₦airaland Forum

ashatoda:
Why do we people have to rationalize everything through the religious eyes before doing it? I mean when you look at what you wrote a single lady that's growing older now asking if it's a sin or not. Let her go for what she needs and she should forget what people will say.
Infact the pastor dishing out he'll fire and heaven attributes how are you sure he will make that heaven sef.
She should do what she needs to do to have children that she'll call her own now that she's still fertile

Well humans are naturally followers, we all look for something, someone to believe in. If not religion then science, if not science then cosmic imagination or mythology. The notion that we can do anything we like at anytime is a theory that only a select few truly dare to explore, especially women as they tend to second guess most of their decisions.

ericmor:
armed robber too far, ordinary the agbero around, how many has been reported? And even if you report, how many of them has been arrested? This is Lagos where police station is now a business centre. And for your information, no one has said hitting a police officer is right and a police officer slapping a civilian is wrong also is just that when you report such to their superior nothing is been done about it. That is why they keep acting in that manner.

Yes we all know that but we are comparing two things, hitting a police officer in retaliation or reporting that officer. For now those are the only options, until something better comes along, I'm just advising the van dame people out there to exercise caution, no police officer is worth losing your life or freedom.

No chief this ain't it......You can steal billions, introduce unknown gunmen, no fix roads and light, even spread saapa across the land but if you mess with ponmo, I'ma have to take you out chief.....kapeesh?

ericmor:
80% of the people don't have the finance to report and follow up with the case. Just to transport to the station or money to get a lawyer self na wahala, even human right self don dey collect money. They slap anyhow because they know nothing will be done even if you report them to their superior and that is why we keep experiencing the same thing over and over again.

Isn't that just an excuse tho? If an armed robber attacked you and you captured his or her face, would you not report it to the authorities? Why should police(officer of the law) be any different? Make we do things the right way in order not to regret our actions, hitting a police officer is wrong whether it is self defense or not.

Ceejay94:
The truth is that Peter Obi is the Only person that is credible out of the four candidates that have emerged from these various parties, as regard to competence. What happened to Osibanjo, what about fashola, sanusi lamido sanusi, amaechi, and some other leaders? Why would it be old and corrupt man like Tinubu that would emerge? Still some Nigerian youths are still supporting him because of tribe. It is high time we change the narrative in this great country. Let's do away with tribal politics because there is no place Hausa man will buy something cheap and other tribes will buy it costly, vice versa. If we fail this time, it's gonna affect everybody

You're still mistaken, you can say old but corrupt? Really? So let me guess the boss is corrupt but his henchmen are not? Osinbajo, Fashola, even Sanusi and Amaechi are all products of godfatherism and corruption. So abeg make we leave sentiments out of this, Obi might be the best based on morality but morality without practicability is a wasted effort! Politics is never about just one man, even if he miraculously won enough votes to be president, how would he stop the corrupt elements in PDP and/or APC from porting over and joining his party? Look at APC in 2016, half of PDP don port over, Nigerian politicians are prostitutes, anywhere belle face.

olisaEze:
Just imagine what a so called professional is saying in public. Respect is reciprocal means you earn respect, u don’t demand it! The police serve the public not the other way around, and with power comes responsibility. All this PRO just told the public is that the NPF is filled with irresponsible people who have no respect for the uniform they wear. Which actually is a worse crime, but irresponsible people will never think like that!

Comprehension is key here, even in advanced countries, when the police mistreats you, immediate retaliation is not advised, rather a formal complaint or lawsuit is the proper action. This protects you more than anything else because in the moment of retaliation, things could get very messy real quick and the victim could become the offender, make we leave sentiments out of this and think in terms of logic, remember police are trained to act first, apologize later, life no get copy o!

There's nothing wrong with cramming, even American presidential candidates often use cue cards and/or teleprompters. CNN interview or note, Obi still won't get 8 million votes not to talk of winning.

Every adult human is a work in progress not to talk of kids. A child from 1-4 cannot be held responsible for anything, their brain is still learning and processing how to live in this world and any shortcoming should be seen as a teachable moment rather than a punishable one. Now from 5-9, this is where you start to introduce actions and reactions, by this age they should be able to know the concept of right and wrong, they should be able to understand the consequences or rewards for certain action or inaction.

At age 5-9, this is where some parents either enforce too much discipline or not enough, this crucial stage will determine how much problem or enjoyment you as a parent can expect when they get to 10 and the teenage years. Finding the right balance between discipline and counseling is the true work of all parents. Finally, let's be clear here, as a parent you can only do your best, forget what right or wrong way of parenting, what matters is when you look at your child and you can confidently say you've done your best to guide them on proper ethics and morals, the rest na God go do am.....I COME IN PEACE!

kingmsookwagh:
either of them won't. Peter Obi still remains my candidate.

Licking of sugar is allowed, something must make man happy

THIS IS SUPER STORY........SUPER STORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEE

GGirll:
We Igbos massively voted for Atiku in 2019. We don't want a druggie, instead of the drug lord to access our collective treasury and loot it dry, e better make Atiku rule again.
We will pay you fools back as it's pay back time, cry me a river, we the SS and SE will never vote your druggie. Nigeria no be Lagos.

Comedy.....See hypocrite, HA OBI don suffer, so una just dey use Obi, na Atiku be una sweetheart? Werey

kingmsookwagh:
what's your point exactly. Don't romance in the bush. Hit your point.

It's very clear, if you truly believe Tinubu equals doom for Nigeria then keep the same energy for Atiku because whether you like it or not ONE of these doom makers will be president come 2023

kingmsookwagh:
Not when he knew deep down that TINUBU bought his way in the primaries.

This man know wetin him dey talk so? This country will be in a greater DOOM if these blind stomach infrastructure group of people like the Remilekun are allowed to have their ways .

Then be prepared for DOOM because if e no be Tinubu, na Atiku sure pass......Save this comment until February 2023!

This format never cast, wa sherey omo mi, jaapa lo sure ju, Canada still get pity pass Yankee, in fact dem dey give asylum well well especially for gays and trans people......I come in Peace

Berankis:
I do not like Prof Uju Anya but for the racist Bastard Morgan, would he have called for the same interview if a white man made such remarks about Africa/Africans?
Where was raven lunatic when Trump called Africa a "shithole"?
Pierce Morgan just wants to start what he can't finish. Everyone's entitled to their opinions and she just expressed hers!

Yes if that black man was a beloved King/president to a nation of over 50 million. Abeg make we remove sentiments here, if she had called out a white nobody, most of us wouldn't even give her 10 second of attention but because it is a queen and not just an ordinary queen but the jagaban of all queens, most of us are disgusted by her lack of decorum especially for a professor who is enjoying the benefits of her so called oppressors!

You no see anybody attack na person wey light/white you grab.....Oga bring measuring tape make we know how long her sentence go be

viqSmallz:
What makes me think she wouldn’t be dominant in her 40s is because she grew old and not because of child birth. Are you saying if she had given birth in her 20s she wouldn’t have performed well? I say no she still would. There is time for everything, there is no way she would have continued playing same way she played as she grew older.
Sports is about physicality majorly, and as you grow older you grow weaker. She should have quit quietly rather than making the same comparison.
If she could win when pregnant what stopped her from winning when she delivered. I would love to drop my case her. I hope I have been able to convince you that age matters in a sportsman life, no matter how good you are the law of diminishing return will still set in.
Adios amigo

You obviously don't know the history of women and their performance after childbirth, even the great Martina was not as dominant after childbirth but believe what you will man....Ignorance is free

viqSmallz:
So how many 40years old have dominated female tennis. Are you reading what you are writing sir? You said a Serena 6years ago would have dominated. That’s what they call prime. You rightly said the average age currently is 25 meaning she has done well to have gotten to 30 and now 40.
You write up is contradicting your chain of thought.
I understand you are sentimental to Serena unless you say otherwise.
She for play reach 50 na

You're making my point for me, there has never been any player over 30 that dominated the way serena did hence what makes you think she could not still be dominant in her 40s? What makes you think she could not win one or two majors and still claim number one ranking in tennis? I could understand if the data showed that before getting pregnant she was mediocre but the data suggests otherwise, in fact while pregnant she still won a major so once again what's your argument? Again look at the competition, women tennis players with chicken arms and legs, serena's serve alone in per prime na like thunder

P.S. Serena 6 years ago was not her prime, her prime was from age 28 to 32 where she decimated the competition year in year out, those years if she didn't win 2 or 3 majors na waayo .

viqSmallz:
Mr, how many sportsperson reaches 40years and still stay active Or even 35?? She has tried and done her bit.
Were you expecting her to play till 50? or does she wants to play like a man in a female body?
The highest grand slam holder in the female category retired at 32? Plus last season Ronaldo was banging in goals for Utd, this season he isnt..So what are you saying?

What's this one saying, we are talking about level of competition you're talking about age. A 40 year old can dominate in women's tennis if she's still physically fit and the level of competition remains mediocre. A Serena 6 years ago would wipe the floor with the current world number 1, 2 and 3. The average age of the current number 1 , 2 and 3 is 25 years old, Serena won 10 major titles at 30 and above, so spare me the sentiments.

viqSmallz:
Yes she lied. At that age, time will catch up with you irrespective of the gender. Mind you she is also a female who and cannot play like a man would.

So a person that was winning 90% of all her matches just a year before all of a sudden could no longer win 40% and you think that is how fast age works against us? LMAO, most of una just love arguing for argument sake

obedience4:
The women competition is soft..
When the likes of Roger, nadal dojcokvic has dominated the game for ages..
The women is even more competitive.
No woman can dominate the ATP the way a man can do in tennis..
Bille jean king still the record highest grand slam for the ladies, and her record has stood for almost 40years.
While nadal is still the highest and is on course to add more

What are you talking about Serena dominated way more than all the men you talked about. Serena unlike the men had no serious/stable competition, Nadal always had Federer, same with the Serbian. Apart from Serena can you name another women player that has managed to win 10 major tournaments in the last 10 years? The competition is soft, so tey it dey melt! If Serena had competition perhaps we could say age would have forced her to retire but looking at how dominating she was before pregnancy one can wonder what might have happened if she didn't want kids.

viqSmallz:
Se how he attributed his retirement to old age and body. The other female say na because she no be man.

Did she lie? If she was a man, she wouldn't need to get pregnant and could still whoop the mediocre competition even at her age, in women's tennis the competition is still soft unlike men's game.

Jephyard:
Bro at the bold sentence, you have been lied to and also you dont understand how women body work. No woman that have had sex can stay without sex in a month. I repeat no woman can stay without sex within a month except the dick is not readily available highest Nah masturbation. I am stating fact. Before or after their period they are highest at their mood and looking for mate to sleep with. They won't come out tell you this cause they dont want to be seen as being loose or something. Another info women have more sex than men and enjoy sex than men. What men has is initial gra gra.

Funny guy, there are many reasons women could go not only a month without sex but MONTHS!

1. Recovering from infection
2. Pregnancy
3. Married to an active military husband who's on duty
4. Job that requires a month or more of traveling
5. Hormonal imbalance

Make we stop generalizing important topics like this, it only brings about confusion!

Nigeria: home to some of the smartest people on the planet, it is also home to some of the dumbest.....

Even Obi's campaign organizers are delusional. 200 million Nigerians for Obi, una never enter una don dey manipulate data

mrvitalis:
And you like the kind of leadership you got from Buhari ?

No but Buhari's failures were not because of his physical limitations but his mental limitations. Baba checked out since 2017, Tinubu is mentally superior and even the young ones can only marvel at the high level in which he operates mentally. Think of MKO, he didn't talk much but he knew how to pull strings especially in business, this is what Nigeria needs desperately, not someone that will lock the entire country up due to bad fiscal policies.

mrvitalis:
Absolutely , but there is a reason why prospective pilots are taken for medical checks to determine if they meet the requirements , same with military

There are some jobs that needs physical and mental fitness to execute ..Buhari who is more fit than tinubu said age would limit his performance

A president reads and signs over 50 documents everyday ...has over 25 meetings every day at different locations where critical thinking is required ...and that's a job you want the give to tinubu that can't stand a one hour live interview ?

Tinubu should retire and be an elder offering advice

The hypocritical thing about you beings of Nairaland is that una shouted worse about Buhari, with most of una claiming he done kpai sef. Later he was cloned, so how the hell should anyone believe una now? Now Buhari is more fit......COMEDY

Kobojunkie:
Again.... Nobody preached to me before I found this out for myself after investigating many religion in search of Truth. We live in an information age where all the information you need is literally right at your finger tips yet you expect for someone to come spoonfeed it to you before you can accept it?

You know people who wait for others to teach them are a literal banquet banquet the many false teachers and false prophets aka con men out there who are waiting to use the head of the gullible to enrich themselves.

Kobojunkie:
Again.... Nobody preached to me before I found this out for myself after investigating many religion in search of Truth. We live in an information age where all the information you need is literally right at your finger tips yet you expect for someone to come spoonfeed it to you before you can accept it?

You know people who wait for others to teach them are a literal banquet banquet the many false teachers and false prophets aka con men out there who are waiting to use the head of the gullible to enrich themselves.

Go to bed and get off your limited view of the world, it is plain ignorance, you're comparing your life with that of those who don't even have access to electricity....ARE YOU OKAY?

Kobojunkie:
Nobody preached to me before I found this out for myself after investigating many religion in search of Truth. We live in an information age where all the information you need is literally right at your finger tips yet you expect for someone to come spoonfeed it to you before you can accept it?

You know people who wait for others to teach them are a literal banquet banquet the many false teachers and false prophets aka con men out there who are waiting to use the head of the gullible to enrich themselves.

You didn't investigate shit....Stop the CAP! You were fortunate to be born in a country with resources and that was religiously inclined. I can guarantee you if you were born in China, the odds of you being a Christian would be 70% less. Believe it or not, you're not as smart as you think, so save the mumbo jumbo, even the internet that you're using now is a privilege given to you based on the advancement of your society, God could have created you on an Island where your daily life consists of farming and hunting, common ABC you no go sabi, so REST!

Kobojunkie:
Nope, none of what I have stated is based on what is my perspective but instead that which is written in Scripture regarding the God of the Christians. So, I am not certain why I would need to visit 50 islands before I accept that what is stated about the God of scripture is His stance.

Again, according to what was written over 2000 years ago, a knowledge that predates you and your known ancestors, unbelievers perish in the grave when they die - they are returned back to the dust from which they were made. This is God's judgment since the time of Adam and remains so even to this day - Genesis 3 vs 19. As for Heaven and Hell, both domains in the Kingdom of God, they are reserved only for those who chose to accept God's offer of salvation in Jesus Christ - John 4 vs 1 - 8 & Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 & Luke 13 vs 22 - 27 & Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46. This is the Law as given by the God of the Bible where it concerns His Heaven and His Law is eternal meaning it will never change. It hasn't changed in over 2000 years, and it isn't about to change for your sake.

You're still yarning rubbish, how do you expect those people to know the word when it has never been preached to them? If you cannot answer this simple question with honesty then you might as well not respond! I keep telling you, your perspective comes from what you've read and witnessed, how different would you be if you lived on one of those island? For goodness sake, understand that the world is much larger than your little bubble.....SMH!

Kobojunkie:
1. Wow... you really are an example of what an eejit is, aren't you?

Did man create Himself or any of what He sees around Him? You say you want to believe God is an endlessly merciful God yet the fact is this endless mercy you pretend you believe in ends the moment you take your last breath and it hasn't occurred to you that indeed there is a limit to what is God's mercy on you?

Again, according to the God of scriptures, unbelievers perish in the grave when they die - they are returned back to the dust from which they were made. This is God's judgment since the time of Adam and remains so even to this day - Genesis 3 vs 19

As for Heaven and Hell, both domains in the Kingdom of God, they are reserved only for those who chose to accept God's offer of salvation in Jesus Christ - John 4 vs 1 - 8 & Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 & Luke 13 vs 22 - 27 & Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46. This is the Law as given by the God of the Bible where it concerns His Heaven.

Now you can always create for yourself your own heaven in your head there if you don't like His Law.

2. See #1 above, or better still scripture for answers.

Like I said, your perspective is based on what you know and your limited knowledge of the world at large, until you've visited one of those 50 islands I mentioned, your words are nothing but ofutufete.....worthless noise, I bid you farewell.....Ire o!