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To me I believe that a gift is a gift not minding when it was received. It doesn't seem right to collect the gift you gave out of love. Whether you fight or not, any gift given to a loved one should not be collected.

For me the fact that your uncle who you respect so much is cheating on his wife with another girl is bad on its own. Now to the issue at hand, if you love the girl in question, go ahead and date her; as for marriage, you need to do proper investigation to know if the family knows of his extra marital affairs and if not, for love sake go ahead and marry her.

This issue is a straight forward one. You do not need to feel hurt as she told you before hand what she was afraid of. If you really love her, then you will start with been friends as she told you. When she feel she can trust you, she will give into being in a relationship with you.

Bros your story long oh. Well if i am to advice you, i will say let your girlfriend know of your issues of been sure if your relationship with her will continue if you travel for your post graduate studies. It is better you both go your separate ways before you travel so that she can go on with her own life and start her own family. It will be unfair on your part if you tell her to wait for 5 years and after everything you don't settle down with her. For the other girl, even though you suspect she is going to the same country with you, how are you sure of her plans when you get over there? I think the best thing you should do is go there and concentrate on what took you there, when you are ready to settle down you will get your own partner.

Firstly before you spent that much on her birthday did you discuss with her on what you want from her, from what you wrote, it seems that you never discussed such with her. Secondly why will you spend such an amount for a girl who is not in any form of relationship with you? You caused the problem for yourself so bear it.

This issue in indeed confusing, who did he said was insulting him and what brought about the accusation of cheating and not loving? The only thing I see here is that the young man is tired of been with you and looking for reasons to let you go. You said here that you weren't ready to loose your virginity, but you gave it to him on a platter of gold and now he is saying that he is not sure if it was him who deflowered you. I will advice that you move on as he has gotten what he came for and has no other need for you.

Before assuming that she loves you or not discuss with her on her current relationship status, even if she is available for a relationship, she may just like you as a friend and nothing else. So the best thing to do is tell her of your feelings for her assuming you love her, and if she gives you the green light, well take your time and follow laid down rules in relationships to have a long and happy relationship. Good luck.

That's good for them at least it will serve as a deterrent to them and other boys their age planning to do same. What would have happened if they drowned while swimming, how will their parents know that they left school to go swim and ended up losing their lives?

Congratulations to them.

I believe that this type of relationship you are in with your girlfriend is a life threatening one as both of you have anger issues. Personally I don't see anything wrong in allowing her set the rules of the relationship you are in with her, what you can do is either to accept her conditions or not; you can also add to the rules of the relationship. If you try balancing the responsibility of making the rules I know she will calm down. You also need to let her understand that you hate it when she talks back at you when trying to correct her. Talking about marriage, you need to think twice before going ahead in deciding to make her your wife so as to avert future dangers and confrontations.

I believe that it is one of the early signs of pregnancy. The best thing for you to do is encourage her to go for the test to confirm your suspicion. When it is confirmed then be prepared to be a father.

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jonath0012:
Blantant lies!

List your points to back up your answer, or simply expansiate on why it's a lie.

I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

You seriously need help and that help will come from Heaven alone. How can you accept a proposition at the early stage and now due to konji United you want to break that proposition. How is she sure that after breaking the proposition you will still remain with her. I your soul aim of being in a relationship with her his sex then please just end it as you are not worth been in a relationship.

Ilamina:


Why I am so unlucky

If you need help please try to expansiate on what the issue is.

If what you are saying is really true, I will not blame him for trying to have sex with you despite your agreement with him. He was fully aroused and could not handle himself. You screamed and he left you alone apologising for trying. I will say forgive him but if indeed you want a no sex relationship, it may be a problem. It is near to impossible to find a guy who will agree to those terms. If you are a virgin, keep yourself for the man who marries you as it is your pride as a woman.

The issue is quite a simple one, I believe that God chooses a wife for you. If you go to prophets for prophecy concerning your marriage to a lady or you pray on your own seeking God's intervention and approval of your choice of who to marry, is the same thing. The important thing here is allowing God to guide you when deciding on marriage.

Before you post anything here for others to read, it's better you go through it your self. This story is just useless as the heading is very different from the body. She said her brother wants to sleep with her but did not write where he made advances to her.

Well sir if I may say, whatever is the issue that made her not visit the parents since naming ceremony of your first son should be put aside now as the main problem now is the news of her father's death. You have to make time to go and see your in-laws along side her of course over the death issue and to know how you will support them. Even if there was a problem, it should be in the past now as you cannot fight a person till death.

milemimi93:
women always playin the victim card since 15BC.

And for the ex to leave the kids with her shows those kids do not belong to her ex.

Can you prove that the children do not belong to her ex husband?

Of course it is a sin. Look at Matthew 5 vs 28.

Of course it is a sin. Reference : Mathew 5 vs 28. There you will see it for yourself.

My Sister this your case is a serious one oh. He scammed you in the name of investment and left you hanging. Well what I believe you can do is look for minial jobs that you can do to raise money. Try as much as you can to finish up your studies and continue with your life. As for that criminal of a boyfriend, nature will judge him.

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
yes I kw but wat can I do to win my gurlfrnd bak?

To be sincere with you, I don't see anything you can do to win her back as no girl in her right senses will come back to you after what you did.

I believe that you are the cause of your own problems. How can you have a girlfriend and is attempting to have another relationship with another girl, not just any other girl for that matter but her friend. You have to bear the consequences for your actions.

You said that he loves you, but I am not sure he does. How are you sure he loves you when he is not paying any attention to you, rather he prefers his ex girlfriends. I will advice you to seat him down and tell him to choose between you and his ex girlfriends.

I truly understand what you are passing through. The only thing I will say is that she doesn't have interest in you anymore and is tired of being in that relationship with you. If she was sincere, she wouldn't have done what she did. Her mind is made up and there is nothing you can do about it. My advice to you is that even if it is very painful, move on with your life.

Your narration is very long and I tried to grab few things from it. You are emotionally attached to this same girl you have been talking about and no matter how hard you try, it seems very difficult for you to forget about her. I believe that there is something that is tying you to her and unless that thing is removed, you cannot forget about her. It is now left to you know what that thing is and remove it before you can have happiness in your next relationship.