hello all, I created a thread of how my sister came home after so many years with the virus, I'm scared to contact it along with my kids not just sharp objects but mosquitoes around the vicinity.
the thing is if mosquito bites her and it bite me won't I have the virus?
can mosquito transfer the virus?
that's what I would love to know...yes she's our blood and we ready to take care of her..but our safety is what I need to guarantee.
Seun lalasticlala
If mosquitoes bite can infect every body then we will all have the virus
But I'd you have a better place to relocate your family to avoid being infected through sharp objects especially when kids are involved
You can relocate your family
But you guys have to make sure that your sister gets the emotional and financial support she needs all through
toujurs: Wisdom. I believe you are married, you should be. With the way you think. You have a pure heart.
I pity all these ladies saying nonsense here, i think that is why most of you easily gets dumped during relationship. Bitterness clouds success. And could lead to depression.
Yes am married and that's exactly what I do uptil now and I did not regret it because I know what it is to be responsible
When you pay family bills, you feel a sense of responsibility and guess what, women who supports their husband's never lack because God already knows what you do with the money
I don't believe in leaving all for the man
What if it happens that he can't provide again,
Where will the woman starts from at that point
Of course it will be a catastrophy for the family to survive
That's why if you want your hand to be clean, wash with both hands
Kollins11: It doesn't look attractive and I'm sure it's not delicious. If I marry you I will definitely bring in my sidechick to come cook for me in your presence.
Adonis86: Please is it a crime to decide not to marry? My mother have stop receiving anything from me because she insisted I must get married, Am the only son in the family of 6 girls,am the second child, Am 37 years, there are some certain things that made me not want to get married, ,am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies, Can't I make decision for my self , I don't need a woman in my life, she always cry anytime I come home that she need grand children,all my sisters have been begging me I don't know what to do,how do I go about this, should I stop coming home? as a matter of fact my sisters always come to my house with their girlfriend and she will tell me ,this one is still single oo.https://www./igboistandfriends/permalink/3305866466311474/?flite=scwspnss
Get someone pregnant let her have the baby
Wether you want the child or not is inconsequential
But remember that mama is right because you are an only son
Just do that for her and continue your single life
But remember you may be alone at old age if you refuse to do the needful
FullBlastLight: Tears Flow As Quintuplet Brothers Carry Their Only Dead Sister’s Coffin – Photos
A quintuplet girl being brought to her grave was captured in a heartbreaking photo.
As they transported their dead sister’s body to be buried, the kids could be seen crying. Throughout the whole funeral procession, they also appeared shocked and lost.
When their only sister passed away from natural causes, the brothers were shocked. They started crying uncontrollably since they had no idea what to do with themselves.
A full family was spotted carrying the casket while donning matching dresses and veils.
As they carried their sister’s casket, the four siblings were observed sobbing in front of onlookers. They attended the event with their parents at their sides.
They were unable to take it anymore, so they assisted their parents in carrying their only deceased sister’s glass coffin. There was one female and four boys. The only girl passed away, leaving behind four twins.
Osinachi died on April 8, 2022 following widespread allegations by her children, family, and colleagues that she was battered to death by her husband.
The husband of the late Ekwueme crooner, Peter Nwachukwu, was alleged to have brutalized her to death.
Following the allegations against Nwachukwu, the police had arrested him and was charged for allegedly committing the crime that contravenes Sections 104 and 379 of the Administration of Criminal Justice Act, (ACJA) 2015, Section 221 of the Penal Code and the Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act (VAPP) 2015.
Amid the allegations, Nwachukwu had denied brutalizing Osinachi to death, stressing that she died of lung cancer.
Despite his denial, the Federal Capital Territory, FCT, High Court had remanded Nwachukwu in Kuje Correctional Facility.
However, the singer, who began her last home journey, was on Saturday laid to rest.
ThisisBuhari: This particular side of my farmland fence failed for the second year running as a result of rain water. The back of the fence is sloppy, so all the rain water coming down from behind lodge at the back of the fence. So last year after the fence failed, we constructed four concrete pillars, and still it failed yesterday again. Although, someone suggested that I do a drainage to pass through the farmland but I am not disposed to the idea because of reptiles that may be gaining access into the land, so we didnt do that.
Engineers in the house, please what do you advice I do to stop this recurrence.
Thanks
Start with a concrea cast foundation above four coach level, meaning that after the concreat cast, you start with block work up ward
Still place concreat pillars in every 10ft
Let it be deep so that it will have a firm grip to the soil
Then that port of the fence, create a water channel to remove any water that may want to lodge there and create more channels to lead the water out
NOETHNICITY: I love the line of ur comment so I'll give you somemore details. My spendings monthly, if I factor in my own extended family and her own extended family, also if I include school fees for kids and house rent, cooking gas, car maintenance, me eating out, and other stuff I buy for the house, sometimes its around the threshold of 350k. But in festive months, like next month that we will have sallah, I'll spend a total of nothing less than 500k to 600k. Do you know what scares me silly? It's my salary actually. My salary is just 180k. But I'm fortunate to be working in a place that is structured to bring in an extra 1m monthly. But she(wife) is not aware of this because I deliberately kept this information from her. I know the kind of person she is. She wouldn't mind us living like millionaires even my salary is only 180k. Infact we already living like that. So I'm seriously working on setting up a bakery for family expenses. And I hope it will be a successful venture. Thanks
Fantastic, I like your style
Keeping the extra source of income away from her was your saving grace
So keep it up and plan it well, so that no matter the situation, you and your family will remain in the same stand and level you have brought them to
desireoge: her self esteem I gues . The men on this forum have low IQ true true
The women are becoming more independent so the men should brace up and support them and stop looking for cheap eye service
If am a man, I will prefer a strong woman who will assist me to run my home with dignity and respect on both sides than a woman that will be submissive yet am over burned
Kingkum: But i give thanks to god, my plan is to sell my tv or strong decorder tomorrow to settle the last man on my neck and atleast buy little food in the house. i learnt my lesson already and will not try borrowing from people again with the aim of huge profit. To anybody reading this, don't be greedy in whatever you do so as to avoid my kind of situation.
So sorry about your loss It's not greed it's business
Yinksy09: We all know some parents still don’t believe in saving money in banks. Some still use the traditional means of saving while others have bank accounts but prefer to save using other means like Ajo.
Now how do I convince my parents to start trading cryptocurrency. Have you ever wondered what it'll be like trying to explain how cryptocurrency works to parents who don't already know about it?
They will say this one is another Ponzi scheme oo
What is the best way to explain to them and how hard do you think it'll be before they'll fully understand it?
Stay away from the little they have They have been saving the way they have been before you were born
Novemberaura: Is there anyone here married to a feminist lady.
I need inputs.
What are the challenges and benefits. Is it really as awful as people say it is
Why do feminist ladies end up not married or have failed marriages.
There is nothing wrong with getting married to feminist
No woman wants to be relegated or treated like a slave in her own world, marriage or relationship
Women respects men who loves them
If a man knows how to respect himself, he won't even get any challenges from his wife
There are men full of pride, they just want women to be seen but not heard
If Okonjo Iweala husband had silencend his wife, no one would have known that she was full of talent, look at the position she is holding that put the family in a top level
Would the husband wants to remind her that she is just a woman and shouldn't be heard, No
He gave her freedom to go to the field of men and struggle with them
She is more famous than her husband yet, her husband is a neuro surgeon but they are examples of good marriage
Pierocash: Don't try entering a relationship with a feminist,not to talk of marriage. They are cursed with ego ,and will never submit. They act like you are both dragging for supremacy.
ebuka10box: This time last year ,I lost my dad and a month later I lost my mum,things have been tough cause I've been literally trying to carry everyone along so everyone depends on me. I do everything out of love and sacrifice but I noticed it's just me against the world,no body helps me even at dying moments. My siblings are disappointing me cos they are living a very care free life,my only bro doesn't do what I ask him to do whenever I send him funds,even if he does it finally it could take months . My elder sister tells people that I don't send them money so I learnt she goes bout begging for funds and this really broke me. I send over 70 percent of my earnings every month and I'm on serious debt now which I forfeited and ready to face the consequences (loan company). God knows only few persons can work for another to be gaining,I do all out of love and the fact that money is something I bliv its meant to be spent and I pity my siblings due to the loss of our parents. I've got barely 6 months remaining in my contract and I've not saved a dime and my siblings ain't making me happy at all. Im planning to focus on my life a little cause I'll be back at the end of the contract.My siblings were advising me to sell my mums car or landed property but I declined cos I've lived this selling lifestyle before ,whatever u sell is gone forever and stormy days will still be there when I'm back to Nigeria. Is it advisable I just leave them (siblings) at this moment and focus a little on my life . Remember people will talk if I come home empty handed, moreover I don't think my siblings appreciates the effort I put in.
You have tried now use this remaining period to take are of yourself
NOETHNICITY: Please house, I use God almighty to beg una. I need urgent and sincere advice here please. Because I might make a terrible decision soon.
I've a family of 3kids, the eldest is 5 and the youngest will be 2 next month. My wife's younger sister lives with us. One the first of this month, I gave my wife 80k for for food in the house. Please take note, that that money does not include provisions, like milk and milo and drinking water. At the end of every month, I spend about 30k stocking the house with all the provisions and things like all the soap we are gonna need for the month. In addition to this, I am responsible for making sure that a bag of rice is always available at all times. And also most days I don't eat breakfast before leaving the house. So I end up eating just dinner at home. My wife just told my this morning that the feeding money is exhausted
Please I want advise, I use God beg una
Edited! Note that in addition to all this, I buy bread for the house every 2days because my kids take tea as breakfast every morning. I also give my wife's sister 10k every month for her recharge car. And some weekends I buy things like chicken, fish and turkey just to augment and make the family happy. Daily I spend on average 1k buying fruits for house. Yet 80k is not enough
If she is not working get her a teaching job or any other job you guts can get at the moment, let her start contributing or share responsibilities to her
Let's see if the money will be enough
This hard time, you are spending all these a month, what happens when they become teenagers
Why is it that every time I masturbate, I fall sick? Please, I need logical explanations.
The interesting thing is, even if I have sex everyday for a whole week, I don't fall sick. In fact I get healthier.
At a point, I was servicing three girls together and doing several rounds daily. I never fell sick. But once I try to masturbate, its a combination of fever, sore-throat, diarrhea, fatigue etc.
I've searched Google for answers but webpage is filled with desperate people (especially the westerners) claiming that masturbation is perfectly healthy and there's no scientific proof that it has any harm.
You need to go and study how many nerves that are surrounded in that area and you will know that your palm and fingers are causing great harms to it
Stop it if possible before you collapse while on it
A man's life is connected to that region of your body and what you are doing is over working your organs especially your heart
Demigod22: Yobe State have 17 local government areas and NYSC is only functioning in 10 because of insecurity. Even travelling within the State is risky as bandits usually kidnap people and the extremists are threatening. I have to take caution.
Health › Re: This Is Why I Can't Live With My Sister Who Has HIV by frozen70(f): 8:50am On Jun 26, 2022
her self esteem I gues 
. The men on this forum have low IQ true true