MidasO1: I can see how you've sunken and relegated to the valley of stupidity. that Frozen70 you just quoted can feed you and your entire generations... I can see how jobless nairaland has made you become. Wait Na Mariaangeles be this or her account has been hacked? you were once seen as a responsible girl on this forum, what later happened?
Lol, I just ignored his comments because he has nothing upstairs Thanks for the introduction
I have quite observed my neighbor and noticed that he's always bringing home side chicks to frolick with in his matrimonial home whilst the wife is away. You may ask how come I have been observing his movements; I am on my annual leave and spend alot of time inside my apartment. The annoying part is that he brings home ladies that his wife is more sophisticated than even after giving 2 children. I have prayed and wished that the wife bumps into them and let everything happen. The wife is too calm and nice to be treated like this by the husband.
Last week, the wife returned unexpected oblivious of what the husband was into but didn't catch the side chick as she passed through the back door and left.
I have been thinking of calling my neighbor to order to respect his wife by stopping his amorous affairs.
Please, should I call this man to order or mind my business?
Cc Seun
Just mind your business before you become a target
Omorotionmwann: It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....
I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted to graduate with a B.Eng...
I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyway cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....
Now I am Man supposed to be focus on his life and future but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!
IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?
NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE
sorry for the long post...Mynd44,Lalasticlala,Dominique,farano please help this thread to front page for more advice
At this stage, you have to discuss with every member of your family if mercy death will be an option
Whatever the family agrees on is what you guys will accept
akacomedyvideo: I saw my dear sexy wife that I marry because she love me and I love her back. I came home early for work and I had my wife screaming do it harder and a guy saying I'm tired.... And when I came inside slowly slowly slowly I first her panties on the flow and also another boxer's near my door then I quickly open the door then behold I saw this video on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tI60BGFUT8Q watch the rest of the story on this video don't miss
That means you have not been making love to her satisfaction
You need to upgrade, ask the guy you meet her with to put you through
Diligent1: Please my people assist me I don't want these people to disgrace me tomorrow. I promise to pay back on Tuesday I couldn't upload the messages.
Figger: And na factory work u dey advice make your brother do to get back on his feet and possibly get married, hmmmm...let me tell u, factory work is sh1t, can't even advice my worst enemy to try it. Those people would just use u and pay u peanut. He better look elsewhere and stir clear from anything called factory work. I talk from experience.
Solatpumpkim: My husband has an uncomplicated house before we got married. After we got married he moved to the UK and we continue building the house while his Dad goes there to supervise. One day his parent said their landlord ask them to move out of their rented apartment and they will like to move to our house. My husband told them they can’t as they house is still under construction and we are building it for our own personal use. He even went ahead to let them know that the money used to built the house is not just his but both his and his wife’s money, so they can not move there. We gave them money to rent another apartment. We kept asking when they will move, but they said they will and keep procrastinating the moving date. We got a call from them today saying that they have moved to our house. What do I do in this situation?
Since your husband already started the house before getting married to you, pls take it easy
Since you have been contributing to the building project since he got married to you and he has informed his parents that your money is there, they are already aware now, pls take it easy with them
The best option is for your husband to bring you over to UK
You did not marry in that family to drag property with them
Havesomesense: It is the duty of a man to provide for the family, women consider financially buoyant men for relationships.
Imagine if you lost your job/business or your income reduced drastically.
Will your wife love you? Will your wife be jovial with you? Will your wife give you her palliative as usual? Will she disrespect you in front of the kids and others? Will she watch you starve when she has food in the kitchen? Will she keep reminding you that you are not contributing anything? Will she start seeking other mens' attention? Will she Change?
I need honest answers.
Marriage is all about love and respect
If you ever love your wife and its obvious you have always loved her
No matter the hard times she will never berat you
But if you have been treating her like an option
That time is when she will give it to you every hour
Women don't forget negative treatment and tends to pay back no matter how long it takes
Handsomejok: I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old. After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me. After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch
Take her to your parent in laws drop her there collect their account number written on the paper and send whatever you think can sustain that child for the time being
Don't ever give them cash by hand
Witches and Ogbanjes always wants their daughters to inherit their mystic bad powers
WibusJaga: Kidnapping is fast becoming an easy way for criminals to make millions in Nigeria. We need to reintroduce public Firing Squad or beheading as penalty. Just catch one & set an example. Finish!
Almightyprosper: I need reasonable people to give me some advise here on how I can deal with such a huge fiasco, The money isn't really my problem but she cheat and she has never accepted once even though I've evidence. Is it appropriate to help her? Or help and give her road out0 of my life cause her cheating lifestyle has caused me more trauma than everyday.. This lady knew I had accident last week for God Men with experience I await your response
If you don't make use of your natural sense at this stage
jobportng: Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.
I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.
Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.
When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.
Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.
Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.
If you are prepared to share her with another man, then keep the relationship but make sure you use condom
When you are tired of the relationship that breaks your heart, that same heart will get solidified then you look for another woman
Kehindeaj78: I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?
Well they are your parents but should have informed you about it
Is it possible you build a small apartment for them in another land if you have the money
All the same, so far the rest members of the family knows that the lams and house belongs to you, just be careful with them
Dahustler007: Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time. My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
Experience is the best teacher, this is the right time to mend your ways, the worst us still coming if you don't drop those dirty habits
Render1234: Seriously, I can just pack into that house and have a roof over my head, I will be the happiest man in the world. What I will eat, God will provide. That's for sure.
Jayzx: My girlfriend/fiancee just showed me the blood genotype result. I am actually AS and I insisted she do her own too which later revealed she is AS too. We so much love each other but I think that will be the end. Or guys, please let me know if there is any solution
For those of you that have AS genotype Always know your partners status before falling in love
I don’t know if this is the right thread for this but, I’ll still drop it tho.
The question is I’m 25 I work in a multimedia firm like nta and ait I’m what they call the camera guy, salary isint much but 100 a month, aside that I have my own photo studio where people come for thier wedding bookings and photo shoots I employed someone to manage that one while I work monthly I still go there most times and it’s been booming lately. Now I still stay with my parents and I’m planing on moving out and getting my Own apartment but I know it I’ll hurt my Mom cause she’s still on to me to go to school and get my certificate first before working for anyone,
I’ve played deaf ears and it has worked for me, my question is do you guys suggest I forfeit my current job and take the admission cause I applied for a school and I was assured of getting in cause I have payed for everything myself but something about me going isint making me happy but I’m pushing it cause of my mom.
Like I said do I quite my job and take up the admission and leave my studio in the hands of an employee while I school or I should dead the school idea and move out the house to make my decision as a man. The floor is opened for elderly people, pls no vulgar words thanks.
Edit: I forgot to mention my personal studio is packed with expensive camera gears and cameras like the eos r mark ii and just top tier photography gears. Would leaving all these in a strangers hands be wise
Edit2: pls guys those saying I should work and also school the school I applied for is a private uni like convenant that dosent allow students live outside school plus with their dress code of only blazers and tie to class, so the option of me schooling and working is not going to see the light of day
If you have opted for a part time study, all these issues would have been under your control
ashewoboy: What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?
Share your take.
It depends on the pressure and task she has
She may get exhausted, attending to the children and house activities, so once food is done, she will have to eat, but when hubby is back, she will seat by him while hubby eats
bigCassava: I intend moving into Ogun state from south-south. Please where is the best area to rent a house in Ogun state capital? I have been seeing armed robbery attacks and I don't know how true it is.
Myrealself: I took a lot of character from my dad that I don't like about myself. I have come to realize that marriage is not for me. I see the way my mum and dad acts towards each other, and I don't like it.
If it happens that I never get married, what is the implication of that for me? Although I might have a child with a woman I love, but marriage is out of it.
I need different perspective on the matter from matured people.
If you can convince the woman you love that you don't want marriage but you love her and wants her to ha e children for you, Then you are good to go
But I am still wondering how you will cope on the long run with it
Getting older demands you have yours around to go errands for you
Baba40: Dear Nairalanders, this thread is for married persons ONLY pls.. No insults.
A friend of mine told me his wife doesn't rate him at all... I asked him the reason he's thinking in that line of thought, he told me when he checked the wife's phone that on the emergency contact he couldn't find his phone numbers there but her father, mum and elder brother.
I told my friend that incase of emergency he should be the next line of contact but the wife doesn't see it that way
What could make a wife not to put her husband contact in an emergency list? Would appreciate your contribution, thanks.
Every one has a preference. Besides, not every married couples love themselves so much to make their spouse a next of kin or a preference incase of emergency
Romance › Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating On Me In Bed With Another Man by frozen70(f): 6:39pm On Oct 05, 2021
