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gentleguy1975:
Good afternoon, nairalanders,

Met this lady some months ago, and I like everything about her, but, the problem is her genotype status which is ss, should I go ahead and marry her? please help a brother

Thanks

Both of you are OK to go in terms of compatibility in genotype

The issue here is if you know that your happiness is with her then marry her and be there for her any time her crisis comes up

The good thing is that you will find happiness with her yet your children will not be SS

Romeomustdie:
Hello nairalanders, please read up and give me your advice in the end..

There is a saying that; the more you go, the more you see.' that is my situation at the moment..

There is this girl i've been toasting, she is too beautiful and just that type that will pass on the other side of the road and you will be like; that is my girl passing without been ask.. But now i know why she has not given me the chance to come in.

So yesterday night, she was passing and i called her as usuall and was asking her why she dosn't love me, but she told me that infact she loves me more than enything.. So i ask her what is the reason to why she has been turning me down and,

'These was her words'

let me be sincere with you.. Why do you always like dating girls that are from the marine kingdom, or don't you know that your ex girlfriend is from the marine kingdom? I told her to stop, that my ex gf was not from the marine kingdom..

She laughed and ask me, have i ever wondered why my ex gf always fall in any crusade groud she goes, or why her mumm never liked me or supported our relationship? The truth is that she is no friend to my ex, and i was like how did she no that, because my ex mum never liked me for one day, and i dated her daughter for four and half years. They call her my wife in my community..

She told me that my ex mum was a strong and real witch, and that she has tried many times to kill me, but that her daughter told her that if she hurt me, that she will kill herself and that was the reason i'm still alive today.. She told me that they have discussed about me multiple times in the marine kingdom, and that my ex gf have recieved many punishment and injuries in the spiritual world because of me, that if not for how that girl love me, i would not hav be standing here.. She said respect that you ex gf, she love u die, till today..

Of a truth, i kno that my ex loves me die, but how did she kno all this things, i was just looking at her like who really is this girl, and i ask her how did she know this things she is telling me, and then she told me she is from the marine kingdom.. At tat point, I just moved a litle bit backward from her, and she told me not to be afraid of her, that she is just like other person..

I ask her why did she tell me this, but she said i must never say it to any other person that she's from the marine kingdom, and that she told me all this things is because she just want to tell me.. She then came close, kissed me and left..

I have never seen anything that scared me as this before, so i was dating a girl whom herself and her mum was from the marine kingdom and to the point of even been discussed in their kingdom, i told myself..

I was blinded by love all this while, but that is not even my problem now, because me and my ex are no more. The problem is why did she tell me that she is from the marine kingdom, how did she get the mind to even say it to me.. If she did not tell me haven told me about my ex and her mum, i would not have suspected her to be one, as i would have tought that maybe she heard it somewhere else.. But she just said it to me clear that i'm also from the marine kingdom'

Nairalanders, i'm confused right now, please what should i do at this point, and what should i not do?

I need serious advice.

i don't need her love again, but should i contineu to answer this girl if she greet me again?

lalasticlala, mynd44.

You don't need to avoid her, just be friends with her and know very well that, you must not sleep with her
She has told you all you need to hear, just respect your self

Denvacandy:
Is this really normal, i will be 26years soon and i dnt have a beard atall, i am even less concern about it becoz na money dey my mind, but shey this thing normal like this, even small boys go dey call me name sometimes self nawa oo

It has to do with your gene

Ficient:
I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.

Why not be going there on visits to understand their life style, if you can cope relocating or not

Well even if you finally relocate there, just cooperate with your wife and don't go there to boss her

Be a good loving husband and father
Assist her where needed and happiness will be yours

Ebelelivinston:
Happy Sunday Nairalanders. I need advice from bankers in the house.

My father has been sick for quite sometimes now that he doesn't know where he is. We are three sons two daughters he has. Our mother passed away for a long time now.

My father has an account of which we his children know the password because he do send us to withdraw money atimes. Ever since he has been sick, my elder brother has been in possession of his phone and he has been making unnecessary transfers from our father's account. I got to know about the unnecessary transfer via the bank app I have on my phone. Is it possible for me to go to the bank and change the sim connected to the account to another sim without him knowing because I have all the bank details but am afraid the bank would notify him and if he gets to know, he will deal with me. I want to do it because he's spending the money uselessly and if my father gets well, he would be very mad at him.

Elders in the house what do I do plz?

Why not take your dad to the bank and make the complain, bank will block that ATM card and issue another one with another sum card and your brother will not have access to his statement, then he will opt out of getting alert or your own sum can be used for alert if your dad authorizes it

With this new ATM, your brother will not be aware of anythin

He wants that man to die before his time

He is a bad son

HardMirror:
It seems Nigerian girls are indeed created, designed, configured, trained, programmed, predetermined, orientated,... to collect collect and collect.

I started dating this girl and by our standards this girl is as good as they come. She is truly a good girl with good character. I cant be dashing her money, so I asked her to come and work for me. Already had 4 employees but her work experience would be valuable to us and honestly she has been an asset and worth the money i am paying her. But what surprises me is how she still manages to get me to buy food, airtime for her everyday ....

Naija girls.. una matter no be here

So far she is not forcing you and you are still doing it, no problem

ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Your ability to control yourself makes you a man and keeps you away from troubles

Same way if you can control your body, your third leg will never move

Sleeping with her even if it's just once, will help calm down your nerves but that just once could be a set up

So discipline yourself

mohims:
You are welcome. Compliments of the season

Same to you and I wish you a successful season

mohims:
God bless you for this.

Thanks my dear

youngdave78:
I was wondering if it's a most to take your tithes to church?

I feel satisfied giving the less privilege and the extreme poor people around me, than giving tithes to any Pastor

DjBigMoni:
Thank God for safe delivery, even though it was CS everything went successful.

So my mum came around for Omugwo first and ever since my wife had been having issues with her. it got to the extent my wife pulled a knife on my mum and I, she even fought my mum before she left.

So her mum now came around for Omugwo also and I have not been giving her face even despite she has apologised with my wife also and even her Dad. But I'm still finding it difficult to forgive her don't know why.

She went extreme and its difficult for you to guarantee your safety with her

She has to go to wherever your mum is and tender an u resolved apology with her parents along and her parents will witness the first and last threat she will ever give to any members of your family

But if she is so u fortunate that your mum has decided you won't go ahead with her again, that's the end

Amebong:
Thank you. I will do just that.

That's good

OLUPET009:
There is this lady we dated for like five months, before going out separate ways although we are still great friends. But before we started dating, there is a pastor friend (good) of mine who once ask out around March this year with the help of a senior Pastor who arrange the meeting between them, but she refuse giving some k-leg excuses. During the period of us been together, she took in but requested she aborted but I wasn't ok with it though. Just recently the Pastor friend call me and say they are getting along n preparing to marry her by next year. Wine has starting flying self. He even ask me of advise concerning the LADY. Meanwhile she is not aware that I know about their relationship. According to her she has dated three persons before me. Both of them are very close friends of mine. Should I tell Him the whole story And possibly save him or I should just close my mouth and watch how things play. I need mature advise please.

Wish them good luck and don't create problems for two of them

Since you can't marry her, let her follow who will marry her

We must learn how to mind our business

Idamond:
life is full of roses when you understand the keys

As make up makes a woman more beautiful so money makes an ugly man beautiful

Amebong:
All my life it's actually my first time to experience this sort of thing. I have been dating this girl for a while and things have been going well until we decided to knack. On that faithful evening, we knacked and sat and talked like two matured adults and talked.
The next day babe called me and was like I should stop talking to her and any kind of intimacy we had shared should be forgotten.
She even said she has a serious boyfriend and I should stay off her life.
I was shocked really.!!
What went wrong? Was I just used and dumped.?
I think she just wanted my body! Girls are farking cheats.!!!

For a girl to tell you such things, then there must be a good reason for her to do so

As it is, you don't need to ask her why

Just close her page and move to another chapter

ValCon888:
Let us put our thinking cap here.
This girl just woke up from a coma. And yet she was able to pinpoint the direction of the generator exhaust while she was inside the room.
An exhaust she said wasn't smoking at all.

Please interrogate that girl again.

There is nothing to interrogate, what other details do you want after reading this report

envoymedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CXgB3cRN1qR/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Blind love

Zico5:
I thought polygamy is not practised in Igbo land because of high dowry fee. Is it that the man married those women free of charge or he enchanted their parents. Wonder shall never end. But I don't understand the issue of burying him with car. Maybe someone can explain better.

Probably what he advised his family to do for him for his burial and such a son of Satan if they don't do it, he will torment them
Only God knows the agreement he has with Satan

Mokason288:
Hilarious

He will be driving in Hell

If you ask me I think it takes only wisdom to be married to 59 wives plus many concubines

Igbos are the wisest

Is not wisdom

He is a herbalist that claims to be son of the devil

His mystical charm alone is enough to pine his choice of woman around him

Catastrophic:
Greetings Ma,

Thanks. I recieved the alert on Sunday evening. Sorry for not informing you earlier on. I couldn't come online cos of my faulty phone. I wrote the exam yesterday. Thanks once again.

We thank God for his favour and mercies in our life
He will always be there for us

gaius01:
God bless you ma.
May you continue to receive favor as you have done to this young Chap.

Amen, God bless you too my dear

ashewoboy:
Silly celebrities. jumping on trends.

since adesua is a baby mama, I go like phvck her. sweet girl.

You just revealed your stupidity with this comment.

Wise up, Obi is no longer a boy

Knows:
which one is outer side? Must u out ur bed beside wall?

You can hang your bed, it's your choice

olasaad:
Mama de Mama seriously you are on point. This is how we roll

Lol, thanks dear
Those of us that have some experience will continue to guide the young ones

Dorcmass:
Anonymous.
so have been facing this problem since 2 week back,me and my wife have been making an attempt to bleep each other but all in vain
so last night i told my wife to tried out another way i.e we wil lay our child on the mat
and we can have time to enjoy our self on the bed
the funniest part of it is that the slowpoke child woke exactly 12:00am by the time me and my wife have unclothed
chaiii the boy started to cry and tried to come unto the bed
i was like what type of child is this
anyway we dont later do anything that night
this problem has be occuring and reoccuring and am fed up
any other method
lander please

Normally, father's sleeps outer side of the bed, mother always in the middle to prevent father's body movements that will affect the child and then the child will definitely sleep by the wall

This same position allows you to have contact with the mum

The mum being in the middle will serve dad on the left side and baby on the right side

But once that child gets to one year, pls change the child position before any act

The type of foam that you are using is an important factor in this game

If you are using those type of foam that sinks in the middle, the child may roll in the middle and that will be too risky during fun times

If you have a just normal bed, you must consider where to keep the child

But if it's a six by six bed, no cause for alarm

Favinzo:
Good day everyone!

So I completed my secondary school education in 2018, and I'll be starting college next year, to study Computer Engineering. My dad had bought me a laptop in 2017, when I was still in secondary school, but it started having issues about a year later and my dad spent a lot of money (about 50k) for repairs alone. He then gave up on the laptop and decided he would get me a new one soon. But it's been two years plus, and he is yet to give me a new one, because of some projects he has at hand.

Before the laptop started having issues, I had mastered everything, from typing fluently to operating the basic softwares such as Ms word, excel, PowerPoint, etc. After I completed my high school education, I started working in the church media unit, and in no time, I was the most preferred media personnel when it comes to scripture projecting, prayer points typing and more.

On July 17th this year, a man favoured me and gave me 160k to get myself a laptop. Since there are only mid-tier laptops at that price range, I decided that I'll keep the money, till when I raise about 200k extra to get a good laptop for 250k, capable of 3d animation which I desire to learn, and to also get myself a secondary monitor, mobile hotspot and a camera to start a YouTube Channel.

I've kept the money for about six months now. It's still intact because it's with my mom. But since it'll take time to save to that amount in order to add and buy the laptop, I have decided to invest the money in any business that will make me at least a 500k under six months. Is there any business that I can venture into?

I would really prefer online businesses that can be done with a mobile phone because of my health issues. But any business idea would still be appreciated!

Thanks!

If there is any magical business that will fetch you 500k out of your 160k, then everyone will invest in it

NemoDatQuod:
Lol! So it's probably those who can't make it at work who decide to be house husbands. I don't know if I agree with that because I will be very happy to be a house husband. Imagine the tons of hours I'll have inbetween school runs to research new and advanced tech products and to read the thousands of books I have stockpiled electronically? That will be magical. Even now, I do take some lenghty time off work every couple of years just so I can enjoy the freedom that comes with doing things other than work. So I will be a hard working house husband.

I love the last sentence, a hard working house husband

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Odor coming from in between my teeth with pain.

What could be wrong?[/color]

It's possible there is a hole in the teeth and it's already decaying

Meanwhile the odour you are passiving is from left over foods inside the hole

You may extract it or fill it

uyimen:
Good day,
Pls help me with ur advice , i know u wont be shy to tell me if am wrong.

I got married to my dream wife, she lived with a relative for 18yrs who she also called mummy, she have a biological mother, who saw her through school (university level) though she was living with this Aunty.

Problem started when i came to marry her , the Aunty was hostile, she kept coming up with issue to paint me bad. I was repeatedly called to come and explain irrelevant provocative issues sure as why i travelled to inform my wife biological mother of my wedding plans. After the bride price payment and rites duly performed, She still made me perform an additional party which she called a traditional marriage outing party in her compound. All these i did for peace sake. No one including family members, husband children or even my wife ,dear opposes her to caution her ..In all these my wife kept on saying *she stayed with her for 18yrs.*
Worst of all u latter gathered from friends that this said Aunty was laying curses on us during the marriage, that the marriage will fail and my wife will return to her with tales of martial wows.
Then she warned me to stop calling her mummy. In all these my wife was always in tears through the honeymoon.
I ignored just becos i knew after the marriage things will change. This Aunty feed my wife with all forms of manipulative desires to set us up. and even requesting feedbacks from her in some case, words here are not enough to explain all.

To my surprise two yrs into the marriage this said Aunty and her children are still key important figures in my wife live, they have access to her and my home at will, somethings they plan visits when am at work.

Each of there visits leave us in weeks of quarrels . now its me my wife blames.

Friends what do i do now, my wife insists that because of 18yrs of living with them so i should let go and pretend nothing ever went wrong.
Pls advise me.

Left for me, relocate to another area far from the so called Aunty and take charge of your family

Alternatively, seat your wife down at midnight, ask, her if she wants to be loyal to you or to her aunt. ?

If she says she wants to be loyal to you, then let her know that her aunt is influencing your marriage negatively and that, you don't like it

Don't fail to tel her that with the way things are going, this marriage may collapse and if it does, she will take the blame and if by any means this marriage breaks, that you will be done with her

Tell her that you don't want any visitor in the house with out your approval and if she violates, she will see part of the other side of you

Simple

If you can't take over your home, when will you do so ?

jaxxy:
Nobody is arguing that with u. Women are the pilllars so they should let the men be men.

We done hear, we will let the men be, the me also should use cotton bud to clean our ears not tooth pick

That's a proverb

Kuriosmynd:
This kind marriage can never happen with our current slay queens.
.
This girl is probably less exposed...cos gals no dey do this kine thing if you no geh money

That is a wrong assessment

The man was fit before the got married and had those children

You men should look for your class and grade when you want to marry