₦airaland Forum

Emmanuel909090:
Family any day anytime, fhey will always be there in sickness and health, love and care all through.

Your office is only intrested in your input and once your input is itrelevant you become useless and can be layed off.
Lost a colleague at work years ago and he was replaced within 2days, but his family will mourn forever, they lost someone, the office replaced someone. then i realized my value in both.

Your family first.

MeghaneMorgane:
I hope I don’t have to choose. But if I have to choose, I’ll choose both

Acidosis:
If the "mom" in context never loved her (good) husband unconditionally, you will be damned to think she loves her son unconditionally if the son turns out to be a failure.

finnacle2020:
with each passing day the cost of items in the market are going up and many mothers are finding it difficult to buy items from the market. Here are some few tips to assist mothers :

1. Have a budget and list of items needed in the house
2. Buy items in bulk like buying beans, rice and tomato that will last 3-6months.
3. Look for alternatives to expensive items like buying potato instead of yam, Napkin instead of pampers
4. look for other sources o income
5. Stop looking at your neighbors food

please nairalanders you can add your own

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Octopusssy:
Covid swept through my family but I was the only one untouched. It's still a miracle. We watched helplessly as life was fading from my dad. Since I was born, till this my age, the worst illness my dad has ever had is catarrh and the occasional mild malaria. But this Covid? You see this Covid?? The baba could not even dress himself. He was beginning to mumble words like someone having a bad case of dementia. My heart broke to see this strong, handsome man reduced to this state. It started with strong, persistent cough that lasted almost more than a month, then flu, then severe malaria, then loss of smell and taste, weakness, dizziness, shortness of breath etc.

He recovered when we bombarded him with a mixture of garlic, ginger and Vitamin C. Prior to that all the drugs we were using on him failed to work. The day I knew my father was back was when he told me after I wore his slippers out to buy something "Pussy, there's something wrong with you. All is not well. How can you wear my slippers out??" Sweetest words, especially when you remember he couldn't string a comprehensible sentence together just barely a week ago.

All my other family members exhibited symptoms of Covid in various degrees, none as critical as my dad's (he is in his mid-60s) but they all recovered. Octopussy, stubborn geh was the only gallant individual. Unscathed

When it was time to get the vaccine because my company made it mandatory, when it got to my turn the network failed. I spent the whole day at the vaccine center but I was unable to be vaccinated. I kuku left and covered myself with the blood of Jesus.

That, and the nose mask suffices for now.

chaloskyx:
They were never gonna let a black person from Nigeria succeed on the job its quite obvious. As much as we don't want to believe blacks are still racially profiled both home or abroad it doesn't matter if you have their passport all they do is use and dump and we cant fight the system till our so called leaders who are sell outs start fighting for us. Madam if you know they are frustrating your efforts just resign and hold your head high

paulavon:
I was having a conversation with a lady and two guys a couple of days ago, and in the course of the conversation I told them I rarely drink alcohol (just a bottle of Heineken in a month or two), I don't smoke, I don't womanize and I don't crave for money.
I was told that I wasn't normal, that an average man must indulge in one or two of those vices.

I will people to share their opinions on this.

Arsenate:
Sucks that women like you make up what, 10-20% of the female population. Few lucky guys usually snap them up. Most guys just have to make do with the likes of the OP and live miserable lives.
Mgtow is surely a more appealing option though.

thorpido:
You people and gender war threads
No one wants to be cheated on, whether male or female.
There are women who have never taken it lightly being cheated on and made the men pay heavily. An example is Tiger Wood's ex-wife. Some women have stabbed their husbands to death over infidelity.

The recent trend of paternity fraud is because of recent advancement in technology. It has been there for ages.

My hand no dey women vs men or vice versa.

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

siofra:
What if I tell him the doctor says I should stay away from sex if not I may develop life threatening complications?

SimplyFacts:
Lol,,, such punishment does not come with smile o.

SimplyFacts:
Unlike rice, beans & others, most mothers don't cook soups just to be consumed a day, so they might not want people close to it to avoid sour taste or making a mess of it. When some people go near a pot of soup, you may lose appetite due to the way they would make a mess of it; perhaps in their search for the biggest meat or fish. Well, this assertion of mine does not apply to every home sha. In our own case, we get irritated easily (we don't eat outside even on visits), mum inclusive, so she may force you to finish the soup alone if you make her lose interest in it.

walkbrazil4k:
1. I come from a country where females don't ride motorcycles and bicycles in the city, but would you find few women riding tricycles in the city but in villages in my country you would see women riding bicycles and motorcycles but in the main city it is always hard to find women that ride bikes and many would even laugh at you or many women are even shy to ride motorcycles because they feel too big or they feel that they are bigger than motorcycles, they prefer a car or using Uber to shuttle around.

2. This is why in developed countries they have bicycle lanes so people can ride and this is very important to reduce pollution and where I come from, in the city, you would hardly see women or girls ride bicycles, lol. maybe because many of the roads are bad. Lol, I would leave you to be the judge and we are not used to women driving buses and all that because in Africa we believe there are some things that women shouldn't be allowed to do or some jobs that they should not do, I think before in Iran women are not allowed to ride bicycles or maybe they do now.

3. Brazilian women have rights and there is freedom for everyone and in Brazil, you have bicycle lanes where people can ride their bicycles in peace without stress and it is common in Brazil To see women riding buses, motorcycles and bicycles, in fact even old women you see them riding bikes and it is very common here even the rich have bicycles it is no big deal, you are not poor if you ride bicycles unlike our belief in Africa that it is only the poor that ride bicycles, we must imbibe the bicycle riding culture in Africa to reduce pollution so don't be surprised when you come to Brazil and see women riding it is normal here

https://www.walkbrazil4k.com/2021/06/ride-motorcycles-in-brazil-i-come-from.html?m=1

TWLifestyle:
it is also a personal decision to cheat within the marriage instead of coming clean and opting for a divorce - which would have been the honourable thing .

TWLifestyle:
1. if you are really sincere about being able to walk out of a marriage - why don't men walk out of their marriage abd fvck who they realky want to fvck instead of cheating on their wives?

2. The rules are different for each gender but the important thing is treating each other with decency -

3. you can't happily be the polygamous gender and be hypocritically complaining that women are cheating on you !

Klass99:
Why does female infidelity pepper men so much like this?

As in, they practically break the internet when the story is about a woman who cheated (whether girl friend or wife)

But, it is the same infidelity women endure and still stay in spite of their hurt and pain.

I type in peace o, I am not looking for an argument or looking to be dragged this afternoon. I am just thinking out loud

TheMostComplex1:
This's despecable & the man needs to secretly do a DNA test

If one is not ready for marriage let him or her stay away instead of this foolishness