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jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Let him go ahead and take a second wife

If that will make him happy

His wife has found a job and she is happy with that

Dont let anyone determine your happiness because you are responsible for what makes you happy

victooman:
Hello Nairalanders,

l want to settle down latest next year, l live in Abuja, and the business l do is giving me a minimum of 6k daily.

Though on a good day l can make more than that, my major concern is that l feel it is too little considering the present inflation rate.

Please what is your advice, should l go ahead, or wait and expand my income, l dont want to marry as a man and start suffering abeg.

A can of Baby food is more than 6K and your baby may finish three cans a week

So do the calculations

IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

Lol
Her mum has already been satisfied with her staff performance

Your friend must have been too authoritative and they wouldn't want such
For the fact that the company belongs to her mum, she wants to rule them

That act may affect productivity on them

So her mum did what she did to pass a message to her staff that she can as well do the same thing she did to her daughter to anyone of them that messes up

So, she can resume get reconciled with them the staff and work along with them

Though that will not be easy at all to reconcile with them

Alternatively, she can work from home and they don't have to see themselves but deal on line with same job performance

izonborn098:
The men patronizing you for hookup will still reject you when they want to marry... They reject u because u choose ashawo' u was not forced into it.. And they have the right to reject you... Just d truth... A man smoking weed with you knows that he will not marry you...

It doesn't make sense engaging you in any meaningful conversation

So am done with you

flokii:
I insist that hookup or ashaw0 profession.. whichever one you choose to call it is by choice. There are ladies roasting corn, some painting houses, etc. who don't sell their bodies for money.

There is something called KARMA and it is very real.. Most of the hookup girls don't end well, most never even settle down atal cos they have lost every form of decorum and sanity it takes to live responsibly among reasonable human beings.
That OP is just a walking disaster waiting to happen to any unfortunate man that ends up with her.

What about robbers who among these two professions inflict more pains that Karma will visit

flokii:
Be honest with yourself.. Let's assume your elder brother brings home a lady that opened up she is into hookup (sucking preeks, riding preeks and all sorta dirty things) with complete strangers, would you be happy?

NB: I had to make it graphic so the world can know what hookup girls do behind closed doors.. Let's not justify prostitution for any reason.

Look, hook ups are being patronized by men

Have you ever seen any man that brings a hook up lady to his parents and introduce her as a hook up staff, you as a man will you introduce her as such?

No one is justifying that act, but why are the men patronizing them

Same way men goes into robbery and we are not justifying that

Are you telling me that FG are not aware that some ladies are into such professions

Do you see them being asked to pay tax

The main issue is that may we not be found in such situations

Epinigirls:
I'm almost 30
From time to time, I engage in hookups for money
I also have a small shop
I'm a graduate, and I look decent

I'd love to raise a mixed race family

Now, I get into relationships with Nigerian guys every now and then, sometimes I keep what I do for money a secret from them, sometimes I open up to the ones I feel are more mature and understanding

But I've noticed that none of these relationships ever last beyond 8 months, never!
I can get offended and just turn my back on any guy

Most recently, I was chatting with a new lover, after less than 2 months of meeting, discussing something very trivial, I was trying to make a point and hit a nerve for him, he started cussing, I called him immediately to be sure he was joking, his first statement was "what do you want?"

In less than 60 seconds, i ended the call, blocked all his lines and
blocked him on all social media platforms.

New relationship gone!

Sometimes, I console myself that they weren't high quality individuals, sometimes I chastise myself for giving up too early on them.

Is it because I don't see a solid future with these guys bearing in mind I want to have a mixed family?

Or am I supposed to get that feeling that I'm going to have a future with a guy during the relationship

I'm confused honestly

If you want to raise a mix race, then you have to relocate to where you will have access to get that

But while you are still here ans goes into relationship
You have to ask yourself why your relationship don't last long

Is it because of your attitude, body language or what you portray yourself before them

If you really want to keep a relationship, then you have to adjust and live a modest life, if that will give you what you want

Some men you may be coming across, might want to keep you for your vibes to spice them up

When it comes to marriage, it's a different ball game

flokii:
You do hookups for money despite having a shop.. you're not a responsible person and no serious man will want anything doing with a hookup lady.

Dont say that and don't judge her, is it because she opened up here

You don't know the options she has before going into such

Most people who goes into such act don't Eben enjoy it as it's no longer done for the joy and fun

But done to sort things

Those bank marketers that gets the biggest shots (customer) for their banks, have you asked yourself why they are well placed and official vehicle given to them

All dogs eats sheet, but is not easy to catch them eating that sheet

madridguy:
Oyinbo country self too get wahala.

You cannot discipline your wife as one can do in Nigeria... Your wife can wake up and call police for you and police will ask you to leave your home.

You cannot scold your kids, if you do so and the authority get to know, they will take away your kids and hand them over to a foster parent.

And this is the place some people are selling their assets to go

My prayer to all Nigeria men suffering under their wives in various oyinbo country.

Can you mention one or two ways of discipline you can give to a wife
Using Nigeria as a case as you mentioned

Because what you mean discipline can be another thing

ecolime:
The guy doesn't look normal.

I think frustration and depression is dealing with him

Why kill a man that is very close to grave

Now he will be tamed in jail, even if his family decides to close the matter

He will be charged to court first and experience prison

Before the matter go close

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
How can the child be better with her parents that cannot account for its whereabouts? What is wrong with you people? The husband and his family may be good people but bitterness and wickedness will not let her leave the child with them. I am sure that she knew exactly the kind of people that her parents are yet she went ahead to drop a poor 3 year old with them without monitoring.

You need to go back to her previous post

Then read and comprehend what she wrote there very well

Read from page one to the last page

Now you go back to this her current post or new post

You will see the link between this post and the very first post

Then you dot the lines

Its obvious you don't know the Genesis of the OP

You dont come into the Middle of conversation and conclude, when you don't know how it got to that point

Even if you think you read very well

Did you see where she mentioned husband.?

If you don't understand a post ask questions

DenreleDave:
I fully agree with you

You are welcome

nairagenone:
As the topic states, I am close friends with a polygamous family of 2 wives.
About 9 years ago while a youth corper I dated the first born of the 2nd wife but we kept it secret, although I think her own mom knew although the mom is late now.

It wasn't a relationship per se as I was just sleeping with her and I knew she had other guys too at the time but she always wanted me to think we were in some sort of relationship just like most ladies would.
Anyway, the whole thing fizzled out when I relocated from that city.

8 years later, I am in a new city and meet her step sister, who is younger than her but from the first wife and we are getting along fine, turns out I really like her and now considering marrying her.

The lady I dated previously is currently not married, in her 30s and I heard she lost a pregnancy recently, I dont have any relation with her other than the fact she calls me occasionally to ask for money for assistance which I render when I have the means but sometimes I don't as I am also trying to put my life together.

I recall that she could be diabolic and wouldn't put it past her to do jazz or something.

Do you think I should go ahead and marry her step sister 9 years after dating her and how should I go about it?

Should I inform the lady I dated in the past out of respect for her cos she will still eventually get to know ?

Should I tell the lady I am planning to marry about the past relationship with her step sister ?

Please advise.

E be like say woman never do you strong thing before

Dey play

DenreleDave:
But ma'am, I'm feeling her parents know what she went to do in Togo and they probably don't want her to use her attitude to influence the kid..

Yes I know that she deserves to know where her kid is, that, her parents must come out clean..

But I still think they are trying to protect the kid from her


On the other hand, who knows if they have sold the kid out

A mother never forgets her child

In her own case, she is alone with her illicit deal, so the child is so minor to even know anything her my does for a living

Secondly, her parents are supposed to be the custodian of her daughter in this case, so that alone will make that child not to be influenced negatively

But for them to give that child out without her consent is not a good one

DenreleDave:
Check her recent post.. It made front page

She is back now but her parents won't release her daughter for her

Yes I saw that
They must produce that child

Even if she was adopted out with out her consent

She is a rascal and she will go any length for her daughter to come out dead or alive

Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.

Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.

My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.

I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.

I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.

So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,

Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ?

Seat your family down and ask them the where about of your daughter

Do that politely

If they can't explain anything

Then you can take a further step to make a report at the police station

That will make them to bring your daughter out wherever she is

But take note, as you are going back, drop that child with anyone you know that can look after that child

Better still take that child to her dad

But that child is best with your parents

DenreleDave:
Frozen.. She knows this already and she doesn't have issue with it... She has resigned herself to olosho as the only way to break out of poverty.

Frozen, how are you and yours kids?

Am good dear.
Well if Olosho pays her, let her deal with it

fryo4life:
My younger brother was born on November 6th, 1996. He became 26 years old last year November. He is worried if he can still apply for bank graduate trainees vacancies in which the criteria for the fresh graduates is that they should be not more than 26 years old. Because he will be 27 years on November 6th this year. Just few months to go.


Can he still be considered 26 years? Or is he above the age limit?

There is no harm in trial
Let him apply
Luck can smile on him

ahnie:
I haven't really had decent sleep for days now,which is the least of my concerns

We housing an ex neighbor and her 2 daughters who for reasons which I wouldn't want to disclose are putting up with my family pending when they secure accomodation.

This lady has 2 daughters one aged 14yrs and the other 12yrs.

M having concerns with how the 14yrs old is treating the mother,i wouldn't say the mum has spoilt her,I just don't know what's wrong with her....maybe youthful exuberance.

This child insults her mother anyhow,throws objects at her,use deteriorating words on the mother like idiot,ewu,nonsense woman.

Yesterday again she did it in my presence,I told was forced to give her some resounding slaps,and told her to get the hell outta my house or I would take her to the barracks to be beaten.

I don't have strength to deal with teenage rascality now,I have 2 lil kids that growing and I wouldn't want them to think it's cool trash treating a mother like that.


This girl just wouldn't want to engage in domestic chores,she seats down and watch people slaves for her.

This morning I woke her up with a stern warning that she has to engage in chores like washing the loo,mopping,and fetching water if she really do not want to see the ugly side of me.

Annoying of them all is...all those small dirty bob Marley boys with dirty dreadlocks are beginning to lurk around in my compound all because of her which I will not entertain.

I understand it's her time...but she should do it with moderation,I have kids that age in my compound and they're cool headed, why's her different?

I just hope she will not fall pregnant soonest,I told the mother she really has alot to do.

I think you need to get a room apartment for them if you can afford that so that they can pack out

Am surprise, you didn't mention your wife reactions towards all these

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you my nairaland family. After i got seperated from my wife, its 8 months now and i decided to go into the dating scene again,i meet this girl almost two months now and she has been a very good and cool girl. We have been vibing well and the relationship has been sailing well not until 2 days ago that we had a minor misunderstanding and till now, we both have not been in communicating term. It happens that we were gisting and she brought a story about what happened in her office, she told me one of her colleague used the picture they both snap together as status on whatsapp and from their someone told his colleague that he has interest in her. She now mentioned a statement that got me worried, i asked her a question which i cant remember now and she said well she doesn't know yet if she is going to like the guy or not, i ask her what she meant by that statement cos that statement means alot, does it mean if she met the guy and she likes him she might eventually dates him or what. Since i met her, i have been noticing she has beeb in communication with some other guys which i dont have an issues with cos fine we just met and definitely she has met other dudes before not until recently that we start dating officially. That was the question i asked her and she couldn't give me any exact reply, she stood up after a while and left my place angrily which she does anytime we have our conflict. Ever since then she has not communicate with me and neither have i also cos i feel like i have been the one keeping the relationship alive and as it is now, i dont care if it sinks or not. I believe if she truely loves me and care about me , she will reach out to me knowing the fact that her statement was totally wrong, if she values and respect me, she wont say that knowing how i will feel. Now my question to you guys is that, did i overreacted by ignoring her too and not talking to her, wont i look like a simp to her and might henceforth take advantage of that been that she is the one that supposed to apologize for that statement and she still not doing so. Pls house just tell me if am wrong at this and how to make amends.

I think you should just let her be, since you have discovered that you are the one keeping the relationship

Secondly, she is at the point of in decision

So give her that break to decide what she wants

But if she says hello to you on chat, do respond to her chats

You may not be the only one that needs a relationship or attention from her

fineboynl:
I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.

But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.

Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.

From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?

Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.

I think the most important thing is for her to mourn her late husband and after that she is free

It could be for 6months or 1yr as the case maybe

Unless there are other issues which you don't know about

Then you need to find out from her family

As you may not be willing to find out that from her late husband family

As for the bride price, the person who paid for it is late so that one is gone with him

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

You can never get all in one package

Just get 70% and above which is a good credit next to Distinction

But love and respect out weights everything

Including education of the personality involve

YoungDaNaval:
Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.

Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise

I think you should put your name and dash the car to your sister

Let her decide what to do as change of name

By the time you give her the car as a gift

Let her do change of name to her choice

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

There won't be any thing love in the first place

You can just ignore and regard yourself as dating yourself in that relationship

Loveabove:
I need your say on this please

When you take children to orphanage home to look after them for you, that means you still want those children back

In that case you will be charged for keeping them in their care and there is an agreement you will reach with them on how to be paying for their up keep ever month
Are you ready for such?

You can take the to their father's family and leave them with them to look after, they will be enrolled in to public school in the village and they start another life
So if you will go with this option, where is their dad?

Last but best option
Keep them with you and feed them with anything you can afford even if it means a little portion of food but let it still be three square meal a day
Enrol them into public school and watch them grow under your care
You have to be prepared to do this as this will just give you peace of mind that you can still see them every day and monitor their activities

God will give you the grace to do the right thing

Brokeandnolove:
Hi fellas, I will go straight to the point. My girlfriend of over a year hardly ever initiates sex, so sex between us strictly depends on when I make a move. Sometimes it might coincide with when she's Hot and everything goes well. Again I don't like going for more than one round of sex because I hardly cum during the second round till it eventually turns to hard work. She will still be the one that will complain that she's tired. I believe that sex is meant to be enjoyed and not stressful.

Now I am not a freak for sex, and can comfortably go for a week without sex depending on the situation of things between us even though we stay together for now. I don't initiate sex if we are having issues and sometimes she complains that other men come crawling to their women for sex at night after an argument with most times leads to reconciliation but I always lock up as if I am staying with a man thereby making some of our issues linger longer than necessary.

She gets moody each time she's Hot and I don't make a move, I simply told her to initiate sex anytime she wants because with the economic situation on ground sometimes sex is the last thing on my mind.

We had sex yesterday afternoon and later that evening we were gisting and we talked about early morning sex, she pointed out that I hardly initiate early morning sex and I told her it was because she hates being disturbed when sleeping. I proceeded to tell her we will have early morning sex today. Unfortunately I worked all night and slept around 4 am so I couldn't initiate any sex. She woke up moody and angry which made led to an argument that culminated in her leaving the house.

While chatting on WhatsApp she told me not to carry my boring sex life into marriage. So guys is there anything wrong with a lady initiating sex when she wants it I am pretty sure if she initiated sex this morning I wouldn't have refused.

You are not a sex freak , so you should look for a lady in the same level with you

She is in her prime and at the peak where she wants sexual satisfaction, maybe you are not giving her enough

Stop waiting for her to initiate sex, her up bringing may have affected her ability to talk or innitiate sex

The main issue here is
You kept a lady living in the same room with you, not as if you guys are married

To the point where you have time to have sex in the afternoon when you all should be in the field sorting yourself out and making a living

Does it mean that she too works from home like you

I think she should be coming and going
Staying idle at home with you is the reason she wants sex to kill boredom

And you naw, you can't kill yourself, that's why you go just once and that's it

Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.

I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.

In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.

After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.

I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.

I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.

So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.

She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.

What do i do?

I think you should relax, she may be in a cross road on who to pick between the two of you

Meanwhile, continue but have it in mind that it's a 50/50 thing

As for her, she may still be deep into you and still wants to weigh her options

Dont scare her as she has shown commitment

Dont be surprise if she drops the other guy for you

Time will tell

brightmorningst:
For 3 days I've only sleep well for 2 hours and that was yesterday. I have not been eating , just lost appetite, please how do I deal with heartbreak.

My heart literally burns.

No insult please.

Every broken heart comes with regrets and lessons to learn

So if this is your first time, then allow it to pass so that if another one happens it will not hurt you like this

Besides, heart breaks are part of life experience

Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

You have done well with the little investigations you have done to be sure that she is not an Osu

Even non Osu from their place don't marry Osu, I don't want to know their reasons

But since you are very sure of your stand

I think you will be ready to sponsor anyone that will go for secret investigations from your family to her family

Is called Iju Ajuju Nwanyi

When the investigator goes and come back, the whole family will listen to his findings at a seating, including your woman

So advice your family to nominate an uncle that will do that

He may have to Lodge incase it's night depending on when he took of

If you really love her let this be one of the sacrifices you are making for her

Meanwhile she must not be aware of the findings

But will be aware of the family result announcement

Good luck

Jb95:
Hi guys, please I need help on how to keep in touch with my Zambian babe.

So I met with this loving girl on a popular chat app, and we hit it off almost instantly like we've known ourselves for a long time. We chatted for weeks and we are always eager to talk to each other.

I like this girl because she is the opposite of the typical naija girl, no asking for money or any such nonsense and although we have not not made our relationship official yet, but we know in our hearts that we have feelings for each other.

Now the problem is that her phone was recently stolen (surpringly, she is not taxing me for a new phone, which would have been the opposite if it was a Nigerian girl, but I still have it in mind to help her get a phone just that am trying to take things one step at a time

For now we only chat using her friends phone, if she visits her friend but I need a way to establish good communication with her as soon as possible. I can't call her with normal call because my airtime just gets sucked for calling international line and the call has not even connected.

So please, how can I make cheap call to Zambia, if you know any means or app I can use it will be very appreciated.

I see myself traveling to Zambia soon and getting a wife from there, it will be a wish come true

Her phone never got lost untill you guys got connected

Ok, just take it easy and don't rush things

Get your passport and start making plans to travel and visit her

But it will be cheaper she comes to visit you first

But like I Said, don't rush and don't be too sure of everything being ok because you have not seen her and not had a physical interactions with her

Hopefulmycin:
I'm a registered nurse from delta state presently living and working in a private establishment in ogun state.
I never wanted to travel out of the country for work purpose but what I was working on failed and certain factors that was motivating me to stay back are majorly no longer there.

Now, I'm beginning to consider leaving the country but some family members and friends are discouraging me mainly because they feel I should get married first before going.

I'm 31, single and total money in my account now is 620k.
Monthly salary is 105k.

What should I do please? Start processing and working on traveling or I should stay back and still be managing my 105k?

Those people begging you to stay and get married, are trying to delay you the more

You can try making plans to travel out and if you already have a woman here, then better, because you will get there and make plans for her after you must have come home to perform her marriage if you have made up your mind that she is the one that you want

That amount of money you have is not even enough to start planning for marriage

Marrying now before leaving will pin you down the more and you may not plan for your future trip again after marriage

My thinking though

Ibibioman:
I've been working in an Asian company since 2017, then my salary was 70k, but it fluctuates up and down currently I've been at 100k for the past 3 years or so.

Recently I was transferred to a village with no electricity and the salary remains the same.

I'm an engineering graduate from one of the top federal Universities in the south west.

Nevertheless, I've come to a stage where I'm considering business, given my set-aside capital of about 1million naira, and because of the Sunday to Sunday work schedule, I am considering quitting, inorder to start either a barbing shop, POS, or bike business .

Do you think it is a good idea?

The main issue here is, will that amount sustain you if you quit probably before the year runs out

If you want to open a barber shop, you have to learn barbing as a part time and understand the secrets in that business

So that as you are resigning, you already knows how to barb

You can then add POS into it