nokia1000: I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections. She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her. She is not serious in anything that can generate money. I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
If you're tired of the marriage kindly divorce and find your way. But still be taking care of your children.
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Romanoff: If you are treating your mother well doing chores around the house, supporting her in paying bills, she wouldn't be so eager for you to leave at 20 so start telling the truth.
How can you be so fast to conclude, are you part of his family??
Greattestman: This issue has been eating me up for so long and i don't know what to do. My mother began pressurizing me to rent my own house and leave her alone.
It was unprecedented and i don't expect that from her. I'm barely 20 and I teach in a private school. I also do home lessons so my monthly income ranges from 25k to 30k or thereabout.
This money will not be enough for me to rent a house, buy my food and take care of myself. I have tried to explain but she refused to understand with me. She told her friends to advice me to leave; that I'm matured enough to live alone.
I'm pressed and I need your advice.
Pack out of her house and leave her alone. It's not easy, but make preparation and leave. I hate somebody complaining about one thing to my ear.
habsydiamond: Atimes staying put where u are successful is better than seeking for another adventure cos the devil u know may be better than the angel u never know
Why didn't you say thesame thing about cristiano Ronaldo??
toprealman: Drogba , Lampard, Gerrard, Gatudo, etc......these men were not stupid. Moving like Adebayo is understandable, but when you are loved and cherished, I still don't get it.
How do you relate that with Ronaldo's career, Suarez, Neymar etc??
Konjiboii: The rule of splitting the bills dictates you should tell the other person in time before the date. In your case if you both had that discussion before hand and she still chose to act dumb then you did well my young Padawan. And if you invited her out without stating going dutch but pulled this then that's a bitch move, not what a true alpha or RP
NB: I see sense in what many said sha, this particular one has long throat mentality. I had a different scenario in mind
Microwhy: I think say na my watching Investigative Discovery too much. I dont accuse without evidence. Accusing your partner without evidence will result to greater disrespect and more troubles even if she's guilty except she's caught red-handed.
Just keep acting a fool as if you dont know what you're doing until you get she and that guy in bad position, then you can act.
Adun27: Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.
The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.
Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare. What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.
My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.
My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.
Please somebody advise me what to do.
Some people are not smart. When you suspect your partner of cheating, you dont keep quarreling on the issue when you dont have evidence. You're suppose to act as if you dont care much about her relationship with other guys, while you keep doing your investigation secretly until you get her redhanded.
Some people can lie even if you catch them with your two eyes.
So use this method and see how the truth comes out.
detectivejones: Someone I'm following on twitter shared this. I really don't know how women who deceive men into believing they are the biological father of a child sleep at night. The annoying thing is, these side men disrespect them while their husbands treat them as queen unknowingly that such wife belongs to the street.
Manson1: Did i hear you say how do u avoid this lady without hurting her?
Someone you've not been together with for over 2years and probably might have tried other options and saw that none worked out, then she remembers you and feels you were better and could come back into ur life at any point in time. Why not ask yourself if the other ppl she tried had worked out, will she have come back to you?... Accept her and learn the hard way since u guys have decided not to be principled in certain things........
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That guy is a big idiot, he will definitely learn the hardway.
When a woman comes back to you after a long time just know that all her other options has failed.
I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.
Let me cut to the chase.
I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.
I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.
If you know what's good for you keep your virginity, when you get married you can sex as you like.
Dick at early stage has it's own bad effect, even you yourself wont believe it. See the case of your friend.
Don't ever try engaging in lesbianism, that will be the worst of it all. Don't heed to your friends advice.
KeyEndurance: Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?
Control your thoughts, stop watching porn if you do and engage in exercise.
aisha1314: If she's 24 then she has every right to run away if she wants to. At her age it's not even called running away it's called "flying the nest" or leaving home to become independent. There's no need to involve the police. She's an adult she can go wherever she wants whenever she wants. She's not running away because only teenagers run away, not adults, she's simply exercising her right to freedom of movement. I can't imagine a 24 year old has to lying in order to be allowed to go out and then being scolded upon coming back. Just let her go. She's more than old enough to move out and live her own life anyway.
BluntCrazeMan: SOMETHING VERY BAD AND UNHYGIENIC IS HAPPENING IN OUR FOOD MARKETS
Please.... Which institution, or agency is in charge of sanitising and maintaining the hygiene standards in our markets?? (I guess it is the Ministry of Environmental in the various States.. -- that is,, the Environmental Health Department or Agency).
Do you see all those people that are selling food-items that we are NOT going to wash again before using them, those people should be well educated and enlightened more on extra hygiene. Most especially those people that are selling Pap (akamu), Garri, Crayfish, Ogbonor, Egusi, Cooked Food, And so on..
They should be taught very well on how to cover those things they are selling with a clean transparent sheet,, and to also have tap-installed buckets filled with water for them to be washing their hands frequently.
The other day,, right in front of me,, one of those women that were selling PAP in the open market had to sneeze.. She sneezed three times while she covered her mouth with her two bare hands... Then she placed those two hands on the pap she was selling,, trying to sell to the next customer that was already waiting..
Eeeuuwww.. So disgusting.!!
It's because they're not arresting them that's why they keep doing what they're doing.
I told one woman selling akara one time to cover the Ankara because it's exposed and flies and dust where touching it, her response was, are you the one to tell me how to do my business, that she has been doing this business for almost twenty years now. That if covers it, people won't see it and buy.
I just knew this one is not ready to take correction. I just left her. They dont know that this their carelessness is detrimental to people's health
They had a lot of eye contact, and frankly there was seduction going on underground even when I pretend to be operating on my laptop but was deeply observing things.
On our way out as she was going home I asked her if she likes my guy, immediately she refuted and said no she only likes how he speaks like an American...
I was pained at this point, I dragged her phone and I told her I would gladly give her the contact of my friend so they can connect well...
and she was asking why...as soon as she had gone the whole pictures began playing in my head.
By the time she got to her place of work and she called me I shouted on her and told her never to call my line again that she's a loose girl and I blocked her....
She ran back to my lodge and wanted to see me I was ahome but pretended not to...
You don mess-up guy , you would have acted as if you dont know what's going on, untill you catch them red handed. Now she no go dey show you some body language again. You too sef why you dey introduce your girlfriend to everybody?
Just let them be, be indifferent to their dealings until you get hold of them.
humility101: I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.
I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.
But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.
Advice me please.
How can you conclude so fast about somebody you've not seen and spend time with face to face, the worst part is that you told her that you're in the UK and expect her not to pretend?? You did a big mistake bro. Almost every Nigerian girl is looking for opportunity to leave this country by any means possible, and you didn't think of that, most of them also have multiple boyfriends lashing them on a daily basis but since you're far from her how can you know that ?
My point is that you exposed yourself too quick to her, UK is not Nigeria o, hope you've been reading testimonies of those that did thesame thing you're about doing, you know how they ended.
Let me give you one scope, look a for a way to postpone that wedding, tell her that you lost your job, things are not easy for you right now, that you're even planning to come back to Nigeria, that's maybe when you intend coming back to visit her you can give her that scope. After that watch her reaction, take note of her attitude. When you finally get back to Nigeria still follow thesame method, get close to know her very well, her friends too, her family, her ideology about marriage and life in general and lastly seek the face of God b4 taking final decision. No go dey show am say you be yankee boy wey hold cash, follow the method I gave you. Naija girls no dey use ear hear say person come from abroad. So play your card well.
If you can do this my brother you won't have issue.
Celebrityblog: Please help!! Foreign numbers from Algeria, Mozambique, Serbia, Benin, Angola, and several other countries keep flashing me. Different numbers oooo.
If i block them, another will flash after some days. What do they really want?
babajero: I think they are trying to disenfranchise many people in the south, when they will start sharing in the south there won't be enough time to collect it all, they didn't believe there will be that much participation in the registration process in the south.
Goodness34: depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.
The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.
How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?
That's why I always advice people to get every motivational gadget within their reach to motivate themselves. Get books , listen to messages so you can encourage yourself. Read more about successful people and see how their stories motivate you.
Lastly, pray to God and always maintain a positive mindset. Believe in yourself no matter what.
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