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siofra:
Not the ones you insert into your vagina.

The ones you put in between your labia majora and thighs.

I've searched everywhere, even foreign sites and I can't find it.


Do you know where I can get it?

I need it ASAP.

As a woman I your body is designed to lubricate where needed to be lubricated especially your private region

Don't add anything that can trigger cervical cancer

Unless you are dearly in need of it for medical reasons, then go to the doctor

But since you did not mention the reason for the search then it could be for the fun if it

And since you can't find it online then it doesn't exist

Devineee:
Nobody will understand my pain suffering and struggle.
I don tire am dying slowly.
This world is not meant for me anymore
Suffering endless hunger is giving depression.

Just take what you want from me
Just take my life

What exactly is wrong with you

Is death the final solution

What about your parents especially your mother

Have you thought about the deep pain your family will be while you experience your own pain in hell

Now tell, after reading this, do you think you still want to go just like that

You don't want to have lovel kids that will call you dady

shortgun:
The ideal age difference between a man and his wife should be between 10-20yrs.
When you are 50 she is 40 or
When you are 60 she is 40.
When you are 70 she is 60 or
When you are 70 she is 50.

We all know women age faster than men, don't marry women in your age bracket they will be looking like your mum in the next 10 years.

Also, save your future children the pain of caring for 2 old sick parents at the same time.

What makes you think women old faster than men

What is responsible for old age
Is it child bearing, hustling or life struggles

Men marry women younger their age basically because of respect for them because they know women can be naughty at times when they want to over react

Look around you, you will still see older couples but there husband is already older than their wives

In Africa what makes people old is suffering and bad health

Solofresh2:
I believe there is this particular staged of life that is really good to enjoy your wealth.
Choose one stage
Youthful Stage
Middle Age Stage
Old Age Stage
As for me, it's the old age.
What about you

For me, once I think I have achieved what I want in like, then I can relax and enjoy

It can come in my uouth or old age

But I must achieve my set goals and then start resting to enjoy my health and good life

One can start enjoying when your are not married, no children will no house of your own

What do you want to enjoy with out all these achievements

Flacko225:
Sorry about the name of the subject I couldn't think of any better name and I also couldn't think of any other place to post this except here.
So my friend woke me up this morning with like 16 phone calls. Apparently someone or something sent about 382,500 naira to her with a transaction name of "Rfd virt card 22-06-22 aliexpre". They also sent about 45 naira to her on the 21st of June. We've both checked Google on anything on transfers like this but there's nothing there I'm currently suspecting that it might be an international transfer for fraud or something like that because they sent the 382k in bits within 6-7 hours. She also said she can't think of anyone who'd want to transfer money like that without prior notice and we're still waiting to check for any activity before she reports to her bank. So please if you know anything about this can you just help out with giving me more information. Thanks.

Mods please move to Frontpage abeg. Cc : Lalasticlala

Why not wait till upto 3/6 months and see if he will receive a call from anyone about it

If you report to bank, they will trace the amount and if it's illegal they will take it

I still believe someone who knows him did that transfer to avoid traces on the sender account

Princeadebayo11:
There is this girl I played rough with last week, we don't want to have sex till we get married. We got into romance to the extent I started using my Penis to Rub are clitoris. Then when I felt the urge to ejaculate I stopped and I ejaculated outside that I even saw the traces of my sperm on her clothes.
There is nothing like penetration at all because we were even leaning against the wall.

Is there possibility of this girl getting pregnant through this process because I am really scared right now.
She is a virgin and I am also a virgin.
I know some people will abuse me, no problem your negative comments are welcome in advance

At your prime, your sperm can swim faster than you can think

There could be just little drop or splash that found its way through her slimy canal

You have to wait till she gets tested

sirjustice1575:
For some of us who don't know the meaning of diastema.

(In pathology) diastema is a surgery carry out to create gap or space between two adjacent teeth, especially the upper front incisors (in humans).

Simply put, to artificially do 'open teeth'

Diastema is actually what we call open teeth, it actually comes naturally

If you are talking about those that created their own, it should be called artificial

The natural one comes with a big lump of flesh that separates both teeth to avoid closure

But the ones created by fashion doesn't have that lump that divides both teeth

It's doesn't really need to be surgical because it can still be done in a salon with a Sharp nail filer

Kingkum:
Thanks. i already promise myself not to beg anybody again talkless of doing it online. but are you saying that there is nothing like spiritual forces?

If you believe in spiritual issues, then search yourself very well if you have been doing good before marriage or after marriage

Ladymaceral:
The kind of threat calls and messages he has been receiving from those loan app since the past 4days, is enough to send any reasonable person into depression.

I'm hurting because they are calling me as well, but each time I get a call, I shout at them and block them.


He will need to sort it out on his own.
Maybe that is where his healing lays.

I pray for strength here.

Buckle yourself up over the issues he brought upon himself, let him deal with it

It's going to be a turning point for him

Newborn27:
Thanks for your response..... I'd keep your advice in mind.

You are welcome my sister

yinkaOdutuyo:
Almost everywhere in the room, kitchen and toilet.

Mind you, I'm not dirty, my room, kitchen and toilet are clean. I sweep my room.

Many times I have used goknight, cockroaches powder and others.

Yet, they'll go and come back after after a little while.

Pls whats the advice comrades

As you keep using Insecticide to kill them, search for holes and openings where they pass through to come inside the house

VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


Women are beings that shouldn't be trusted let alone setling with.

Women are chronic manipulators: it's in their gene coz they inherit it from their mothers.


Most women are cheats: it's in their bloodline coz they inherit it from their moms.

A woman must have had millions of sexual intercourse with thousands different guys.I can't value a public toilet.


A woman must have loved someone.I can't eat left over.


Women setle just for its sake to avoid societal bashing/gossip not because she loves you.

Women causes gut-wrenching emotional stress/pain.

I can't see what I stand to gain in marriage.



Read my lips: May I die a year and a day before the day I will start thinking of marriage/marrying. Amen!

You are just fighting yourself

If this is what your dad thought before getting married to your mum, yet they gave birth to you and still train you, why is uoir own different and comes with a curse from you

Don't come back here to complain about spiritual attacks ohhhh, because you brought it upon yourself

TheElated177:
Should men be ashamed of baldness?

Does baldness have any impact on the quality of life of an individual?

No one should me ashamed of what nature does to their bodies

DeBond01:
I'm seek and tired of feeding from hand to mouth I just want to bounce back to my normal stage of life and clear the debt I owe some people, I have made up my mind to sell one of my kidneys please I need a serious buyer

God forbid

HanahHitler:
Now that men know that women are capable of cheating too, and it might just be in our nature, why are they not so forgiving?

Why does it hurt them?

Why can't we all cheat in piss?

He who kills with gun doesn't want to be killed by gun

neonly:
I disagree pls der are some really crasy women out der they are never contented with Wht you offer
But who am I to judge
Person with GF get peace

In that case, you deal with them as they deserve

Kingkum:
This guytold me that my wife is ogbanje, that i should send her away if i want to have peace, and that my former girl has a spirit husband who is also on my case. so after sending my wife away, i should do spiritual cleasing to be whole again.

but my wife is my pillar in this trying times, who will even cook and care for my children if i sent her away? worst is, this girl use to worship me as if i'm a god even in this condition so i see no reason to carry out that instruction untill she did something strange.

i research online on how to meditate and wanted trying it out, when it was 11pm, i told here that i want to pray and started but to my suprise, she started tappin me violently that i'm praying too much, i kept my cool and went back to bed. yesterday was same thing so i'm beginning to suspect her cos i don't know when praying for more than 5mins is a sin.

pls what should i do about this?

If you believe any nonsense spiritual things about your life, marriage and your wife,
Your case would be worst that the present situation

Team up with your wife and pray together on what you guys want God to do for your lives

Stop birthing children till you can afford to feed them all without begging for money

If you two agrees, it can work out well

Omakwole:
I just got a girl on a platter of gold. Please how do I love her . How do I show her love . Because such girl is hard to find.

Let me explain more, I am a kind of guy that is very shy to talk to women. I might see a girl , that is so beautiful, has my kind of spec, but I will still let her pass by because I don't have that kind of courage to approach her. Maybe this is the reason why I have been single for a very long time.
This girl I'm talking about came to me in a platter of gold.

Let me tell you the story ......sorry for the long write-up. I was just coming back from where I went to get some food, all of a sudden someone started calling me. But I didn't know that I was the one being called. Because I don't even know her before it was my first time of seeing her. I decided to pass a particular route to my house. But later changed my mind and went back to the other road where I saw her.

Then she greeted me , I answered. I thought it was just greeting normally, but then she called me back and was like I was the one calling you that time but you didn't answer me. I said oh, sorry I didn't hear you. Then she said let's stroll . I was shocked at first, because this girl is so beautiful Jesus. Exactly my kind of spec. Dalm in my mind I was like " what is going on" and of course people were staring at us. It was just like as if the ground should open let me enter lol . I was already shivering.

But though as a man , I have to summon the courage to be a man. I didn't allow her to do the talking that moment though. I took advantage of that moment. Ask her her name, and ask for her contact afterwards. Then I zoomed off.

I didn't wanted to call her shall because I don't believe this is happening for real. Everything was just looking like a dream to me. All of a sudden, she called and we got talking. Guys this girl told me she likes me. Oh my God, Omo joy wan finish me here . And I love the girl so much.

Please guys I need your opinion. Is this love geniun . I'm in my 20s I've never been in this kinda situation or relationship before. Please teach Me oh, how do I make sure that this love leads to forever.

There is nothing much, just love and appreciate her and expect respect from her
Don't be too simple else you loose your guard
Take enough time to study her so that you don't just conclude

Women are smarter in their own game

nijaomegacode:
Stfu

I know say you no get sense, but I wanted to be sure
Now I have confirmed it

MadeINchenzen2:
Just thinking out loud...so I saw this meme and was given a reason to think for a moment about it.

For the career woman with a doctorate degree, I would think she might have these tendencies or elements of feminism in her which would make her less submissive in marriage.

The illiterate one also comes with a lot of baggages too.

So in my conclusion, I would say... do whatever works for u...


Or what do you think guys?

If you like, marry a stack illiterate

A woman is a woman

If you don't want a woman to challenge your authority, love her and take care of her

She will return all with respect

nijaomegacode:
Finally, this girl don expire.

Have you ever seen an expired wealth, no because wealth doesn't expire
She is a complete asset and wealth

Naijareporter1:
Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwbGIbsce4M


Denrele shares video capturing the challenges he faces to have his bath


https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cgg5rTbAZhK/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

He is living in his own world
That's his business anyway

Tonero5200:
I was supposed to buy last year, they discouraged me saying I was too young and had to report me to my uncle.. this time around have made up my mind to buy it ...I be 21 next month, even though I leave with them that doesn't mean I can't rent my own place... but why pay rent when I have my own personal bunk separated from theirs. please all what's the legal age to own a car in nigeria?... because I spoke to a cousin who schools in in canada telling me as far as 16yrs old do have cars of their own.

please note I clothe myself
I feed myself for some time now.
I think I'm old enough and they should respect my decision.

A car is a luxury not an asset

Tell them that you want to buy a land and start developing it, you will get automatic approval

Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

Being a prostitute doesn't make her a bad woman

Have you ever asked her about her family and what led her to such wayward life

emerich:
Hello nairalanders, please am a 1st time dad so would be needing suggestions from Parents and caregivers, my son is a year and 10 months old, but very energetic, he makes me afraid most times to come back home, he always headbutts me, so very painful but he doesn't feel any pain whatsoever, he loves to play very rough play with me and his mom, but I think his mom have some tolerance levels to his play, he is always slapping, climbing and dancing on my groin, very painful most times, and always landing me hot slaps most especially when he is angry or his mom went out without his knowledge, he is a very wonderful kid and fun to be with, he is a blessing to us, my fears is that he shouldn't turn out to be a bully as he appears stronger and energetic than most kids his age and above.
How do I tame him to prevent him from always hitting his parents? I asked my wife about his activities at school and she told me he isn't a bully but always super active at school, I am a very calm guy but my dad told me I was that way when I was a child his age, that helped but the issue of headbutting and slapping me is really a source of concern for me.
If you had kids that exhibits such behaviors as mine, what did you do differently to calm him?

Children of that age are supper hyperactive and so your son is not different

The problem here is that you have to start correcting those rough play before it becomes a habit

He will be having other sibblings too and they will learn virtually every thing from him

kartelkid:
Please I would like someone with knowledge of this; to advice me.

Someone suggested it to me, and it seems a good idea, as I want to marry without my family's support. I'm based in lagos. I have family issues; which basically will delay me further.

Please I'm not here for judgement, I just need to know how I can do it.

What kind of family issues that can't be resolved

OK naw when you marry and have kids, who will dey regard as family members incase of tomorrow

That you want to marry from a motherless home doesn't mean they won't ask you about your family

If you can't identify with your father's family then switch to your mother's family

Pinkie2018:
Please I have a problem in my marriage. I need advice. Pls no insult.
I got married 2020 and did the court Marriage last month. My husband has been a wonderful husband and by God's grace I have been a wonderful wife and a mother. We have one child.
The issue I'm having in my marriage is anger management. When ever my husband gets angry, he says all sorts of things to me, like leave my house, you are a bad wife, different sorts of insults of which whenever we reconcile he apologizes sometimes.
He's the type that no matter the good things you do, once he gets annoyed, he abuse you verbally of which really hurts me. Last month we had an argument that resulted to a fight, her beat me like his fellow man and locked me out and ask me to leave his house. Neighbors intervened and we settled.
Something happened today. He came back home around 2.am this morning instead of the usual 11-12pm he usually arrive home. I wasn't happy, he tried to explain but I knew he was lying because my sister in-law already called one of his friends before he came back. So I wasn't happy with him but I didn't make trouble with him. So this morning I drank aju mbaise and hot drink on empty stomach, so it was affecting me and making me want to faint. So it happened that he was giving me money for something this morning but I felt like fainting so I threw the money on the floor and quickly fell on the bed. After few minutes, I regained myself and got up, all the while my husband never cared to know what the problem was. I got up and asked him for the money, he started shouting and insulting me that why will I trow money on the floor for him. I tried to explain to him what Happened, he never cared to listen. He started insulting me, saying I will leave his house, that he can't continue with the marriage, that he will kill me. Note, it's not the first time he has threatened to kill me. I don't know what to do. His family members have talked to him about this his attitude about marriage but he gets worse. Pls I need advice because this his "leave my house" and threat all the time is too much. Little issue that couples have and settle, my husband always make it a big deal. If he annoys me and I get annoyed and refuse to talk to him, he will vex and start insulting me and threatening me. Pls I need your advice, what do you think I should do? how can I change him because I don't want my marriage to crash?, we have a daughter and u wouldn't want her to grow in a divided home. Thanks

I need to ask you a question

Is it that you do not want your marriage to crash
Or you don't want to be killed in that marriage

Well, he is a self made man and he believes that you have nothing to contribute to him except child bearing

I will advise you take time to I mean extra time to start studying him so that you can avoid issues that will trigger his anger

Most partners that have anger issues have to be studied by their partners to avoid rancours

Secondly and you have to humble yourself in all areas of your relationship with him

Your humbleness can break the madness of anger in him

This is just the second year of your marriage and meaning you still have a long way to go

Don't return or talk back to him when he is high, you can't tell what mood he is at that moment

Abujaexpress:
I have been facing a lot of criticisms from some of my in-laws and my relatives, particularly my mother in-law who has frowned at why I will build a three bedroom flat, with separate rooms for me and my wife.

I married my wife in 2016 and we have been been living in a rented One Bedroom Flat, i.e. A bedroom and living room. We have got 3 kids and just early this year, we moved to our own house- a three bedrooms flat all ensuite. The master bedroom for me as the husband and my Wife's room and the other room for the kids, all tailored to suit our respective tastes.

But my mother-in-law, on coming to greet us recently was not comfortable with me and my wife's having different rooms, even when we have allayed whatever fears she may be nursing. According to her reasons, husband and wife living in separate rooms will not bond the love or marriage stronger compared to if we are living or sharing the same room. Apart from her, a few of my people too, including my foster mother have also raised a concern about, saying that the best for us was for both of us to share the same room so that there will be more bonding and attachment.

I really want to ask, which is better and is there anything bad about a husband and wife living apart in different rooms or it's better to share and live in one Room?

There is nothing wrong in couples having different rooms, but your wife is very free to be sleeping in your room

Unless you don't want her to sleep in your room that means you have to keep shuttling her room

I think why men gives their wives a room is because of their excess baggages which can liter every corner or the room beside women rooms are always busy with one load or another

You can get the right answers from your wife and ask her her opinion and how she wants it

Mkelv0106:
Take your child to a Primary health centre, they'll register ur child and treat him/her, if you're in Delta state, Treatment for under 5 years old children and pregnant women is free. Hold small thing too sha, na naija you dey.

I'm

marksburg:
Good morning family,

Please what could these be on his neck?

Just yesterday we observed a boil on his head and right ear too.

They started coming out after he had catarrh and my wife gave him some vitamin c serup.

Little boy is very active with no symptoms of any ailment but am still worried.

It comes with teething

GraciousGod190:
I don't know if I am witched or jazz, when I'm broke I sell as little as my spoon to iron condemn people... looking for everything that has iron in my house to sell... I have sold my tv two times...year 2015 And 2019 just because I needed money badly... This is really affecting me, I don't seem to have properties because of this. People who stay around are starting to talk, I have tried several times to stop but I can't....the problem is I see new stuffs I buy as a fall back option whenever I'm broke.. please how do I change this living of mine.
Lalasticlala I need help

If not drugs and womanizing, tell me what makes you go broke

Ladymaceral:
Even when I'm not showing it, I'm so worried.
My husband is really stubborn and wouldn't listen.

He has been on loan with some people, which he refused to pay back.
He gradually migrated to loan app some months ago. He's currently owning about 5 loan app and they've started threatening him.
He borrowed to fund his bet nija (sport betting) which has been the only problem in our home.

Since two days, he has been so cold. I know he's in a big problem. He finally opened up this morning that he borrowed 37k altogether, but due to default, everything is 87k as at today.
I ignore him and pay deaf ears to it because I've been warning him about loaning money from app.

I don't ask him for money in this house, because he doesn't always have to give and I told him not to ask me as well.

The truth is, I have up to this amount to give him before they start sending those self deforming messages to his contact.
But one thought is telling me not to involve myself in his disobedient.
I'm so sad because many of my family people will also get these messages.
Is going to be so shameful.

Please, what would you advise? Could it be this is a way to change him for good after the embarrassement ?
Matured mind please

Just leave him, let him deal with it

He knows what he is doing and he is doing it so that you can rescue him yet he will go back to that same shit

Forget about what your family will say, the earlier they know what he did, the better for them to advise him

You are carrying family load and still want to help a chronic debtor pay his bills that you didn't benefit from, how do you want him to change if you keep bailing him out

Use that money to pay school fee's and other debts waiting for you