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fadilaMaikiriki:
I don't think this is the type you're talking about. I may be wrong though. This one will definitely turn yellow if I had left it for a few days, because some we already turning underneath.

How about the pears? Is it a good buy, or I was cheated?

OK then, it's a good buy and a good price

Though things are very costly these days, I accept whatever prices am giving in the market anywhere anything

Orenike:
I've been using oraimo 10,000 mah for over 2 years now and it's been working perfectly, it charges my phone twice...

I bought new age before but it didn't last upto 4 weeks, I think it got burnt while I was charging it...overall, I prefer oraimo, its trusted and reliable..

However, make sure you purchase the oraimo powerbank from an official oraimo store

Thanks very much for this insightful information

I have made up my mind to go for Oraimo since I have tried NEW-AGE 22500Mah for three years

I will Google there direct sales office to be very sure I got it right

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!
Attached below is the picture of the banana I bought #150 in Ondo state. Is it a good buy or I was cheated? How much will this banana cost in your area?

They're about 12 pieces.

I got the groundnuts for #60(#20 each).

We have different species of Bananas this is one of them and the cheapest of all

It will remain green like this and you will think it's not ripe yet

But the other regular one that turns yellow when ripe, is the sweetest but more expensive

Preciousgirl:
I have been having an emotional affair (online) with an old man
I have realized it is not good and regret everything so far
We were sexting a lot and I shared my pics with him
I have backed out
But must I confess it to my husband?

I am asking for a colleague

Since you have made up your mind to shop the chat

Why not hold your mouth let peace reign

The only confession you have is with God

ImmaculateJOE:
Nice one..

Everyone should ranch their cattle.

Exactly ❗

KiNg0G:
I was surprised and shocked to hear that a friend of mine was told not to come to church for a month now, according to him he impregnated a girl out of wedlock and the news got to the head pastor so he was summoned and suspended.

I thought it's only people that holds official post in church that can be demoted, I mean this is a guy that smoke weed,causes trouble in the town 2years ago before we knew his character changed a little.. going to church every Sunday even some week days.... now he is been suspended.

What your pastor did was throwing away the bath water and with the child

Suspension wasn't the way forward

He should have been made to take her to his place or parents and le to him. Face the challenges

The lady in question should have been allowed to follow him to where ever he stats and face the challenges too

Now the guy will leave the church and go else where, while the problem is getting harder and harder

Dada4me:
Good evening nairalanders, my daughter is in basic two with a bad handwriting. I have tried helping her by showing her how to handle Biro but no improvement.

Please recommend what to do.

It's too early to judge her writing but it's very early now to correct what you feel about it

Get her enough writting books that contain letters so that she can trace them both small amd capital letters

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

I think you guys sexual life is about dying

Seat her down she has alot to tell you

Only if you will listen and understand why she resorts to vibrator

Start talking about your issues now before she goes out to get it better

Stillwhites:
Huge deficit of common sense.Learn to advise and guide people with decorum..Stop
displaying your pride in a place where it won't be respected. Not everyone eats from the
same pot with you.

@Ajay7411
@Frozen70

Thank you.

Thanks dear

mistilink:
I came back from the office today only to be told that a couple I know and very close to have dissolved their marriage of 10 years.

The husband sent the wife packing on the ground that the marriage didn't produce a child after many years of waiting!

Is marriage no longer for better for worse again? Are children now the only achievement in marriage?

When they could have adopted a child, if really that is the problem

Ekaka1:
In UAE?.... na their country?

What if it spreads to our citizens in their own country since they can't do such in UAE

Stillwhites:
My name is Victor Divine..I'm 19-yr-old and I'm from Jalingo, Taraba.I was the Assistant Headboy of Government Day Secondary School Jalingo (GDSS) in the year 2020.I'm my mom's only kid and she was estranged from my dad who had his wife and kids before his demise early this year.

This is my fate: I grew up with a single mom to avoid the brutal domestic abuse in my father's house.After my father's demise, I see my mom increasing alighnment with my step-mom and half siblings leaving me rejected and dejected.She rains heavy curses on me at any slight mistake.I would be wading thru emotional/psychological trauma/breakdown if I wasn't naturally strong.

Althoug I'm expecting admit letter from a private university, I want to join illuminati to take my life to the next level.People do say I'm destined for greatness.Joining illuminati will only oil my career.

I can sing. I recorded a song last year.I can act drama.I can teach.I'm gifted writer(fiction&nonfiction).Iam a talented footballer.

I want to join politics

You are way too young for such thoughts and thinking

borngeologist:
Am lost..am depressed..i just want to end it..so that i can rest from all this..gambling has made me lost everything..owing l credit170k palmpay 50k..okash 30k.. I dont even have #50.in my account..i dont even know what to do. I just wish thier is glimpse of hope for me in this world ..i have fought this addiction.but it really ruined me..nothing i can do anymore..i just wish i could stop ..i want to stop i really want to stop

Now that you have made up your mind to stop gambling

Meet your parents especially your mother to counsel you

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

He even have a source of income and earns salary

A woman who is ready to settle down wiill accept him and support the home with her own

There is still hope for salary increment and progress

He is still growing

Bvlgari:
Ugandan man makes an appeal to Nigerian men in UAE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5TAJTYjqnbM

This is a clear warning before the real xenophobic attack will start

tobore4u:
good morning ma!

Happy Sunday...may your week be blessed.

Thanks dear, I wish you a good week

Jackofall:
I have always been very attracted to women with big ass, I just can't help it. I don't know why I'm like that, I just love it.

So there is this girl I have known for long, she has big ass and we both like each other. Although there are some things about her that I don't like, she isn't intellectual, and she is religious (she is like a pastor in her church).

I know physical attraction shouldn't be the only thing I should love out for in a woman, but all the ladies I have dated, the ones I enjoyed most are those with either big ass or big boobs

Am I making a mistake? Will I regret it in future if I marry a woman because of her big ass?

Honestly, there is nothing wrong with your choice of woman

God created women with different body shapes because he knows that he created men with different desires for women

JudgeNotHi:
I have made it clear to her mum, I have no intentions of marrying her daughter & we never for once even discussed US. We were simply just friends. Yes i know, sound so stupid of me, but that's just the truth. It just happened and I told the mother just that without mincing words. But she just kept saying BUT DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER YES OR NO? I felt terrible...

You have made your mind clear to them

Kennedyli:
I have a female friend who's single. She's a good person, but I noticed an unusual closeness with this man, who happened to be married.

She says the man was just a friend from church and they had nothing going on.
She said the wife was suspicious at first; but the husband explained to her and now they are fine.

However, I noticed that they call each other everyday; which was okay.
I warned her to stop allowing the man call her, especially at night. Which she promised to work on.

I was trying to check something on her phone, when I noticed that not only was the man just calling her. She calls him close to midnight, sometimes, repeatedly until he picks.

My question is, can or should a lady have such relationship with a married man. Kind of a married man bestie who she go places with and calls in midnight?

You are a man
You already know where such friendship leads to

If you can't hold her firmly and stop her from such communication then there is no need blaming the man

But be very careful, you may not be aware that the same man sends money to her

I

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

I will suggest you take her to police station, register that you want a police officer to accompany her to collect her belongings from her ex house because she is afraid he may harm her, yet he insist she has to come and collect it

Secondly, go with some area boys and go along with them to collect those items, but she will go in first then within minutes you guys will knock on the door before any action will take place because no one knows his plans and she will pick her personal effects and you all will leave same time

Lastly, let her list those things, if you can afford those items, take her to the market to replace them and after that, that's the end and she will forget about them

Lalakas:
Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.

I will advise you calm down and don't allow his disrespect for women drive you nuts

Let him run his mouth as he likes, you too give him yours let him feel it

Cook moi moi and beans if you know that's your children best food and you must make another meal for him, there is no big deal there

He says that your duty is to give him sex and food

Give him food, so far he provides for the food

Give him sex if you have the urge and if you don't have the urge, then you decide

Wether he has time for you or not, just keep moving

One day he will be the one looking for you guys attension

Be happy and look good

The issue here is not a new trick

You already had a marriage plan going on

Go ahead and inform your wife to be and continue with your marriage plans

As for the lady, you have to le the her know that, you are not sure you are responsible for the pregnancy

But if she insist, you will have to run a DNA test after the child is born and you have nothing again to say

If her mother insist on seeing you tell her the same thing in a polite manner

That doesn't mean that you won't take care of her while the pregnancy is on

Don't ever make any promises of marriage to her no matter the pressure

With all the above
DNA will prove if it's your child or not and if it's your child, then be ready to take care of the child while the child remains with the mother

She on her own side, knows the true father of the child

It's now left for her to keep the child that's thats if she is 100% sure is your child

Or take the pregnancy to the real owner

Or terminate the pregnancy because she knows that it's not yours

Then she will come up with the story that she had miscarriage

Don't advice her to terminate it

She knows what to do with it and she knows the real owner

just2endowed:
. Check my siggy for quality romoss poweebank

Ok

incandescentena:
New Age durable for Alternative charge




Tho Oraimo is also okay

Thanks for your input, I actually had a new age 22500Mah in its was working very good but I discovered that it will easily get to 100% and drops easily when I use it to charge

I can stay days without using it so I dont know if it's actually getting tired or what

I bought it in August 2019

Now I want to go for bigger capacity

Who can recommend a Power bank for me and between
NEW-AGE and ORAIMO=33000MAH capacity
Which should I go for, pls give me reasons for your recommendations

Who can recommend a Power bank for me and between
NEW-AGE and ORAIMO=33000MAH capacity
Which should I go for, pls give me reasons for your recommendations

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

The problem here is your wife not the guy

She has to make a call on him while the speaker is on and denounce him to your hearing

Let's see what will be the guys reaction

While on the and call, you have to speak with the same guy and tell him he is causing problems in your marriage

Then after that, let your wife pay for the DNA test that must be sponsored by her and after all these, reporther to her parents

Her own is even too much because it's obvious she is still in love with her ex

Threesha:
We need to move away from the bolded.

Yes we need to but it's not a battle for one person

Generation to come will deal with it

Even this present generation are already proving that, so gradually it will move with time

Mathematricks:
Ok, ma. Have a nice day.

Thanks my dear

Emmitable:
This should serve as a lesson to all marriages

SATANlSTMINION:
I understand that you're a married woman with numerous responsibilities.
That's how most nairalanders are, they tend to take one's kindness for granted.
You're one of the few nairalanders that has supported lots of people on this forum and God will bless you and repay you bountifully

Thank you very much for all your prayers and wishes

May we never be stranded

I really appreciate your observations on me

assholemods:
You must be very daft with your stupid and idiotic comments. Some of you think that everybody here is a kid or at the same level with you, I am in my 50"s so what is in this life that I haven't seen? Who is chasing future at this stage in my life? You holier than thou , if you don't have anything meaningful to say go to the children section and play with your mates. Hypocrite!

People who are in their 50s are courteous

You are uncultured