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Black Kenichi: More Anti Feminazi Memes
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b[I am actually starting to see some improvements in the New World Black community (mainly afram) where it comes to putting black women in their place[/b]. I say that the global recession is a blessing in disguise.
Soon these white male worshipping ghettogagging black feminist wh0res will have no place to hide.

They have only 2 choices:
1. Admit that they are wrong and know their place!
2. F*ck off and never return to the black community.

Make your choice Mrs Chima and 99cent. Time isn't on your side!

Ralphlauren: NEVER.

this madness is only done within the borders of Nigeria.

Travelista: Sorry to hear about the deaths of your coworkers; terribly sad state of affairs.

Now, here's something you may not want to read but it's truth and may help to put a few things into perspective:

1. According to your post, IBplc was taken over by Access Bank. As an IBplc employee (core or support), a person would be lucky to still have their job. In takeovers/mergers, the company that was taken over almost always gets the short end of the stick; this means, unless stipulated in the documentation that allowed for the acquisition and/or merger in the first place, your jobs is not guaranteed. If any wants to be angry, their wrath should be directed at the former leaders of IBplc.

2. Access Bank does not have to offer room for growth to former IBplc workers. Access has employees they hired using their own hiring practices; they come first. Don't like it, find another job.

3. As for being terminated for the slightest infraction: remember that Access took over physical branches but they may not need all of the employees acquired from IBplc. Again, making a mistake may look like you shouldn't have been hired in the first place. I know the excuse is flimsy but, again, they don't have to keep on people they did not vet themselves.

4. I don't even know how to address you blaming Access for the death of employees. If the families of the deceased believe that death was caused by actions made/taken by Access, they can file a lawsuit. Other than that, no business is going to offer money without being asked/forced.

5. Again, Access did not have to keep IBplc employees on payroll. Asking workers to stay late is the norm especially after a major takeover. As there lapses during the transition period, it is only fair that things get back to normal as soon as possible; that usually means someone is going to be burning the midnight oil and as IBplc was taken over, their held over workers get to do the grunt work.

6. No one from the former IBplc or Access Bank has to show up for the funerals; would it have been nice to show solidarity at such a time? Of course but it is a personal choice as to whether one attends such events. Outside of the branch where the deceased worked, no one else should be expected to beat their chests and pull out their hair. Access Bank is your employer and NOT your relative. As long as they pay you, they don't owe you anything else.

7. Core staff and support staff are not the same thing nor do they share the same duties; why should support staff be afforded the same benefits of core staff? You're complaining about not receiving nursing mother benefits even though your were paid during your maternity?! Amazing. Here, maternity leave is unpaid.

8. The more I read, the more irritated I am becoming with the author of this piece. Unless the professional, core and support staff all have the same level of degree, the complaints should just end. Why should someone put in the time to earn a higher degree only to earn the pay money and benefits as someone that has a lower level degree?

I can't even continue...this person was kept following a takeover and still complains. I must need a nap because this whole piece is just full of whining for no justifiable reason.

Cheer up, upgrade your degree and try again. If Access still won't give you a chance, look elsewhere. Good luck.

texanomaly: Thank you for your comment. I agree. We all need training. Any suggestions?

I have to say also that I agree with those who have mentioned the bible as a source of information on this subject. I will say though that not all NLz read the bible, so it is not a viable option for all.

Amelian: It goes both ways....not just the wifey....the husband na Shrine?

How about proper care to wives, mothers to their kids... Men needs training and counseling too.

texanomaly: Could the bolded be part of the problem? So many mothers do not discuss sex with there daughters. It is a tabu subject. If they teaching what they know, isn't that part of the problem?

Nashville: My kids are toddlers. What has that got to do with the topic? And ur sis is too young, unless she can be second wife

ileobatojo: Exactly! Except she didn't even bother to be stylish about it. Just did it straight up!

Nashville: While it is good to teach these principles as it helps alot, sometimes, marriage is not that complicated. A guy and girl are dating, they are in love, they cant wait to see each other everyday, they spend hours of fun together and all of a sudden, they get married and things change. Within months, some people can barely stand the same partner they were madly in love with some months back. I think sometimes what changes is that they have unnecessary expectations that may have come from some rule book about marriage. And each person thinks the other isnt performing his/her roles.

Alot of times, we read books, manuals and manuscripts about marriage. Lots of the people who are genuinely happily married never read these books and some of them are not even religious at all. If you genuinely love your partner, no one needs to tell you what to do as that love will show. You might have some bad behaviour (which everyone does), but the simple truth is that the love will always show. Even the Bible says love covers a multitude of sin. With love comes understanding, love is not selfish nor self seeking.

Not all men are the same, a women need only to understand her man and no other man! Your write up is lovely, but frankly, more geared towards couples who are not madly in love but trying to understand and tolerate each other. I am not saying love is everything, but it is very important!

ileobatojo: She may have some good points but I would personally find it extremely hard to take the words of someone who made the above statement seriously. The hell is this bogusness?!

Rhythm: Well to me, writing a book entitled 'the proper care and feeding of men' is insulting and kinda derogatory for the menfolk. It almost sounds like you are talking about a child or a household pet and not a full grown adult. Though the contents of the book seem nice, if I were a man, I'd find that title offensive. So I can only be glad people are not writing such things about women.

Rhythm: I think the point is, men are very simple and if women could get this then both men and women would be happy . Wish I could truthfully say women are simple too Not many have been able to figure out the formula for us women, and when they do, you'd see more books about it hopefully.

@Topic, I'm just hearing of Dr. Laura for the first time and I'd google her now but from the above article, I'd say she's good. I do not have a husband but I do have an almost-husband and I swear the 3 A's are a very good idea. Just that most times women already know these things but implementing them isn't always that easy.

debrief08: Poster, If you are a Christian then I suggest you study your Bible very well, Husbands are instructed to LOVE their wives just as Christ Loved us with this kind of Love in 1st Corinthians 13:

 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.

With this kind of Love comes peace, submission and respect.
The reason why the Bible stated women should submit is because when a man loves you with the love described above some may take it for granted, so for balance the man is to love while the wife is instructed to submit to love.

There is too much emphasis on submission and none on love or very little on love.

From the passage above the kind of ego you described has no place in a Christian marriage and should be far from you as the head of your home.
If your love is pure, not rude, not arrogant and not boastful, and most importantly you don't seek to hurt or "Punish" your wife, half of the problems in your marriage will be over.

I beg churches to clearly explain this part to men, we have hammered too much on submission that most men just assume it is a given and have no work to do to earn it apart from just being a man and marrying someone.

Submission only works when it is done to a man who knows his own role and understands the value of submission, Submission is not to massage your ego, submission is a fruit of love.

jidegirl12: We can still agree to disagree and vice versa and be fine with it. You'll see from my post I stated 'its a common statement' I need clarification about... Take my word for it when I throw you a question, I'm man-raised, I don't frolic around unnecessarily]

What's my stand? A 23yr old in 200l is a product of failed education system.... Mine would be done high school and in Uni same year at 17... By 21 she should be done any 4yr course & lets say she's going for medicine , add another 3yrs which makes her 24yrs old ... If at 23 doing her residency and already finds the one wants to get hooked .. why not?




Very well then.

kenyattamoore: Hi guys am fine ,please give me time will update you ,have difficulty connecting to any websites..

salt 1: . Why should Islamic bodies in the south be the one to educate them. Why should NGOs be the ones to spearhead this. They have a Governor. Those that went to help in schools and hospitals are killed. Corps members are killed. Their elite fling it in our faces that the Muslim woman is very happy with her lot and doesn't need any help. Why should others drink Panadol for another person. They ain't seen nothing yet. Let the north continue on its self annihilation course

k4kenny: But the author wasn't attacking christianity or any other religion. She simply pointed out the biblical account stating women who experience pain while giving birth are suffering from the sins if Eve. Islam doesn't see it that way. Allah (swt) created the woman's (human) physiology to go through thick and thin.

@topic
Most beautiful piece I've seen in a while. Sad to say that even some muslims misunderstand the message of the Prophet (saw).

Proud to be a muslimah

underscore: Hollywood actor Richard Gere and his wife Carey Lowell have separated and are planning on divorcing. The couple, who have been married for 11 years and have a 13-year-old son together, have 'been spending time apart for quite some time.' It's thought the pair made the decision due to their different lifestyles because while the 64-year-old heartthrob likes the quiet life, his former Bond girl wife, 52, is more of a fan of ‘socialising with other bigwigs’. Why now? Not another divorce case! So sad
Check out some of their family pictures here - http://trendysturvs..com/2013/09/richard-gere-wife-carey-lowell-set-for.html

Sources: http://trendysturvs..com/2013/09/richard-gere-wife-carey-lowell-set-for.html, Daily Mail

obyrich: Read the last line of my post you quoted. Re-read the Op's quote. Then comment.

Wu Zetian: Stup1d girls!
Your husband cheated on you and you and your fellow fool1sh friends are planning to beat the girl he cheated on you with?
Did she force him to cheat on you?? Don't you think he could have cheated on you with any another girl?

Did the girl vow to stay faithful to you?? Is it the girl that owes you her loyalty or your husband?? The girl has done nothing to you, she can choose to open her legs to whoever she deems fit.

obyrich: Birds of a feather flock together. Remember this your advice when your own time comes. I'm sure you didn't read where the Op said the so-called Alhaja had vowed to deal with her because of a quarrel they had. The OP and her mates see Alhaja as a traitor and a betrayer. There are millions of people she could open her legs for but her friends husband. Since you didn't see anything wrong with her action I wish you plenty of such friends. My take is that both the Alhaja and the Op's hubby are at fault and the Op should reassess her trust level with them. A randy husband is as dangerous as a traitor friend.

bukatyne: And what really has the 'alhaja' done to the OP?

If the OP kills the alhaja, does it stop the husband from sleeping with another woman tomorrow?

Imagine someone sick with typhoid and he/she keeps using flagyl for stomachache

richie44: I know u'r brilliant but....Let's see how smart you are;


A Man was found murdered on 19-6-2011 (Sunday
Afternoon) inside his house, his wife called the police,
they asked everyone around a question Police:
where were you when his death happened?.
WIFE: I was sleeping upstairswhen the murder took
place
COOK: I was cooking in the kitchen
HOUSE GIRL: I went to collect the children from school.
GARDENER: I was cutting the flowers at the backyard.
GATEMAN: Oga sent me to buy newspaper for
junction.
After listening to their answers, the police arrested the
murderer.
Who was the murderer?

obyrich: Birds of a feather flock together. Remember this your advice when your own time comes. I'm sure you didn't read where the Op said the so-called Alhaja had vowed to deal with her because of a quarrel they had. The OP and her mates see Alhaja as a traitor and a betrayer. There are millions of people she could open her legs for but her friends husband. Since you didn't see anything wrong with her action I wish you plenty of such friends. My take is that both the Alhaja and the Op's hubby are at fault and the Op should reassess her trust level with them. A randy husband is as dangerous as a traitor friend.

Nomski0: @bolded, its like you read my mind.

And Op....forgive me but this your story is just too unbelievable. I feel its not real.
But if it is true and it did happen, they you're going about it all wrong, sit your cheating husband down and ask him the what the hell he was thinking. Forget your friend o cause your husband could always find someone else to bang.
Ask yourself why he would cheat on you.
Are you sloppy in bed?
Are you not dressing right?
Fix your marriage angel and leave your friend to the judgement of karma.

nbright: bukatyne... Please I'm sorry.. Please I don't know how to talk much...(except on special occassions) and this isn't one... You win.. I don't know what a feminist is.. I don't know the difference.. Thank You..