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RisenPhoenix1:
That would be wonderful. Men would sit all day watching football and chatting with their ex girlfriends; barking an occasional command at the houseboy. Maybe by midday, we can spend ten minutes boiling rice and about ten more minutes warming last week's stew. We can then branch off at ShopRite mall for a beer with our buddies before we go and pick up the kids from school, serve them the rice and stew, help them to do their assignments, watch more soccer until late evening when our wives come back from work, then demand for money for haircut, complain that our car needs to be serviced and the tyre changed, ask them to change the burnt light bulbs, and check the kitchen plumbing. They can then go and put oil into the generator and switch it on before we go to sleep. If our wives ask for sex, we will claim we have been working all day and are tired.

bukatyne:
Roll the eyes upwards

Different dispensation.

Divorce was 'allowed' in OT, just write a letter of divorce to your wife.

In NT, not allowed.

notok:
They always never go straight to the point , it was supposed to be a YES or NO question.

doloveexist:
Several times. I don't like sucking dick but I was doing it to please him. I even watch videos just to know how to suck his dick very well

bukatyne:
@bold:



@OP:
The Bible doesn't talk about smoking cigarettes or pornography either.

Studying God's plan for marriage, monogamy is the ideal situation which balances the 'rights' and 'responsiblities' of both parties.

Would a polygamist go to hell? No idea

Would a man filled with the Spirit of God marry multiple wives? I 100% doubt it.

doloveexist:
Hi everyone
We've been married for 10 years and he has stopped kissing me. Our sex life is so boring because he always go straight to the point. Am a Christian but I also want good sex and kiss. I have told him several times that sex without kissing is so boring and he wouldn't just listen. I asked him several times if he don't like my breathe and he said my breath is ok. Before we got married, we always have fantastic sex which was one of the thing that attracted me more to him. But everything changed after the wedding. I thought of cheating but ............ am just tired of life
Please pardon my mistakes because am not thinking straight again

Liposure:
so where do we draw the line between Gender equality that's being clamored for and role reversal in the house?

notok:
With the way people advocate for the eradication of gender roles , would women be okay with sit at home husbands ?

Billyonaire666:
In essence, you are a product of a broken home, and that experience has defined the life you live now and helped determined your aspirations and goals which are a standard deviation to the delta sigma from common norm, to your self-realized norm.

I want you to understand that not everyone is a product of broken homes and the percentage of those female facing subjugation from idiotic husbands and narcissistic fathers like yours are very decimal.

In essence, I am telling you to take your idiotic feminism connotation out of cyberspace. Learn to deal with your issues individually and not rant online as if your reality has resonance with ours. We are not all from broken homes so no need for feminism glorification here.

We are celebrating women's day and you want to ruin our day with promoting Feminism....are you mad? Let us celebrate our mothers and sisters in peace and happiness. Take your broken home symphony out of our equation so we can balance the quadrants.

mariahAngel:
Before nko? Who said and decided it was?
Does that even make any sense to you? Learn not to give too much importance to everything you read. (See as you even type am sef like say...)
Just because the line is becoming popular does not mean it makes any sense.

Gerrard59:
But please, don't complain that the ladies you meet are dependent, parasitic blah blah blah.

You people want to marry financially independent and working class women yet don't expect them to display feminist ideals? That's not entirely possible. Financial independence makes one assertive irrespective of gender and this translate to some women having such ideals. The solution is to find a balance.

mariahAngel:
Woman was created for man.
Woman was put in the care of man by God.
Woman is meant to be cared for by man.

Liposure:
It didn't start in today. These ladies always been cold and wicked right from childhood.

FreeSpirited:
But when young girls like you fvvck married men, the preeq no carry curse...abi

Cashsteady:
but young girls fucking another woman property is ok ABI? hypocrites everywhere

Silentgroper:
Shey curse of fornication dey?

Ginaz:
It is very sweet to be petted . in fact , I for one will directly ask you to pet me then sit on your laps, rest my head on your chest and mutter like a baby .

spoked:
Have you noticed that some, not all women become wicked in Marriage. Some become very wicked to house helps, relatives, the poor, etc... These women were probably so nice during courtship, but when they get married, they can turn the entire life of their husbands almost totally from his family...

Ginaz:
Pls it's like when I get pregnant, my mommy will come and take care of me cos I don't like stress.

I'm praying everyday to marry a man who is understanding and pets me cos I'm suspecting, my shakara will increase once I get pregnant. I'm a picky person by nature when it comes to food.

ImaIma1:
I have never really given much thought to reincarnation. But when this happened, it kind of shook me. She was named after my mum and my siblings call her mummy.

It was just a bit scary to me at first that she came on that day, not a day before or after.

1195meters:
on point
bro where is such happening? in Nigeria, maybe. in saner parts of the world governments do not require a child to provide for parents. one can cut off a toxic parent sef

Francis609:
She hates my wife because she is from the same tribe as my dad. She wanted me to marry a lady from her tribe.

she also thinks she is ugly and will give birth to ugly kids.

ImaIma1:
It gets better with time. I lost mine in 2015. At least, yours got to see your children but mine did not.

My joy is that my daughter was born exactly a year after my mum died. The very same date, Oct 20. I see my mum in her and I guess it helped me.

firac:
I know this sounds pretty lame, but i noticed i cum early with my current girlfriend than my ex, it's kinda embarrassing knowing i wanna give my girl a lovely time ,am i end up not lasting, i took the risk of even banging my ex to ascertain the issue, guess what, i lasted well,unlike my main girlfriend , what could be the reason for my underperformance ...

angelfallz:
The bolded,
i agree, that it is okay to improve on some behaviours. But, being irresponsible should set off alarm bells. When we talk of home training, being a responsible adult is a bare minimum. There are some behaviours that, i would not try to convert or teach anyone, because you were meant to imbibe such behaviours from home. Remember the woman in question is not a casual girlfriend, it is a woman that the OP wants to settle down with.
How can anyone expect me to start teaching a woman that i want to marry how to be responsible, God forbid! i won't do that. She would scatter my life for me.
IMO crackhaus when a woman is deficient in somethings, you should know immediately that she is not wife material. No time to waste, dump her.

mariahAngel:
Are you both legally married?

I ask because some people use the term married when they're just a couple living together...

It is quite hard to believe that someone will just up and leave their marriage like that for no concrete reason.

UjuJoan2:
What’s funny nah?

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancé whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary.

angelfallz:
You started insisting that it is high time she became responsible.
You met a woman that is not responsible and you want to convert her to a woman that is responsible? You have time

Kondomatic:
One thing I find very annoying is somebody telling me how to spend my own money that's right inside my pocket.

Boss, you fall hand.

You see that place you buy bottled water for twice the price? Nah slap you deserve.

There was a time I was in Lagos for a seminar, I hanged out with babe and I noticed something about her. She used to come in the evening and leave in the morning [that's actually how I prefer my woman, like the moon. Show up in the evening and disappear in the morning] because of her work but this time she was free.


She likes to show off with my money.


We go here to eat, she will be like TIP this guy.

We go another place, TIP that guy.


The girl is nice TIP her, the gate man is kind TIP him, I was just laughing inside while TIPPING them here and there like a TIMPER.


When it was time for her to go, I brought the amount I usually give her for tfare, counted it so she know it was complete and then removed all the tips.


That was the last time that nonsense happened.

mariahAngel:
So, you're afraid?

armyofone:
I tell you say you be trouble maker
Na only one person be philosopher ?

Good morning.

Ishi.love, I read your post and looked out the window into the waterfront from my office and nodded my head. You are right.

Btw, I got my first grey at 17 too.