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Apart from F1 and F2, the other category is a waste of time. My PD is Jan 2013, that's like 18 years wait as things currently are. I was unmarried and a young man when I was applied for, now I'm married with kids. Thankfully, I'm moved up in my career and life is pretty good. By the time the application becomes current, by God's grace, I'd have risen really high in my career and I don't see myself leaving to go and stay abroad.

The only thing is I'd like my kids to actually relocate but the issue is if I, the principal applicant can refuse to go while my dependents go? It will be crazy for me to relocate at my age and status in like 10 years from now.

My advice is for people to take this US immigrant visa thing with a pinch of salt and focus elsewhere. Forget it exist and just keep building yourself and if it happens along the way, fine. US immigration process is just crazy.

I don't know about post nut clarity, however, some men have regretted marrying some women who gave them great sex when single, but quickly noticed her rotten attitude after marriage.

No matter the sex and beauty, a difficult and bad mannered woman will make any man regret marrying her. Marriage is more than sex, wise men know this.

Lol, it's polite but unprofessional. The young people these days have no chill. The future is fearful.

When young men take advice from other young men on the internet, they lose their identities and become confused.

You break up with someone for no reason, probably because the red pill advice you read says you have to act as an arse hole towards women.

Stay away from women till you become a man. Work on yourself and your independence first, a man must have a mind of his own to run a smooth relationship.

Most of our universities need to be scrapped.

Marriage is not a race and more people are marrying later than before. Get your finances in order and search properly. Marriage is not a tea party.

22mpg city and 29mpg highway, Accord 2014. There's nothing we can do about the fuel price, just reduce unnecessary movement.

Too many fake stories just for clout. Even if this is true, you married a street woman and you should be blamed for poor judgment. If you will marry in future, shine your eyes and search properly. Not everything is about ass and boobs.

Is it greed or people actually use these cars for money laundering and don't actually care if they're sold or not?

2023 Venza is about $36,000. With shipping and high dollar to naira rate, the 2023 model would be 50 million naira max with all the specs. How can a 2021 model be 70 million? These people should be investigated.

You guys always talk like kids. Relationship involves emotions, that's why friends with benefits start developing feelings after sometime.
How can you just say ok, when you are not a robot. Most of you haven't actually dated before yet you give the 'best dating advice'.

Perception is everything. If the guy thinks the girl is adding some value to his life and deserves the reward, so be it.

For the superstitious, maybe he's taking something from her spiritually in return to elevate himself in future.

You cannot be in someone's life and not adding any value and want to be spoilt silly. That's wishful thinking.

turmacs:
I saw a thread of a guy that gifted an expensive mercedes benz, an iPhone 15 promax, and a plot of land, all to a girl he isn't married to yet.. Only for me to go to the comments to see some broke ass idiots calling the guy a simp, saying that the wages of simp in death e.t.c... Let me put it to you men with such mind set, you are all broke ass and poverty stricken idiots... Poverty is really dealing with alot of you and messing with your brains.. When did gifting a woman (weda married or not) expensive things become a sign of a simp? only poor and jealous people have that kind of stinking mentality. If you know you're not man enough, shut up and go and hussle like your mates, stop trying to use stupid statements to make yourself feel good about your wretchedness.. You no get money!!!!! simple..

God please in this life, anything that will make me and any broke men cross paths, i bind an cast in Jesus name.
Anything that will make me and man wey get doings to cross paths, man that wouldn't mind spending hundreds of millions on me, father lord, let that thing begin to manifest in Jesus name, Amen

Nonsense and broke ass idiotic lazy men everywhere, rubbish.

Nothing wrong in taking care of a woman. Men have done far more for women they love. However, your chances of getting a high value man is very slim. Less than 1%. I know that simply by reading what you wrote. Your grammar and IQ is poor. You're obviously not a high value woman.

Nobody just gives a woman expensive things, she must have some admirable qualities. Low value women will always be stuck with low value men, except in rare circumstances. Go and work on yourself and improve your chances.

A figment of your imagination.

A time to build yourself, discover yourself, enjoy your independence and achieve something tangible.

A person who isn't happy and fulfilled when alone will never be happy and fulfilled when with a partner. They may likely be worse off and make their partners miserable.

As long as its not like Konami where the club bears funny names. London FC etc

I've been a fifa player since 2005. My choice over Konami is the close to home, real life experience. Change this and I'll ditch it.

Why do some people believe multiple women is enjoyment? The average woman is problematic . One sensible average looking woman is better than 10 slay queens.

Backward set of people prefer adding more problems to this man's life instead of finding a way to expand his finances.

Nigerians and herd mentality. Most people don't have an independent mind, once a trend starts, everyone follows.

Mohbad trend, Endsars trend, Japa trend etc. If you play a song of Mohbad now, half of the people making noise over him won't know who sang the song. \we always abandon substance and chase shadows. Hypocrites everywhere.

That's fate, what will be will be. Perhaps lady A would have made life miserable for you or vise versa.

And this childish man wants to run a home? This is the kind of man who will keep malice in marriage.
I've heard of some childish men who lock their kitchen and monitor their wife's use of resources in the house, how much meat is in the pot etc. That's the kind of man this man will be.

Idle youths. This is what happens when you don't plan for your youths and the next generation. We already have cultist lecturers, doctors, politicians etc. The future is very bleak.

This is a silly A Minister is not a professional, he's a political appointee and I don't know what's the big deal in professionals earning more than a Minister.

If our appointees had sense, they'll only collect basic allowance like transportation. In some countries, appointees are selfless and decline collecting salaries.

Obviously a cooked up story. However, let's humour you. Sending a 50 year old woman to school in Nigeria and sponsoring her is misplaced priority.

At that age she should be more focused on being independent. Open up a business or something. At 50, you've lived about 60 percent of your life, nobody should be spoon feeding you.

If you're so rich and don't know what to do with money, help her get an adopted child if she has no kids and then train that kid. She'll need someone to take care of her at old age.

Nigerian men would love to handle all the bills, it's cultural for us and the way we were raised, unfortunately, the reality there is different. The society there expects everyone to earn their keep and most especially, the bills there are overwhelming.

If you're not a cash king, you'll die before your time trying to carry the weight alone.

Broke people are humans too. However, broke men will only get bottom of the barrel women.

Poor men will always be around, they just have to have common sense and marry a woman they can afford to cater for and have kids they can cater for. We can't all be rich.

You boys obsess so much over Nigerian girls. Build yourself intellectually, physically and financially so you can attract the non Nigerian girls you consider perfect.

Ignore these 'bad' Nigerian girls and focus on yourselves instead. The hours you spend here idling away and bad mouthing these girls, you can use it to become a better version of yourself.

If this story is true, you're in a big mess. You're not only cheating but with your wife's friend and someone's wife. Even though they say a sin is a sin, this one is a 'very big sin.'

Break up the relationship immediately. She was living without you and she will keep living. If you can, give her a parting sum to put in a business so she can get her 'independence' from you.

OgbeniOja1:
Hasn't she suffered enough for this offence. She was suspended, she lost her political appointment. Abi do you prefer for her to be killed for this one offence

When you do the crime, you do the time. No body is perfect but don't be caught.

This is a lesson for everyone especially the young ones. Nobody says you shouldn't misbehave but be prepared for the consequences.

We're tired of all this Chicago nonsense. The man has won, let him serve.

If not for greed and personal interest, the three major opponents would have teamed up from the start to prevent this questionable character from getting into power. It's late now, let's move on.

He's idle, emotional and weak. Some may say you should be grateful for such attention but I disagree. Anyone who is too clingy becomes an irritant.
Too much of everything is bad. Even in marriage, people should have time for themselves and occasionally do their own thing.

Justbehave:
And those ones abandoning their new born babies in the trash bins are not mother's abi?

And I said 'normal' mothers, if ordinary comprehension is a problem how do some of you pass exams? Mõrons everywhere.

Mothers will always be mothers. The only one who truly cares is your mum, that’s if you have a 'normal' mum. Spouse and kids may abandon you, but mothers will always be there for you.

This is funny. This is a gen z problem , no lady on her last leg will reject a suitable person because of their names.

Any lady who has sense should never settle for less. Set your standards but ensure you deserve the standards you set. A lady working in a multi national deserves a man at such level and above. Why should she settle for a mechanic? She has paid her dues.

A lady who sells pepper at the market and is waiting for a man who is a banker is on a long thing. However, she may get lucky if she's pretty and has exceptional qualities.

Everybody should upgrade themselves. Any man who is struggling and expects a woman to sympathise with him and upgrade him is a weakling and a failure, not fit to be called a man. Women marry up, men marry down.