Psalme91: We are blessed with seven children girls and boys and I have been on family planning after having my twin boys last year in October. But I am surprised that the contraception has failed and I am now 4 weeks pregnant with baby number 8. I don't really want to have this baby because my hands are full with kids and chores I have been doing it all alone since I don't have any house help ( any girl I bring to my house my husband will sleep with them) I have decided not to bring anyone else to stay with us. He is still cheating and doesn't really have my time or our children times . When I has our boys after 5 girls I tought everything will change and he will stop cheating but it has been worser than that. I don't want to bring another child to this world to suffer like the others and I want to terminate the pregnancy as soon as possible without him knowing but I don't know if it will be a very good thing to do. Please advice me if I should go ahead or not ?
Advicing you on what to do with that pregnancy is not the issue
The issue is, he will keep pregnanting you and you will continue to carry family load until you faint
What's actually wrong with you that you can't say no to sex, especially on your ovulation period
What makes you think you can satisfy him with sex
His case is different in the sense that, he doesn't have financial responsibilities and you have proved to him that you can cater for the family
Now tell me, what savings plans do you have with all those loads on your head
By the way, what role does he plays in the family, nothing, that's why he wants sex steady
The moment he has school fees, house tents and feeding to face
Patrioticbreed9: My DOG is nine months old due to the facts its a caucasian its already big(mature) i trained the dog as a in house dog, 24/7 it always indoors. But of recent i noticed a sudden change in her behavoir, so i was advicd to let her walk free outside.
Now the problem is, in our estate we are fenced three house per fence(block) we share car park and other basic amenities. In our block this serial old rapist dog. I usualy notice the dog and mine together but since they were cool together who am i to put sand in their garri. I caught them one day in a mating position, initialy i was worried because am not ready to start traing puppies but still i let them be.
It wasnt untill i discoverd that they were not mating rather the stupid dog was just pining my dog head to floor for wickednes and due to the hand i used in training vera she cant fight back. She has close to 3 injuries in body which is another expence on me.
Should i resume keeping her inside or i complain to my neighbore who is an eldery family man?
Well just let him know what happened and inform him that you will cage your dog when his own is out and you will like him to cage his own when yours is out
Iamhero: I’ve been in a relationship with this girl exactly one year ago and she is very young she is 19yrs old now, I’ve never found her cheating because I connected her WhatsApp with my PC for the past 4months ago and she didn't know about it. But two weeks ago I noticed that she was chatting with a man on her WhatsApp and this man is an old man like a 50yr-old upward, I was confused I didn't ask her about it. She came to me last week Monday and she was on a call with the man and immediately she saw me enter the room she quickly hangs up the call and I asked her who she was talking to and she told me she was talking to her dad, I said okay, after that I noticed she was on her WhatsApp and I quickly took my PC and check her recent chats then I saw the man asking her where she is and she told the man she was in her female friend’s side, I still didn't say anything to her I didn't let her know anything, after 3days I checked her WhatsApp again and I saw my girlfriend sending the videos they made inside the man’s car to him and the man was like I am happy to see you today! And the man asked my babe when both of them will have time to sleep together and my babe told the man that he should be patient with her till she was done with her exam and the man agreed. Now to cut the long story short, last week Tuesday she came to me and I took her to the restaurant to eat and she was trying to make a video with me, as usual, she always did but this time I'm not happy with her and I just forced myself to smile and made the video with her, then my mind told me to check her WhatsApp but I don't want her to know that I want to check her phone and I was patient till we get home back, then I took my PC and check her WhatsApp chats, I saw her telling the man that the man should not worry she will meet with him on Sunday and she will sleep over and she will have fun with him. The one that pained me most was that she was telling the man she will give him all kinds of styles for him and the man was very happy and even sent her money, at this moment I want to talk and ask her because I was very angry but I still calm myself and I didn't even tell any of my friends about it, I now told her that I have a special place I wanted to take her to on Sunday and I want her to have it in mind, she immediately frowned her face and told me she was going to a naming ceremony with her mother on Sunday and she even told me to ask her mom, I knew she was lying and she was going to that man but I insisted that we must go out together on Sunday and I even told her I was taking her on a mini-vacation and she was happy because she likes to go on vacation, now she agreed but later she chats with the man and gave him some excuses and she told the man she will come to him on Saturday instead and sleep with him till Sunday morning and the man agreed. On that Sunday very early in the morning I called her mom and asked her to help me give her phone to her because I was calling her number and her number wasn't going through but her mother told me she was sleeping and I said okay and I hanged the call then later she calls me and we talked, I told her to chat me on WhatsApp that I wanted to tell her something and she said okay, I did that to gain access to her WhatsApp and I saw her telling the man that she has gotten home at 7 am and I saw the man complimenting her that she really enjoy her and this time I was very very sad to the extent that I was crying because I thought this girl is the right person for me to marry because I haven't found any shit with her for the past a year we have been dating and I always take care of her based on my power and my current situation, I changed her phone 1 months ago and I always gave her money every week to make her hair, and when am broke I always let her know that I don't have much on me and she will even advise me not to think much that everything will be fine. I know her mother knows about that man because from her chat I always read sometimes she does tell the man to drive to her house and come and check on her and she lives with her mother, she came to me last week Sunday that same day she came from that man and I didn't even let her notice that I know everything I just keep all the pains in me and act like nothing wrong but I left her inside the house and went out to my friends side just not to be seeing her face that day and I make sure I didn't make fun with her till she left my side for their house, I'm really heartbroken now and I'm confused I don't know what to do, I'll be happy if you guys can tell me what to do. Thanks for reading ��
Having gone through the pains of knowing her plans and executing her plans with her man
What kind of advice would you want us to give you
Well if you want it, tell her how you connected her chats to your PC and monitored every conversation she has with that man
Show her the prove and at that moment
Tell her that you are done with her
If you can't be loyal as friends, in marriage you can't even be faithful
But if you can't leave her to go meet someone that does more than you do for her
Keep enduring and be prepared to ensure more, until she birth another man's child for you
Demigod22: Good evening guys. Please I am posted to Yobe State for NYSC and initially I wanted to stay because I love adventure and doing crazy things, but right now I don't even enjoy the camp.
We are about 1300 boys and we have only 200 girls, total we are 1500 Corp members. Today, the camp commandant warned us that hugging and shaking girls will put us in danger. More than half of the Corp members want to redeploy although the staff are convincing us to stay, but this Sharia law and the religious beliefs and all these things are making everything boring.
Our social activities are limited, no alcohol, no mingling with girls, don't do this don't do that. I am hoping to find a good media outlet like radio station or television station to serve in the State capital, but these experiences and stories are really scary and threatening.
I don't want to go in detail but from what I wrote above, I need an advice from you. I don't really have anywhere in mind to redeploy to, I am really confused right now, I am thinking of Oyo State but I have no idea. Please help me and recommend any State for me apart from Abuja and Lagos.
Don't reveal my identity please, I really need this advice, and thanks Demigod for accepting to help me out with suggestion.
Meaning you have another motive for your one year service
You were posted there to serve and show how discipline you are and not to chase women
nazicartel: I thought he was told to report to the police station for questioning . Abi police don leave the case?... I have never liked this boy for ones. God forgive me
I am yet to see what is good about this guy
Why are people hypering him, with his facial look alone, one may not want to know him
Metrix147: We Took Her To Hotel, Drug Her Yoghurt, Stab Her To Death And Sell Her Baby For N150K - Abia Murder Suspects Confess (VIDEO)
Two suspects arrested in connection with the killing of a 21-year-old nursing mother, Chimhurumnaya Udeh have confessed killing the deceased, saying they only administered eight pieces of piriton tablets to make her fall asleep before stabbing her to death, ABN TV reports.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4q88VnemR0Y The victim was killed in a room at Merry Home Hotels Ogbor Hill Aba on 15 April, 2022 by the suspects who also took her 11-month-old baby away.
In his confessional statement during the parade at police headquarters in Umuahia, one of the suspects, David Ogwo Orji, 21, a native of Ugwueke in Bende local government area of Abia State said the deceased was his girlfriend.
He had lured her into the hotel where he along with his accomplice, Chimaobi Anyim Kalu had concluded plans to kill her and sell her baby for N150,000
He said one Chukwuemeka James who is at large currently has facilitated a buyer for them who is ready to pay N150,000.
While claiming that it was not his intention to kill the lady before abducting her baby to sell off, he said Chimaobi Anyim Kalu was the one who threatened to kill him inside the hotel room if he fails to stab the deceased to death while she was fast asleep.
Upon his refusal, Chimaobi helped him in hitting the bottom of a broken glass cup to stab the deceased where she died instantly before he (David) made away with the 11-month-old baby to meet an already waiting buyer.
elimsun: Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors. I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home. I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays. Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way. Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend. Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!
I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!
Imagin the pressure you are going through form both ends
Where do they want you to get automatic job
Are they not seeing uoir progress in the family
Your girl friend own is a small case, if she can't cope she can leave after all you are caring for her education
As for your mum, just don't challenge her, just tell her that you are searching and if she sees any she can link you up
Don't leave the one you already have for the one you don't even know how it's going to be
I think you are spending much on them that's why they feel you can get a bigger one and spend more
If you stop that job, you may not be able to survive the situation that will come up pls
You still need the job while they get another one to replace it
Missionaire: He didn't force himself on her. They had been abstaining from sex for about 2 months and it was in a spur of the moment. If the lady wasn't receptive to it and she protested but he continued still, then I would have bashed him. But she didn't and I would excuse both of them on the rationale that it was a moment of weakness for them both.
But that's not the issue here. Because someone did something that didn't go down well with you doesn't mean you should accuse them of something they didn't do or or query them for something they didn't say they did. You are working with assumptions and it will do you great harm in future if you continue this way. Stop preempting. Work with what is stated and not what you assume. Assumption is the lowest level of intelligence.
Hongkongfukid: Pro version of previous Tecno phone is simply better than the immediate next version. Check the specs for google Spark 5 pro is better than spark 7 Spark 7pro will probably be better than spark 8.
Purple2003: I have my own place... The only reason I came here this month was to put pressure on him with my presence and because I don't have any money left on me to pay bills
See if this man doesn't have a penny and have no hope of getting anything, honestly stay there for a year, you won't get anything
Inform your families and his, at least let them be aware, I know they will tell you to be calm.
Then you will ask them to tell you how long they want you to wait, whatever he says concerning the time frame, accept it
Just leave and go, consider that money to be gone
Start a fresh, a time will come you will collect something that worths more than that money from him
It will take you long ohh, but that time will come
Some people don't have conciense neither do they have shame
Metrix147: Police Parade Two Suspects Who Killed 21-Year-Old Woman In A Hotel In Abia, Sold Her 11 Months Baby For N150K
Abia state police command has paraded 25-year-old Chimaobi Anyim Kalu of no. 44 Nwogu Street, Ngwa Road, Aba and his accomplice, 21-year-old David Ogwo Orji of Umunkama Roundabout, Ngwa Road, Aba in connection with the killing of 21-year-old Chimhurumnaya Udeh, female a native of Edda in Ebonyi State, ABN TV reports.
She was killed at Merry Home Hotels Ogbor Hill Aba on 15 April, 2022, and her baby boy of about eleven months old taken away, Commissioner of Police in Abia State, CP Janet Agbede told newsmen during the parade of the suspects at police headquarters in Umuahia on Monday.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA3wurtGN-s Narrating the incident, the Commissioner of Police said on 16th April, 2022 at about 0010hrs, one Felix Abengowe the proprietor of Merry Home Hotels Ogbor Hill Aba reported that an unidentified female corpse with a sharp cut on her neck region was found in one of his hotel rooms.
According to her, police detectives on arrival at the scene, were further informed that the suspects escaped with the baby boy of the deceased Chimereobioma Silver, 11 months old after killing her.
The CP added, "Furthermore, between 15 and 16 May, 2022 upon information, the above suspects were arrested in connection with the case. It was discovered that both of them are motorcyclists from Ugwueke in Bende Local Government Area of Abia state. Chimaobi Anyim Kalu resides at No. 44 Nwogwu Street, off St. Dominics street, Ngwa road Aba while David Ogwo Orji lives at Umunkama roundabout off Ngwa road Aba.
DOWN2HeartLoved: I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with
Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different
The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.
Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.
She has lots of brothers
She always calls me a small boy
She doesn't even care now, even if I die
Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,
Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.
Am shocked this is happening to me.
Am very sure your family warned you against her but you went ahead
Now this one you are seeing is just the beginning, you will likely see the one that you won't be able to say it out
Now that you have moved out of the house
Decide what you want
Recouncile with your family that's the first thing to do
If you want to do the rest, they will hasten it for you, just tell them what you want
Jubal01: I was at home last Friday when my elder called me to ask if i am interested in teaching, to which i answered yes. She then said i should come to the school right away to see the proprietor and the principal.
The principal during our parley told me that he had gotten a lecturing job and they are looking for his replacement. Wooow!
He asked if i have taught before and about my experience. I told him i have 9yrs experience. U couldnt believe what he said next.
he told me congratulations Mr. Principal straigth forward! That Was how i got a job o! The school has a population of 822. So it's quite a big school.
i am in my new office already. I pray God will help those that are also job hunting. Help me celebrate pls. I am not there yet, but i pray this will be a stepping stone for me.
#FAVORED #GRACED
Congratulations, God bless your new job and keep you safe their
Any group of people that want to spoil your job will fight against themselves
I one advice Be up right no matter the situation
Be open to all and be transparent
If any one comes to gossip to you about another person, listen to the gossips but don't confront
Use principle and diplomacy to handle such information
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
You have to withdraw all the curses you have made to your self out of frustration
Your dad has always been a lazy man, now you know what your mum went through
So brace yourself up
Who is that girl you came home with
If you came home with your girlfriend, then you are the one making yourself go into frustration and depression
Which do you prefer, to feed another man's daughter at a very poor level of your status or to bring yourself out of poverty and struggling that you are facing
If the first born is going through all these, what do you think will be the fate of the other children
And who do you think they will come to when dad can't do beyond school fees
Your case is like a disabled man using walking sticks yet backed an able woman just because you don't want her to suffer but you are suffering already
Born2winnx: Hello all My girlfriend wants me to wear same native attire to her niece wedding on Friday. I thought she was joking when she suggested it last week, because I don't even plan on going due to my busy schedule. But to my surprise she's just came to my house with some yards of the material she bought with her money.
Though I appreciate her good gestures, but I don't think it's right.. We are not married. What will her people say when dey see me with her like that because her father, mother, brothers and sisters will be there, not talking about her extended families.
I had to confide with a friend and he told me blantly that it is a set up, I should abort. That he had witness a similar case in a party when a guy was behaving as if he had paid his girlfriend bride price...what happened was the guy didn't leave the way he came. I won't want that to happen to me but before I decide I like to hear from you all.
relationship is 3months I don't know her family house, talkless to know who born her.. not yet ready to.
After some guys will say that women have fish brain
Just look at the smart thing she is planning
We all know that her plans is to show you to her family as the next future groom
The issue now is
Wether you want to marry her or not
Don't wear uniform with her when going or collect the materials and wear any other cloth
I hate people using indirect ways to do things
Come out straight let me understand what you are planning
Adeleketoyin: My people please I need your advice.
I'm having a lil loggerhead with my Fiance.
My fiance works in a company, which doesn't give him time to come home or live in his rented apartment for long. I currently run a confectionery shop in my father's house.
My Fiance however wants to have a joint account with me when we get married soon in this my confectionery business. According to him, he'll support me, to help him get free in the future to stop his salary work and probably start another business without affecting the family.
But I don't want to have any joint account or partner with anyone in this my confectionery business. I want my business without any check or partner. He's insisting on joint account to run the business and its getting into our relationship.
Please what do you advice?
What has uoir source of income hot to do with him, I mean why should your source of income be needed for his future plans
How are you sure he is not into the relationship because of his intent
Tell him openly that you don't make profit and as such you can't risk the survival of the little one you are doing
I'll make this as brief as possible. I teach in a school where the owner uses his father's compound, back flats. His family lives in front apartment.
Some months ago, last year precisely, i had an issue with his sister, last born, and i decided to avoid her totally to prevent future occurrence. I face my job and do it well.
We the teachers observe that the family always call their son to report any issue, especially if we faltered in some cases. It was getting too much.
So on that day, exactly two weeks ago, we were asked to oversee the students sporting activities, done in front of the school compound. I was walking out with my colleague and we were discussing something we both saw on social media, about gistlover. The sister overheard it and believed we were talking about her, calling her gistlover.
She walked up to me and confronted me in a harsh manner. I tried explaining to her that we weren't referring to her, but she wouldn't listen and before you know it, we were exchanging words. I said a lot because I was angry that she singled me out to confront, when we were two discussing the issue.
She was telling me to get out and i was sooo angry that I used the f word on her. Later, her parents came back and she reported me to them. Without calling to hear my side of the story, they both told their son to send me away. The mother even said that wherever she saw me, she would strip me naked. Their son my boss came, me and my colleague were called to say what happened,we did, then my boss told me to go home and stay put for a while.
After a week,he called and told me my services were no longer needed, that he made his own private investigation from the students and they confirmed I used the f word on his sister. I am not innocent. I admitted my fault, but he refused to temper justice with mercy. He promised to pay me for this month, but my reputation is stained. AGAIN.
Considering the fact that I had some issues with a previous school two years ago, very close to this one. There I resigned on my own. Now everybody is looking at me like I am a bad person. I AM NOT. I try to be sooooo nice and polite, but people always take advantage of that to look down on me. I am extremely humble to a fault, even hubby says I present myself as mumu to people too much.
Is it a crime to be of small stature? I am 39yrs of age and this girl I had an altercation with, she is in her early 20's. I felt so disrespected because of how she confronted me, even poking her fingers in my face in the presence of the students, so I lost my temper. I didn't mean to. Now people are looking at me somehow. I don't feel like waking up in the mornings because I wonder how I would face the day.
I NEED A JOB, that will help me heal from this trauma. Graduated 11 years ago, Chemical Engineering, University of Benin. But I still don't have a good job, I have been teaching to hold body, but I am fed up.
The salary is sooooo small, compared to the work load I was handling. I would love to work in a good company, but nobody, no one is willing to give me a chance. I am depressed daily. God should just use a good person to help me, wipe my tears. Sorry for the long write-up.
Just learn to calm down and you will be fine
No matter how humble you are, you must as a matter of fact, learn how to control your anger, Wether you like it or not
I repeat, go and learn anger management
Use this opportunity to talk to God, he is preparing another job for you
But you must learn how to swallow words thrown to you especially from your place of work and especially where it is family business
Alaigbopress: I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.
After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.
Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.
This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.
I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.
WHY AM I WRITING THIS I am writing this to advise my fellow guys. Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.
Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.
Thanks for the apology,
They are not heartless, they want to flex as their hormone is at its peak
So when you come across them, just leave them to rock the way they choose to rock
With time they will realize that it makes no sense
pozehnani: Somebody help me before I lose my mind.
I've been with this guy for some time now. When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.
This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes. We started seeing each other.
Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.
Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.
I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.
Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.
How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .
I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine. I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different
Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.
Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.
Why you wan kill yourself to convince sohow much you love him
How are you even sure he realy loves you, not that he wants you to be his bed mate
Demobbb: Help me please. Me & my husband got into an argument. He said something that made me think he is putting a female friend’s feeling over mine
I guess i got so jeolosy & so angry withought thinking my immediate response was to raise my hand as it to throw something i was holding at him. I quickly realised what i was about to do & i stopped myself. I didnt hit him.
He was shocked too & he just said what kind of a wife is this. He also stated that action shows that i dont value him. I apologised yesterday but i woke up today feeling regret, and shame. Should i apologise again? But then the initial argurment i still feel like he was in the wrong?
My marriage means so much to me. We have come a long way from not having a cent , gave up my career to support his own career, raise our kids. Now he is a successful man . But i feel its now in vain.
Whatever that made you raise your hand, Wether you hear him or not, is as a result of provocation which you would have avoided no matter the anger
Now you have to keep apologising until your conscience frees you
Become more loving and caring to win his heart back, if you know that you still value him and the marriage
PavillionEnergy: The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.
In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.
I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.
I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods. She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.
In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.
I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money. I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.
She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.
How do I get the money back?
Is either you wait till infinity to get the money or consider the money gone
Ayanwukoma: 80% of handsome men, I mean men who are truly handsome are lonely and bored most days of their life because people mostly try to stay away from them...
Women assume they have a lot of girls flocking around them which is not always true.
Some men are afraid or jealous to be friends with them so as not to cause problem with their wife/fiancees/girlfriend.
Same can't be said for pretty girls, who men flock around with.
True or false
Lalasticlala Seun
They are heart breakers since they can't be faithful
Family › Re: I Want To Abort This Pregnancy Without My Husband Knowing by frozen70(f): 12:34am On Jun 22, 2022
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