slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

That is like not putting all your eggs in one basket


Only a mumu guy will accept that "connected but no Internet" method you girls use in pussyfying some simpleton....meaning you girls will be dating and eating his money but he can not browse( connected but no Internet)

If you date me...I am going to smooch and suck the hell out of your Bobby....bang the hell out of your pussy

do4luv14:

you say?

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders
There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.
I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

ahnie:

Banana, thanks I no want.hoooor see me see trouble.
Your wahala don past ibadan John wicks own o

sisisioge:
Dont over stress yourself maami.You dont have to spend a dim. Since he is the petitioner, he practically gets to spend all the money if you're not contesting anything.

If you guys dont have kids or properties to fight over, you dont even have to appear in court. Let him and his lawyer keep going. When they bring another letter try not to be the direct receiver. By the time him and his lawyer waka court wella, he will be begging you to attend once just to tell the judge that you weren't contesting anything as the Judge will keep adjourning. They actually hate dissolving marriages without ascertaining that it's broken beyond repair. Your 3 year separation will even fast track things.

If you still refuse to attend sef, it will get to a point when the court will grant his petitions and award him the dissolution.

All in all,if you join him to spend money and cooperate, you are looking at 6month to 1 year TAT. If you do not cooperate, 2 years will do it.

Meanwhile, what happened to love? I hope you guys dont have kids.

mariahAngel:


Hehehehehehehehehe
It's the Banana! Banana! for me.
No wonder you think fried bananas is yulky. So, you were imagining crack fried.

ahnie:

So where I go keep Papa zino?
J pls keep ya barbeque grill abeg.

ahnie:
Banana hala later,let's not derail this beautiful thread.Banana,don't forget.

ahnie:

Yet you locked up.
Where's my peppered barbeque fish and malt?

ahnie:

You don come back?

LiegeMan:

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

ahnie:

Banana

descarado:
Nigerian women have suffered. Both home and abroad

oluwafeolami:


Your signature caught my eye cos I use it often.

Through adversity to the stars.

You sabi

Reptyle:


Yes I can. Once again, it is not the gravity of the offence but the mindset towards offence.

One good head can keep a marriage.

descarado:

Thanks o.

I don tire to stay at home

mariahAngel:


Your mum has had the best of him. She has nothing to lose.

bukatyne:
Very unserious generation

On one hand, you tell people to do whatever makes them happy and marriage is not 'do or die'.

Someone takes that advise literally and you start to whine.

descarado:

Yep. At home healing.

descarado:

Abeg, ejoor

I no get strength

How you dey?
Longest time.
You don come back to continue with your wahala.

lkillbrokehoes:
Bro I'm highly disappointed, You leave Nigeria go America, still dey date Nigerian girls, say dem swear for you?

Dude their are better options out there, wide variety of options, it's not a must to be with Nigerian girls

AfroKnight:


I didn’t say or even imply that. Just stated the reason some men are willing overlook poor culinary skills.

And some men actually overlook that cos they married a trophy.

descarado:
How time flies. Anytime I remember mercy, this lady wil come to mind. It was a dirty battle.
But life is a great teacher. It gives us back what we give it.

Happy she stays abroad with her kids.
So mercy is second wife.

Truvelisback:
If u no mali self, na anoda wahala. People go still talk. Although, living alone is neither good also.

slickycee:
OP ladies that can cook are out there.
Maybe you're not attracting those type, but they're.

So stay patient and keep searching, because it would be worth it..

One thing I learnt about people that can cook.
One small trick that hasn't failed me..

This is it.

So me and a lady goes to a restaurant to eat, the lady that makes remarks about the food, things like the meat wasn't cooked well, the food is well spiced.

That lady can cook.

They usually make comments about the food , they tell you how they would have cooked the meal..

Like they understand food.

10 times 10 this works.

Not the ones that can't say much about the food.
It's either sweet or not.
Even a boy can tell the difference

But when the lady starts saying things like the oil Is too much, the.chicken wasn't seasoned properly.

I will just be looking at her and be asking questions deep in my mind am smiling because I know this lady understands food.



OP try it.
Take ladies out to eat Cooked food and just observe the conversation from there.

If she's just saying how much she loves the food without giving any cooking details abeg she's not the type .

Go to restaurants and eat cooked food not shawarma, suya or those snacks


Eat food with a lady that didn't cook the meal and listen to her comments

AfroKnight:
Whatever you do, don’t lower your standards to fit the inadequacies of Nigerian woke women.


It is a strange thing if a young African woman cannot cook simple native dishes. Unacceptable.

Nobody is asking for a chef or slave. She should be able to prepare a decent meal when she has the time, finish.

Single Women who desire marriage should not deceive themselves. If you are not undeniably beautiful and sexy, then you most likely will not find a suitor willing to overlook your inability to cook. There are things you can get away with using beauty privilege. God help you if you’re not that fine or your character is not worth it.