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It depends if you are someone that dreams and the dream usually come to pass.
Maybe its just something you have been thinking about.
Sometimes prgnancies in dreams signifies- the dawn of a new thing, blessings etc.

It doesnt always mean babies, however, if you know u are at risk of getting preggers then do something about it thats all.

Yes love is blind but its has break o.

You just have to be careful, even though you may think you are in love and can overlook some faults or bad habits, its just not possible.

E.g if you are with a man that snores, and you overlook it cause of love, it will definately catch up with you later and start bothering you.

This is real good stuff.

But i kinda agree with OgaMadam - if a guy knows you are too into him, he will take that for granted. But like the advice says, we should make ourselves less available, but tats so hard though.

This one is very tough.

God forbid i be in this kinda situation, its just not an ideal situation that anyone should be in.

Definately no woman will willingly 'let' her husband out for another woman to use.
I would have to say no.

@hayway - omo i tell you that ma greatest fear in this world sha till date - cause it is damn hard. Now i see why God said wait till you are married

If its something you can handle as well as ur book then give it a go.

But if its a big distraction, then cast it aside and do what you were doing before - studying

Omo, she is somehow beautiful khe?

You will just somehow end up in the cell for dealing with a minor o.

Go after someone ur own age - you dont like her anyways, so whats the wahala

It totally depends on the situation she.
I dont ever pray to go through it - i considerd it when i got preggers at 18 but thank God i had the baby and she is so helpful in ma life now that i cant think of life without her.

But God forbid i get preggers now again outta wedlock, then its definately something i would consider seriously.

I learnt that the quiet guys that dont really say much and allow you to get away with things and they never complain are the WORST cause they are devils.

Thats true Davidylan.
Nija men value their respect so much and they would kill anyone that touched their women but when a Nija man takes you back after you cheated numerous times with him- then know that he wants you for a reason an dit aint love.

You probably have something of his or he wants revenge.

Yeap i totally agree with that.

I also think its wrong to say you are 'in love' when you havent dated other people - or to say you wanna marry the only guy you were ever with.

Its too big a deal for you to be unprepared or not exposed before you enter into a marriage.

But did she ask him why he left the money for her?

And under what circumstance did they meet?
And is he married?

Cuase a single guy wouldnt 'pay' for nites of passion.

But me and my thief slef sha, i would keep the money o - but not everybody gat to be me sha.

Stop taking her out then and cut all ties with her.

If i were you, i would straight away tell ma girlfriend that there is a girl stalking you, that she is friends with ur male friend and you allowed them sleep over at your place and she started stalking u caus she said she loved ya.

Baby make sure you do that cause the way she is going, she will definately act crazy and ur gir will hear about it - but if you tell her in advance then she is aware.

Good luck - and stop taking her out, delete her numbers from ur fone and cut out all ties.

[quote][/quote]Well its kinda funny that you think females wanna have lots of mini yous all over the place.
Cause i just dont get the text.

Well girl, there are up and down sides to all relationships. I am sure i have heard some bad things about Chinese guys too. Sit down and think about the relationship , does he treat you right?

Is he good to you?
Whether he is Black, White, checked or grey - if he is gonna be bad, he will be.

So think about how he treats ya - we cant comment on him, you should know him better after being with him in the same house for like two years.
So girl, just live each day as it comes, pray that God's will be done in ur lives and let the future decide itself.

Well am sorry about this situation cause this can cause your whole world and everything you believe in to seem like a lie.

Well, you really need to consider what you wanna do. It totally depends on you, if you no its something you can work out, then do it but there will be some trust issues to deal with.

Do the ball is in ur court, weigh the options and see where you stand.

Kingdom Manners - and apparently, i have none.

Why not?

Some times we have to understand that life doesnt come to us on a platter of gold - especially the things we want in life. We have to be a ble to get the jewel outta the pigs den and clean it till it gleams.

If thats the hand that you have been dealt, then play it.
He is ur soul mate - i presume he is separated from his baby mother, then why not.

But make sure you shine ur eyes and make sure you know what you getting into before you enter sha - good luck

This is so true, i was thinking the sam ething the other day.

Ma aunt came from Nija and she told me the girls would sleep with you for a charge card

I was shocked.

Yes am sure most would.
She would probably be the best woman ever but be aware cause they are on a different level mentally as yourself.

Its all well and good till she starts showing her 'househelp' traits am sorry to say - cause like an old adage in yoruba goes - 'children who are used to sleeping on the floor, if you placed them on a bed, they would fall out of it' its all good but sha be a bit weary and dont get upset at certain things sge would do cause she doesnt know any better.

If its a large church where we would date and no one would know our business, then yes.

Otherwise no - cause your relationship would be the topic of discussion.

I have different preferences - my ideal ma could have the build of Shiffi of stylplus and on another hand Zeal of the same group.

I dont think i can date a chubby guy cause we will have chubby kids cause i have the tendency to blow up maself.

Seun:
A man who has a car, has a jeep, works out regularly, goes to church, and loves to buy gifts won't have problems.

Oga sha are we that bad?

Well when i was looking for a boyfriend - i just wanted someone to be there, to go out with and add all what Seun said as well

God bless you jare Layi.

In this day and age, if you see what you want and really like, you dont let it pass you by and if you do well its your palava.

Considering that the world has evolved so much that women propose marriage to men, i dont think so.

I agree with Seun, nobody wants to be rejected- especially if the lady has been one to get so much advances from men and when she gets rejected by one, i dont think she will get physical but it would dent her ego for a long while.

I used to be really particular but these days it doesnt really bother me as much.

But within reason sha.

There is no way you can find out for sure.
Just look at the way she treats you everyday.

Dont ask her cause she will say yes - just look at the everyday things she does.

Ask yourself does she really care about me?
I really feel if you are true to yourself, you will find out.

I seriously agree with Adetife.
Whn you have impure thoughts about someone else other than your partner - is cheating.

But kissing someone else is definately cheating.

Sweetie, you really need to address the issue surounding the reason you had to kiss someone else otherwise thats how trouble starts o.

I dont blame her.

I probably would have done the same thing maself.
What do you expect her to say? She has to say that. But the truth be told, i havent really seen her out and about and havent heard much about her.

I personally know that i would like a little bit of security if it came down to it - a little helping hand wouldnt hurt at all.

I reckon if there were actors who were white am sure they would give them opportunities when the parts arise.

There are lots of 'white' actors that have small parts in the dramas