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Since she wants a gown of 450k, then let her get it herself na ...

OP...
You've been going around creating sucide threads for a while ...

And lots of well meaning individuals here have tried to get to the bottom of things to see where they can help out if possible ...

But still, you're not willing to give any information, you snub their questions and go about to create more threads ...

This can only mean that, what you need is just attention and nothing else and the last time I checked, the people here that can actually help you ((that is, if you really need help o)) are too busy with work and their personal lives to give you the attention that you seek ...

So unless you're willing to say how the people here can help you, may i advice that you do as you've said, k.ill yourself ...

Don't bother creating threads again, use that data and research on different ways to die a painless death ...

Say me hi to my grandpa in hell when you meet him ...

1. The erroneous standards women set for men - the truth is that the "ideal man" for most women DO NOT EXIST or at best are very rare ...

But in women's reality, they think that the man they want are scattered everywhere .... And so they go through life being rude to other guys, until it's too late and they realize the extent of their delusion ...

2. The mindset - most women think that the man must be XYZ before they can consider him ... They feel that they don't have to do anything to improve themselves, all they need do is look pretty and boom!! They're eligible to get a high value man ...

News flash ladies!!
The same way you think a man must be of a certain caliber before you can consider him, it's the same way you too must improve to a certain status before a man can take you seriously ...

Men too have expectations and if you don't meet them, you're not worth it... Yes they may f.uck with you and put up with your bullshit, but that's it ...

3. Truth is that most ladies these days are not worth taking seriously at all ... They go around with empty entitled brains, they be broke and fat with a face looking like masquerade thinking that the greatest gift they can give to a man is spreading their legs like butter on bread ...

And so in their minds having a va.gina makes them equivalent to demi gods, but they forget that there's nothing cheaper than a va.gina, an indomie and egg or 500 suya can get a man a va.gina, yeahhhh it's that cheap ...

Thus they bring ABSOLUTELY no value at all to a man, and the last time I checked, no man worth his salt will take a VALUELESS creature serious ....

These too are some of the reasons lots of ladies are still single....

OP you're not a real man ...

So you can't handle a strong independent woman ... Abeg shift first ...

Tweeeehh ...

VirtuousStarBoy:
I have to correct your impression, I am not an illiterate, you are an irritating nitwit.

Oh really?
You're not an illiterate and yet you couldn't recognize simple sarcasm? Rather you proceeded to disgrace your entire lineage thinking you were insulting me ...

And when i accosted you, rather than apologize for your unruliness and take corrections, you went ahead to prove that you're more of a nitwit by refusing to take correction but still stuck to defending your stupidity ...

Kiddo...
This will be my last response to you on this matter, but next time, don't just rush like a fo.ol to comment on something you don't understand, gain clarity first, so that a repeat of this fo.lish doesn't repeat itself ...

Good day!!!!

VirtuousStarBoy:
Your comments is a testament of the fact that you are totally insane, who do you think I am, an illiterate then you must be incredibly stupid.

Yes Mr. IQ Prof ...
I know you're an illiterate ...
You should read more books sir ...
Stay blessed my Prof ...

VirtuousStarBoy:
It seems you have a very low IQ

No pal....
You're the one with a negative IQ, since at this point of your life you don't know what sarcasm is ...

So as old as you are, you've never heard of the word sarcasm? .... What have you been doing with your life Mr. IQ Prof? ...

You should sell the phone you're using and buy books instead, it will profit you better ...

So that you don't come online and disgrace your entire lineage all because you want to comment, stay blessed Mr. IQ Prof ....

Yes you're right ...
I agree with you ...
Girl power all the way ...

Men have no choice ....
They must accept us for who we are even if we're fat, broke and have a high body count ...

And if they don't accept us then they are misogynistic ...
How dare they have standards ...
How dare they say they want virgins ...

It's obvious they can't handle an experienced women, bunch of weaklings they are ...

I've always had the opinion that most modern day women/feminist are bunch of hypocrites and will ALWAYS act and speak in a way that benefits them even at the detriment of men ...

And so when I saw a very wonderful thread, I decided to carry out a small social experiment (@ Morphinne you were right) ... And the amount of boys/girls wailing on my mention was truly a sight to behold ...

So the OP posted a video of a guy who hit a girl and the girl fought back and kicked his a.ss and I made a comment that 99% of women would make if the reverse was the case ...

This was the comment ...

"That girl is not a real woman ...

Why didn't she walk away after she was hit by the man ...

You don't lay your hands on a man for no reason, even if he hits you first, you should walk away ...

That's what makes you a real woman ...

Chei!!!
What sorts of women are we breeding these days ..."

If the case was reversed...
If it was a woman who hit a man first and the man fought back and kick her a.ss, tell me that this is not the comment that 99% of women will make (put woman in place of man and read it again)? ...

But nooooooo ...
Since it was a woman at the receiving end, they all praised the woman's action of fighting back, but they will definitely condemn that same action if it was perpetuated by a man ...

You see the hypocrisy? ...
I thought we were in the era of equality? ...
I mean, if it's okay for a woman to do it, then it should be okay for a man to do it too right? ...

This is not a thread to bash women...
However, I find it funny that women (and surprisingly some men) will praise an action when it is perpetuated by a woman...

But yet will shame that same action when it is perpetuated by a man and still be shouting "equality" ontop the matter ...

Why all some of y'all confused ...

Do y'all want equality or what? ...

I mean, you can't be wailing "equality" and yet instigate double standards, it's not proper!! ... I'm of the opinion that in this era of equality , what is good for the goose, should be good for the gradner too ...

So next time we see a video of a man beating up a woman who hit him first, I hope we can remember the era that we're in ...

But If peradventure, you think otherwise then atleast you should be able to see the hypocrisy of modern day Feminism, I rest my case ...

This is the link to the thread...
https://www.nairaland.com/7416647/man-attacks-black-woman-france


Lemme say a very special thank you to the following persons for taking part in my social experiment ....

tonyashburton
Skmoda360
chris51
LordErrk
Okhuadams
betatalk
Samuelnze
robinzaga
novia22
Jovialjune1
Michoco et al...

Thank you so much guys, I wouldn't have been able to do this without you ...

That girl is not a real woman ...

Why didn't she walk away after she was hit by the man ...

You don't lay your hands on a man for no reason, even if he hits you first, you should walk away ...

That's what makes you a real woman ...

Chei!!!
What sorts of women are we breeding these days ...

First off...
Body shaming and s.lut shaming are two different things, be guided on the use of terms ...

Secondly...
It is IMPOSSIBLE for the tables to be turned ...

Thirdly...
If in an imaginary world, the tables were indeed turned, women will not be able to do a quarter of what guys do for them ...

Fourthly...
If a guy could choose between working their ass off everyday for peanuts and having to share what little resources they have with an over grown entitled partner....

And sitting at home and enjoy the sweat of another person whilst being a bit.ch and shouting "equality" with the backing of the society...

It should be clear what lots of guys out there will choose ....

OP...

Let your wife know your pin if:
1. You know hers...
2. She has been a supportive wife...

Asides that, she asking for your pin and not allowing you decide to tell her yourself is an off for me ...

LMAO ...
Some dude up there is telling us the "type" of single mother he will marry and the kind he won't ... As if a single mother wouldn't almost always try to play the victim in such scenerio ...

Abeg help me ask the brother, how many single mothers will come out with their full chest and say "I screwed up"? Majority of the time, they are always the victims ...

The other one is telling us how he always had to prove himself to her ..., time wey you for carry develop yasef, you dey use am to prove point, tor awon super hero wehdone o ...

I have no issues with single.mothers, however it will take a single mother to be damn near perfect before I even consider to have anything serious with her ...

I'm not ready to deal with silly emotional baggage and the other problem that follows ...

Yes one may argue that single girls also have baggages too from their past relationships, this is correct...

However, why should I have to deal with a woman, her children and prolly her baby daddy, when I could deal with just the woman? ...

And besides, the Oga wey put am belly escape prolly saw something and japa ... So I can't be that unfortunate to take chances ...

With how rampant stories like this are becoming eh, it will be unwise for a man to take a woman abroad ...

Men?? Abi women? ...

One thing that women have failed to understand is that the fact that tons of men want to sleep with you doesn't mean you're valuable or that you're a "bad bi.tch", it just means you have a p.u.ssy, simple! ...

It's no news that men in general will sleep with anything in a skirt, so don't feel fly when they keep coming because it's a natural instinct in men!!

The question she should be asking herself is, are all these men that are rushing me willing to keep me? cause if they're not eh, you're not worth sh.it ((contextually speaking))...

But if the only thing men come for is to get in-between your legs and leave, Its proof that your only use in a man's life is at best, a se.xual object, that's all! And I don't think that is something worth boasting about ...

Cause Las Las, na only okrika them dey rush for market ...

There's absolutely no difference between modern day Feminism and Misandry ...

OP....
If you're an African and you don't have a single invention to your name, then you are indeed more useless than the word itself ...

I'd rather the insurgency continues than vote for APC ...

Wowwwwwwww...
This is wonderful....
Well done madam ....

So in summary...
You only get wet when your husband have cash to buy you gifts and you get dry when he doesn't have money, nice one ....

Atleast even your body system is telling you the major reason why you married him and what kind of person you are ...

I wonder why some married women don't have any iota of shame in them, chei!!!! ...

You just be spreading your leg like butter on bread for just any dude with small change in the pocket, have y'all become this cheap and irresponsible!!?!!! ...

Even a pastor's wife that is supposed to be a role model to the females in the church is wh.ori.ng around too, Kai!! ...

Omorrr...
There's SO MUCH to consider as regards this matter, however, let the pastor seperate from her first, consider all possible outcome and make a decision ...

If I were in your shoes however, I would look past those crocodile tears that's pouring for her wh.ory cheeks and send her back to her father's house ....

I better my kids grow up without a mother than allow them a have a who.re for a mother tufiaaaaaakwa!!! ...

Michelle70:
Oga, children are a different thing altogether

You're deflecting my question sir ...
((Come to think of it, that's what you've been doing the entire convo sighs ...))

You said and I quote...

"Society should allow everyone to be vocal about his/her individual preference towards romance?"

Are children not part of the "everyone" you spoke about here? Abi is there now a new definition for the word? ...

And also, children are not as "different" as you paint them to be sir ....

Children are potential adults ...

And children only know what they are taught...

So if we teach them that this sexual aberation and perversion is "okay" or "normal", then they'll grow up into adults thinking same ...

Either ways sha...
You're entitled to your opinion ...
Do whatever you want, but keep two things in mind:

1. Actions have consequences ...
If you go down this road, then be ready to face whatever consequence that results on account of it and blame ONLY yourself for it ....

2. No one owes you "acceptance" or "understanding", so don't come out here expecting or demanding it from the public ...

Good day!!!

Michelle70:
U dont get my article.
Nobody said u should relate with them or not, just stop dehumanizing them and lynching on them cos they prefer the opposite sex.
If the romance was consensual and the both parties agree, then i see no reason why a third party should jump and lynch on them.

Also, the part where u said what if ur sexual preference is children, i just shake my head for u.

I don't support lynching people, however, I also don't support people rubbing disgusting things such as this on my face too!! ...

Let them do whatever they want to do in their closets, it's their business, and no one cares!!

But once it's brought to the public then they should be prepared to receive public backlash ...

And besides...
I don't think people are that jobless that they would go from room to room looking out for gay people, so if those guys were "caught" then they prolly were doing trash in the open ...

Even males and females will sometimes illicit public aggression when they get intimate in the open, so let's not play the victim card here because of a person's se.xual preference ...


@bolded
Now you know my response when I saw your post ...

You said and I quote...

"Society should allow everyone to be vocal about his/her individual preference towards romance?"

Are children not part of the "everyone" you spoke about here? ...

OP...
Nobody is discriminating against them, we don't just want them to rub it on our faces, simple!!

You said...
"Society should allow everyone to be vocal about his/her individual preference towards romance?"

So what if my preference is to sleep with children, should the society also allow me to be "vocal" about my preference??



Call me "backward" or "primitive", that's your business....

What I know is simple...
Sexual attraction towards the same sex is nothing short of demonic!!!

Now, if you want to sleep with someone of the same sex, that's your business, but don't for one moment think that I owe you acceptance or understanding, cause I don't!! ...

And truth is the ONLY THING that can connect me and such people is business, asides that, I would rather burn in hell for the rest of my life than relate with them on ANY OTHER LEVELS ...

By the power in the name of Jesus Christ, I cast out every demonic spirit plaguing his life, in the name of Jesus!!!!

I declare him free from satanic manipulation and I bring him under the covering of the blood of Jesus, in Jesus mighty name I pray, amen!!

You're free OP ...

No be beatings be that na ...
Mtttwwwwwww ...
Oga just dey touch their face play play , them mellow ...

If that man got serious, blood would've spilled in 2 seconds ...
Them Sha get luck ...

Women please understand that...
Gone are the days when you will slap a man and walk away Scot free, now ehn, while your hands are in the air to slap the man, two of your teeth would've fallen off ...

Wuna no get power, you won go slap man ....
Mtttwwwwwww, lobbish ...

The women bashing her are hypocrites ...

Which woman wouldn't desire to marry a man as rich as Ned? ...

Reggie leave them alone abegggiii ...
For their closets, them fit dey pray say make baba God cause Ned to look their side ...

Darlingme:
That's bad. Why not let her go immediatly you discover she does not meet up to your standard? Too bad

Lemme answer your question with a question ...

Why do girls, knowing fully well that they can't marry their sponsor (man) but will still date him? ... Why don't these girls "let him go"? ...

OP...
One of the things women haven't come to the realization of, is that MEN ALSO HAVE STANDARDS ...

You'll be shocked to know how many women have no clue as regards what men want in women ...

The major difference between men and women is that, a woman will turn men down immediately on account of him not meeting her standards, but a man will keep you in his life whilst looking for someone who does ...

That's why you'll see cases where a man will date a lady for 5years plus and then "suddenly" he leaves her and go to marry a girl who he has only known for a year or less...

It's not because the man is "wicked", but if you're not it to a man, my dear he will not marry you, NO MATTER HOW LONG HE HAS DATED YOU FOR ...

So ladies...
If you like, don't calm down and learn what men want in women...

If you like, don't work on yourself and self improve...

Stay there and allow social media, fake friends and your youth to deceive into thinking that "you're the price" ....

When the time comes, you will also come on nairaland and ask questions such as this, we're waiting for you ...

Lemme take a wild guess ....
She's a single mother ...

I'll give an answer when you tell me about "father's love" ...

As demeaning as this thread is, it's full of FACTS! ...

Every male need to pay attention to words written herein ...