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CrimeRe: Police Declare Lady Wanted For Sucking Baby's Genital In Viral Video (Photos) by etrange: 8:44pm On Jun 08, 2020
Jeez! This is very disconcerting! The paedophile should be arrested at once!

NB: Nairaland boys are not shouting "girls of nowadays!" or "fear women!" as they usually do when a case involves a girl. Any reason?
RomanceRe: What Age Are Kids Nowadays Losing Their Virginity? by etrange: 8:32pm On Jun 08, 2020
WoundedLamb:
You can start by paying as much attention you pay to the girl child to the boy child. While you teach the girl child the dangers of early, random and unprotected se.x, use the same energy to teach the boy child. Don't let him off the hook cause "boys will always be boys". No. Create a Nairaland thread too ask for opinions on how to 'protect' him. Hold him responsible for his actions. When he misbehaves, criticize him and say "don't you know you're decent boy? Do you want to bring shame to our family?". Teach both genders self respect and respect for the opposite gender.

If we all start doing these, our girls will be better off.
You've said it all.

We make excuses for the boy child and expect the girl child to be safe; how logical. I've heard a girl complain of how a particular boy would always pick on her and his cousin (a grown up cousin of the boy in question) said, "I think he's just playing around. Or maybe he likes you". This is how we go making excuses for boy child and teaching the girl child to be docile and accommodate the excesses of the opposite gender. She learns that when he behaves in a naughty way, it's likely out of likeness. We try to clip her wings with expressions like "don't you know you're a girl?". We see two teens being naughty and we call the female one all sorts of names while the male is considered to be just shooting his shot. In fact, the only solution we have to the boy child's misbehaviour is to reconfigure the girl child to be able to deal with it. And then we expect our daughters to be safe out there. Again, how logical.

For clarity, read the post below and see a Nairalander's solution to men's disregard for their wives who toiled with them.

RomanceRe: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by etrange: 9:30pm On Jun 07, 2020
Ybaby:
Yea it does!

It is why men may marry very intellectually smart wives when they are poor but once successful they will step down to women with average IQ but who know how to make a man feel masculine and strong d these men will refuse to let side chic go.

Reason : intellect never made a peniis hard.

Men have two brains and once successful the dominant brain is the peniiss.

Dont believe me : just observe your surroundings

Starter wives are used for ladders and trophy wives are pampered.

Starter wives are intellectual and know how to help a man succeed and trophy wives know how to make a man beg (does not mean she is daft but she does not lead with intellect when with a man - she leads with femininty)

A woman should aspire to be both.

Intellectual for herself

Sexy for her man
You wrote beautifully but something about the ending prompted me to quote you (if you don't mind).

You pointed out some masculine tendencies (which are flaws, by the way) and in conclusion, your solution is that the woman should aspire to meet up with the these flaws. Intentionally or unintentionally, you heaped the responsibility on the woman and excused the man's stinking attitude as "the way men are".

"A woman should aspire to be both". Really? That is the solution to men who think with their di.cks when they get rich and discard their wives? I do not mean to sound cliché but this like saying ra.pe is caused by the way women dress. So the aspiration of the woman is, in other words, determined by the desire of the man while the man is left off the hook because "men will always be men".

Misogyny has eaten deep into our society, I must say.

Nice observation still.
RomanceRe: My Housemaid Has Slept With More Than 100 Men. Is she a Nympho? by etrange: 1:32pm On Jun 07, 2020
ndidibabe:
My housemaid has slept with more than 100 men. I realised this on her Facebook page and WhatsApp.

Most of her friends on Facebook are her sex partners. She sleeps with "friends of friends". Not only this, I confirmed that she has slept with more than 10 men in the neighbourhood.

I have never seen this kinda of prostitute in my life. I was shocked when I read through her WhatsApp chat and realised that she sneaks out of the house after midnight to make up with a married man in the neighbourhood. Only God knows how they pull this out.

It's sad cus the girl is so nice, down to heart and hardworking. The best maid I have ever had but she is such a fuckerholic.

I had to send her away.
Log book. When you want to kill a dog, you start by calling it bad names. This seems exaggerated but then, sleeping around is terrible nevertheless and could bring problems to your household.

Just wondering, would you have sent the house-help away if it was a guy?
EducationRe: Top 17 Hybrid Animals Created By Scientists You Won’t Believe Exist In 2020!! by etrange: 1:23pm On Jun 07, 2020
SILVERLINES:
What a blogger can do
... a nairalander can do better.
RomanceRe: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by etrange: 11:35pm On Jun 06, 2020
OritaIbadan:
Alright just thinking as a father is it the best
You're neither thinking as a father nor as a manager.

A father will not sack her and leave her at the mercy of those men. A manager will not let her personal life affect her job provided the job is not the type that could be affected by her lifestyle.

If she's a good sales girl, let her be. If you care so much, advice her.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Threatens To Give Out Tonto Dikeh’s Phone Number For Just N3 Million by etrange: 10:52pm On Jun 05, 2020
You don't even know how to use the word "threaten". Who is she threatening?
PetsRe: Finally Got A Wild Bird As Pet (Photos) by etrange: 9:11pm On Jun 05, 2020
A hawk?
PoliticsRe: Egypt Wants Okonjo-iweala Disqualified From WTO Top Job by etrange: 6:50pm On Jun 05, 2020
PericomaNwankwo:
Trying to decimate future obstacles. Lol. Nigeria doesn't want to gamble with that position so it changed their nomination to Okonjo because she stands a better chance of beating the two other African nominees to that position. Egypt, sensing the danger ahead, wants her nomination rejected because they know with her in line, their nominees stand no chance. grin grin
RomanceRe: You Will Smile At This by etrange: 9:31pm On Jun 04, 2020
Lol... nice one.
HealthRe: Meet Ghanaian nurse Whose Skin Went From Black To White Naturally by etrange: 9:20pm On Jun 04, 2020
And she had the same dress on throughout the transformation? Lol...
CrimeRe: Man Beats Baby & Mother Because The Child Cries And Disturbs His Sleep (Video) by etrange: 7:11pm On Jun 04, 2020
Fear men! Men of nowadays, tufia!
RomanceRe: Married Man Faints After Sex With Married Lover In Lagos by etrange: 7:10pm On Jun 04, 2020
u11ae1013:
Thank God she did not claim rape
It would be nice if we could desist from making jokes that water down the effects of rape
HealthRe: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by etrange: 7:08pm On Jun 04, 2020
missjekyll:
I read this initially as I am an ass getting married to an ass.
You're still not wrong. That guy seems to be an ass. Lol
HealthRe: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by etrange: 7:07pm On Jun 04, 2020
bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.
This selfish and wicked. Save a child this misery, please!
CrimeRe: Busola Dakolo Gives Update On Her Rape Case Against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by etrange: 7:05pm On Jun 04, 2020
Jeflox:
This old woman should let us rest abeg. Go and settle your case with pastor COZA. Leave us out of this stale news.
How is she holding you? It's her Instagram nah. She can post whatever she she wants there. Did she post it on your Facebook timeline or did she ask the OP to bring it here?

Nawa o
CrimeRe: Busola Dakolo Gives Update On Her Rape Case Against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by etrange: 7:01pm On Jun 04, 2020
iLUCID:
The statute of limitations on the case should've elapsed. Make she shun the matter
It does not apply to rape cases.
CrimeRe: Busola Dakolo Gives Update On Her Rape Case Against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by etrange: 6:58pm On Jun 04, 2020
iLUCID:
The statute of limitations on the case should've elapsed. Make she shun the matter
Dude, rape has no statute limitation in Nigeria.
CrimeRe: Nigerians & Cameroonians Clash In Dubai ‘Over Beer Price’. 2 Killed by etrange: 7:40pm On Jun 03, 2020
143WaZoBia:
But Nigerians and CameroonIan are supposed to be brothers. Why fighting over beer price in a Muslim country? The Quran warned that you must not decrease the price of your commodity to entice customers.
We mustn't always side the outsider. This is not a religious thing. It's business and competition is an integral part of business. It's simple economics. Those Dubai residents buying from the cheaper vendors don't have Qur'ans? If you were there, would you buy from the more expensive ones to please the holy book?

Fact is, Nigerian vendors wouldn't reduce their prices if they weren't still making gains with it. Others can reduce theirs but greed wouldn't let them part with that extra income. Didn't the qur'an have anything to say about greed? Except there is a written agreement signed by an association, I don't see any reason why you'd fight someone for his selling price. If it's a sin, pray to Allah to punish them.
RomanceRe: Can I Be Your Sugar Mummy - Beautiful Woman Searches (photos) by etrange: 4:47pm On Jun 02, 2020
AlphaStorm:
By d time dem carry ur matter go twitter say u rape , na d@ time ur Eye go clear.
These jokes you guys make to water down something as serious as rape is really unpleasant.
FamilyRe: The Dumbest Things I Believed As A Kid by etrange: 4:21pm On Jun 02, 2020
Digableplanets6:
About the mirror go look up bloody mary on google and no matter what you do ,do not practice it.
That's a cocktail undecided
RomanceRe: Guys, Have You Ever Had A T.hree.some? Share Your Experience. by etrange: 12:57pm On Jun 02, 2020
lexyking:
I could kill for a girl that is sexually liberated, a girl who is not afraid of fulfilling her sexual fantasies no matter how weird it is. But I will have to agree with you that most Nigerian guys are hypocrites who want what they don't need but need what they don't want.

I think the ladies have a big role to play in changing things, they need to start being bold about what they want and damn the negative perception that might come with such act. they need to aim higher and roll with people of like minds, not just opening their legs for guys that aren't in sync with their sexual preferences. thumbs up to @MOnkeybabe, she's about the only girl I've seen on this thread who truly knows what she want and is not scared of seeking it, I wish other girls can stand up and live their lives.
Nice. But distant from reality.

Short response: It is impossible to ignore the society you live in.

Long response (read if you have time or do not agree with my short response cheesy):
We always think we know what ladies need to do. Your take is just like a white guy telling blacks to damn racism, roll with just blacks and keep living their lives. Where? How possible? Fact is, we are all humans and you cannot just not care how others in your society perceive or treat you because, at the end, you're joined at the hips with the society. It's someone from the society that will marry you. It's someone from the society that will employ you or patronize your business. It's someone from the society that will be your friend. It is someone from the society that constitutes your family member. Even the people you think are like minds are products of the society. Unless you are very rich, you cannot live in isolation. A girl got into the dm of a guy the other day to woo him, he showed his friends the chat and they laughed and advised him to "use that olosho". Another guy created similar thread here on NL and even exposed the name of the girl and people were calling her "destiny killer". I'm sure even her family members would organise a town hall meeting for her. These girls have been labelled and the effects of such labeling ripple down. Nobody would bat an eyelid if it were a guy. They'll even insult the girls for exposing the chats. There's such a thing as the male privilege. As a guy, you're almost guilt-less regardless of the situation. It's like the only thing that's considered sexually immoral for guys is rape. Any other thing makes him 'my guy!'. Some guy here even created a thread on how he rubbed his genital on a girl in a bank and his 'guys' where hailing him and even went on to call the victim a pretender. The male liberty is almost unhealthy for the society.

You say she should ignore the society and role with people of her type and I wonder who these people are. People that, lowkey, see her as a bad girl that's only suitable for fun? People that hope to find a 'wife material' when they are ready? People that wish thier daughters won't be like her? Cause we both know what the idea of a good girl is there in Africa. Even if these people are any different, like I said above, she will still have to deal with the rest of the society at some point. The person whose monica you mentioned in your post is hidden behind the screen on a faceless forum, that is nothing to judge by.

Bro, if you aren't a lady, you may not fully understand their situation in a society like ours. I'm not trying to put everyone in a box but being born with male genital in Africa already makes you guilt free and you can't even begin to imagine what it costs the other gender to level up.

Good morning.
RomanceRe: Guys, Have You Ever Had A T.hree.some? Share Your Experience. by etrange: 1:26am On Jun 02, 2020
Chuky7:
mad story man...

Are you surprised...3some mostly requires high energy as in the babes need to be jovial n sometimes have a wild fantasy. something most Nigerians girls are not. only few exposed ones. boring girls.

Guy go back and enjoy parissd
What do you guys really want? If a girls sleeps with two men and does all sorts of things, you call her ashawo, olosho, etc. If she doesn't, you call her boring and unexposed. At the end, guys are the real oloshos.
Poems For ReviewRe: "But You Are A Male Child. by etrange: 11:42pm On Jun 01, 2020
So No To Rape!
FamilyRe: My Brother's Wife Served Me With Just A Meat Instead Of Two Meats by etrange: 11:40pm On Jun 01, 2020
Men of nowadays!
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu, I Gave Asari 20M. Asari I'm Igbo, Ijaw Is Older Than Igbo & Kanu Li by etrange: 6:08pm On Jun 01, 2020
See the kind of petty things these ones are there discussing. Igbo is older than Ijaw; Ijaw is older than Igbo. And so what!? How does that add value?
PoliticsRe: Governor Of Enugu Appointed Me SA In 2013 Heaven Did Not Fall. Lulu Fawehinmi by etrange: 6:05pm On Jun 01, 2020
BlowYourMind:
She isn't right for the appointment, how will you explain how this lady received an appointment, on what merit?
I don't get, what are we supposed to see in the picture?
CrimeRe: Nigerians Commence #StopRapingWomen Protest Against Sexual Assaults by etrange: 5:54pm On Jun 01, 2020
Everyday, Nairaland boys call out "girls of nowadays" for for miscellaneous reasons. You hear things like "fear women", etc. Yet a lot of men are committing such a hideous crime as rape and no one calls out "men of nowadays". I've said it over and over again, sex related crimes will not stop until we stop shielding our fellow men from blames. The other day, a guy was being praised here for rubbing his genital on a lady in a queue and the lady was labelled a pretender.

Accept it or not, boys/men of today are also nothing like our fathers. The perversion is alarming and the way we condone it is even scarier!

#FearMen #SayNoToRape
HealthRe: COVID-19: Doctors Threaten Indefinite Strike Over Working Conditions by etrange: 2:53pm On May 31, 2020
These guys have got everyone by the balls this corona season.
HealthRe: Top 10 Nigerian Medical Practitioners In America by etrange:
Davash222:
Are there no medical practitioners in the North? Are they restricted from practising in US? Or is it Haram to practise in UShuh Asking for my neighbor, sha.
As expected, the very first comment is already tending towards sectionalism. Can we just appreciate these guys and leave their ethnicity for now? I'm sure you only called out the North cause there seems to be a balance between the East and the West. Otherwise, you would have channelled your missiles towards one of those ethnicities. And that makes me wonder, have we gotten so addicted to tribalism that regardless of the post, we must find some group to call out? It's almost like a vampire's thirst for blood. And it's so not cool. Y'all need to outgrow this.

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