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Obavoh:
My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.

My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.

I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.

What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.

Racoon:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/560290-2023-how-i-plan-to-fight-corruption-tinubu.html

Stargurl20:
Is it advisable for a lady of maybe 25 years to leave home immediately after NYSC just to save her self from foreseen pressures? I'm still an undergraduate. Will be round off in less than a year by the grace of God and may ASUU not embark on another strike. I've been thinking a lot these days, and I'm just not confident enough to face any pressure from families especially after NYSC.

To those who left home after NYSC, with no hope of where to go, how to start or what to do, were you able to scale through? Did you regret your decision?


Pls, share your experiences, especially if you are a lady who has experienced this. Thank you

obembet:
I believe those who wait till there weeding night have better home. Sex before marriage or during wil always end in separation. Most men abandoned thier relationship whenever they get what they want from lady

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

manoflove22:
Sequel to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7148350/could-indicate-hiv-symptoms, that I created some month ago about my recurrent HIV symptoms

Since up to 4 months now that i have Bleep some brothels hoe raw, condom burst

Since then i have been having oral thrush, random joint pain, back pain and I have been talking antifungal and some pain killer.

I Google hiv symptoms and the site even confirmed my illness as one and i already believed I'm hiv. I started google how to live with the virus, how i have destroyed my life, how I'm gona be hiding drug from my people.

Fella this is up to 4 months now and thankful to God I tried this alure test stripe and the result came negative. I have done several time still negative and now i have gave myself peace of mind.

And since 4 months now i never had any penetrative sex whatsoever.

Although i still battle with mild oral so I'm going to check for diabetes cos i consume sugar alot which flourish growth of the candida.

Don't bother to tell me to wait till 6month cos hiv is not a hide and seek virus.

Now i have hang my fornication boot and wait and keep myself till i marry than to live on taking arv drug till the rest of fuccckin life

It just a rare second chance!


Come rejoice with me

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

kahal29:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/10/14/pdp-crisis-iyorchia-ayu-collected-n100m-n1bn-from-a-gov-wike-alleges/

Rozross:
Dont you want a soft life too,stop pretending.

Rozross:
I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve. Though a broke or hustling man has never approached me all my life, it's an indication that i'll live a very soft life.

Michelle70:
let me clear u on this.

Only a woman who cant build thinks of building as suffering TBH.

When they say build with a man, it doesnt mean suffer with him.
It means having a goal and working towards it while bringing ur individual inputs to the table which catapults u to the desired achievable heights.

The means justifies the end

Stephen2324:
As a young lady, would you rather build with a man or marry an already made man?

Discuss and give your reasons.

Men are free to query you but do not insult any lady for her own opinion.

officialwdhtv:
Nigerian Girls Love Money Too Much - South African girl lectures Nigerian girls on how to love Nigerian men.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiR1RYVS9Rk

ganisucks:
Bashir Ahmad has released another attack against Peter Obi. He claims that Peter Obi was wicked to opposition when he was governor of Anambra state.


https://twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1579542232755208197?cxt=HHwWioDQsdfS1OsrAAAA[/quote]Who's more ruthless, heartless, callous, nepotistic, vicious and undemocratic like your empty- headed boss in aso rock?

Yeye pikin.

ExAngel007:
Portable is trending because of his new tattoos.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g60BdN7xvz8



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/10/portable-trends-as-he-gets-new-face-tattoo-in-cyprus-photosvideo.html

ChangetheChange:
Governor Yahaya Bello picking up unwarranted and unprovoked fights every where.

Validated:
JJ Omojuwa, FFK, Deji Adeyanjy are all parochial tribalists. JJ Omojuwa and Deji claims to be political fencist, but subtly support Tinubu, because they are all Yorubas.
Reno is another tribal bigot. He "thinks" himself a Yoruba because of his Itsekiri origin, not knowing that the typical Yoruba treats everyone outside of their tribe as omo-ibo, including the Itsekiris.

Meanwhie,

Obi is the only hope of Nigerians.

Atiku is a calamity.
Tiinubu is a plague

APC & PDP, NEVER AGAIN!!!

utenwuson:
I don't understand by what you meant though, I don't know Audu as in

oikirodah:
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/who-vex-adams-oshiomhole-ex-gov-of-edo-posts-video-of-incredible-physical-workout/
Source iReporteronline

N3TRAL:


Casillas is a brave man and my respect for him has increased!

I support Iker Casillas and every member of the LGBTQ community.

I strongly believe that within the next 3 decades, the National Assembly will make laws to ensure that Homosexuals in Nigeria can live their lives without persecution.

utenwuson:
It was report in some quarters that dangote even killed Audu cos he's the only one who knows everything about obajana cement factory.... Dangote is a fraud

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

Baitullah:
Oops! And you just got married to one of 'em.

How are your puppies?

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

Jayden001:
No be juju be this?
This is the height of wickedness!!


https://www.facebook.com/100458948418955/posts/pfbid0vvgSSk91FcUEDyVGHvJkXtHtAz4NNFAP23uY6JnG94xpxPZKAgTnCsJnfV289z31l/?app=fbl

mariahAngel:
What is that thing you're very passionate about, that you're very skillful/good at?

That something that gets you so excited to do, you can never get tired/bored of doing it?
That something you don't mind doing for someone for free?
It could be more than one thing.

For me, my passion centers around food.
I love reading/knowing about food from other parts of the world.
I love writing about food.
I love creating/trying new recipes.
I love food styling.
I love food photography.

What is your passion?

Kwanza:
https://punchng.com/father-allegedly-drugs-defiles-teenage-daughter-in-ogun/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1665150565

JASONjnr:
I hope you keep the trend going..... Because if you ever come back here to post about getting married, then the joke is on you.


You should never marry a man, be it from NL or not...

I'd love to see this your advocacy in your menupause stage.

MuslimIgbo:
Tor, the one who brought a bastard to life has reaped what she sow, AFTER 34 YEARS...

In this life, YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.

Haakeem:
Vanguard

Parachoko:
What can Dangote do to the Kogi State Government?