break the record.

Nigerian youths are lazy. All these cooled up stories could be turned into fiction and made into a an ebook. You people keep posting nonsense here without any reward.

Abifarin16:
It will not work.

You should be everything to your babe. Male friend, bestie and boyfriend, advicer general, confidante. There shouldn't be any room for another guy to make her happier than you.

The heartbreak will even be worse after being all this. Don't take a girlfriend too serious, everyone is still weighing their options.
With marriage, its a different thing all together.

A real man selects his meals. There are appetising looking meals you may choose not to eat. Not all men eat everything brought to the table.

Is this story meant for toddlers? To be read at the creche or is it meant for adults?

I'm finding it hard to sympathise with you. The only people who take this kind of foolish risks are those with a lot of money to play around with.

I have many friends who keep telling me of investment ideas. As for me, go and grow the business to a big business yourself and then make it public before I invest in it by way of shares. What we have around are con men, looking for whom to dupe in the name of business. They are many on this forum also.

Relationships are hard. Sometimes you may need to kiss many frogs before seeing the right one. Sometimes you get lucky and see the right one easily. Keep trying.

Sofistcatdmoron:
I wonder how u go sale used 32inch tv for 60k,
With 40k u can get a clean led tv,,
Even this old model home theater u wan sale am 60k.

Not everyone is a mõron like you, obviously They've been sold.

Only his family and some of his friends will miss him. The rest of the world wouldn't care.

After marriage, your life isn't about only you anymore, except you don't want a family. No need whining about responsibilities as having a family is optional.

The average family person had about 30 years of their life to do as they please, after marriage, you sacrifice that right. Take it or leave it. Some selfish people still abandon family to go live 'free' but eventually pay for it at old age when they are abandoned in return.

This generation would rather make excuses rather than address the issues.

Being 30 and above without being married would give anyone who desires marriage some concern, either make or female. No need for consolations. Go out more, join social groups, make yourself attractive, don't act desperate, get something doing, change bad habits etc.

People should adopt lifestyle changes instead of consoling themselves in public and weeping in secret.

All the team big and beautiful proponents are gradually finding ways to lose weight and flaunting their new figure all over social media. They once told us that fat is fabulous, after adopting lifestyle changes, they don't allow us rest with their new look pictures.

It's not your fight Mr Man. Tell Mr X to grow some balls and get a lawyer. Cowards die many times before their death.

Time to call it a day old man. Prevention is always better than treatment. If he had a good strategy from the start and teamed up with Obi, it probably may have been a different story. Throw in the towel and move on.

LG LED TV 32 inches 60k
Sony Home theater 60k.

Both very functional, give away. 100k if buying both.

Reply here with an offer or email jazzpha@ymail.com.

Jman06:
Tell your father to shut up, mugu!

Ok, I'll tell him, unfortunately you have no known father, so whom will you go and tell? Is it the drunk, the armed robber, the tout? Whom exactly? Ask your mum if you know her which of those miserable miscreants got her pregnant.

gnaira:
What is the model of the TV?

I don't know man.

TUBLEZ:
does it hv Bluetooth? I mean the Sony?

Nope. The main use was to connect it to decoder, which enriches the production, either for music, football or movies.

LG LED TV 32 inches 60k
Sony Home theater 60k.

Both very functional, give away. 100k if buying both.

Reply here with an offer or email jazzpha@ymail.com.

Jman06:
Stop typing rubbish when serious issues are being discussed! It's nauseating to say the least!
Need I remind you that Bill Gates was 'providing' when Melinda left him. Many men have lost their wealths to some hungry wives?


As if we have not seeing men who are "providers" being treated worse by their wives! This is how you pull theories from your azs and want us to believe such!

Shut up and stick to topics your age.

Its one thing to cheat and another thing to rub it on your face. Stop cheating people, it leads nowhere.

Nothing surprising here. Men have left their roles to women, expect more of this.

As a man, never allow the woman wear your crown. Encourage her to excel but work twice as hard to remain the man. Even if she is financially better off, at least you will not be dependent on her.

Women are not wired to be providers, men are. You're handing her a role she knows nothing about. This is the consequences. Men should sit up. If you marry a high flyer, be twice the flyer she is.

stacyadams:
APC urrcchins are not complaining....things are still rosy for them


One lady dropped her baby and ran into a moving construction truck yesterday, luckily the truck was not on speed...she was rescued...she had given up on life,no money,no accomodations, no phones,,we were able to raise little money for her.. the father of the baby is not working..the money raised will be used to find a house for her even if it's face me I face you..

Suicide is cowardly. She's a selfish woman for deciding to bring a child into the world and deliberately leaving it to suffer. Raising money isn't the solution for such people, she lacks self will and will repeat same when ever she feels lazy and frustrated.

As for topic, it's tough everywhere from China to UK to Gabon. We have to cut our expenses. Sometimes I don't feel pity for Nigerians who choose 4 years of suffering for 5k.

It's neither a thing of pride or shame, it's a personal thing and nobody should wear it as a badge of honour.
There are people who like virgins and people who like experience.

Personally, I consider character a better quality. Virginity wouldn't guarantee you wouldn't be an asshóle in relationship or marriage.

Like i see it, being the first in marriage is a bonus but not the main salary. I'll like both but I prefer a salary than only a bonus.

None of the reputable "gossip" media has carried this news as at now.

Samantha124:
Says someone from a country with high abortions rate in Africa, yet abortions are illegal in Nigeria, but almost all Nigerian ladies have done one or two abortions.

Shame on you, murderous hypocrites.

Better having an abortion than having bast*rds everywhere. That's why most black South Africans are lost, lazy and broken. A dysfunctional home takes a toll on people, it messes them up. That's why xenophobia is so widespread.
If you can't take care of them, don't have them.