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Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by benji93: 8:21pm On Jan 11, 2020
But honestly, what do you think is the real intention of most men when they meet a lady? Love them like a sister? grin grin grin. Are you expecting those scenes in "telenovela" series to play out in real life? If you think there are men out there without intentions of getting into a woman's pants, u are in for a rude awakening, and still learning. It's an insult to manhood. grin grin grin. It is what it is. From whence cometh man goeth man. grin grin
Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.
Family › Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by benji93: 8:12pm On Jan 11, 2020
It's Alright, why do you keep tormenting the guy. He's learned his lessons. Knowledge acquired. grin grin grin
Toks2008:
Single mums can be the best and can also be very very complicated.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 7:23pm On Jan 11, 2020
Oh sorry bro. I agree, He's really the truth, but in bricklaying. grin grin
rotimi9:
bruh wTF man ,a player can't just have a bad game. Bruh u sound like scoring 60 is easy man. My mans been scoring 50 with 10 Ft attempts bro. Don't hate man,harden is the TRUTH.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 12:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
Good question, which was why he had to resort to "I worked hard, U didn't work hard" narrative.
steady986:
We know in a team there are star players and role players. Kendrick knew what he was. KD who was a star what did he achieve with it?
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 11:26am On Jan 10, 2020
Coming from a fan, I rest my case. I thought I was overreaching, although I think you have made your expectations clear in the past.
birdman:
i think what you are seeing is the hyped up social media of nowadays that is always looking for news. The real bball fans arent moved by the 50pts, when they can see the glaring holes in our game
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93:
Sometimes it's just hard to criticize a player more talented than you are. They will always point out your lack of talent. End of story. grin "Maybe, if you had worked as much as I did", "you averaged 2,3 points in that series". I mean how can you defend that? Savage. Those make one's argument all the more irrelevant. I hope Perkins is doing alright. Perkins is one persistent guy too, he made sure his message came across, " you did work hard, but.....".
steady986:
KD tripping, lol
Romance › Re: Man Gets His ‘ultimate Revenge’ On A Girl Dating Him For Free Things by benji93:
I am not exactly a newbie here. And i have had my fair share of rants. My rants are usually in the sports section though. I am just a visitor here, and i usually ignore posts from this section,
but i thought otherwise today and decided to peep in, and I wasn't disappointed. The drama here is quite intense, intricate and in different forms. Chaotic, but interesting grin. I have been here for a while, but i am really just hearing about NwaAmaikpe. I checked him out, and the guy is quite assertive and his posts are shrouded in mystery . Good luck with trying to get him to communicate back. grin grin.
Jewessgratitude:
Nope. The person who angered me is not on Nairaland. She's on Facebook.

My head can't explode. I'm trying to grow a thick skin like NwaAmaikpe. grin
maybe you should watch it and try not to be friendly with anyone here cos you'll be disappointed.
Do not say I didn't warn you.
Romance › Re: Man Gets His ‘ultimate Revenge’ On A Girl Dating Him For Free Things by benji93: 11:37pm On Jan 09, 2020
I understand, nairaland is sometimes nothing but a war zone. It's amazing how we are able to exert our feelings in such an environment as though we are interacting with people we actually know. You may want to take a break, cos your head might explode. grin
Jewessgratitude:
I'm sorry my love. Someone just angered me as at the same time I saw your comment so I just finished giving her a dose. That was why I replied you like that.

Oya sorry na. Nor vex mmuah!
Romance › Re: Man Gets His ‘ultimate Revenge’ On A Girl Dating Him For Free Things by benji93: 11:22pm On Jan 09, 2020
Why are you boiling over? Cool down. I was just joking. I was on the other page, where you guys had a heated exchange. I wandered into this thread, saw your moniker and just passed a seemingly soft comment. Sorry for wandering into your space. I thought there were some friendly people here. Maybe you should read my comment again and give it a thought.
Jewessgratitude:
This place is nobodys father's land. I can chose to be everywhere, not any body's biz.
Please you guys should mind your biz.

You didnt register me here, I registered myself and I'm not a kid. So stop rubbing it in my face how I'm everywhere. Ok?
Travel › Re: Fresh Crisis Brews In South Africa As Nigerians Get Eviction Threat by benji93: 11:12pm On Jan 09, 2020
Why don't you just hold back and comment only when you've got your facts right. Did you not notice a sentence in the post that suggested that: the Nigerian may have stabbed the policeman to death. It seems you've created an impression that would never change, even in the face of facts that suggest otherwise. The indigenes trying to send Nigerians/Foreigners out of their communities is not right, unless there have been a string of events leading up to that. Your suggestion that the reason for their behaviour is low self-esteem isn't right either.
Richdad50:
shocked

The hatred for Nigerians by black south Africans is deeply rooted in low self esteem.

Richdad
Romance › Re: Man Gets His ‘ultimate Revenge’ On A Girl Dating Him For Free Things by benji93: 10:57pm On Jan 09, 2020
You better be careful, MrCock is on your heels grin. You are indeed everywhere. grin
Jewessgratitude:
Why have the men of this generation suddenly become habitual wailers over what they give to a girl? Na wa ooo

What I see these days especially here on Nairaland are women in Men's clothing.
Gone are the days when men carry our their responsibilities without whinning. Now, na so so wailing, crying and revolting.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93:
All he's got to do is score 60 points tomorrow, and all his sins would be forgiven. grin. Fans generally have short term memories. When he scores 60 tomorrow, the narrative would suddenly shift to "he is up there with jordan as one of greatest scorers of all time" meanwhile the guy gets a major component of his points from free throws, and he is averaging 25 shot attempts per game. On his post season struggles, it will likely continue until he properly diversifies his shots during critical moments of the game. He drives, drives , tires himself out, then starts bricking. grin. Sometimes i can't help but think he's a rich man's original bricklayer(west), as breathtaking as he plays sometimes.I still wonder why the rockets don't realize that putting two bricklayers together doesn't augur well. We will likely see the artistry of bricklaying in full effect come playoff. grin. Missing 27 straight 3-pointers would be child's play. Or perhaps the league could help him out by awarding as little freethrows as possible in the regular season. Maybe he will learn then, and be more diverse in his shot selection . But I have to admit some of those 60-point games are nothing but sensational. grin
donlittle25:
niggas shooting .26%.

After them.go they struggle for playoffs
Culture › Re: The Rift Between African-Americans And Recent African Immigrants To The US by benji93: 8:04pm On Jan 09, 2020
I say this with a heavy heart. But the emergence of any developing country into even a border-line developed country would be a very difficult task today. As humans have advanced in their systems, so has the holistic effort required to find working solutions to problems. The Singaporeans, Malaysians e.t.c have to thank their stars, they could take that step earlier.

morpheus24:
Please explain why you thing this is a conspiracy theory. I am not saying all Africa's problems emanate because of the West, I am saying the west has no advantage in allowing African countries progress at an accelerated rate much like China did.

The Chinese isolated themselves during Mao's revolution, preventing the West from contaminating or heavily influencing their trajectory. The Chinese went through hell but they did it without the interventions of the West and they are the better for it. Africa on the other hand continues to be baby sat by the West.

Sorry if you don't understand this but it is a reality, from the IMF to WARs to the use of the Franc to neo colonization to the purported establishment of Africom to deliberate influence in democratic process to sponsorships of coups etc etc etc.

Pick your poison.
Culture › Re: The Rift Between African-Americans And Recent African Immigrants To The US by benji93: 7:41pm On Jan 09, 2020
I probably agree with your submission, but for some to a lesser degree. Ghanaians are increasingly becoming corrupt themselves. I grew up in Ghana, so i am sure of that. Indulgence in fraudulent activities is also on the rise. Very disturbing. I guess Nigeria kept knocking at the door grin. For the drugs issue, I will give you that one. It's no where near as rampant. However, I think Ghana was on pace to rivaling Nigeria's notoriety, until it was cut short by the revolution(coup) led by Rawlings. Looking back, I think our complaint on "jealousy" on the part of Ghanaians is overstated. You cannot go to someone's house and suddenly turn on your "aggressive mode" which could come off as bossy. Ghanaians generally have a calmer demeanour, so what do we expect them to Do? Look on and say "go on sir" ?
salford:
Ghanaians possess the same positive traits. They can match Nigerians in terms of anything you can think off except they hardly do drugs, scamming and are less corrupt. Now why should other Africans emulate Nigerians when Ghanaians are of better behavior huh
TV/Movies › Re: Judge Orders Netflix To Remove Gay Jesus Movie “The First Temptation Of Christ.” by benji93: 5:44pm On Jan 09, 2020
Omo Ijo mimo. smiley
RiyaGoddess:
Good. Jesus isn’t gay.
The devil can only try but will always loose laslas

*Sings
Jesu ti joba
Jesu ti joba
Baraye fe Baraye ko
Jesu ti joba
TV/Movies › Re: Judge Orders Netflix To Remove Gay Jesus Movie “The First Temptation Of Christ.” by benji93: 5:42pm On Jan 09, 2020
Are you alright? How can you call yourself a born again Christian and admit that Jesus was gay in the same statement. Huge chunks of the Bible are historical facts. The fact that cases of homosexuality were recorded does not mean the Bible encourages it. Why don't you get off this space and actually get some proper education.
GoTV:
sad Even though I'm a born again Christian, i believe Jesus is gay. What was Jesus doing with 14 male disciples back then when there were females who could have joined their midst? Mary Magdalene even tried to seduce Jesus by the well but he refused her due to his homosexuality. Homosexuals have existed since biblical times and we Christians should stop condemning people for whom they are just like our lord Jesus never did. At least no record of homosexuality in the Quran, can such be said of the Bible? Capital No sad
Travel › Re: Iran Will Not Give Black Box From Crashed Ukrainian Airliner To Boeing by benji93: 5:01pm On Jan 08, 2020
Are you alright? The Canadians and Brits that died are definitely allies of the devil? If you don't have anything useful to say, why don't you just shut up and actually do something that may better your life. You can always comment on the two countries currentl aty the center of this mess, but bringing God into the matter and suggesting that God is on the side of one of them is uncalled for. What the hell are you implying? Do you really know what happened in the lead up to the current status quo?
GamalNasser:
Just imagine this rogue nation of Terrorist , they want to distort the investigation because they know it's was the archaic air defense system that hit the plane causing the the death of over 80 iranians , over 60 Canadians and 3 Brits but as God will have it no American Life has been lost which should be a clear sign who God is with , in the last days after the killing of SOLEIMANI Iran in their bid for vengeance have killed over 130 of there citizen without being able to get a single American
Crime › Re: Helen Mukoro Idisi Arrested In Spain For Posing As UN Official by benji93: 7:29pm On Jan 05, 2020
"Nigerian Born". Some things just never change when it comes to news reporting, no matter how "educated". And an indigenous Spanish definitely cannot do that. If she had solved a major global problem, she would be a Spanish without a comma. smiley
maryalin:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.dw.com/en/spanish-police-arrest-nigerian-archduchess-for-posing-as-un-women-head/a-51871188
Family › Re: My Mom Is Suggesting A Divorce From My Dad by benji93: 1:34pm On Jan 04, 2020
Man, you are a very wicked fellow. I hope my sister never stumbles across you. I hope you didn't mean that, cos that statement and it's context clearly suggests that you belong to the school of thought that would rather keep their wives as slaves. It's fair that a man can have as many partners as he wishes, but a woman cannot? Is it wrong to hate having a rival, and thus sever your relationships as a result? If you can't let them have multiple partners, at least allow them to get out of the polygamous marriage you brought into existence, into a monogamous marriage if they wish. Man you give off a lot of negative energy. You need serious cleansing.
back2sender:
She is simply very greedy and a disgrace to womanhood with her wapt thinking.

Can you imagine thinking of what to gain from the divorce?

Is she not the one pushing for divorce, so why wanting to gain from the Man from the divorce process? Is the children not enough for her as a reward?
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 6:37pm On Jan 01, 2020
Of course, what is petty about that. As someone would say he was just being honest. grin. I am just waiting for the organization's take on the matter.

Eruditor:
Curry simply took the high road.

What I meant by saying KD was talking rubbish about GSW is that he was throwing shades rather than taking the high road. But because you like KD he is allowed to be petty.

1. KD said I will never be one of them. That is to allude to the fact that he never truly felt appreciated. They are THEM and I am ME.

2. That I HAD to create stuff on MY OWN (I am paraphrasing). THEIR set up was not working.

3. THEY did not force me to play when I was hurt. THEY are them. I am ME. Again. Disunity.

4. Best PG I have PLAYED WITH in the NBA is Kyrie. A player he HAS not played with. Yet he won 2 RINGS with Curry.

5. My favorite PG currently playing is Damian Lillard. At that point Curry is playing. Kyrie is injured.

6. SAS asks him about Curry's injury. "Nobody likes it when another player is injured". Not addressing Curry as a personal friend who is hurt and what not.

There are many more of these things he was saying.

Don't you think it is funny that Warriors in that 3 min video even used players that were there during a losing streak but were drafted? It was petty. To leave KD out like he had been claiming and alluding to.

That I don't agree with them for doing it does not mean he was not being petty. That is why I agreed with Tundesam923. KD should have just thanked the organization and deflected questions about why he left.

I can also tell you why he was doing those things to Curry. Simply because Curry rightly listed Lebron as the SF in his all-time greats team.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 3:41am On Jan 01, 2020
GSW's domination over the last 5 years doesn't help, even moreso, KD' s move which precludes the invincibility makes it even worse. We cannot do anything right at the moment, and our situation looks even worse now that we are far down the pecking order. Until we get back to domination, this will only continue. It can't get any better. I can't believe the expectation has fallen as far as "we are 4 games from 8th place". How the mighty have fallen. But if they don't have any explanation for this, that move is hard-core mean.
Eruditor:
When I initially saw it on Instagram I went further to read comments from fans alike. I even did same on Reddit. The consensus was that it was not right. I personally did not like it. I said so.

What I actually find hypocritical is the people whose modus operandi is to cry more than the bereaved. They blamed GSW for his injury. Even when the player said otherwise. Then they criticised GSW for retiring his jersey and called it fake - claiming it was done to cover up for the injury. Now they want to also feign outrage that he was left out of a video. LOL.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 1:28am On Jan 01, 2020
There is no point in continuing this exchange until we know what's actually up. There are just some people you can't convince to reason with you. They already have a presupposition. All they need to do is make sure everything falls within, no matter how twisted. Always happy to jump at any GSW bad news. I mean, "we said it didn't we, such classless organisation". Even though i honestly don't like the turn of events, especially the omission of a guy -that clearly was huge in your back to back championships- from a tribute video no matter how short, I would rather wait to hear the entire story before making a judgement. Surely, the front office will provide an explanation for this grave mistake at a point.
Eruditor:
The Celts are allowed to treat Isaiah anyhow because they took a chance on him. But GSW that won KD rings he would have never won anywhere else are scum.

Wonderful!
Sports › Re: Amir Khan And Family's Christmas Picture Gets Him Slammed By Muslims, He Replies by benji93: 10:12pm On Dec 29, 2019
Are you kidding me.Given your interpretation of that text, I doubt you understand what's written in the Qur'an. Such brazen display of ignorance.
Kokoebapluse:
grin

In Romans 3:7 one of the founder of Christianity said he is a liar,

Then why do you expecting me to decive myself and respect christainty? If I do so am a fool, hear me oo I don't hate you Christian o but I will always tell you the truth that Christianity is a pagan and Christmas is a scam celebration that muslim should not Engage in it.

Say no to lie
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93:
Why do you insist on discussing it? I have told you that I don't care what your theory is. You seem to have a lot of time for it. My Basketball takes are horrible? Cos I chose to expose your king's 'i am not to blame, my teammates suck' narrative or the fact that he would rather cast aspersions on the decision of the officials than admit that he sucked in that possession- Allowing a "6ft Ninja" strip you . Of course my takes are horrible. Of course you are the connoisseur of basketball knowledge on this forum. Get your bullshit takes out of here.
zelgiusdigby:
Bruh, not even joking but your takes on basketball are horrible! Didn't even know they were this bad when i was mocking you in the past, you're trying your best to prove my yomi theory.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 3:02pm On Dec 29, 2019
You need someone else on Kawhi when you have LeBron? grin grin grin
zelgiusdigby:
Meanwhile, your december nba champions just lost to Utah with Kawhi stinking up the place again like he does when he sees decent bodies in front of him. The lakers need that, green did a good job on PG but we need someone else on Kawhi.
Family › Re: How Do Average Nigerian Couples Have More Than 2 Children? by benji93: 2:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
There is only one way to solve this problem. Good governance. Persuasion won't work, especially in the case of the uneducated. The government wields the power to slow down the birth rate, not by enacting a law (which in Nigeria is a mere statement), but by acquiring a leverage. If the Nigerian government is serious and endeavours to acquire the ability to provide certain basic services-Health, subsidized housing, and education, nobody will tell you to have only two kids. If the government tells the people that the less the number of children you have the more you get your health benefits after one pikin nobody go won born again. We will find every means possible to prevent it. However, we have a government of selfish and wicked people, so until that changes I am afraid the problem of "high population growth isn't going anywhere". We don't even have well documented records.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 3:45am On Dec 29, 2019
This is getting interesting.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 10:58am On Dec 28, 2019
Honestiy, i am still trying to figure out what's happening. Perhaps the lingering effect of the Christmas joy.
A40:
Well well well looks like the Warriors are not tanking after all
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 8:01pm On Dec 27, 2019
What the hell does "i don't really hate you" mean when you tell someone "i don't like you' ? grin grin grin.
zelgiusdigby:
100%

I can't ever hate anyone because no one is worthy of my hatred. Sounds narcissistic but it's a healthy approach to life. I may be indifferent about you, I may not respect you, I may not like you but I never really hate anyone.
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 7:50pm On Dec 27, 2019
I just watched Lebron's post-game interview again and Lebron said he didn't feel like the ball went off his hands, while the ball stayed for at least a second after Pat's hands were off, as it slided up his palms off the tip of his fingers. His high basketball IQ obviously failed him there. He didn't expect the 'ninja' to make that move, so he reacted after the fact. His grip on the ball was stronger in front than behind, so the 'ninja's' strip couldn't fall through, it only had the effect of pressing the ball against his hands, giving it a momentum in the opposite direction. His late reaction of moving the ball up and backward, out of reach gave the ball even more momentum in the reverse direction. He even said: if you watch the slow motion 4 or 5, 10 times you can always decide if it could be a different call, but infact the slow motion makes it even more obvious. The guy cannever admit he was properly oudone. He cannot admit he got stripped by a 6 ft "Ninja" grin grin grin, how did that even happen? @Steady386 you forced me to watch the interview, and i am not surprised. With all his one of a kind basketball IQ i am highly dissapointed in Lebron. grin grin grin
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 7:57am On Dec 27, 2019
You are not to be trusted. We would rather wait till they meet before making any commitments.What of if the clippers are not at full strength? You want to force us into a deal riddled with uncertainties. Why do LeBron fans think they are smarter than they actually are?
VaughnSangrey:
Money? You know how many people owe me money on this thread? lets not even open that can of worms.

LOL! Forget about them getting paired lets make it so the end game is the same no matter the outcome of seedings. Lets make it about the lakers making the finals then. Deal?
Sports › Re: The NBA Begins by benji93: 7:29pm On Dec 26, 2019
I would give you this one. grin
VaughnSangrey:
First chapter is about the shot actually. Lebrons double digit clutch scoring plus the clutch 3 that brought them within 3 saved their legacy. Chris boshs clutch rebound saved the his legacy. Just like Rays shot saved his legacy. Bosh and Jesus proceeded to combine for 0 points in game 7 BTW.

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