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slogozer: Hello Sir, Leave church standard but keep God's standard. 1 Peter 1:
15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;
16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.

GboyegaD: Good observation OP. I think the challenge is in the way we see marriage in our culture. Unless we have a broader view of life and marriage, it will have to remain the way it is right now.

Timijo: I like her wedding gown, this shows that she really know who she is in Christ. she is different from those who will expose their bodies because of wedding.
May the Lord bless your home with all good things of life.

bestcindy: Re u saying, that dakore makeup isn't cute on her Am nt talking abt so many girls pls, to me she looks more natural compare to omotola...

bestcindy: Pls what do u knw abt make up??

99cent: Dakore got plastic surgery done on her nose to make it pointier right after she got married to her millionaire husband.
Do you think it looks good on her? was it necessary?


before:
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After:
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kemthegirl: my dear they can only try but their bond of union is too strong for them to break. I remember them back in uniuyo. They dated from remedial and he proceeded to chemistry while she was in micro biology.
as a man, when the fame came, with all the groupies, it was hard for her but she held her own. Helping with his term papers and all while he was travelling round. True love always wins.
I recall uniuyo breaking into two when he finkally proposed. We were all so happy. Promise is a good woman who truly knows what It means to hold a relationship together so no long throat woman can break them.
she reminds me of Annie Macaulay without all the baby mama drama.

Ty Lannister: My fellow boys, I de hail una o

Much respect to all married men here o. Y'all got the girl. And you keeping her.

I've got a question o abeg. Please is it possible and how do you rein in your feelings for someone who isn't ready to date you?

pickabeau1: Surprisingly in my experience the female folk paint the men as bad

Only Very few posters have anything good to say about naija males

Some have even said they will go Caucasian

ileobatojo: Lol! Reverse scenario!

Buka posting the epistle while I make it short and sweet!

pickabeau1: What's happening here..

Buka name n shame

I have told you countless times

I do not advocate cheating which is a biblical license for divorce n its attendant ills
It is not just a 1 + 1 = 2 matter as some make it seem

jennykadry: Lol some people think we are same person

Abeg this is a serious matter oooo these men are potential HPV carriers, how can one man decide to wear one boxer, walk around town in it, sit in a car and rub his behind on the boxer, peee and have little dribble on it, poop and have some left over smear on it, and then expect a woman to go down on them? Women Need to watch out, sniff them men, sniff their pen!s area very well, if you smell a David beckham instinct or signature perfume more down there than their upper external area(upper body) then run away for he is a pig. He knew you were coming and decided to waste a whole bottle of perfume down there just to smell nice....no amount of Hausa sponge(s) will clean up the mess down there so their only option "perfuming" the area. No wonder their pen!s shrink and shrivel as early as their forties..poor hygiene exposes the pen!s to poor immune system, that's why we have so many tiny impotent willies around these days. These same men are Very ungrateful, some women don't mind going down on them but they expect you to swallow their Ogi after discharge, how can someone expect their fellow human being to swallow expired ogi? Ogi filled with crap, ogi that has not seen clean water in months ..tufiakwaaaaa

This has got to stop

pickabeau1: Thanks for the positive word on the male folk

At least some....

ypepe: Buky, don't be too sure o,I tell u.
This ur % is quite stagaring.

There r men that married as a virgin and become abali agba aka after marriage.
Some were chronic womanizer and changed after marriage.
Some were cheats b4 and after marriage while some no matter d circumstance will never fall for it.

I found out that as men gets older, more money and fame +power, d more he tends to cheat. Likewise women.

Now there r categories of adults.

Some men hv very high sexdrive. If one marries an uncomplementary woman, na outside be that for sure. Even when the wife tries to meet up with d dd, some still look outside.
Some r normal while some can actually stay for a long time w'out and it doesn't bother them.

Personally, I believe that its all about principle.

Nashville: What is "love for enemies"?

jennykadry: LMAO at men wearing same boxer for months.... Please I need to start preaching against BJ's...I was a BJ Advocate until I read that

Do such men even shower? Just imagine them scratching the back area and then moving their hands to the front to scratch as well, the hell it will be itchy, why not when it lacks good hygiene

Nashville: Abeg name dem make dem come fight. I don see Pickabeau and Coogar there. They cannot do you nada. Name and shame the others.

I agree it is possible to stand whichever way but it does take the grace of God. And more importantly being with the right woman, because some women can make you go crazy, like crazy. They are just like demons, always looking for trouble.

Coogar said in one of his earlier posts that he has never seen a woman that will drag his self-esteem in the mud. I dare say he hasnt seen some mad women yet. They will drag your self esteem into the gutter. Women that will insult and ridicule you in public. Make person no marry such as there is no way out except by prayer and fasting.

One of my friends ehn, I cannot even post about his wife. She is like a little demon. The guy has aged overnight. If you see him and me, you go think say he take 10 years senior me. He has High blood pressue, problems at work, always looking stressesd; all because of his wife. His family sef don tire for her because na so so family meeting every month! Make God help all of us jare!

Nashville: Please mention names, I want to know.

But on a serious note, I will ammend my post and say - I will never cheat on my wife; so help me God. The reality is that cheating is a choice but some guys that cheat made that choice even though they never planned to. It was not their first or second choice, but somehow they did what they may not have wanted to. I always pray that we will not be lead into temptation but will be delivered from evil.

I will give you an example of a friend of mine whose wife was just never around. They got married in Nigeria and a few months after the wedding, she was posted abroad by her job for two years. Things were tough but he managed. After the two years, they spent a year together in Nigeria and she then decided she wanted to go for a Masters in the UK for a year. After the Masters, then she got a job in the UK and was telling my guy to relocate and join her. Of course he refused and it became a big family problem. When they could not resolve the issue my guy just started dating one girl in Lagos jare. He was cheating and that was his choice, but I tell you, I will not judge him. The girl eventually came back to Nigeria and they somehow resolved the issue but seriously I cannot judge the guy o!

I give you another example of my uncle who did not know any kids with his wife. They tried everything, I mean everything, hospital, church and even jazz sef but nothing worked. After 15 years, the family pressure was getting too much, he tried outside and the woman conceived for him. Was he forced to cheat - a big no, but I never pray that anyone will be in his situation.

All I can say is that, I will not cheat - so help me God.

jumzzy448: Nobody should underrate arsenal this season oo. We are surely taking this cup.

Nashville: Amen with the billions. I don tell you before and I will repeat it. Cheating is a choice, those that cheat choose to and those that do not cheat choose not to. I do not think anyone is forced to cheat, even the Causal cheats that I mentioned cheat because something is missing in their marriages. I have decided not to cheat and so shall it be.

I just hang out with boys mainly for networking. As a man, you need your network of people. We know God will send help to us, but most times that help comes from people. So having your people is very key!

pickabeau1: You dont have to sound defeatist
We agree that conseuqnces will act as a major deterrent especially in the status cheats group

The bible allows for divorce in the event of infidelity

Eventually it will sink in

pro01: The Internet is the greatest invention of all time. ..... There is reality, and then there is the Internet.

Even then, it's baffling how deluded/naive/self-deceiving some people can be here.

pickabeau1: No problem, then in that case maybe women should be less accomodating and dump men at the sign of infidelity
However has it really worked in the West? That is the question

There is so much serial marriage which to me is akin to having multiple partners in a legal sense

pickabeau1: Phew...u put it out there.....

Do you think women enable men as cheats...

Nashville: They do that and madam makes sure I get lovely gifts on father's day and my birthday. And I do appreciate the gifts, and the important thing is that God continues to prosper us all.

Nashville: Ol boy don't even go there. My wife's car is finer than mine. She has more clothes, infinite shoes, bags jewelry. The worst thing is that if you give her money to buy stuff for the kids and you ask the kids later, they will say mummy bought it for me. Even though na your money dem dey spend, the kids will still give the credit to mummy.

pickabeau1: This is for you..special request from the Chelsee man
Start off with Sex on the Beach cocktail, enjoy some cool guinea fowl barbeque courtesy chillisauce

Yum...
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charles316:

baby mama and jennykandry are drama queens jor. All those women talk about is f0rking,forking and f0rking. Im sure they arent even getting the action like they are making u girls believe. Fantasies!