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weyreypey:
Gspot is a myth. That tissue actually spreads like a belt all around the vagina.

Anyways lemme come and be going.

your are saying it myth but at the same time you are saying that tissue spreads aroind the vagina so you are denying and admitting at the same time

unless you mean a different tissue

1StopRudeness:
Like lasisi Eleni, please allow me rant a abit.. make Una no vex ooooo

It's time some ladies just give themself brain....what is all these naa??...I just saw an annoying thread of a babe that killed her boyfriend's son cos she lost her own womb to abortion...

I am quite sympathetic of what happened to her uterus..may her womb rest in peace but what did she think was gonna happen when she was skin diving with a man with repeated abortions...an eclipse.??.

I'm not sharing blames here, but it's like our women don't know they have more to loose or something...

I know the feminist will soon arrive, and call this bias, shébi both are involved in the sex.....but before u spread ur legs like rumour...remember nature was bias in the first place...
You are the one that can get pregnant not the men

Your the one that will lie on the table and the doctor will chook strange metal in ur vjay or if it's tablet u know how to use

You are the one that will go tru the near death experience.

You are the one that can have wide vjay cos all men don't come in with large packages...

It's pathetic when u guys come and and be playing victim...using statements like "I did abortion for him".
Are you a contract killer??
Is the baby in ur womb a bowl of Eba u just do for a man??
You didn't do abortion for him..deep down u are covering up and avoiding a baby out of wedlock.
Life is good, sex is crazy fun, but maybe we all should start trying this abstainance thing...even if a man dump you, na only time and small okada change u go know say u loose.... Omoooo, body count and series of abortions shouldn't be part of the casualties of a break up jare..

Peace!!!!



Lalasticlala how far naa..I just dey greet you..as my parole no get snake

problem is the cultural behavour

as we grow most africans, we dont teach our daughters and sons to be responsible if they became sexual active, we have this mind set of think that once we teach them to self protected we think that we are encouraging them to sleep around.

so these daughters and sons dont have the sense of being responsible for themself for not either getting a girl pregnant or the girl not getting herself pragnant

you find that when a girl gets pregnant, her parents address the issue as "you made my daughter pregnant" she is being made as victim as if it happened against her will but most of the time she wasnt responsible her self making sure she protects herself from getting pregnant

we need to teach our daughter and sons to be responsible in self protectection against making a girl pregnant or being pregnant

Mrbolt555:
surfing through Xvideos looking at some nice porn till I finally reached some videos of up close clips of women peeing. it was the most disgusting sight I've seen! Seriously, I like a woman's curves and booty, but the vagina is fvucking gross! there is no beauty in that thing. Anyways, I kept scrolling and saw another one called " Opposites atract: Giantess Monique and small Platanito". The worst porn I've seen! yall should go check it out! Xvideos really uploading some nasty videos!

in zimbabwe we say "if climb a mountain you find baboons "

meaning dont complain of things that meant to be found in specific places

TiffanyCara:
Mumu ppl who are too intellectually lazy to read between the lines.
A lady tells you she has gone to see her uncle who came from abroad and you swallowed it hook and line like a hungry fish.

Babe is calling him uncle for convenience, she is actually with a big god.
If she said she is with her sugar daddy, they would call her olosho. Guys who think they're smart are actually the most gullible and easiest to deceive.

But the above is even assuming this is not a made up story to increase traffic on his facebook page

you nailed it

the girl lied to her friend that she went to vidit her uncle/brother but its her online boyfriend who leave abroad and came home for festive season

lets break the down the story

she girl says, they even slept in the same bed when she was single meaning she is already sexual active, in all cultures in the world boys and girls who have startesd puberty dont sleep in same bed, they might sleep in same room due to extreme poverty but not in same bed

that recipe for incest and abuse.

so we assume that the girl is above 18 right what sort of uncle sleeps with his niece in the same bed? even if there were of the same age 18 and above


you nailed she had gone to see an online boyfriend who cameover for holiday and she used uncle story but it opened worms for her

pejuakinab:
It keeps bothering my mind and I want to learn few things from Nairalanders.
Do you really know why men get tired after making love (sex)? Do ladies get tired like men do?

well are you male or female?

if you are female am sure you have never reached orgasim if you had you should know the answer

same if you a male if you had made a woman reached climax you should have not answered the question

climax of both male and female has the same effects whereby sometime you need few sec/minutes to recover

same girl they became to sensetive after climax, what was seductive feeling becomes an irritating feeling until she recovers

samysmoothfresh:
Honestly, most girls do not deserve a man's trust, love and care cos they are just plain gold digging slцts.
Sometime in october last year, during one of our normal guys hangout, a friend made a dare saying he could get my girlfriend (now ex) laid in just 4 months and suggested we made a bet of 8k.
I declined at first cos i felt it was absurd but i later gave in after they persuaded me saying the reason i refuse to bet is cos i don't trust my girl.
I swear i trusted this girl with to a very large extent cos i could tell she loved me to hell and back.................she was the one who even asked me out before we started dating.
Imagine the shock and dissappointment i felt when my friend brought proof of them fvcking yesterday.
I had to pay the 8k and this morning, i called her to end things.
I'm officailly single and I've officially experienced my first break up of 2019 which will definitely be the last since i've decided to stay of relationship for the entire year.
These wh0res aint to be trusted, even the once who seem genuine at first.
I'm not saying you should do the stupid thing i did, but not until you test them before you know they aint loyal one bit.

you are dumb as your girlfriend

never put someone on a test

people handle situations differently, putting someone on test, is more like trying to check an maths equation whereby you put the right answer but you havent shown the breakdown how to get the answer

so with your girl, you wanted her to pass the test, but you failed to understand on what type of test would your friend put on your girl and you had no idea how she will handle to test thrown by your friend

you didnt really love her your are crying of lossing 8k instead of being heartbroken and also you had doubt in back of your mind becoz you say she is the one who actually asked you out

gabazin080:
I have heard people saying one has to love his kids equally or don't show it even if you love one more, but I find it hard to pretend .

I have 3 kids, a boy and twin girls. I love the 1st born more than the rest because he is a boy and love one of the twins more than the other.
I place the male as the number in the home even ahead of the mom. he is very smart for his age and resembles me 100 percent. and for the twins, I love the one that looks like my late mom and very smart than the other.


help I find it hard to love them equally or even pretend to love them equally and it's causing division in my home

let me help you as someone looking into a different culture and nationality than mine

i am a zimbabwean and been fancinated about nigerians as due to culture, attitude, mind set etc

and i was lucky to damp into this forum it give me a rough idea of nigerians culture etc

So it seems like a male child is a very sensetive matter in most nigerians, and you guys you are very proud of family name that a male child is a must in a family

So as for you you were lucky to say your 1st child is a male so, you it was like striking gold. Your brains and culture has more respect to boys and they will carry on with family name so pride in everything is on the male child, this is to due to how you made brought to believe and its cultural thing around you

thats how i see it as an outsider

Sparro:
Thanks buddy. My wife doesn't nt deny me sex. She is trying her possible best.

But.. You can't be completely wrong. She is a victim of girl-child circumcision. Her sexual urge is low. She hardly get wet and hardly cum. (oh God, here I am talking about my wife)

I love her.

sorry to hear that

your wife went through a physcial and mental scaring, what you need to is being patient with your wife and teach her slowly to be comfortable with sex, eg dont be typical african man who has no time to sexual games in the bed or texting sexual messages during the day by the time you her mind would be looking forward to sex

Also by sexual teaching videos and you watch together there lots of sexual stimulating moves you can learn from such videos but remember these sexual videos are not the same with porn ones

Sparro:
Is there any thing I can take that will force me to remain faithful to my wife. My wife is the center of my earth. She is a compartment of all that I need. I love her to heaven. Somehow, I see all her activities in my dreams. Like, if she is ill, unhappy or if she is getting too close to a guy and the closeness can lead to a potential damage, I foresee all these activities in my dreams and I take the necessary steps to forestall any unpleasant situation that it may lead to

Another aspect is that, I dream of any potential danger lurking around her. I have pulled her out of graves in my dreams like on two occasions so far.. There are many more. We are connected spiritually. I love her with my soul.

My only challenge is my sexual urge. I love sex. She sometimes can't meet up. It breaks my heart whenever I go down with some else. I am in captivity of my own feelings.

People, is there anything I can take like medication or prayers that will just lock out the beauty of other girls from my sexual eyes? I want to remain true to her till eternity.

Note: I have never gone out deliberately to gratify my sex urge before. I will be minding my own business even while am horney and she is not available and one incident will just usher in a girl into my house.

Despite all these, my love for her is still as hard a s a rock. I can never and will never stop adoring my angel.

Somebody please, advice

what you mean you are connected spiritually,

as per wife denying you sex we need to find out yhe daily routine of wife and whether yoy have kids, their age group etc. such things affect women by the time she comes to bed she is tired

thephil:
I was a very crazy guy while in the university and I happened to encounter a lady who came to visit her sister (my landlady).

I was enjoying myself on one weekend with liv vs arsernal match when I heard a knock on my balcony. I came out to find out it was my Lady's sister. I led her in and we both watched the game. I offered her drink and we suddenly became friends.

We started fucking each other until I graduated secretly but truly her pussy was actually sweet, I was caught by the landlord. The landlord kept mute about the issue because I caught him fucking his cousin.

We lost contact for seven years. I recently met her in enugu airport, we exchanged contacts on getting home she sent me text saying:... I missed the digging and would like you to dig me once again. Plssssssss.

My problem is: she is married with 3kids.

Pls, advice the fucker....

your imaginary story doesnt make sense

1st paragraphy the lady in question came to visit her sister who happens to be your (landlady)

2nd paragraphy you got caught by Landlord s/he said nothing becoz s/he was bleeping his cousin

is the landlady married ? therefore making landlord in Paragraphy 2 the husband ? therefore you caught the landlord fuccking his own cousin ?

which makes the story like this, your landlord caught you fuccking his wife's sister but couldnt say a word becoz you also caught the landlord fuccking his own cousin

clevvermind:
why do many Nigeria girls sleeps like log of wood during sex? is it fair? i dislike girls that are doing that.

may be your are not hitting the right spot your self

uyiekpenn:
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not your duty as a man to be financially responsible for any girl's upkeep. Nigerian men created this stupid feeling of entitlement and virus that's quite common amongst 90% of Nigerian females. The only woman I give monthly stipends and money in general is my mom and none other. I don't work under the biting winters or hot summers each day to be feeding one broke ass, lazy, hopeless, useless, greedy, senseless and unproductive female when she's not handicapped or an orphan.

i am non nigerian true thats what i discovered that nigerian women feel entitled to be looked after in a relationship. its like the moment you start to date her, her father's/ her own's responsibility to took herself suddenly stops and the guy she dates takes over.

then as a parents one should ask him/her where her/his daughter is getting all the goodies, s/he hasnt paid more/give money for. Parential ignorance is making these girl leaches

then finally

i think the generations before this one, had a better economy jobs were there etc and guys had few money to spend on his girl and guys used it as way to charm girls "I CAN LOOK AFTER YOU" . Watch any Nigerian movies those are the chat up lines used to charm a girl. And also the old generation time there less jobs for women so being spoiled by a guy really meant that as girlfriend you were special but also men used it to make u a dependent can be controlled easly eg i simply have to withdraw spoiling to either dump you or make you dance to my tune

then all these happened over generations and it became like measuring stick how much a boyfriend loves you etc and it became sort of customary way of a relationship, now things are hard most, less jobs for the youth no money to spoil the girls and with poverty guys are now crying over the customary thing of spoiling the lady as the economy is so hard

the guys who crying now please dont just blame the girls but the guys generations before you they started this upkeep shiit

G1STM0RE:
Nigerian man set to marry elder sister of his ex-girlfriend of 5 years who turned down his proposal.

"Dated a girl for 5 years, proposed to her but she said NO simply because her parents won't allow a non Igbo marry their daughter

I moved on to ask her elder sister to marry me and I got a big YES!

My ex is now threatening fire and brimstone but we've fixed the dates anyway" He wrote

Read fans reactions below...

Gist from Gistmore - http://gistmore.com/man-set-to-marry-elder-sister-of-his-ex-girlfriend-of-5-years-who-turned-down-his-proposal

this is a disaster waiting to happen

1 lets say they marry and life goes well for the married couple, the chances of the young sister being jeolousy is high and might make stories to break them up

2 what type of parents would feel comfortible with son in law who once dated the other sister for 5 years

3 who said Yes ? lets say the young sister said the truth about parents not approving marriage out her tribe, so the older sister said Yes but still the parent would say NO

4 the sisters who proper rivals, if the younger sister would be married eventually both might try out do each other trying to prove each other's husband is better

sunbreaker:
my brother ask me ooo.why she hasn't remained in her father house

she is even poor not being able to look after herself, she is looking for nigga she can leach on

Amakavula:
Twitter user Cynthia Lolo has sparked an important debate about marriage abouy ladies taking their husband's name after marrige, especially those of less successful spouses.

Tweeting Cynthia states that:

"I will not take the surname of my partner except i'm guaranteed that using his name opens doors that my name wont" pic.twitter.com/E2bp2Qu8ot

— Lolo Cynthia (@Lolo_cy) December 29, 2018

I think it's unnecessary to force a lady to change her name after marrige just to please her man especially it is a famous one; imagine Opera winfery or Kendell Jenner or Kardashians changing to a nobody just because of marriage

The question is, IS YOUR OWN SURNAME OPENING DOORS FOR YOU ?

ubunja:
are you OK upstairs?

you got nothing the say

the question didnt for a solution

but for reasons

reason/s and solution are two different things

ubunja:
solve a person's problem not her English.

its a question asked and he is not looking for solutions but respond that might answer NOT solve, its not a problem that needs a fix

ubunja:
you got it all wrong.
OP spoke of VIRGINS. So it's a sexual thing. Stay on topic.
And it's not about "self-praising" on men's part because no one has spoken about PERFORMANCE. we have talked about basic sex. Nothing special. You had your pre-concieved ideas about the topic that you have expressed without first reading to understand our comments.

read again, its poorly written

but s/he said why virgins cant let go of the person who disvirgin them

so its poorly contracted s/he can not refer them as virgins and they had lost the virginity already

s/he should have said "Why ladies cant let go of the person who broke thier virginity ' than saying WHY VIRGINS when they had lost the virginity already, remember its question asked after they have slept together

even if we take off the performance part, its always the self praise to say am the one who 1st slept with her

our minds as men we always want self praise here and there, thats why we kill sometimes when we find out that wife is cheating becoz that ego/self praise would have been taken away as another man is sleeping with your pride and joy, you ego/self praise dies

this how he wrote it

Allaboutkatiee:
Compliments of the season everyone
Why is it hard for virgins to let go of there firstlove ,I mean the person who disvirgined them?
Have bein thinking about this for sometime,please share your thoughts.

he 1st says "WHY IT IS HARD FOR VIRGINS TO LET GO OF THERE FIRSTLOVE"
then goes to say
"I MEAN THE PERSON WHO DISVIRGINED THEM"

yes the topic is not about self praise but it looking for answers why these girls cant let go

then i came out with my own answer which was and still thats sometimes its self praise from us men becoz its us guys who tell our friends thats to make our self happy

but am not dismissing few cause were you would find girls who cant let go


the question is no different with one asking why every men says he is good in bed, its becoz we tell ourself that (self praise) if you want to know the truth dont ask him ask the ladies he slept with

MrBrownJay1:
Why should there be an issue if a man wants his woman to be as he met her.....now men shouldn't expect wifey to be the same RIGHT AFTER CHILDBIRTH, but she certainly should do her best to get back to normal...if she doesn't then sexual attraction will be affected, thus sex at home will be different, and just a matter of time before family life affected.

YES double DDs would sag regardless, but that's irrelevant to the issue at hand. When he met her they were full and plump, and that's what made their sex life exciting and desirable.we certainly can't expect deflated chest to bring the exact same reaction here.

women body changes especially when one gives woman gives birth, eg c section scar, boobs, weight, strench marks etc, some can be worked out to what she used to be

but boobs what can she do when 2 things play a role

1 custom she must breast thats she would be told by elders

2 the family can not afford baby formula, so
the breast feeding is the only way

ubunja:
disagreed 100%.
I never spoke of the woman enjoying the sex though.

its ok to disagree

the thread is making it sound as if being your 1st would automatically hard to let him or he go

which is a lie, thats the reason i said its self praising from us men

enyoying sex plays a role in not letting go

remember 1st love and that broke your virginity can be two different people

1 it can happen with one person your 1st love and lost virginity to him or her

2 your 1 st love but never sleep together usually this is the one you would fall for each again and try/sleep with each other to fefill the sexual fantancy

ubunja:
disagreed 100%.
I never spoke of the woman enjoying the sex though.

its ok to disagree

the thread is making it sound as if being your 1st would automatically hard to let him or he go

which is a lie, thats the reason i said its self praising from us men

enyoying sex plays a role in not letting go

GalaxyTrends:
Hi,
Trust your Christmas went well,I am so confuse right now, this is my story: I met my boyfriend 4 months ago through my friend (he’s my friend husband to be best friend).

We talked on phone for like 3 months plus because he stays in another state and he own a shop he’s operating there, It was during our discussion I get to know he is doing his Travelling processing and I also told him I am saving because I want to travel too,so he practically knows my balance.


He came to Lagos a week ago for Christmas and I finally met him, he’s so cute and caring,it was then I knew I am so much in love with him. Everything was ok until 2 nights ago when he asked me to borrow him one hundred thousand plus (#100,000+) for his Travelling.[i][/i] I became disorganized,I don’t know what to say to him,I changed the topic that night but today he asked for it again,I am seriously confuse,I really starved myself to save all my money because I want to travel and I have no help apart from my job.

I called my friend and I discussed everything with her and she said she don’t know what advice she will give me because to her she said the money is much.
She called her man and asked him about it,my friend’s boyfriend said is true my boyfriend needs the money and he will return it back to me but I am scared, We hear so many stories everyday about people duping girls of their money and I watched a Yoruba movies this afternoon, a lady was set up by her best friend because of money by a guy to marry her just to collect all her properties.

I am scare to the extend that I can’t even sleep,I love my boyfriend so much and I really want him to travel but I am also scared for my money.Pls advice me.Thanks

Sent from my iPhone

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these reminds of a thread which was also here "should parents know how much your earn "

back to the story

telling him that your saving money was ok but the saying the exact amount was the blunder.

like i said in thread of parent knowing your salary, they do budget with your money and pay day they came to tell you pay so and so becoz they borrowes from the person

the guy did the same he knew how much she saved, the next thing his business needs to borrow from her

the worse part is they have been friends for just 3 months and met once by her place meaning she doesnt even know the physical place he stays
how she will trace him if he runs off ?

She should either tell the guy straight that the length of the frienship hasnt warranted transactions of such value or lie that her bank saving account doesnt allow to withdraw untill the signed date

someone said its ok aslong the guys has few people who can vouch for him, how when they only meet physical for the 1st both have no friends that know the them
better

relationship and borrowing money dont mix, only give money as gift

ubunja:
when we all begin our genitals and our hearts are connected by a bond that make us love to death the first person we have sex with. It was created as a way strengthen marriage and it's especially strong in women.
But as the woman has sex with more and more men after that the bond between her pussy and her heart will weaken and weaken until it no longer exists and no dick will feel special to her then.
Just like as you now feel like you can never let go of your first love; if you keep fvcking more men over time you will jump to the opposite extreme and not feel anything for ANY dick no matter how much you will wish to. At that point you will have become "the perfect hoe"

this the self praise i was talking about

most women remember the 1st time not becoz it was special but painfull

few came on the 1st time

being the 1st to sleep with her doesnt mean she enjoyed it No most it was pain due fear and inexperience hence most girls were dry

yes as guy you are the 1st but doesnt mean sex was good to her

many married women married virgins and up to now they have never came

Allaboutkatiee:
Compliments of the season everyone
Why is it hard for virgins to let go of there firstlove ,I mean the person who disvirgined them?
Have bein thinking about this for sometime,please share your thoughts.

its a myth by as men

breaking her virginity doest mean it would hard for her to let go

as men we say it as a self praise

1 naturally you never forget the 1st person slept with regardless whether it was memorable exprience or not

2 is it her saying she cant let go of you or its your self praise as man to say she cant

3 yes there are some who cant due the memorable exprience they had

MrBrownJay1:
Again, the issue at hand is deflated Tittays, not erectile dysfunction, nor the type of oloshos men gladly lay with....stick to the issue at hand!



Sadly, the difference here is that the majority of these married women with husbands with hideous bodies would gladly be miserable for the rest of their natural lives, being mounted by these monstrosity they now call husband, while men would not even mount their hideous wives any longer and just get themselves a new wife, or get some sugarbaby to take care of them, and ultimately get their sexual groove back.

Men and women view sex differently, we feel/need sex differently.... Expecting both to deal with such issue the same way, will have women fail time and time again.

getting a new wife is never the solution, if the overweighty or soggy breast is the only issue

this what i have seen in african, being overweight is celebrated as sign of good leaving, especially gaining weight after marriage then some customs fat feed girls to overweight before she officially marries the husband (i dont see the point of doing it when we know that she wasnt like that naturally )

some of these things comes with age, the older yoy get the more you realise that there is more to life, marriage and love

MrBrownJay1:
But bro, the main issue here is that most of these women are saying that a man MUST be attracted to his wife with deflated breast, and live with it, by fire or by force, whether he likes it or not.... While this is arrant nonsense!
Yes this man should still love his wife, but he can't help to change the signals his brain is sending down his pants. If the brain is not stimulated and aroused by the sight of beautiful curves, Tittays and ass, how is he gonna mount good old deflated breast wifey?!

Sadly the majority here either already have deflated breast due to childbirth, or know it's eventually coming....so they really believe that their men should accept them the way they are/will become. Which we all know it's a damn LIE!

i get what the ladies are saying i guess this is were some say "they should have gone for councelling before marriage" were they would told that the women will change due to childbirth

the guy has to adjust now or refocus his mind, half of the married men and womem dont like their partners body, women say "he now has pot bellly " while men talk of wife being fat soggy breast etc

nearly all of them have find a way to leave with it

DaySpringer:
I am presently hurt from something someone I cared about did to me and for the first time in my Life, I am considering Revenge.

Has anyone here (Male or female) carried out revenge on an ex lover that hurt them successfully?
What was the revenge?
How did it make you feel? Any Regrets?

a planned revenge is wasting time and energy

usually it would hurt you more becoz it wont go as planned

GalaxyTrends:
I am tired .
This is the car of a man that just gave me an engagement ring, very annoying man .
He has driven this car for 4 years , year in year out still nothing to change it , I feel ashamed sitting inside, everytime we go out I hide my face . He is ok physically, has a good job, makes love to me well, nice apartment but his car is the only thing that might make me return his ring and not marry him. I have asked him to change the car and he says if he changes it he won’t be able to get married but I can’t marry a man who drives this rubbish . Oya cover the sits he says he does not have money that all his budget is for marriage not car .
I think a car is more important than marriage, because without a car a man can’t survive, how will u go to work , take your family to church , your wife to the market and all . I love this guy but his car is the only problem.
I can’t even drive it .
You all better don’t come telling me to go buy my own car because I am just a coper, I will when I start working. I need advise , does any lady here feel me ? Thinking of sending his ring back tomorrow.

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well we know that the story is made around the picture, not true story

but play around the story

women always want to be upgraded to level herself has never been, this has a car that he can afford to run but girl want him to sell to get a better car but herself doesnt even own shavel or bicycle to her name

sometimes dont demand things that yourself can not afford,

MrBrownJay1:
I do feel a bit sorry for the women on this thread, as it is obvious the majority cannot afford plastic surgery therefore they come here talking arrant nonsense..... You bunch of hypocrites!!!!

You wear fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake complexion, fake height, fake push up bras, fake contacts, ALL FAKE in order to get the attention of men, and you come here and tell us that if you had the money, you wouldnt get implants to get your confidence back and be attractive again to your spouse?! All them rich Nigerians and yeyebrities are doing it, not because it's fashionable, but because THEY CAN.
One person even said that since our mothers/grandmothers have deflated breast, we should therefore expect our partner to have them too. ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE! In our parents time, plastic surgery was not as advanced/affordable as it is today., should we now live today, like our forefathers, in the name of follow follow? Some of you are wearing mini skirts, high heels and low top, coupled with push up bras that has your Tittays pop up your turtleneck top. did your damn mothers wear these too?!?! All I see here is a bunch of hypocrites.

Then no wonder it is so easy for a 18yr old to seduce your daddy's agemates when women don't want to take care of themselves and/or get their sex appeal back, after childbirth. Be deceiving yourselves.

but there also other things people dont understand

most western women dont breast feed so breast are firmer than african women, some african mothers breastfeed up to two years

then bras, most african never get the right bra for their boobs, may it poverty not money to buy the right one or knowing the right size of your boobs

i remember years ago reading about bra saying if a bra shoulder strap is falling of your shoulder it means you got the wrong size of your boobs

so boobs also need suppirt from right size of the bra

so the wife is breastfeeding has she got the right size to support her now bigger breast full of milk for the child, the breast need support

bamirotola:
Hello medical experts on nairaland, my wife gave birth to my first child less than 2 years ago, but since she weaned her, her breast has become incredibly flaccid...

I am a fan of petite round breast and flaccid is a turn off for me...

I love her and I don't want that to be a barrier as it is affecting our sex life .

Plz what can she do to put the breast back in shape?

I don't want to loose her, how can I help return d breast back in shape...

Flaccid breast has been my fear even before I got married that why I naturally fell in love with petite boobs max 34dd.

Ladies plz don't judge me, I need medical expert to help my marriage!!

Thank you!!

thats what happens when you are inmature mentally to changes that happens, when women become mothers

your problem is nothing there women are who give birth by knife and our poor trained doctors leave big scar on these poor women

MrBrownJay1:
Yes i do focus on moving out because imho thats the only time parent could have an interest in your paycheck (aka while you live under their roof). Now you do make a point when saying that married people have parents too, but then i have never heard of parents wanting to know their adult married children's paycheck....

Well welcome to adults world, am sure you have of mother in laws to tell daughter in laws that "this is my son's house " those are the some the parents that want to know how much the son earns and how much her son gives to his in laws

I think the main reason why this question has been asked is how much interference your parents pops into life, through self entitlement

Back your angle any wise child would worked through how s/he will manage with his/her salary and wise parent will simply ask if the salary can sustain the living expenses

The parents dont need to know the exact figure unless the child tells them